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Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by novia22(f): 4:57pm On May 10, 2023 |
dangermouse: Exactly!! See Op has also allowed sentiment and emotions get into this thing. I wish him luck that's if he gets out of this one..but e go hard cos he doesn't even sound like he has the will power to. |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by MemoriesAndMe: 4:58pm On May 10, 2023 |
Never heard of Diogenes syndrome before reading this....had to read it up Diogenes syndrome, also known as senile squalor syndrome, is a disorder characterized by extreme self-neglect, apathy, social withdrawal, and a lack of shame or embarrassment about one's living conditions. The syndrome is named after the ancient Greek philosopher Diogenes, who famously lived a simple and ascetic lifestyle. People with Diogenes syndrome often live in squalor, with cluttered and filthy living spaces, neglecting their personal hygiene and health, and hoarding items such as food, trash, and other objects. They may also isolate themselves from friends and family, and refuse offers of help or intervention. The causes of Diogenes syndrome are not well understood, but it is believed to be a complex interplay of physical, psychological, and social factors. Risk factors for the syndrome include old age, social isolation, mental illness, and a history of trauma or abuse. Treatment for Diogenes syndrome can be challenging, as people with the disorder are often resistant to help. A multidisciplinary approach involving mental health professionals, social workers, and medical doctors is often necessary to address the physical, psychological, and social needs of the person with the disorder. In some cases, court-ordered interventions may be necessary to ensure the safety and well-being of the person. @OP, your ex's brother isn't your responsibility. I'd suggest you give him a specific date to move out. That's should be enought time for him to dig for others that will accommodate him. Actually, you shouldn't have even allowed it in the first place; there's no point being useful to people that are useless to you. Just my view. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by seanwilliam(m): 4:59pm On May 10, 2023 |
Kobicove:it doesn’t work that way most time. What I’ll do in such situation is to help him with money I can afford in getting his own accommodation. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by Minatouchiha(m): 5:01pm On May 10, 2023 |
Wake up, eat and make sure you have showered. Then tell him... "Please, leave my house". |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by Xkale1996(m): 5:03pm On May 10, 2023 |
Don't quickly ask him to leave your house, but ask him how long will he stay after telling you If you're okay with his reply fine If you're not look for a way to ask him to leave just give him genuine reason Today na you get money Tomorrow no be you get money Life na turn by turn 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by isabi2lof: 5:09pm On May 10, 2023 |
pocohantas:You've said it all , later on the other guy will start complaining online , that women are wicked, that a friend kicked him out just because of his girlfriend , not knowing that it's his fellow men that did him dirty . 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by showlove911(m): 5:18pm On May 10, 2023 |
I had a similar case except that the girl in question is a family frnd. She was coming from Enugu to her family House here in abakaliki and stopped by as we have not seen for over a year. From stopping by to greeting, she stayed till night and becos is same town, I felt she cn also go even in the night. From greeting to sleeping over on the pretence of " its late" to waking up in the morning and telling me to allow her stay for one week, that she feels like staying away frm her family house for a week. Since I share similar introverted and kindhearted demeanour attributes as OP, plus I love privacy and private life, I was constantly troubled on her to ask her to go. Omo one day like that an inspiration came to me and i applied it and it was so so effective except that its was deceitful and full of planned out lies which didn't sit well with me as a Christian but I did those regardless and it worked.. OP, you cn contact me or chat me up personally as am nt ready to tell wat I did in public becos tomorrow N/landers will use it to antagonize me. Fear N/land historians and thank me later... 08064704560. Trust me, it will be a potent strategy to make him leave in a peaceful way. |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by reservd(m): 5:21pm On May 10, 2023 |
manee2:Leave your space, have you accommodated him already? |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by fijihems: 5:23pm On May 10, 2023 |
Just tell the person that you need to get to somewhere. |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by Freezyhot(f): 5:33pm On May 10, 2023 |
Lol..😂 What were u thinking oga...?!!! This one off me... See.. u don already start... Cook up n excuse, d usual relative line...so he has to go...When u say "supportive"...u didn't say "how"?... Na u wear d shoe Sha, so u know wear it pinches... 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by DrDunamis(m): 5:34pm On May 10, 2023 |
manee2:wetin be diogenes syndrome? Or you mean di-george's syndrome? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by Nobody: 5:38pm On May 10, 2023 |
manee2: Your ex brother abi ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by Tallesty1(m): 5:41pm On May 10, 2023 |
