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Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by Streetmovement(m): 4:17pm On May 08, 2023 |
Wotoporiously speaking I accepted two separate secret families from my Dad although he's not married to any, so basically you could say I have two half-brothers and step moms I don't know shit about, cuz I never got the time to know them. One half-brother died few years ago and the other I've lived with for years but not anymore. I was never angry cuz I already find out before the news broke out and moreover I've always been my own man from the jump, never to rely on any body for anything, so maybe that's why it never bothered me, a lot of people would say they're dragging territory that's why get angry but for me I don't really care about all that, even my Papa know say I no get time so hin dey reason my matter pass the others 1 Like |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by Popeonah(m): 4:20pm On May 08, 2023 |
If you like accept am if you like don't accept it. It has happened, the man has lived his life. If your family gave him the happiness he will not have second family. Or do you guys think it's easy, have two families as a man. Omo you think about it 1 Like |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by Billionaire2: 4:27pm On May 08, 2023 |
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Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by Lionelbhass(m): 4:32pm On May 08, 2023 |
There’s nothing I can do in this kind of situation, it’s my dad’s choice to have another family, so accepting them will be the least I could do. 1 Like |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by madridguy(m): 4:36pm On May 08, 2023 |
Funny reasoning. Rubyjade: 2 Likes |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by jamesversion: 4:41pm On May 08, 2023 |
Exmilitant: Even your wife and kids? |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by eroticecstasy: 4:41pm On May 08, 2023 |
I'll embrace them, they're my family! 2 Likes |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by sacajawea(m): 4:41pm On May 08, 2023 |
onumadu:You get secret family or pikin?? |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by bigmo1(m): 4:41pm On May 08, 2023 |
I wasnt surprised when he broke the news to me. I could do d same to. who am i to judge anybody. it is what it is. 2 Likes |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by pocohantas(f): 4:41pm On May 08, 2023 |
Billionaire2: I totally understand you. At this point, any other arrangement is fine. Are you the first son? Have you guys tried having a meeting? Your parents, are they alive? Forgive my questions, I am just hoping you find a way to fix this. I love healthy united families and I can't thrive in a family that is at war. |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by phemmyfour: 4:43pm On May 08, 2023 |
eepeepook:It makes no difference especially if there is no wealth or inheritance to share |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by GloriousGbola: 4:47pm On May 08, 2023 |
Happened to one of my friends back in school. We lived in ilorin. His mum was a lecturer in Kwara poly. His dad worked in the then national oil in lag. Good job. 5 boys. We knew the dad used to do away match because the wife used to catch stuff from him and assume na from toilet. (she had complained to my mum - a nurse - about it. Anyways it sha came out that in addition to the away match, the man also had another family in lag. 3 Likes |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by Nobody: 4:50pm On May 08, 2023 |
pocohantas:Just imagine the burden on the guy but he is the one that wants to carry it sha o. He is not obligated in any form to carry the burden of another person's lifestyle. He is only responsible to his father, mother and siblings. Others should be freewill abeg. My Granddad married 3 wives, my mom's mother was 2nd she didn't know he had other family before she married him (long distance relationship) she wanted to leave but her father convinced her not to, but las las they separated. Grandpa was thoughtful enough to leave a property that were shared among his children equally. And the children decided some part of the property for emergency. The last time the third wife's son got married it was this emergency money that was given to her. No body puts load on the other. That does not mean mom does not get once in a while billing but it is never choking. If today I find out that I have secret step siblings, yes dad's betrayal on mom will hurt but at the end it's not my business and I definitely won't be responsible for them. Was i there when they were doing the thing? 🤷 |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by Storypot: 5:01pm On May 08, 2023 |
JeffreyJunior: we wey get brother's as siblings, make we tell you, brother's as siblings na very very big competition. i tell you. |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by pocohantas(f): 5:07pm On May 08, 2023 |
Persephone1: Na this thing I type for diary yesterday. No be today man and woman matter start. My own grandpa had two wives with a sidechick. It was when the sidechick kids grew, they brought her home for us. My grandma was the second. He is dead now and all the kids have dispersed. It is not all about the temporary pleasure of knacking two or more women. Same here. None of my business. I will accept them, but to say we would be some kinda best friendds? Yea right!!! 1 Like |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by mabea: 5:10pm On May 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:It is not always easy because it reeks of betrayal. 1 Like |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by hardcore007: 5:11pm On May 08, 2023 |
