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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by yemmit90: 2:19pm On May 09, 2023 |
advanceDNA: How old are you? Either you are still very young or lack comprehensive skill. Girls goes into prostitution because of needs, which is mostly caused by inadequacy or poverty. It later becomes habit or greed when they have made it big in their trade and still continue. Example is an escort who worth millions but still selling her body and pride for more money. I will say it again, girls from rich homes hardly engage in hookup, their parents, siblings and other rich uncles get them whatever they want on a platter of gold. They may get few boyfriends but will never sleep around for money. The highest thing a typical Nigerian prostitution can buy is high end I-phone or car, which can be easily acquire by rich kids through their parents or relatives, so tell me why would such Girls have to sell their body for money? If you disagreed with this, then search within your environment and tell us example of rich men(not average civil servants) kids who are into prostitution. 2 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by xtervaganza(m): 2:19pm On May 09, 2023 |
Simply men. Very foolish men 1 Like |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by 1Sharon(f): 2:30pm On May 09, 2023 |
Revolva: Is the codedruns a prayer group? What the hell were you expecting? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by advanceDNA: 2:33pm On May 09, 2023 |
yemmit90: ..like i said u no know wetin dey happen for street.....prostitutioń is now a thing of class for these babe........babes with 350k jobs are into prostitutioń ...... ive seen babcock, and madonna university girls paying tution of 800k doing hook up....u think say na hungry girls dey follow senators go dubai...this is 2023 man..... This one dey insult me because of prostitutés... .baba i no get ur time.....make we dead the arguement.....na waste of time to dey follow old man like u dialogue.... 1 Like |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by yemmit90: 3:06pm On May 09, 2023 |
advanceDNA: Didn't insult you, was just surprised you can't comprehend my posts. Like I said before, those big Olosho following senators to Dubai are mostly local hookup girls charging 2k short time few years back. Ask guys on the street, especially those that carry olosho very well, they will tell you how they upgrade from being local to international. Besides, a hookup girl that charge 5k in Ibadan can connect with her olosho friends in high brow area in Lagos or Abuja and be charging 100k per night, that is how these girls operate. As for the girls on 350k salary and still doing hookup, these are kind of lies and misconceptions we do tell ourselves. Agreed they can sleep with their bosses or rich clients in form of casual dating for materials gains but not as per charge as real hookup girls. Besides, most of the job paying such salary are mostly giving to intelligent career focusing women who has something upstairs to contribute than their pussy. As for those private university students you mentioned, most of them are the ones sponsoring themselves. I know many of them at Leed city University. If you want to know this, pick one of them and ask her deep emotional questions while on the bed, she will open up for you. Like you've rightly said, it is a waste of time arguing with an old man like me because, you will never had such experience and real life situations to withstand or back it up. |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by kay29000(m): 3:08pm On May 09, 2023 |
advanceDNA: Lovely analysis. 1 Like |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by kay29000(m): 3:12pm On May 09, 2023 |
IyaTola: And you'll find out that the owner of the shop (oga tailor) is probably a retired runs girl that still has some old customers she calls up when business isnt going well. 2 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by kay29000(m): 3:16pm On May 09, 2023 |
IyaTola: The person that sent you this message was in her 20s in the 70s...meaning she was born in the 50s, and is probably in her 70s now. Interesting. By the way, that her story doesn't seem like it happened in Nigeria. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by kay29000(m): 3:20pm On May 09, 2023 |
advanceDNA: You're very accurate. I'm amazed when i see some girls in their 20s i know are into runs calling themselves olosho on whatsapp statuses and laughing about it...they're not ashamed about it anymore. Theyre very open. They love it...they love every bit of it, from hanging with Yahoo boys and older men that spend lazishly on them, to have wild sex with these men. |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by helicoptarr: 3:22pm On May 09, 2023 |
Rather than calling it a culture, Let's tag it as a trend. We must be careful not to make it a culture. |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by kay29000(m): 3:25pm On May 09, 2023 |
KillerBeauty: I stopped reading when i got to that part. I have when people do copy and paste of what doesn't happen here in naija. 1 Like |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by kay29000(m): 3:30pm On May 09, 2023 |
manny4u: That's just an excuse. Is she the first girl to be out of job? She did it cos she probably was already doing it before she got that job, and was probably doing it on the side when she had the job...i know female bankers that are into hookup. It is not always about poverty...it is most times because the girl is lazy. |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by kay29000(m): 3:31pm On May 09, 2023 |
