A person that respects and honors you will not stop doing so even after sometime except the respect and honor was feigned from the onset or they got married under questionable motive or something huge as infidelity sets in to break that bond. In anycase, there's always the tendency to take forgranted the relationship one has but a person with good head on their shoulder will always value, honor their significant other whether the so called see finish sets in or not.

Reason that relationship without the influence of konji(what they call love), and check how many years you can cope in that state of mind.

Like someone said above, its conscious decision

So long as you're making good money your wife dares not disrespect you!

Just as you can't disrespect your parents (unless you be werey), overfamiliarity shouldn't leads to disrespect in marriage.

Iamgodskid:
A QUICK QUESTION TO THE MARRIED FOLKS HERE
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During the early stage of marriage, there's usually this level of serenity n respect for each other but as time goes on, the story changes n then over familiarity n all the sh*t that comes with it, starts to set in,

with the level of "over familiarity" involved in marriage,

how do u guys still maintain the honour and regard for each other despite having seen n known everything there is to see n know about your partner...

You know how people can be most times, they start behaving funny when they finally get settled comfortably with you,



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Your values, dignity, respect, manners, character, honesty, and to crown it all, the fear of Jesus Christ in you.

Being honest, open and communicative about who you are and what you envision your marriage to be is the first step. No disguises, no ulterior motives from both partners.
Physical courtship and being honest with yourself on if you can cope with the worst version of your fiance(e) will help here.

My spouse and I both come from polygamous homes so our common goal was to make our marriage work, no matter what. We agreed on that right from the onset.

2. After marriage: it takes conscious and serious effort to keep marriage working. We both recognize that.

It's not a passive thing where we take things as they come each day. Same with parenting. It's a duty we both have to work on emotionally, spiritually, financially and socially every day of every year. It's serious business.

We will make effort to be romantic even when we don't feel like. It's a duty we owe each other.

3. We also both agreed. Spouse first before anyone else. Before our parents, before our children. Shame to me will be shame to you. If anything is wrong, people will laugh at both of us, not at the opposite spouse.

That has kept us going.

Love conquers all things. Marry who you Love and that solves any unforseen problems.

Mutual respect and regard for each other will only fade if it was built on the fact that there is no familiarity.

It should be built on what you already know about the person, and the more you know, the greater the respect will be.

All marriages will definitely pass through that second stage or cycle.
1. You accept that your partner is not an angel after all.
2. You adjust your expectations and accept reality on ground.
3. You take decision to defend the marriage at all cost.
4. You use more of body language to communicate displeasure.

The decision to respect and Love irrespective of what the other party do.

This ur question is here by moved to 29may2023,because we can't finished what his in this case today, next question please

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
The sex part is what baffles me

How do I continue to bang one particular pussy for years
Will my dickkk ever get excited the way it was from the beginning for my wife...over familiarity of her kpekus will weakened my dickkk

Hahahhahahaha damnn niggar

crows2ravens:
Do you have any close friends or siblings? Does "over faimliarity" cause issues?
If your answer is yes to both, don't get married!

Exactly, just like best friend with a very mutual understanding, that's how marriage should work. Couple should get stronger and cordial rather than losing it.

Iamgodskid:
A QUICK QUESTION TO THE MARRIED FOLKS HERE
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During the early stage of marriage, there's usually this level of serenity n respect for each other but as time goes on, the story changes n then over familiarity n all the sh*t that comes with it, starts to set in,

with the level of "over familiarity" involved in marriage,

how do u guys still maintain the honour and regard for each other despite having seen n known everything there is to see n know about your partner...

You know how people can be most times, they start behaving funny when they finally get settled comfortably with you,



🤥🤥🤥

What do you mean by behaving funny?

Did you marry or hope to marry a comedian?

It's hard to explain but if you married genuinely, and not because of any superficial reasons and your partner remains responsible, the respect and affection never fades.

Like I said, it's hard to explain. Those who married the right partners will understand exactly what I'm trying to say.