pocohantas:Women take unnecessary falls for things they know nothing about. You will meet your gee for something and he will be like "lemme discuss it with my wife/lady" if last last the thing no click nah the woman we go blame ![]() ![]() ![]() It is called looking out for your man. |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by Trustedpronet: 5:42pm On May 10, 2023 |
kestolove95: Na one of my guy planned with a babe in other to chase away his male friend that year...to cut the Torry short the girl divulged all the plans to the accused, as I'm talking now they are happily married. |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by AmGreat1234: 6:15pm On May 10, 2023 |
Kobicove:This method is good but it's not always working. A friend told me that he's branching Abuja to submit a document. For more than three months, the person never care to leave ago. I'm just thinking aloud how to move him out. |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by manee2(m): 6:18pm On May 10, 2023 |
[quote author=novia22 post=123053816]Diogenes syndrome is no joke and the sufferer can continuously continue to piss you off back to back from being extremely dirty and untidy to always staying indoors thereby giving you no room for your own privacy. You nailed it! |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by Parachoko: 6:20pm On May 10, 2023 |
manee2:Some kin story I dey always read on Nairaland sef ![]() Why will you take in your ex brother? |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by BarrElChapo(m): 6:22pm On May 10, 2023 |
manee2: You could have spared me the stress of googling this word but thanks for the education. As for him, invite your mother or sister over and inform him he has to leave or put up with him tell him he has to up his hygiene as you find it appalling cos this life is for a fleeting moment plus giving shelter to the homeless is an act of mercy. Goodluck |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by BarrElChapo(m): 6:23pm On May 10, 2023 |
Trustedpronet: 😂😂😂😂😂 |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by manee2(m): 6:24pm On May 10, 2023 |
dangermouse: I think he is hoarding |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by manee2(m): 6:31pm On May 10, 2023 |
reservd: Yes, For almost 3 months |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by xjiggy: 6:36pm On May 10, 2023 |
manee2:Bro you should have said no immediately she called you. Your married ex asking you to squat the brother is the highest level of exploitation. Unfortunately you've positioned yourself to be used. There's no softly in this matter. Tell the guy you're expecting your mother soon and there'll be no space for him. Give him 2weeks to vacate your apartment. Simple. |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by emmykk(m): 6:36pm On May 10, 2023 |
manee2: That is your ex brother ,that went and marry another man is enough motivation to make you tell him to go. Except maybe he is paying the rent with you. It is this you ozkwo behavior that made her sister married another man. Are you are mugu? |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by novia22(f): 6:38pm On May 10, 2023 |
manee2: You don't need to think it, He is a hoarder. It's another characteristic of someone with Diogenes syndrome. They hoard food, things, even dirt sef. It's a typical example of some mad people we see on the streets today carrying alot of load. Most of them suffer Diogenes syndrome but people have no knowledge of it. They are unkept, dirty, hoard things, are withdrawn and have no shame but we call it "madness" in Nigeria (which isn't wrong cos it's a mental disorder). it's possible Oga can even afford a house of his own but just wants to live off you for lesser responsibility. You do the cleaning, cooking, bill paying etc and he plays victim. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by dangermouse(m): 6:47pm On May 10, 2023 |
manee2:Apart from hording dirt, he is hording money too? ![]() |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by Chykes403: 7:00pm On May 10, 2023 |
Carry prostitute and Bleep in his presence. He go comot |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by manee2(m): 7:02pm On May 10, 2023 |
novia22: Exactly! I do the cooking, cleaning and bill payment. Well, i just found out that a stress reaction, resulting from a traumatic event, such as the death of a loved one is the major cause of Diogenes syndrome. Yes! he just lost a loved one, his lover and financial backbone. |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by yommen: 7:05pm On May 10, 2023 |
FREDCLSSICO7: What about OP's safety? |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by novia22(f): 7:17pm On May 10, 2023 |
manee2: So are you now his financial backbone? Abi him wan turn you to him lover? Jokes apart, So he is actually not contributing anything to you? This is a parasitic relationship my brother. He has to go asap. Tell Him your brother that paid the rent for you is coming to stay a long while and the house can't accommodate you 3. That pls he has till the end of the week to leave. Dont ask him if he has a place to go to, or money to rent a place, the answer will be NO ( remember he is a hoarder). Just tell him he needs to go shikenah. That guy wasn't planning on leaving you......ever and His sister, your Ex is a wicked person to have heaped such a responsibility on you. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Ask Someone To Leave My House by novia22(f): 7:20pm On May 10, 2023 |
Chykes403: People suffering that syndrome no get shame. E go dey there till you finish work... ![]() |
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