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What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by IyaTola: 3:55pm On May 07, 2023 |
What has caused hookup culture? 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by DeeBaDan: 3:58pm On May 07, 2023 |
Greed Extreme societal poverty Lack of self management and control 154 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Nyascobar1414: 4:02pm On May 07, 2023 |
All vvomen are h*es; they all keep selling this p*ssy to the highest bidder.. All men are hoo makers, they keep paying for this p*ssy.. N/B: exceptions dont make the rule! 68 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Exc2000: 4:02pm On May 07, 2023 |
Girls and boys have Sexual urge Nobody wants to marry early 35 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by IyaTola: 4:09pm On May 07, 2023 |
My point is, the men here criticising hookup ladies should focus on the men who patronise this ladies, not trade itself. The ladies aren't fvcking themselves nor paying ghosts to fvck these ladies. Men like you are the ones paying whether she has a disease or not. Blaming ladies without blaming the men patronising them comes across as envy. It's not the ladies fault that pussy commands a higher price in the sexual market than pen!s. Nyascobar1414: 32 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by illicit(m): 4:50pm On May 07, 2023 |
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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by SMJay: 4:58pm On May 07, 2023 |
DeeBaDan:I agree 💯. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by zed7: 5:04pm On May 07, 2023 |
Greed and laziness is the cause of almost every Nigerian girl becoming a hooker. This has not been helped by the ease of making quick and illegal money by Nigerian men. Imagine paying 100k for a round of sex with a bleached and worn out hooker, surely only men with illegal wealth do that. 128 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Nobody: 5:20pm On May 07, 2023 |
Moral decadence and poverty 61 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by pheelbert: 5:32pm On May 07, 2023 |
People don't want anything to do with commitment again. 54 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by SMJay: 6:07pm On May 07, 2023 |
Merch:Spot on! 9 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by SMJay: 6:07pm On May 07, 2023 |
pheelbert:True 12 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Sonnobax15(m): 6:14pm On May 07, 2023 |
![]() Relationship and marriage that our fore fathers used to enjoy,e reach our turn,na once our present day bannies turn everything upside down ![]() 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by GeneralPula: 6:16pm On May 07, 2023 |
The main culprits for the reason hook up culture is prevelant today is 50% men and 50% women fault! You're not being real. You can't blame men at all. The blame goes to women of these generations. You know why you can't blame men? Re-visit the Olden days when their was norms and morals. Their was less to no prostitution! The men of the Olden days lived with the norms & characters the way it is.. Girls of the olden days would dressed well covered and the men do appreciate & cherish them that way.. Check today's scenerio - norms and morals are almost extinct. Girls now dress half naked to feel beautiful! Girls of today just wanna be born, grow up, have a man then enjoy the rest of life! 95% of them have no personal basic plan! They just wanna do what they're watching on TV, on Instagram etc.. The men of these days are just wise enough to detect that you can cum off whatever pressure and tension with a few naira, without stress! Men knacks prostitute not because they needed them, but because prostitute are readily available. If all brothels are closed down and prostitution ends, men would still live with it the way it is.. 34 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by plaetton: 6:44pm On May 07, 2023 |
[quote author=IyaTola post=122989035][/quote] Pure nonsense. Economic hopelessness and economic inequality between men and women in Nigeria is the only cause of hookup( a fancy name for prostitution). 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Dshocker(m): 7:02pm On May 07, 2023 |
In developed countries, before a woman will open her legs for a man, it means she loves him. So poverty and lack of jobs are the major cause fueling the insatiable greed in some girls to open their legs anytime, provided that the theme; money for hand, back for ground These girls just wants to survive. Imagine an oil rich country like Nigeria paying her citizens above 18yrs 250k for monthly upkeep, do you think that hookup will be thriving? 38 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by IyaTola: 7:11pm On May 07, 2023 |
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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by DeeBaDan: 7:13pm On May 07, 2023 |
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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Edeyoung: 7:37pm On May 07, 2023 |
The main inducer of hookup is the western influnce and her culture and not proverty, all blames goes to the ladies and not the men The hookup thing was started by Americans Nigerian girls took it from there They started buying skimming clothes to get mens attention revealing thier boobs and ass ,whenever we complain about thier indecent dressing they attack us and call it body positivism Our ancestors in the past knew why they caged women and even circumcised them 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Fahvvy: 8:20pm On May 07, 2023 |
The rise in the "hucup" culture is 100% the woman's fault! ![]() She made the decision to spread her legs for money... It's her body.. So it's her choice... And it's 100% her responsibility!!! And don't tell me "it's because men are throwing money at them" ![]() Cause no matter how much money you take to the market, if no one is willing to sell let's say a bag, YOU WILL STILL COME BACK HOME WITH YOUR MONEY WITHOUT THE BAG!! So hold every wh.ore responsible for her who.redom ![]() And besides... You said, "the hocup culture hurts women more..." So a female knows that something will hurt her in the long run, but still SHE DECIDES to do it and then turn around to shift the blame someone else ba? ![]() How typical of female gender ![]() 33 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by advanceDNA: 8:42pm On May 07, 2023 |
