Do not blame your girl, she's wiser than you think. That unwanted pregnancy she's been avoiding is what you still gave to some other girl, she knew all you wanted was to get her laid. Carry your cross bro, and play safe next time.

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

Why did you dive in raw?

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

wetin I don learn for life be say no one is indespensible

If the girl you love die now are you saying you won't exist, love is just a function of the mind

Life happens to us all and you follow am like that, since life don happen btw you and the one you love why not try to figure out the one you give Belle.

If she has half the stuff you need, that is enough cos familiarity go bridge the others in

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Honestly, I don't feel pity for their type.

RealSolution001:


You may be right but she's explained and tried to make me understand it's her busy schedule that makes her not have time for me.

She's using reverse physocology on you. Dude, women usually create and have time for a guy they love. No matter how busy she claims to Be, if a girl likes, she'll create time.

Nobody is busy, you're just not worth their time! It'll interest you to know this girl whining you is busy making out time to visit otyer guys banging her Pussy. You're simping. Na you dey force yourself into her. She doesn't like you nor rate you. Dude, dump that girl and move on. Have some worth and value on yourself. The greatest weapon a man has over a woman is ATTENTION! Stop simping!

RealSolution001:


I don't intend to run a polygamy or just to birth children from different women.

d babe u r dying for no send u, abeg use ur brain box

If the pregnant one loves you more than the one you like, then commit to her, all things being equal. As a man, you go for a woman that makes your life easy, and loving you is a sure banker to that.

You can't be providing, protecting and leading a woman that doesn't love you. To love a woman that doesn't love you is dangerous.

Angrydaveed2:
Best advice I ever got: deal with the woman who likes you , not the one you like.
The one you like will put you through all sorts of nonsense and stress you unnecessarily.

Same thing you will do to someone you don't love but married to.

RealSolution001:


I don't intend to birth children from different women.

Nobody does, but then... life happens!

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

Marry both of them

Lance008:
Which advice do you need if you are against abortion

He wants people to tell him to marry the pregnant girl. Because you are against abortion and you are against bringing children Into this world from more than one woman. You are left with just one option.

Marry the one with your baby. Period.

Don’t allow any ashawao to guilt trip u into marriage, marry the one u truly love. Stop fornicating around like a fool! If u cannot hold your self go and marry!

advanceDNA:


U have entered one chance....marry the girl wey get bele for u or ready for baby mama things ...

.forget the first girl...she no get ur time...women always find time for the one they truly love...na u dey force urself....

Honestly I second this..
From experience

Op the first girl does not love you.. that the reality

The second girl loves you.. just that people that love us are not the one we love...
Life is not fair..

Marry the one that already take in for you

micxwell:
Is your screen digitiser bad??

why

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

You're not the first person it happened to.

An almost similar thing even happened to Jacob in the Bible.

He ended up marrying both sisters even though he loved only one of them.

So, go ahead and marry both of them

Next time, you will think very well before you make use of your erectíon.

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.
Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.
How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.
No insult please.

Oga na woman wey get ur time be ur own oo. No woman wey love u go the form too busy for u, moreover love grows with time u go learn to love ur pregnant babe... Use ur head

dawnomike:
Accept the pregnancy and responsibility and proceed to marry the one you want.... Just be sure of what you're going for

Take responsibility for your actions and for your child. But you must not marry the mother of your child just cos you impregnated Her. But remember she remains the mother of your child.

Congrats papa benji

Mary the one you pregnant bro
you no like am but u like her toto

NoshakingGod:


Irony of life. You love who doesn't love you and who loves you, you don't love the person. Why is it so?

Have you heard the slang, "this life no balance".

This is exactly what it means.

Though it's not always this way.
Some are fortunate to meet those who they love and who love them in return but for many it's not the same.

I personally didn't marry who I loved.
I married who loved me.
But over time the love from my side grew and we are enjoying life together.
15 years together, getting better everyday.

Close your eyes and take a deep breath and then open your eyes, the answer will be in front of you.

Why do men value women who dont hav their time? U love someone when doesnt hav time for you because of her shop even on weekends. So when u marry do u think that will change? Instead of u to love the one that has ur time you are here confused. Maybe state what and what you u want in a wife, score both women and go for the one wt the higest score. If caring, has time for me and very fertile are part of ur criteria, u hav a wife material already

Love the one you impregnated, then.

Perhaps you should ask the preeq that put you in this current situation...

RealSolution001:


But because the one I love does not give me enough time, I can't totally use that to say she doesn't love me. She has a shop which she has to open and stay till 8/9pm before she closes. After then, she needs get to her house and tidy one or two things and before she's done with all of that, it might be late for her to still come see me. Another is she might be tired and needs rest

silly excuses

nkemdi89:
My boyfriend got another girl pregnant due to distance, he barely knew her and she insist on keeping the child, but he still going ahead to marry me . Both of them are irresponsible, but the girl feels she could use pregnancy to trap him . So many baby mamas today are as result of ladies thinking they van play smart over a man.

You're even making excuses for your boyfriend. Did she rape him?

If that one was available and giving you back to back, kukuma marry her naa? The devil you know is better than the angel you don't.
This one has proven she can carry engine, 4 cylinder, you never know maybe 8 cylinder (twins) . What if the other no fit carry ordinary 2 stroke engine nko.
Anyway, belle is no reason, a simple medical procedure in a proper hospital and belle don vamoose.

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

When she was giving you mind blowing sex shebi you ask us how to sort it out?
Young man carry your cross

We4all:


You're even making excuses for your boyfriend. Did she rape him?

I am not making excuses, I said both of them are irresponsible.

A perfect description of you can't eat your cake and have it.

You are waiting for busy somebody, your life will be so miserable, to the extend she define what happens or not.
She ain't busy at all, she doesn't fancy you in any way...

You could be fourth option