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Re: Married And Clubbing by RevenuesBoost(f): 12:38am On May 11, 2023
isabi2lof:


Pls don't listen to haters here , your home is blessed, most of them grew up in a family, where's hatred has become the order of the day .

Most Nigerians hate seeing couples being living a happy life .

I love you guys plenty 🤗.

Couples who does everything together stays together.




You're so right.

Thanks so much 🙏

We love you too❤️❤️
Re: Married And Clubbing by Kobojunkie: 12:40am On May 11, 2023
dangermouse:
■ You married? I guess no. So what is your reason deep down for clubbing? Be truthful here.
Clubbing is strictly for fun... anti-boredom, socializing, relaxation, etc. It is just one of many options out there for breaking routine and kicking up one's feet whenever one feels like it. By the way, there are different kinds of clubs so depending on the mood you are in, you pick the one that best fits. undecided

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Re: Married And Clubbing by kusemeatakpa(m): 12:42am On May 11, 2023
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Re: Married And Clubbing by Kobojunkie: 12:50am On May 11, 2023
Divoc19:
Qui sera, sera
But seriously, think about it. Does it make better sense to deny oneself of all the freedoms a reasonable adult should have and enjoy, in and out of marriage, all so as to pretend that by doing so, one can have what seems a good marriage? The problem is over 50% who live that way end up booted out of the same marriage at the end of the day anyways. I laugh when people say married couples must not do this or that because such people make marriage a prison for themselves and are typically those who end up regretting it all in the end. grin

This is what I try to tell folks if you cannot be you and enjoy yourself in marriage, then you are not married but in bondage. undecided

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Re: Married And Clubbing by dangermouse(m): 12:56am On May 11, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Clubbing is strictly for fun... anti-boredom, socializing, relaxation, etc. undecided
bbored in your own house at a time you are supposed to be sleeping? Churches and mosque's, home town meetings and social clubs etc are good places to socialize albeit responsibly.
You can agree with me that there is something different or reckless which you always seek for in the club even, though you left out deeper and personal reasons that makes you always go back. Could it be women and sex? Not alcohol cos you can stock up your refrigerator and help yourself as much as you like in the comfort of your home. Socialization remains counter productive if it starts and ends only in the club. Can you comfortably add those you socialize with in the club to your circle of everyday friends? Have you explored other different ways of catching fun. They abound.
Dancing is fun and obtainable in many places too.
So what's the catch for you?
Re: Married And Clubbing by RevenuesBoost(f): 1:04am On May 11, 2023
OdefaGirl:



Girl, I so wanna go clubbing but hubby is not a good dancer... so I wouldn't want guys flocking around me cz they don't stay away when they sight a lady dancing alone (talking from my first and last time I went 🤣). Hubby will oblige but I don't want some crazy fellas coming to perch😂.... Unless I find the club that restricts "perchers"


Mine is the exact opposite...

Hubby is a good dancer but I'm not😂

That's why I emphasized that I needed dance classes 😂

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Re: Married And Clubbing by Kobojunkie: 1:04am On May 11, 2023
dangermouse:
■ bored in your own house at a time you are supposed to be sleeping? Churches and mosque's, home town meetings and social clubs etc are good places to socialize albeit responsibly.
■ You can agree with me that there is something different or reckless which you always seek for in the club even, though you left out deeper and personal reasons that makes you always go back. Could it be women and sex? Not alcohol cos you can stock up your refrigerator and help yourself as much as you like in the comfort of your home. Socialization remains counter productive if it starts and ends only in the club. Can you comfortably add those you socialize with in the club to your circle of everyday friends? Have you explored other different ways of catching fun. They abound.
Dancing is fun and obtainable in many places too.
So what's the catch for you?
1. You, folks, are too close-minded for your own good. Night clubs, Churches, mosques, etc., are all social clubs. How you came to the conclusion that a nightclub is worse than all the others all has to do with your mentality and nothing more. undecided

It is not every night that I want to sleep. On some nights, I want to go out and hang and that is precisely what I do. undecided

2. Wrong! Again, this close-minded approach to living is why many consider life and marriage a prison they are meant to endure for their lives. undecided

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Re: Married And Clubbing by Tzar(m): 1:06am On May 11, 2023
Don’t worry, the man or woman that you got thoroughly engrossed in clubbing/shows, na the same clubbing/shows dem go take collect am from you!


