Iamgodskid:
A QUICK QUESTION TO THE MARRIED FOLKS HERE
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During the early stage of marriage, there's usually this level of serenity n respect for each other but as time goes on, the story changes n then over familiarity n all the sh*t that comes with it, starts to set in,

with the level of "over familiarity" involved in marriage,

how do u guys still maintain the honour and regard for each other despite having seen n known everything there is to see n know about your partner...

You know how people can be most times, they start behaving funny when they finally get settled comfortably with you,



🤥🤥🤥

Persephone1:
Here with jotter and pen

uncleck:
I am not married, but I do know that love is not a good basis for marriage. Long lasting marriage is one built on mutual respect. Partners have to prioritize respect above everything else. That's the only way to surmount the ills of see-finish

Moniya4Real:

Spot on bro, but it’s usually a one way thing cos , we men, tend to respect women regardless of their status , beauty etc. But how will these daughters of Eve respect we men when we our pockets are not really full. As a man, the most important thing is to have money, your woman, her families will have the course to respect you, even if they do not like you.

CoolAmbience:



Oya, write this down.

Extensively discuss and share individual principles about life. Evaluate and study each other to measure compatibility from day one. Do not take the word 'love' too seriously, focus more on physical relations and watch out for attributes such as respectfulness, fidelity, cleanliness, compassion, empathy, patience, forgiveness, tolerance and pay undivided attention to temperament and rationality.

Comot mind for 'sabiness to knack'. E follow o, but with a partner that bears a choking poor character, you'd likely not be thinking of knacks.

Overall, with most of the attributes I listed earlier plus controlled expectations, una go surely dey alright. Just no say no be Jesus you marry.

Psoul:



I'll tell u same thing I always like to tell ppl about relationship.
Do not marry just because of love. Marry who you are truly committed to and who you can respect. Be disciplined and marry your type.
Below was my advice to a friend in 2018 on this forum

"I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all year round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner.

In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else. Relationships work out mostly because of our heads not our hearts.

It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline; because, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with.

In those times, love will not help you. Self control will help you. Emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going.

With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life.

You think happily married people don't see better people than the ones they married to? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do!

But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings and it is the great arsenal that destroys those unhelpful impulses.

You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.

We are too fond of loving when it's convenient and sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there; but that can only last for just the first 3 - 6 months of the relationship in many cases.

After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped and it's now your responsibility to make the relationship work, not love's responsibility.

Relationships cannot be readymade. You have to build it and it's never always about love, it requires commitment and intelligence.

On the long run in marriages, it's not just love that keeps them together forever, it's determination and commitment.

Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort to do that. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that.

That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.

Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream.

It's always tough. At some point it will be so bitter but you can make it work by putting your heads together. You can scale through the trying times by staying focused and committed.

The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong, be self disciplined and above all, have the God factor that will give you the grace needed to reign you in.

God Bless.

EndRape2:
You are still single that is why you are capping rubbish, if you misbehave in marriage, your partner will insult you, .

If you cheat ,she calls you a dog, if you can not meet up with your financial responsibilities , and your mumu pride can not make you ,talk to her calmly. and bear with you for now you will be called a useless man.


If you do not want Insult, you have to be thatnperfect man, that does not Insult his wife too, and play his role as a man well.













quote author=Heroicvic post=123175605]Sorry is it just me that has this pride and won’t think twice before sending any woman that disrespect me in a marriage or relationship off?

I’m sorry but I can’t stand you insulting me while I feed you till you die😏

MissOpe:


Marriage too sweet abeg........

Especially if you marry a true friend like a brother....

Na everyday jollification believe me when I say so

EndRape2:
Mumu, do not marry a virgin, marry a good girl, from a well brough up home.

Persephone1:
Here with jotter and pen

Munzy14:

Abeg shift make I join you..😁😁😁

After class don end... School 3 children

Iamgodskid:
A QUICK QUESTION TO THE MARRIED FOLKS HERE
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...
...
During the early stage of marriage, there's usually this level of serenity n respect for each other but as time goes on, the story changes n then over familiarity n all the sh*t that comes with it, starts to set in,

with the level of "over familiarity" involved in marriage,

how do u guys still maintain the honour and regard for each other despite having seen n known everything there is to see n know about your partner...

You know how people can be most times, they start behaving funny when they finally get settled comfortably with you,



🤥🤥🤥

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
The sex part is what baffles me

How do I continue to bang one particular pussy for years
Will my dickkk ever get excited the way it was from the beginning for my wife...over familiarity of her kpekus will weakened my dickkk

Iamgodskid:
A QUICK QUESTION TO THE MARRIED FOLKS HERE
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...
...
During the early stage of marriage, there's usually this level of serenity n respect for each other but as time goes on, the story changes n then over familiarity n all the sh*t that comes with it, starts to set in,

with the level of "over familiarity" involved in marriage,

how do u guys still maintain the honour and regard for each other despite having seen n known everything there is to see n know about your partner...

You know how people can be most times, they start behaving funny when they finally get settled comfortably with you,



🤥🤥🤥

Iamgodskid:
A QUICK QUESTION TO THE MARRIED FOLKS HERE
...
...
...
During the early stage of marriage, there's usually this level of serenity n respect for each other but as time goes on, the story changes n then over familiarity n all the sh*t that comes with it, starts to set in,

with the level of "over familiarity" involved in marriage,

how do u guys still maintain the honour and regard for each other despite having seen n known everything there is to see n know about your partner...

You know how people can be most times, they start behaving funny when they finally get settled comfortably with you,



🤥🤥🤥

tiswell:
we don dey hear this line for ages.

Yet, we never see a married man or woman wen no dey complain