Hello Everyone, I will like to know if it’s wrong to be in a serious relationship with a lady who’s a year older .

nothing wrong iin that as long as you are both matured about it

sammy939:
Hello Everyone, I will like to know if it’s wrong to be in a serious relationship with a lady who’s a year older .

See, if you are dating to marry, pls go offline and find a marriage counselor.... ONLINE HERE WON'T HELP YOU...

you can't keep coming here everytime you are not clear about something.

AGE maybe just a number to men but to women it is something more. FIND YOU A COUNSELOR THAT CAN HOLD YOUR RELATIONSHIP ACCOUNTABLE TO STANDARDS THAT WILL GIVE YOU PEACE.

But asides all these, IF YOU ARE DATING PURPOSELESSLY JUST TO "see how it goes while having sex" THEN DISCARD EVERYTHING I HAVE SAID.... enjoy your life.

yrhuhfy113:


See, if you are dating to marry, pls go offline and find a marriage counselor.... ONLINE HERE WON'T HELP YOU...

you can't keep coming here everytime you are not clear about something.

AGE maybe just a number to men but to women it is something more. FIND YOU A COUNSELOR THAT CAN HOLD YOUR RELATIONSHIP ACCOUNTABLE TO STANDARDS THAT WILL GIVE YOU PEACE.

But asides all these, IF YOU ARE DATING PURPOSELESSLY JUST TO "see how it goes while having sex" THEN DISCARD EVERYTHING I HAVE SAID.... enjoy your life.

Thanks . Yes we are dating to marry .

It will not work unless you both are willing at all times not just when everywhere good

Thought we've treated dis matter

It's not bad at all, as far as you understand each other, and you value each other. Wot of these white men that marry women that are 15 to 20 yrs older than them? Priyanka Chopra and Nick Jonas is a good example

sammy939:
Hello Everyone, I will like to know if it’s wrong to be in a serious relationship with a lady who’s a year older .

No it isn't. It's all about the lady in question. If she is submissive and respectful. I know a 3 couples who their wives are older and they are doing very well. One of them self the husband is a bully.

My ex was like 6yrs older.
So nothing wrong

White women - yes
Nigerian women - no

White women have a level of maturity. Nigerian women will control the hell out of you especially if they're richer.

Nothing wrong

BUT

You must be Assertive and Smarter than her. 😕🤨

Otherwise, you will just be a BoyBoy in the Relationship.

It's not wrong to marry an older spouse OP, but I can't advice such ...

Women generally want older men because they believe that "older men know how to take care of a woman better than younger girls" ...

So if she's considering dating a younger male, then I'm willing to bet that she prolly is "running outta time" or there's something shady going on ...

Whatever "good trait" you see in an older woman, you can find in a younger girl who most likely has less baggage, so why settle? ...

sammy939:
Hello Everyone, I will like to know if it’s wrong to be in a serious relationship with a lady who’s a year older .

sammy939:
Hello Everyone, I will like to know if it’s wrong to be in a serious relationship with a lady who’s a year older .

Is she lightskin?

nothing man,all you need is to act matured

I won't even date a lady of d same age

if it's for oyinbo you can free to but do not ever try that shit with Nigerian girls

For me, I must be older than her o. I be African. The only time this can be true for me, is if she is very rich else....

But the wife of France president is 24yrs older than him . I dey craze

I'm a year older than him and we're cool. I'm 23 btw.
So there's nothing actually wrong if the age gap isn't so much. What more important is that you both share same views on life and ready to grow together.

No, age is just a number

helinues:
No, age is just a number

That is not what Bola Ahmed Tinubu agreed to

Didn't see anything bad in it

Tho me can't do it

sammy939:


Thanks . Yes we are dating to marry .

Don’t try it.
Most people will say that it’s ok but I think otherwise.
Every man needs to marry someone that looks up to them and not someone that will see you as her kid bro some day.
That kind of relationship is filled with chaos.
If she’s good,those that are 5-10 years older than you were supposed to marry her and not you.
Women date upwards while men date downwards,why are you trying to break this natural law?
You think you won’t get burned?
Dey play.

sammy939:


Thanks . Yes we are dating to marry .

I'm older than mine.