advanceDNA:


U are also stuck in 1991.... lack of support from parents is not what turns pple into prostitutés...its greed and desire for easy money.....u are one of those giving excuses for these women...continue..... if yahoo boys and armed robbers tell u same thing...u will not gree
.prostitutioń is not a trade of suffering girls who dont have choice....enter street make u know wetin dey happen

Revolva:
It is finished with Nigerian girls , 80 percent of them around big cities are on codedruns and michat , if you gi those app you wont want anything to do with any naija gal again

yemmit90:


How old are you? Either you are still very young or lack comprehensive skill.

Girls goes into prostitution because of needs, which is mostly caused by inadequacy or poverty. It later becomes habit or greed when they have made it big in their trade and still continue. Example is an escort who worth millions but still selling her body and pride for more money.

I will say it again, girls from rich homes hardly engage in hookup, their parents, siblings and other rich uncles get them whatever they want on a platter of gold. They may get few boyfriends but will never sleep around for money. The highest thing a typical Nigerian prostitution can buy is high end I-phone or car, which can be easy acquire by rich kids through their parents or relatives, so tell me why would such Girls have to sell their body for money?

If you disagreed with this, then search within your environment and tell us example of rich men(not average civil servants) kids who are into prostitution.

advanceDNA:


..like i said u no know wetin dey happen for street.....prostitutioń is now a thing of class for these babe........babes with 350k jobs are into prostitutioń ...... ive seen babcock, and madonna university girls paying tution of 800k doing hook up....u think say na hungry girls dey follow senators go dubai...this is 2023 man.....


This one dey insult me because of prostitutés...
.baba i no get ur time.....make we dead the arguement.....na waste of time to dey follow old man like u dialogue....

advanceDNA:



U cannot tell pple not to buy advertised product especially when its technically an essential need.....thats what advertising does..it creates crave....thats why drug users are not arrested but the sellers....the users are victims


.. if a new beverage caled iyatolá cola hit the market...the need to quench thirst and fill sugar craving will make pple buy...did they ask for iyatolá cola?...no.. but availability created crave and need......

Iyatola cola cannot come and blame her buyers for buying what she introduced to the market

Madam...sex is an urge...pple will still fvck weda its for sale or not....those making it forsale are the issue

IyaTola:
Most girls are not ready to learna skill or trade. The tailor two streets away from my street, have over 7 apprentices, 2 are baby mama, 3 are in the street, one is contemplating on going street, the last one seems to be undecided.

IyaTola:
During my 20’s, which was in the wild and wooly ‘70s, casual sex and one night stands were quite common. The Pill made it possible. We didn’t call it “hooking up” back then. We merely went out to bars and clubs, drank, and met people with whom to flirt and then have no-strings-attached sex. Sometimes we smoked weed and then had no-strings-attached sex. It was fun and meaningless. No one thought anything of it.

But something happened. The 1970s turned into the 1980s and the AIDS epidemic arrived, along with lesser threats of Herpes and Genital Warts (HPV). Chlamydia and Gonorrhea flourished. Fear of unplanned pregnancy turned into fear of STDs. It made us a little bit more careful, but the bacchanalia continued.

About the time I turned 26, I looked in the mirror one day and asked myself why I was doing it. I questioned my self-respect and found it lacking. I made the decision at that moment to stop going out to bars to get drunk and to stop having one night stands.

So yes, I would say that there is something like that happened in our with hook-up culture. It’s tawdry. It’s not stupid or sinful or sexist or manipulative, it’s merely tawdry.

Whatever. Forwarded as received via DM!

advanceDNA:


U are still stuck in the 90s or u just like to create excuse for these girls....this is 2023... prostitutioń has gone beyond doing it for survival or for bills....its now a thing of class for many of them cos they get to roll with big men.....its no longer a thing of they dont have choice ....greed is just the drive...

Girls making 40-60k per night...does that sound like broke girls suffering to you? ...u see them with iphone 12 and 13....do they look hungry, strugglung to pay bills to you??..... they are happy doing it....

KillerBeauty:
Where in Nigeria can a woman divorce a man and take 50% of his properties and assets. Abi op thinks Nigeria is America?

manny4u:
Poverty.
The day I realise one of the girls i respected so much and held in high regards was into hook up i was broken for almost a month, asked her why she was doing that and she told me she has been out of job for a while so she needed money for upkeep.

DaveHarry:
I've been blocking my girlfriend phone number anytime she's in sch for the past 2 years now. She can't call me n I don't call her. No please send me 5k or whatever. I can't be at home forming loverboy when you are in sch enjoying yourself banging gbolas.