abobote:Bros, Ghanians can fvck a whole team. I have one here, she will fvck right under your nose and tell you she love you. Flee from them or make her your nack babe. Besides use condom. |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by vickydevoka(m): 5:13pm On May 08, 2023 |
eepeepook:If one of them resemble you too much en de pain |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by mekybabe1: 5:15pm On May 08, 2023 |
REJECT eepeepook: |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by Billionaire2: 5:29pm On May 08, 2023 |
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Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by Nobody: 5:45pm On May 08, 2023 |
pocohantas:Lol those people lived life anyhow ooo, 😂 I believe most times they try to guide us it is out of experience of the consequences of the lifestyle they lived. My grandad's first wife according to story I was told was what we will call a polyandrist. That woman just dey go and come , dey born pikin everywhere . The age gap between her children long pass river Nile, she go born, leave, come again born, leave. Funniest thing whenever she leave it wasn't for her father's house but another husband. I think she had two self aside Grandpa . With her on and off, she gave birth to 5 children with Granny Very crazy lifestyle. Anytime mom gets to that side of her family story I always laugh my ass out. It's the audacity for me, it's my best part😂😂😂😂 Strong feminist woman😂😂😂😂😂 No doubt that woman really lived life. The problem with this generation is too much chochocho, most men can't afford polygamy, most women won't accept polygamy because there is no benefit in it for them. A man and woman can't be sharing bills then the man will want another wife. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by Sweetvie: 5:55pm On May 08, 2023 |
As long as I'm not the one feeding them or pay their bills... I'm good. My grandpa married 2 wives and I had no clue about it until his burial. Anyways, i want a sister 1 Like |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by ntyce(m): 6:03pm On May 08, 2023 |
I have an Uncle who had something like this... One family in Abeokuta where he resided another in Ota where he worked. Funny man gave children from the 2 wives same names.. First borns were named Seun Second - Ayotunde 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by Namigotalktru: 6:05pm On May 08, 2023 |
eepeepook: Nothing continue to live my life and let him handle his indiscretions. Many Nigerians no matter how they front online are very immoral so the results of their immorality no concern me 1 Like |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by pocohantas(f): 6:21pm On May 08, 2023 |
Persephone1: Babe, those people did strong things. E get some wey my parents go gist me and I would be shocked. I remember going to my best friend's house as a secondary sch student and her stepmom packed out. After 2 months she is back. It was a cycle. Even the very marriage she is packing from everyday, she came with two kids o. Shebi you will think she would calm down this time?? One of her sons might be a NL redpiller because na two boys she get. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by isabi2lof: 6:34pm On May 08, 2023 |
It's none of my business, everybody go maintain him lane I worry nobody make nobody worry me. I will only associate with them , if they're well to do. |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by Teleprompter(f): 6:50pm On May 08, 2023 |
Most people here are commenting with indifference and it’s a reflection of how they view marriage and family. A United and close knit family that hold each other accountable would certainly feel much betrayal. There are many reasons why one’s father would have a secret family but how come nobody here said they would ask why it happened? If the father’s reasons are somewhat justified then that’s one thing... But to just assume that it’s their fathers choice and they would accept the secret family is another. What if the secret woman is a promiscuous gold digger? And the children also fee no remorse on behalf of their mother? What if the secret family was treated much better than your own family? Morally and financially? Would you just accept all and everyone like nothing unusual has happened? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by akan102: 7:22pm On May 08, 2023 |
onumadu:Why hide the family? What was his problem, well he's gone, there is no need hiding because even the fact that hiding something of that nature will take away peace from such a man and drag dead close 1 Like |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by Rubyjade: 7:30pm On May 08, 2023 |
madridguy:Fact, you cannot use two legs to kick a ball |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by TheMostComplex1: 8:01pm On May 08, 2023 |
I like my kind of mum so far as the woman & her children are peaceful my mum will accept them wella & me I no get problem & my dad go dey bring money dey sponsor us. Though my mum dey work the when she was young & dey do plenty things for everyone. |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by RALPHOW(m): 8:17pm On May 08, 2023 |
As a Christian Marriage Councillor, considered the type of marriage disputes we have these days, we are likely to have many secret wives / families in the nearest future. Disputes like wife deny husband sex for 6 months or more because of small issues. 1 Like |
Re: Will You Accept Your Dad’s Secret Family? by RALPHOW(m): 8:21pm On May 08, 2023 |
Teleprompter: What will be your judgement, if the main reason the father got a secret wife is because he was denied sex by your mom for 6 months or more. |
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