Hello people. Straight to the point. I met a guy in my 400level. 14 years ago. We connected emotionally, but he never asked me out. He had a serious girlfriend and never hid it. The night he came to my room, I persuaded him to sleep over. I was sooooo into him sexually, the feeling was/is too strong. He grabbed my thighs and sucked my pussy thoroughly. Something I had never experienced with any man. Heck I was still a virgin at the time. I left this world temporarily. The feeling was too overwhelming. Immediately he finished, he asked me, " do you know why I did this?" I answered "no". He said "I did this so that you will never forget me". People, till date, I find it hard to really forget him. Although I refused allowing him have penetrative sex with me that night because he refused to formally ask me out, and I believed I was just a fling to him. So I refused sex with him. Since then, the degree of hatred he felt for me is just too strong. He hated me soooo much and even banged his burglary against my fingers another day that I went to his house, allowed him to do all sorts of things on my body, but still refused sex with him. My fingers even bled. He even said he would kill me here and nothing would happen. He really wanted so bad to sleep with me but I would have loved to be respected enough to be dated by him first, something he wasn't willing to consider because he had a girl. I begged and begged but he refused. At a point, I was considering giving up my body to him, I cried alot because he repeatedly rejected me. I yearned so much for his body, he smelled so nice and he's so big and strong that he carries me like a baby. Till date I chat him up on WhatsApp but he ignores me totally.
Now we're both married to other people, but I can't forget him. I envy the woman he is married to. My husband disvirgined me on my wedding night yeah, but he doesn't carry me the way this guy did, even though I have a small stature, he detests sucking a woman's private part. I don't even connect with him emotionally as I should. I try but I just don't feel it. I feel guilty. If I'm in an enclosed space with this other guy, honestly I won't be able to resist him. I totally yearn to see him again, but I don't want a broken home. But why is it difficult to forget this particular guy? Why does he hate me so much?

Stop all these tales by moonlight and get an actual life.

Y

If you can't forget the guy just look for a new puasy sucker. Pardon my swahili

Enjoy your marriage

Just so you know? Your husband DID NOT disvirgin you.
That other guy did the honours, that's why you're still attached to him.
Virginity is more than a hymen.

YouandiAllofus:
You are doing well. Jusk keep on 'basking in the euphoria of destructive flames'. What ever d'hell that means, you are as lost as my comment if you continue to subject yourself to the fantasy of unrealistic past. Wake up!

Honestly, I hate this nonsense.

When guys clamor for virgins, you just have to understand their point. This lady wouldn't have had someone to compare her husband's performances to if she had not gotten involved sexually with the other man.

Now she doesn't want to leave the man and is willing to allow another married man have his way if chance permits.

She should divorce her husband and settle as second wife of that guy.

If we ask her husband, she might be the laziest in bed.

Karleb:


Honestly, I hate this nonsense.

When guys clamor for virgins, you just have to understand their point. This lady wouldn't have had someone to compare her husband's performances to if she had not gotten involved sexually with the other man.

Now she doesn't want to leave the man and is willing to allow another married man have his way if chance permits.

She should divorce her husband and settle as second wife of that guy.

If we ask her husband, she might be the laziest in bed.

It’s obvious you can’t comprehend. If you read the story well, you would have read where she said she was a virgin at the time when she was frolicking with the guy. She allowed him do all sorts on her body but didn’t allow him have penetrative sex with her because she wanted him to date her first before doing that. But of course, was willing to let go off her virginity if he did the right thing. I will implore you to read through all over.

Don’t be deceived. Virgins aren’t saints. Virginity isn’t just having a piece of hymen. It’s about the moral values that one upholds.

UyaiIncomparabl:


It’s obvious you can’t comprehend. If you read the story well, you would have read where she said she was a virgin at the time when she was frolicking with the guy. She allowed him do all sorts on her body but didn’t allow him have penetrative sex with her because she wanted him to date her first before doing that. But of course, was willing to let go off her virginity if he did the right thing. I will implore you to read through all over.

Don’t be deceived. Virgins aren’t saints. Virginity isn’t just having a piece of hymen. It’s about the moral values that one upholds.

Virgins are not saints but they are more desirable than non virgins.
It’s a fact, conduct an anonymous poll if you want.
It’s okay if you are not a virgin but stop belittling virginity, it’s selling you out.

