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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Savedday2: 11:51am On May 09, 2023 |
The question you should be asking is, why are 9ja girls known for Hookup? Greed and evilness is the answer. |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by showlove911(m): 11:52am On May 09, 2023 |
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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by advanceDNA: 11:59am On May 09, 2023 |
yemmit90: U are also stuck in 1991.... lack of support from parents is not what turns pple into prostitutés...its greed and desire for easy money.....u are one of those giving excuses for these women...continue..... if yahoo boys and armed robbers tell u same thing...u will not gree .prostitutioń is not a trade of suffering girls who dont have choice....enter street make u know wetin dey happen 6 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Pastoshizzy(m): 12:01pm On May 09, 2023 |
Po po po poverty.... POVERTY ![]() ![]() ![]() Long story. ![]() No be all women fit to do that sh×t show. SHOUT OUT to all the hard working women (if you're not auctioning your body to the highest bidder as work o!). GOD BLESS YOUR HUSTLE. He will make a way for you. The other ones serve their purpose too ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by BreconHills(m): 12:07pm On May 09, 2023 |
GeneralPula: I disagree. Societies have been corrupt for a long long time. It was simply better hidden. What has changed is not corruption itself but the absence of shame. Secondly whenever there is a fault on society, it will be scaled usually through technology. Its not the girls writing the code for the apps. It's a man somewhere monetizing an informal market place. Finally there is no solution. All civilizations inevitably fail and fall. The last stage of that failure is sexual depravity and moral decay. This last stage may last for hundreds of years but the end is sure. Another civilization will arise and become dominant. 6 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Boatswain: 12:11pm On May 09, 2023 |
Okpomiliki..... With a rebrand called Hookup. 1 Like |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by atinga1: 12:12pm On May 09, 2023 |
Dshocker:80% are not happy with the hustle? Oga, stop this rubbish. There are lots of work to do, online and offline. These ladies are lazy and entitled, so they believe they should be paid for having sex with them. They're happy with the nonsense they're doing. 8 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by judedwriter(m): 12:16pm On May 09, 2023 |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Ijaya123: 12:16pm On May 09, 2023 |
Greediness and laziness. No more no less. Please nobody should mention poverty o. 1 Like |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by TemmyT002(m): 12:17pm On May 09, 2023 |
It became rampant in Buhari's tenure. Hookup and Yahoo Yahoo 1 Like |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Stonecoldstare1: 12:20pm On May 09, 2023 |
Wow, let's blame it on the women as usual, let's take no accountability....lol. If this isn't sexism,I don't know what is.....you said it's 50/50 between men and women but you failed to mention the part men play in this IyaTola well-done 1 Like |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by DREAMHOMES6970(m): 12:20pm On May 09, 2023 |
Fahvvy: Spot on. You said it all👏 |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Nobody: 12:29pm On May 09, 2023 |
IyaTola: Men na Yahoo Yahoo Women na Olo Olosho 1 Like |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Olabrown241: 12:38pm On May 09, 2023 |
We are all hoes, we just sell different part of ourselves |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Revolva(m): 12:47pm On May 09, 2023 |
It is finished with Nigerian girls , 80 percent of them around big cities are on codedruns and michat , if you gi those app you wont want anything to do with any naija gal again 4 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Nobody: 12:53pm On May 09, 2023 |
DeeBaDan: Remove poverty there my man. Have you forgotten the "I'm an adult so I have right to date (which actually mean fornicate) whomever I want ......... It's my body so I can do with it what I like etc " mantra ? It's just ladies choosing to be deliberately immoral and lazy and that's it. It's now that everywhere is wide and they're unwanted that their eyes may want to opne ? Maybe 3 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by poweredcom(m): 12:57pm On May 09, 2023 |
Revolva: Inmessage app , tinder , badoo ,michat , codedruns and some new ones can list even ur babe there Many university gals list themself to do runs and later delete themself off these app , that does not mean they wont do runs again o , cos a hoe is a hoe. I am done with an average nigerian girl , they have notin to offer and they feel they can eat their cake and have it ... Ashewo na ashewo 6 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by TOPCRUISE(m): 1:03pm On May 09, 2023 |
Poverty. If you dot take good care and attention on the girl child, she may divert to hook up 1 Like |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by kkins25(m): 1:09pm On May 09, 2023 |