Just include God and his precepts from the start.

It takes Godly principles to handle see-finish in life. Your maturity and logic would fail you.

Love alone doesn't build marriage
Don't marry for love alone

Tolerance
Perseverance
Patient
And focus

Will make the relationship continues and earn you the required honour.

Iamgodskid:
A QUICK QUESTION TO THE MARRIED FOLKS HERE
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During the early stage of marriage, there's usually this level of serenity n respect for each other but as time goes on, the story changes n then over familiarity n all the sh*t that comes with it, starts to set in,

with the level of "over familiarity" involved in marriage,

how do u guys still maintain the honour and regard for each other despite having seen n known everything there is to see n know about your partner...

You know how people can be most times, they start behaving funny when they finally get settled comfortably with you,



🤥🤥🤥

Intentionality my brother: you must work to make your marriage interesting.

Love is like firewood flame.
When you think you have arrived, that's when the fire begins to die.

You have to keep fueling the fire and fanning the flames

Hahjascho:
Just include God and his precepts from the start.

It takes Godly principles to handle see-finish in life. Your maturity and logic would fail you.

everything na God to a brainless person.
Mtcheew

That is why marriage is for matured set of people

When your wife can get naked in Peace like who no send..Even me self I no send the unclothedness...We fight and fight and get used to ourselves as time flies and we become more solid with time. Na to open social media dey give advice remain. Naked at home in peace.

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
The sex part is what baffles me

How do I continue to bang one particular pussy for years
Will my dickkk ever get excited the way it was from the beginning for my wife...over familiarity of her kpekus will weakened my dickkk

That's where you were wrong. Marriage should not be based solely on sexual fantasies. If that's what attracts you to your partner, in time, you'll lose it.

Please have your own money. Esp the ladies.

My brother, I am going to tell you the simple truth. Marriage is all about tolerating a person's shit for life.

If you no go fit tolerate shit, no marry. You go dey ignore many things and that's what you gonna do until you or her die.
Above all, if everything isn't blown out of proportion, the benefits outweighs the risk.

Father0fjesus:
everything na God to a brainless person.
Mtcheew

Don't be a fool...now read it again and make research on what godly principles entail. Mutual respect, genuine love, understanding etc. These are morals and values etc.

Next time digest, research, and comprehend before sharing your perceived opinion. Thank you.

Mindlog:
Intentionality in both sides

In all.... Get money. Don't be unfortunate. I warned you.

Hahjascho:
Don't be a fool...now read it again and make research on what godly principles entail. Mutual respect, genuine love, understanding etc. These are morals and values etc.

Next time digest, research, and comprehend before sharing your perceived opinion. Thank you.

gedafuk with your godly shit jare. It's just values, there's nothing godly about it.

God ko, ekwensu ni.

Iamgodskid:
A QUICK QUESTION TO THE MARRIED FOLKS HERE
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During the early stage of marriage, there's usually this level of serenity n respect for each other but as time goes on, the story changes n then over familiarity n all the sh*t that comes with it, starts to set in,

with the level of "over familiarity" involved in marriage,

how do u guys still maintain the honour and regard for each other despite having seen n known everything there is to see n know about your partner...

You know how people can be most times, they start behaving funny when they finally get settled comfortably with you,



🤥🤥🤥

I wrote this sometimes ago.

I seldom comment on relationships.
Cos the world's now injured to the point where what's someone's food is another person's poison.
However, some values remain unchanged.
1. Empathy is lacking
2. Having the mindset to love ones partner irrespective of future situation is now absent. People attach conditions to love as if it's transaction.
3. Increase in rate of promiscuity. I dunno which gender is worst. But infidelity knows no rich home or poor home. We are humans & not animals that can have sex anyhow. Many matrimonial beds are defiled.
4. Raising normal kids are now rare. Children with terrible orientation are becoming terrible husbands & wives. For solutions, all above must be positive.