RevenuesBoost:
My babe has taught me Night Clubbing as an Essential Lifestyle.


Married and Clubbing😌


#Puzzles #Ugep... ❤️❤️❤️
Re: Married And Clubbing by Kobojunkie: 1:18am On May 11, 2023
Tzar:
Don’t worry, the man or woman that you got thoroughly engrossed in clubbing/shows, na the same clubbing/shows dem go take collect am from you!
Let me guess, those partners who become reserved in marriage in order to be considered good only to collect at the end of the day, what was the reason in their case? Was it because they become too reserved? undecided
Re: Married And Clubbing by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:19am On May 11, 2023
bigiyaro:
I don't do religion, am not judging anybody, the thing is, just as Islam is synonymous with suicide bombing, clubbing, smoking, drinking and fonicating, all these also go hand in hand.

my point was and is, we shouldnt point everyone with same brush becoz of general assumption

wide wide nigerians are also known for fraud, but does it mean we can find honest nigerian people around the world and nigeria ?
Re: Married And Clubbing by BluntCrazeMan: 2:07am On May 11, 2023
jedaii:
Hmm..
So work no de for una tomorrow abi na honeymoon
Leave them.



Kids will enter the picture soon.

By then, we go know how far.
Re: Married And Clubbing by BluntCrazeMan: 2:13am On May 11, 2023
RevenuesBoost:
My babe has taught me Night Clubbing as an Essential Lifestyle.


Married and Clubbing😌


#Puzzles #Ugep... ❤️❤️❤️




Enjoy the outings while it lasts.

Once kids start to enter, na to pause am ooo..
At least, until the last of your kids gets up to Five years or thereabout.
Re: Married And Clubbing by Divoc19(f): 3:03am On May 11, 2023
You are very on point. I wish I knew this 12 years ago.
Kobojunkie:
But seriously, think about it. Does it make better sense to deny oneself of all the freedoms a reasonable adult should have and enjoy, in and out of marriage, all so as to pretend that by doing so, one can have what seems a good marriage? The problem is over 50% who live that way end up booted out of the same marriage at the end of the day anyways. I laugh when people say married couples must not do this or that because such people make marriage a prison for themselves and are typically those who end up regretting it all in the end. grin

This is what I try to tell folks if you cannot be you and enjoy yourself in marriage, then you are not married but in bondage. undecided

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Re: Married And Clubbing by Spanki(f): 5:09am On May 11, 2023
RevenuesBoost:



I posted this on purpose.
Many couples lack spice in their relationship
They wake up in the morning go to work, come back eat and sleep and put it on replay daily, so marriage becomes boring for them.
No special outings, no weekend relaxation routines, just regular boring daily activities and will complain that their partners are boring or cheats. It's simply because you are not ready to make your marriage your heaven.


I was one of those that believed that clubbing is one bad thing and is meant for prostitutes but I was totally wrong.
The first day my husband took me to a club, I saw people drinking and dancing. I was shocked to also see soft drinks, I was like, so one can get soft drinks in a club, that people have already labeled as a bad place.
I also saw an aged married couple, I was wowed, I loved the fact that they still make themselves feel young as grown parents.


Alcohol is a choice, being an alcoholic is bad but you don't have to judge people by their lifestyles.
I know most food we digest contains alcohol but what one must avoid is excessive intake of it.
I'm not an alcoholic and I don't know what alcohol drink taste like and I don't wish to know but I can't condemn those that love it.


The people who own clubs - did that with the intention of making people happy, believe me, a club is a happy place.
So much smiles, laughter and dancing.