Ciao

UyaiIncomparabl:


It’s obvious you can’t comprehend. If you read the story well, you would have read where she said she was a virgin at the time when she was frolicking with the guy. She allowed him do all sorts on her body but didn’t allow him have penetrative sex with her because she wanted him to date her first before doing that. But of course, was willing to let go off her virginity if he did the right thing. I will implore you to read through all over.

Don’t be deceived. Virgins aren’t saints. Virginity isn’t just having a piece of hymen. It’s about the moral values that one upholds.

What is she angry at? Just go and sit down abeg.

Karleb:




What is she angry at? Just go and sit down abeg.

Lol. I’m not angry at anything. I’m just imploring you to use your eyes better to read.

worried222:

Virgins are not saints but they are more desirable than non virgins.
It’s a fact, conduct an anonymous poll if you want.
It’s okay if you are not a virgin but stop belittling virginity, it’s selling you out.

Ciao

I think you are deflecting from the topic.

Once again, virginity is more than having a piece of hymen. No offense.

Karleb:


Honestly, I hate this nonsense.

When guys clamor for virgins, you just have to understand their point. This lady wouldn't have had someone to compare her husband's performances to if she had not gotten involved sexually with the other man.

Now she doesn't want to leave the man and is willing to allow another married man have his way if chance permits.

She should divorce her husband and settle as second wife of that guy.

If we ask her husband, she might be the laziest in bed.

Once you marry the right one with charracter, compatibility, understanding, patience and companionship; everything else is workable because marriage is the oldest institution of learning. The story narrated portray a picture of someone orchestrating fantasies of sexual pleasures from past experiences of over 14years out of unsatisfied sexual desires! She has no excuse for doing that, unless she married the wrong person. She should see a therapist

Now I understand why men especially the ones on NL say they want virgins.

It is just so that their poor sexual prowess wouldn’t be compared with the ones she used to have/have had. You all want people who wouldn’t be able to hold you accountable when you can’t perform more than 2 seconds. Ah! Now I get it. Bunch of weak-dicked men.

UyaiIncomparabl:


It’s obvious you can’t comprehend. If you read the story well, you would have read where she said she was a virgin at the time when she was frolicking with the guy. She allowed him do all sorts on her body but didn’t allow him have penetrative sex with her because she wanted him to date her first before doing that. But of course, was willing to let go off her virginity if he did the right thing. I will implore you to read through all over.

Don’t be deceived. Virgins aren’t saints. Virginity isn’t just having a piece of hymen. It’s about the moral values that one upholds.

thanks you understand.

Y

Rayban25:
Stop all these tales by moonlight and get an actual life.

I stopped reading at “he grabbed my thighs”


Na all those useless stories

Though your story might be fake, but it might be someone else true story. Since that's how we human are wired.

Whatever you are thinking, someone else is passing through it.

But the truth is since you are already married, just accept what you have and forget what could have been.

Sulking is not the end of the world.

I just pity the virgin marrying husband who has no idea someone else owns the body/soul of the virgin bride even after so many years. I hope this story is a lie sha

That was how one virgin girl was talking about having regular hannal se,xx to keep the Puccy intact for the husband. You people will no kill someone

A senseless moth fluttering around a flame desperately wishes to be embraced by the flame.

But guess what? The moment the poor moth gets it's wishes fulfilled, it dies or gets badly scared for life.

Road to hell, get back to your senses.

Seriously get a life.

YouandiAllofus:
Once you marry the right one with charracter, compatibility, understanding, patience and companionship; everything else is workable because marriage is the oldest institution of learning. The story narrated portray a picture of someone orchestrating fantasies of sexual pleasures from past experiences of over 14years out of unsatisfied sexual desires! She has no excuse for doing that, unless she married the wrong person. She should see a therapist

Excellent advice in your conclusion.
I wonder if there are capable, competent and confidential therapists in our country, with a strong professional association to regulate and discipline erring members.

Eternitymedia88:
A senseless moth fluttering around a flame desperately wishes to be embraced by the flame.

But guess what? The moment the poor moth gets it's wishes fulfilled, it dies or gets badly scared for life.

Ọ̀rọ̀ àgbà.
Ẹ kú laakaye ó

UyaiIncomparabl:
Now I understand why men especially the ones on NL say they want virgins.

It is just so that their poor sexual prowess wouldn’t be compared with the ones she used to have/have had. You all want people who wouldn’t be able to hold you accountable when you can’t perform more than 2 seconds. Ah! Now I get it. Bunch of weak-dicked men.

Abeg na why your mouth sharp like this
Take am easy on guys biko.