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Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by Hamachi(f): 4:50am On May 07, 2023 |
sisisioge:not true 2 Likes |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by bigdammyj: 10:52am On May 07, 2023 |
Reading... 1 Like |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by Barristter07: 10:53am On May 07, 2023 |
A very good topic. Learning... 2 Likes |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by MrAgbako: 10:53am On May 07, 2023 |
The matter long. Different strokes for different folks. Don't judge anyone 2 Likes |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by bobbiiee: 10:53am On May 07, 2023 |
Varying factors are responsible. 1. When one is considered as favourite by parents. Its unlikely that such person will be loved. 2. At times it could be payback for what was done to a sibling. 3. Its sometimes caused by partners married by siblings. 4. Some are selfish and self-centered. 5. Spiritual factors. 6 Likes |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by ednut1(m): 10:53am On May 07, 2023 |
Life is not a fairy tale. Mind ya business . I was about to date someone that admitted she was jealous of her junior sister after she got into a relationship while she was single. Can’t relate, couldn’t care less. I just run leave am 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by hssd8nland: 10:55am On May 07, 2023 |
yazga:Mostly it starts when one of the parents dies especially the Mom 4 Likes |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by DonroxyII: 10:57am On May 07, 2023 |
yazga:Third Parties .... Once You started Marrying the Spouse becomes a Barrier ... Because You can't keep doing how you guys were doing without sprouting Jealousy from spouse of either party . The real deal Is "Jealousy & Envy" .... You would Never-Ever know who Envy You Until You Started becoming Successful Either as them or Much than them Children, Once One's Children carry first, Pass Waec, Jamb, Enter University and the Other party couldn't or Lag Behind ... You see the real Being Call Human .... We Human are Genetically Competitive, We Shall be Evolving Mass Collaborations(Not Mere Competition) Very Soon ... that's the Future! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by xevove2061: 10:58am On May 07, 2023 |
yazga: You will be shocked. Go and ask psquare. It can even happen to you wey talk say u and your siblings love eachother. 10 Likes |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by Barristter07: 11:03am On May 07, 2023 |
Hamachi: Brilliant 3 Likes |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by Dricker: 11:04am On May 07, 2023 |
Most times once siblings get married...na dia problem dy burst..most times na wives dy cause am..bad advice and shii 9 Likes |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by Image123(m): 11:04am On May 07, 2023 |
Relationships are nurtured. Even if the relationship is with God, it must be nurtured. It's not automatic. 6 Likes |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by youngzeal1: 11:04am On May 07, 2023 |
SMH.. I wish I can share my story but am believing God to heal my family.. 14 Likes |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by Barristter07: 11:06am On May 07, 2023 |
Foodqueen: This spouse aspect is the most prevalent reason for problem, If the siblings are not careful. 6 Likes |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by phorget(m): 11:06am On May 07, 2023 |
Hmmmmm |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by Barristter07: 11:07am On May 07, 2023 |
Rubyjade: Interesting 1 Like |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by Barristter07: 11:08am On May 07, 2023 |
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Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by occfx: 11:10am On May 07, 2023 |
yazga: Parental problems, parents are the root causes of disunity among siblings. They indirectly set double standards for there children and preferences. Consequently, the siblings starts competing with each other, measuring themselves by themselves and the result is fight 8 Likes |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by simplywhy(m): 11:11am On May 07, 2023 |
When I was younger, considering how separated my parents and their siblings were, I used to think that I and my siblings can never be like that. But now?? Ours might be worse 18 Likes |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by occfx: 11:12am On May 07, 2023 |
sisisioge: Exactly 1 Like |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by engrsyer(m): 11:13am On May 07, 2023 |
Hamachi: Sis, if you are a pastor eh, you would be a good pastor. You just narrated 90% of the problems in a home. God bless you dear 10 Likes |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by shah345: 11:13am On May 07, 2023 |
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Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by UmuMuhsinah(f): 11:16am On May 07, 2023 |
It mostly started with favouritsm from the parents side 4 Likes |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by Jeezuzpick(m): 11:17am On May 07, 2023 |
Some spouses drive siblings apart, as well, especially wives. They drive their spouses to compete and also to not help siblings who are in need. Parents, believe it or not, also cause deep acrimony between their children with favouritism and preferential treatment. At times, this may be perceived, because they may be richer when raising the younger children than when raising the older ones, thus the younger ones go to better schools. Parents need to do a better job wiping out selfishness in their kids. They need to encourage sharing, giving and teamwork among them. Sometimes, buying separate things for them like toys and utensils that they could easily share can be counterproductive. It is surprising the amount of envy and acrimony among adult siblings that can be traced from childhood. Parents also need to stop praising one kid at the expense of the other (or others). Associations in general (friends, gangs, etc) can also cause sibling hatred. If one kid is always getting in trouble because of bad friends, he/she may feel labelled as the "black sheep" of the family. Stuff like that, sha, also including envy of success, spouse, etc. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by hadjipapiey(m): 11:17am On May 07, 2023 |
Too many many things better left than said! The society has failed in its responsibility to harmonise their kiths and kins, unlike the olden days parents Sighs 1 Like |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by Nobody: 11:20am On May 07, 2023 |
May you not see the enmity of siblings, but remember that a man's enemies are they of his household. 12 Likes |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by SeriouslySense(m): 11:23am On May 07, 2023 |
Sometimes it is safer that way, to create distance and sometimes people come together for common goals. Same with family members, sometimes its healthy to create distance. I apply the principle of distance, when value is not increasing, such as the value of love, empathy, respect and sound thinking. I don't like an atmosphere of competition, quarrels, jealousy and suspicions, these things do not add value to me, because i do not thrive on them. And sometimes its no ones fault, it better that way or more healthy, no one is perfect, not even myself. While others thrive on these things, and it could be a motivator to stay close, so, if there should be close ties, then i better understand why so. 9 Likes |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by hansomb: 11:25am On May 07, 2023 |
Be open minded |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by omowumi9: 11:25am On May 07, 2023 |
Siblings must have disagreement, rancour, misunderstanding etc.The ability to resolve it truthfully without taking sides is the main reason why siblings fall apart. Be bold enough to tell the truth to the one that erred. Do not be economical with the truth. Afterwards, siblings should create time for reunion and help one another. If you don't extend hands of love or fellowship to me or you don't respect me situation, I have no need for you. Most sibling don't believe in their brothers or sisters. They tend to believe more in their friends. They even take their friends more important. See, you don't take others more important than me and expect me to take you serious. The crux if 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by sterlingD(m): 11:27am On May 07, 2023 |
I have experienced it and l must say this it is unhealthy,nasty,deadly and dangerous. Parents should not throw a blind eye to it rather they should raise up immediately to squash it and kill it immediately they sense it or see it. 6 Likes |
Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by Ykc2(m): 11:29am On May 07, 2023 |
Male siblings are always together untill they start marrying one delilah and jezebel after another then house hold will change , 8 Likes 1 Share |
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