It's a Shame that I don't know how to dance, I surely need dance classes 😄

No be only spice na garnish. Premium tears loading...... You do not take your wife to club.🙄
Re: Married And Clubbing by Ferdinandu(m): 5:31am On May 11, 2023
When there is still sparks in your relationship it is all good and rosy, everything sounds ethereal, it is when the sparks slows, the stress of raising family gradually takes over, one partner got totally bored with clubbing lifestyle, the other still sees it as the only place to be, the suspicion starts, the bickering over small things. There is a reason why any experienced person in nightlife will explain to you it is a habit best enjoyed in your single life and dropped off while getting married. There are many harmless ways to keep the sparks in your relationship as married couples but definitely not night clubbing. You are just new to the experience but you are postulating like a very long years experienced veteran in that area
RevenuesBoost:



I posted this on purpose.
Many couples lack spice in their relationship
They wake up in the morning go to work, come back eat and sleep and put it on replay daily, so marriage becomes boring for them.
No special outings, no weekend relaxation routines, just regular boring daily activities and will complain that their partners are boring or cheats. It's simply because you are not ready to make your marriage your heaven.


I was one of those that believed that clubbing is one bad thing and is meant for prostitutes but I was totally wrong.
The first day my husband took me to a club, I saw people drinking and dancing. I was shocked to also see soft drinks, I was like, so one can get soft drinks in a club, that people have already labeled as a bad place.
I also saw an aged married couple, I was wowed, I loved the fact that they still make themselves feel young as grown parents.


Alcohol is a choice, being an alcoholic is bad but you don't have to judge people by their lifestyles.
I know most food we digest contains alcohol but what one must avoid is excessive intake of it.
I'm not an alcoholic and I don't know what alcohol drink taste like and I don't wish to know but I can't condemn those that love it.


The people who own clubs - did that with the intention of making people happy, believe me, a club is a happy place.
So much smiles, laughter and dancing.

It's a Shame that I don't know how to dance, I surely need dance classes 😄
Re: Married And Clubbing by Enemyofpeace: 5:45am On May 11, 2023
See as the babe resemble Mynd44
Re: Married And Clubbing by ZIMDRILL(m): 5:58am On May 11, 2023
Most men who are anti clubbing with wives are

1 afraid that the wife will do like what they do

2 it reflects on types of places they go

3 No knowledge of better and nice clubs to take a woman

in simple terms you can not take a woman to KFC or Mcdonalds for a romantic dinner , its the same going clubbing with wife, get to no nice clubs thats civilised for couples

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Re: Married And Clubbing by Waffarianman(m): 6:18am On May 11, 2023
This dude na still born boy. I pity you born boy grin
Re: Married And Clubbing by ghettochild(m): 6:20am On May 11, 2023
Wawelexy:
She will go without you whenever you not around to go with her, maybe due to work or any other more important things.... They will bang the hell out of her kitten before you come back... Club life ain't for married couples....
You people will always find something stupid n negative to say...nomatter how good the pic or the thing posted on nairaland is.
This is an incurable diseases ya all have contracted
Re: Married And Clubbing by Slurity(m): 6:28am On May 11, 2023
RevenuesBoost:
My babe has taught me Night Clubbing as an Essential Lifestyle.


Married and Clubbing😌


#Puzzles #Ugep... ❤️❤️❤️
A tale you will regret doing at all in future. Continue o. Continue clubbing and take children too to club.
Re: Married And Clubbing by justli: 6:33am On May 11, 2023
ZIMDRILL:


its the character and behaviour of the person that matters

So are you saying all the men who go clubbing are cheating?

100%.
Re: Married And Clubbing by saysoo: 6:42am On May 11, 2023
RevenuesBoost:
My babe has taught me Night Clubbing as an Essential Lifestyle.


Married and Clubbing😌


#Puzzles #Ugep... ❤️❤️❤️
Na you take your hand buy the market ooooh. When eeh start, be brave oooohh.
Re: Married And Clubbing by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:46am On May 11, 2023
justli:


100%.

i guess each time your father went clubbing was cheating on your mum

or each time you go clubbing you are cheating on wife
Re: Married And Clubbing by justli: 6:51am On May 11, 2023
RevenuesBoost:



I posted this on purpose.
Many couples lack spice in their relationship
They wake up in the morning go to work, come back eat and sleep and put it on replay daily, so marriage becomes boring for them.
No special outings, no weekend relaxation routines, just regular boring daily activities and will complain that their partners are boring or cheats. It's simply because you are not ready to make your marriage your heaven.