DaveHarry: LMAO! I feel you bro ![]() |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by IyaTola: 3:37pm On May 09, 2023 |
Divoc19:Female commands a higher market share. 1 Like |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by IyaTola: 3:39pm On May 09, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:Las Las all of us na A$hawo |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by IyaTola: 3:40pm On May 09, 2023 |
ednut1:Thank you for being honest. If men are useful, the ladies will be useful. |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by IyaTola: 3:40pm On May 09, 2023 |
KillerBeauty:Some culture do it in Nigeria. |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by IyaTola: 3:42pm On May 09, 2023 |
yemmit90:it called upgrade. From Legediz Benz to the real Benz 1 Like |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by IyaTola: 3:42pm On May 09, 2023 |
Airlord2030:Shut up 1 Like |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by IyaTola: 3:42pm On May 09, 2023 |
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Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by IyaTola: 3:43pm On May 09, 2023 |
1Sharon:Workers Meeting of course |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Nobody: 4:03pm On May 09, 2023 |
IyaTola:🤣🤣🤣🤣 1 Like |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by poweredcom(m): 4:06pm On May 09, 2023 |
Adesuwag: Every wat....every young boy is not a fraudster ok use ur sense to think before you post Also not every girl is a prostitute but the figure is becoming worrisome 2 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Morphinne: 4:09pm On May 09, 2023 |
IyaTola:You write really good and I like the way you apportioned the blames accordingly and evenly on both genders without being bias but in addition, I don’t really blame these hook-up girls and I wouldn’t advise them to stop. Who go carry overused p*ssy put for house? ![]() I always say this to ladies, when we tell you not to ‘useless’ yourselves, we are not saying it out of jealousy or insecurity, we do it to save you; it’s for your own good. I blame the Again, I won’t advise anyone to stop, if it’s hookup that’s giving you immense joy and money, pls don’t stop, you’re doing well my dear; we will patronize and use you then settle for decent ladies. It’s a win win ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Thomasankara(m): 4:16pm On May 09, 2023 |
[/color] poverty of the mind, it doesn't matter how rich the lady might be, the conciousness that her riches Will finish and don't know where else to turn to, is the major problem[color=#770077] 2 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Thomasankara(m): 4:18pm On May 09, 2023 |
[/color] women who are into this act triples the number of men who patronise them[color=#770077] IyaTola: 2 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Thomasankara(m): 4:21pm On May 09, 2023 |
[/color]ur point is valid[color=#770077] Dshocker: 2 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Schprobs: 4:24pm On May 09, 2023 |
Do those that pay 20k 30k 50k just for a night stand use condoms. 1 Like |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by Thomasankara(m): 4:30pm On May 09, 2023 |
[/color] it's called graduation and ascending through the ladder,now when these ladies don't have any content to market,how will they be able to finance the luxurious lifestyle or get their next meal?[color=#770077] advanceDNA: 2 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by COMPAQ(m): 4:33pm On May 09, 2023 |
advanceDNA: Very well said. Somehow, girls have taken away the stigma from it. And this makes it easy for them to do it. Maybe the stigma was removed when we started calling it 'hook up' instead of 'prostitution'! In the 90's, prostitution was a thing of shame, but done due to extreme poverty. Prostitutes' of that era were not having a lot of cash. But now it's no longer a thing of shame, possibly because the rewards are greater now. Since there is so much money to be made from it, cleanish girls that wouldn't have been prostitutes in the 80's and 90's are now doing it. Also, you'll notice that it has also increased because there seems to be more money in the hands of guys to throw at them, which makes the money relatively easy and then draws more girls in. And my theory on why easy money is circulating is because of return to democracy 9there are lots of political jobbers, associates etc all milking the country dry, yahoo, yahoo, drug money etc. In the millitary era, money wasn't flowing as easily as it is now. A former colleague of mine who was once a Commissioner in Edo state told me that the Governor was having a party in Benin once and they invited a lot of young girls from Uniben and Igbinedion University and they were sharing N20k to all the male attendees for 'Bleep' money. this was like 2007 o! So N20k then is like N100k or N200k now. So this easy money means big boys in lagos can throw N50k at ordinary fine girls and even up to N200k at really high class sophisticated girls at a go. Some high class girls even get houses, cars, trips, gadgets etc from guys. So how won't everyone want a piece of that action. Take Nollywood females as an example!! 4 Likes |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by COMPAQ(m): 4:38pm On May 09, 2023 |
Revolva: I would estimate like 30 - 40% of codedruns is fake though. i.e peeps just trying to scam. |
Re: What Has Caused Hookup Culture? by IyaTola: 5:03pm On May 09, 2023 |
COMPAQ:Their male counterparts are not building houses or buying cars, how are the females doing it. |
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