IyaTola: both men and women want to fvck......theres no crime in it....its a biological thing that has been going on since the beginning of time. ..making it a product that men have to pay for is totally an invention of you women to get easy money..... u women determine sex... if cocacola company doesnt make coke and fanta...there will be no coke and fanta to buy... this narrative of blaming men is ur usual pathetic, blame-pushing behavior....U cannot keep marketing product and want to push blames on the buyer...... These girls advertise themselves both online and offline.....and it is a known fact that advertising makes u buy even what u dont need...... ![]() 60 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by IyaTola: 9:27pm On May 07, 2023 |
advanceDNA:Of you stop patronizing them, watch how it will die a natural death. As long as there are buyers, there would be market. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by advanceDNA: 9:39pm On May 07, 2023 |
IyaTola: U cannot tell pple not to buy advertised product especially when its technically an essential need.....thats what advertising does..it creates crave....thats why drug users are not arrested but the sellers....the users are victims .. if a new beverage caled iyatolá cola hit the market...the need to quench thirst and fill sugar craving will make pple buy...did they ask for iyatolá cola?...no.. but availability created crave and need...... Iyatola cola cannot come and blame her buyers for buying what she introduced to the market Madam...sex is an urge...pple will still fvck weda its for sale or not....those making it forsale are the issue 52 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by IyaTola: 9:40pm On May 07, 2023 |
Dshocker:With inflation at double digits couple with the fact that some ladies have greed in their blood stream. 5 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by oyaaa(m): 9:52pm On May 07, 2023 |
Dshocker:Tell me the developed country that girls don’t open legs anyhow See this thing is everywhere not just Nigeria Even with the 250k per month the greedy ones will still practice prostitution to earn more. Poverty isn’t fully the reason for this. It’s just laziness and greed Babes on nowadays don’t wanna do hard work and they see this as an easy way out. That’s just the truth 32 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by DeeBaDan: 9:59pm On May 07, 2023 |
oyaaa: I have seen babes earning 250k per month doing runs. This one isn't story. I won't go into details but live I have witnessed it 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Dshocker(m): 10:18pm On May 07, 2023 |
oyaaa: In aboard, you must work in other to pay your bills, nobody is ready to shoulder or accommodate you, not even your siblings. Everybody is busy and occupied with work, both male and female. The girls over there are earning pretty well that they can afford their basic life necessity, so using money to woo them will not work, unlike here where there is no source of income, that is why Nigerian girls has to compromise by selling their body. Places like Canada or England, do you think you can afford to pay the services of a prostitute?.... When you can barely save more than $2,000 in a month. You can ask new migrants whatsup with their sex life.... Some stay as much as 1-3yrs without sex. More than 80% of girls into hookup/prostitution/runs or what ever you call it are not happy with the hustle, but are doing it because they have bills to pay. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by IyaTola: 10:34pm On May 07, 2023 |
oyaaa:Most girls are not ready to learna skill or trade. The tailor two streets away from my street, have over 7 apprentices, 2 are baby mama, 3 are in the street, one is contemplating on going street, the last one seems to be undecided. 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by IyaTola: 10:35pm On May 07, 2023 |
DeeBaDan:Oga! Easy abeg 3 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by IyaTola: 10:39pm On May 07, 2023 |
Sonnobax15:During my 20’s, which was in the wild and wooly ‘70s, casual sex and one night stands were quite common. The Pill made it possible. We didn’t call it “hooking up” back then. We merely went out to bars and clubs, drank, and met people with whom to flirt and then have no-strings-attached sex. Sometimes we smoked weed and then had no-strings-attached sex. It was fun and meaningless. No one thought anything of it. But something happened. The 1970s turned into the 1980s and the AIDS epidemic arrived, along with lesser threats of Herpes and Genital Warts (HPV). Chlamydia and Gonorrhea flourished. Fear of unplanned pregnancy turned into fear of STDs. It made us a little bit more careful, but the bacchanalia continued. About the time I turned 26, I looked in the mirror one day and asked myself why I was doing it. I questioned my self-respect and found it lacking. I made the decision at that moment to stop going out to bars to get drunk and to stop having one night stands. So yes, I would say that there is something like that happened in our with hook-up culture. It’s tawdry. It’s not stupid or sinful or sexist or manipulative, it’s merely tawdry. Whatever. Forwarded as received via DM! 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by advanceDNA: 11:00pm On May 07, 2023 |
Dshocker: U are still stuck in the 90s or u just like to create excuse for these girls....this is 2023... prostitutioń has gone beyond doing it for survival or for bills....its now a thing of class for many of them cos they get to roll with big men.....its no longer a thing of they dont have choice ....greed is just the drive... Girls making 40-60k per night...does that sound like broke girls suffering to you? ...u see them with iphone 12 and 13....do they look hungry, strugglung to pay bills to you??..... they are happy doing it.... 44 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by FirmTR(m): 8:10am On May 08, 2023 |
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