I was one of those that believed that clubbing is one bad thing and is meant for prostitutes but I was totally wrong.
The first day my husband took me to a club, I saw people drinking and dancing. I was shocked to also see soft drinks, I was like, so one can get soft drinks in a club, that people have already labeled as a bad place.
I also saw an aged married couple, I was wowed, I loved the fact that they still make themselves feel young as grown parents.


Alcohol is a choice, being an alcoholic is bad but you don't have to judge people by their lifestyles.
I know most food we digest contains alcohol but what one must avoid is excessive intake of it.
I'm not an alcoholic and I don't know what alcohol drink taste like and I don't wish to know but I can't condemn those that love it.


The people who own clubs - did that with the intention of making people happy, believe me, a club is a happy place.
So much smiles, laughter and dancing.

It's a Shame that I don't know how to dance, I surely need dance classes 😄

You're exposing your marriage to hard crash-landing. It's all game and fun starting out... But soon, he is going to find someone whose ass he can't seem to shake off his head. This is sure to happen.
Club is for drinking, smoking and whoring...nothing more.
It's also the easiest place to expose your woman to lesbians.

I can't see a single gain in couples going clubbing. There are several other ways you could spice up your relationship...
Re: Married And Clubbing by timiade446(m): 6:51am On May 11, 2023
gfelo:
let me gist you this short story

there was a couple in my village, the husband used to carry his wife to wine bar every evening until it becomes habitual they cant stay every weekend without going to wine bar, consequently work to the husband very far away and he is no longer available to take his wife there since it has become a habit the wife have used to she cant stop it, eventually she started going there alone, one fateful day she was so drunk that everybody left the wine bar and she cud not go back to house, since the wine bar don't have accomodation they closed and leave her outside, street boys took advantage of her rape her and rob her.

in essence what am i saying as u continue clubbing may u never be tempted to go alone when ur husband is not around. thank u.

Is this real or is it your well written super story?

Re: Married And Clubbing by justli: 6:58am On May 11, 2023
Houseofglam7:
Two adults are doing what rocks their boats without goring anyone’s horse and random peeps are convulsing over it. Yikes 😬




Because we know how it will end. Ever wonder why celebrities cant keep marriages? They club hard to spice their marriage, yet harder they club, the harder the crash.
Enjoy your short moment of dopamine crave and surge , we know how it will end.

As long as you keep it up, cheating will come, drug and alcoholism will come in. These things don't end well

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Re: Married And Clubbing by Odidigboigbo(m): 7:22am On May 11, 2023
udemzyudex:
Wetin even dey this clubbing sef,other than buying expensive drinks,dancing and risking your life at night.
There is an opportunity to watch free "blue film", press yansh and breast.
Re: Married And Clubbing by emperordelis(m): 7:27am On May 11, 2023
What sort of dry deeper life club is that one?
Re: Married And Clubbing by 1Sharon(f): 7:28am On May 11, 2023
My kind of couple. I love edgy and open minded Nigerians.

There's nothing wrong with clubbing as long as you are both into it.

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Re: Married And Clubbing by oxiide22(m): 7:31am On May 11, 2023
RevenuesBoost:
My babe has taught me Night Clubbing as an Essential Lifestyle.


Married and Clubbing😌


#Puzzles #Ugep... ❤️❤️❤️
bush girl grin
Re: Married And Clubbing by Wawelexy(m): 7:33am On May 11, 2023
ghettochild:

You people will always find something stupid n negative to say...nomatter how good the pic or the thing posted on nairaland is.
This is an incurable diseases ya all have contracted


Keep your mouth shut whenever elderly people are having a discussion... What do you know? Small boy
Re: Married And Clubbing by spartachico(m): 8:31am On May 11, 2023
There’s time for everything , if they don’t have kids yet , they can still enjoy the time together but focus on kids when they arrives ,but the same kids will grow up and you can have your fun again but probably not till late night or early morning
Wawelexy:


It's addictive and not for everyone.... How do you explain to your kids that you are coming from the club as early as 4am...

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