Poverty. Supply and demand. Trauma. 2 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by manny4u(m): 1:12pm On May 09, 2023 |
Poverty. The day I realise one of the girls i respected so much and held in high regards was into hook up i was broken for almost a month, asked her why she was doing that and she told me she has been out of job for a while so she needed money for upkeep. 4 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Nobody: 1:13pm On May 09, 2023 |
TOPCRUISE: It's not only poverty. I know some well to do girls from well to do and Christian raised family that still decided to be unfortunate on their own. The main cause is that morals have depleted. And the easiest way to spot all them is that they're usually the ones that say"after all women are getting married every day" to mumu men. But find out if those homes usually last for long. 4 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by isabi2lof: 1:21pm On May 09, 2023 |
Law of demand and supply. 1 Like |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by DaveHarry(m): 1:25pm On May 09, 2023 |
I've been blocking my girlfriend phone number anytime she's in sch for the past 2 years now. She can't call me n I don't call her. No please send me 5k or whatever. I can't be at home forming loverboy when you are in sch enjoying yourself banging gbolas. 2 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by WoroSeeWoro(m): 1:26pm On May 09, 2023 |
laziness na de do all of dem new generation girls...they are all useless these days , na jusy 20 percent of nigerian girls are available for a larger population of men who need a sensible well cultured woman to marry the rest na ashewo dem de do ..... na so dem plenty on all hookup site all over social media.... @angrygoat @womenareapezz @savedday2 and @strongalphmale advises us to beware of nigerian girls they are all uselesss 3 Likes
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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Katcall: 1:26pm On May 09, 2023 |
poweredcom:and one mu dey look for decent gal 2 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Adesuwag(m): 1:28pm On May 09, 2023 |
See grown men worry about what the other gender do with her vag.ina. When are we gonna talk about yahoo boys culture. These ba.stards that render people homeless and penniless. Every young boy in Nigeria is a potential yahoo yahoo boy. May your days be doom! May you eat with rats and cockroaches in your last days. May your homes be ruined and May tears never depart from your dwellings 3 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Katcall: 1:36pm On May 09, 2023 |
WoroSeeWoro:for codedruns. they wan marry one day to their future husband 1 Like |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Katcall: 1:39pm On May 09, 2023 |
DaveHarry:was she a virgin? |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by bukatyne(f): 1:45pm On May 09, 2023 |
Dshocker: What happens in Nigeria is prostitution: exchange of sex for money/other valuables. Hook up is really about casual sex aka one night stands prevalent in the West and trickling down to Nigeria. |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by viodemus: 2:01pm On May 09, 2023 |
I don't think we need to adopt the western culture of 50% inheritance if marriage dissolves. I think 10% for the lower earning partner (the man or woman), but more financial responsibility for the kids, from who earns more. The case about where the kids will stay, should be based on who has time and the means to carter for the kids. But visiting should be equal. |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by bukatyne(f): 2:01pm On May 09, 2023 |
@IyaTola: It would be helpful to differentiate between what occurs in Nigeria: prostitution aka exchange of sex for money And what occurs in the West: causal sex aka one night stand which is actually the hookup culture. For Nigeria: prostitution is caused majorly by greed, unresourcefulness, laziness etc. on the part of the men & women. A few women/young girls are victims of trafficking and kidnapping for prostitution. For the West: hookup is majorly caused by feminism which taught women that they are free to sexually explore aka sleep around. Now, feminism claims that men have been promiscuous for ages and applauded. Instead of holding the men accountable, they strangely preferred to 'join' the men and rather insist that they are not slut shamed. Because of free sex, men wonder why they should buy the cow when they can get the milk for free. In all of the above, there are young men and women in Nigeria & the West who have decided (due to religion, morals, upbringing or personal determination) to apply sexual restraint and shun instant gratification. To them I say kudos and may God/life lead you to similar partners who have reserved themselves. 7 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by 1Sharon(f): 2:18pm On May 09, 2023 |
Divorce the man and take half of what he owns? OP, If you live in Nigeria, what does that have to do with you? Is that your reality? Is that what happens in Nigeria? Abeg! And hookup culture has always existed in Nigeria, the Internet has just made it easier. |
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