Divoc19:
Social Media of course. Remember hookup is for both male and female

IyaebeTheGreat:
Some people already condemning the women doing hookup while absorbing the men who patronize them. Both the buyer and the seller are to be condemned. Anyways women are still getting married every Saturday

ednut1:
Social media apps, poverty, greed, display of wealth by celebrities, peer pressure , useless men especially yahoo men and politicians.

KillerBeauty:
Where in Nigeria can a woman divorce a man and take 50% of his properties and assets. Abi op thinks Nigeria is America?

yemmit90:


The guy you quoted is right, 98% of them started prostitute as a result of poverty or lack of supports from their parents.

This later turn to habit they find difficult to stop, because they are getting huge easy money from it. Most of the girls you see charging 100k per night started with 2k per night.

Airlord2030:
hookup only exist in the SS and SE..

we don't do that here in the SW

CaptainFM1:
Unequal opportunity.

Our society doesn't give equal opportunity for female.

1Sharon:


Is the codedruns a prayer group?

What the hell were you expecting?

IyaTola:
Las Las all of us na A$hawo

Adesuwag:
See grown men worry about what the other gender do with her vag.ina.

When are we gonna talk about yahoo boys culture. These ba.stards that render people homeless and penniless.

Every young boy in Nigeria is a potential yahoo yahoo boy. May your days be doom! May you eat with rats and cockroaches in your last days.
May your homes be ruined and May tears never depart from your dwellings

IyaTola:

IyaTola:
My point is, the men here criticising hookup ladies should focus on the men who patronise this ladies, not trade itself. The ladies aren't fvcking themselves nor paying ghosts to fvck these ladies. Men like you are the ones paying whether she has a disease or not.

Blaming ladies without blaming the men patronising them comes across as envy. It's not the ladies fault that pussy commands a higher price in the sexual market than pen!s.

Dshocker:
In developed countries, before a woman will open her legs for a man, it means she loves him.

So poverty and lack of jobs are the major cause fueling the insatiable greed in some girls to open their legs anytime, provided that the theme; money for hand, back for ground

These girls just wants to survive.

Imagine an oil rich country like Nigeria paying her citizens above 18yrs 250k for monthly upkeep, do you think that hookup will be thriving?

advanceDNA:


U are still stuck in the 90s or u just like to create excuse for these girls....this is 2023... prostitutioń has gone beyond doing it for survival or for bills....its now a thing of class for many of them cos they get to roll with big men.....its no longer a thing of they dont have choice ....greed is just the drive...

Girls making 40-60k per night...does that sound like broke girls suffering to you? ...u see them with iphone 12 and 13....do they look hungry, strugglung to pay bills to you??..... they are happy doing it....

advanceDNA:


U are still stuck in the 90s or u just like to create excuse for these girls....this is 2023... prostitutioń has gone beyond doing it for survival or for bills....its now a thing of class for many of them cos they get to roll with big men.....its no longer a thing of they dont have choice ....greed is just the drive...

Girls making 40-60k per night...does that sound like broke girls suffering to you? ...u see them with iphone 12 and 13....do they look hungry, strugglung to pay bills to you??..... they are happy doing it....

Revolva:
It is finished with Nigerian girls , 80 percent of them around big cities are on codedruns and michat , if you gi those app you wont want anything to do with any naija gal again

COMPAQ:


Very well said. Somehow, girls have taken away the stigma from it. And this makes it easy for them to do it. Maybe the stigma was removed when we started calling it 'hook up' instead of 'prostitution'!

In the 90's, prostitution was a thing of shame, but done due to extreme poverty. Prostitutes' of that era were not having a lot of cash.

But now it's no longer a thing of shame, possibly because the rewards are greater now. Since there is so much money to be made from it, cleanish girls that wouldn't have been prostitutes in the 80's and 90's are now doing it.

Also, you'll notice that it has also increased because there seems to be more money in the hands of guys to throw at them, which makes the money relatively easy and then draws more girls in. And my theory on why easy money is circulating is because of return to democracy 9there are lots of political jobbers, associates etc all milking the country dry, yahoo, yahoo, drug money etc. In the millitary era, money wasn't flowing as easily as it is now.

A former colleague of mine who was once a Commissioner in Edo state told me that the Governor was having a party in Benin once and they invited a lot of young girls from Uniben and Igbinedion University and they were sharing N20k to all the male attendees for 'Bleep' money. this was like 2007 o! So N20k then is like N100k or N200k now.

So this easy money means big boys in lagos can throw N50k at ordinary fine girls and even up to N200k at really high class sophisticated girls at a go. Some high class girls even get houses, cars, trips, gadgets etc from guys. So how won't everyone want a piece of that action. Take Nollywood females as an example!!