Kaymicheal852:


Cheat on me ,dey play ,so you think a women won't cheat when you live under the same roof lol 😂

You better stop being a troll ,lower your ego and learn ,you might later learn the hard way

Reminds me of this song

Tell person
by timaya , phyno and Olamide

Them tell you , you no gree


Na the song wey I dey always play give them

Seeker3:
Omo... The leftovers are for Simps and they get that as a duty sex. They eat last

Girls are massive pretenders.
Women like bad boys and then blame men for been wicked.
You will see a girl dating a guy who only wants sex and even insists on abortion.
Then with their deception they will say men are wicked.
If you ask most single mothers, they will say the man that impregenated them is wicked
which is not really the truth.
THEIR ATTRACTION FOR IRRESPONSIBLE MEN WITH SWEET MOUTH IS THE PROBLEM
WOMEN THEMSELVES HAVE SERIOUS PROBLEMS THEY NEED TO ATTEND TO.

See this from vanguardngr

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/05/curbing-your-fatal-attraction-to-that-love-rat/

Curbing your fatal attraction to that love rat

WHY do most women fall head-long for love rats but turn up their noses at Mr. Nice Guy, who like the proverbial bitter pill, might do them a world of good?

‘Love rats can pull off the cheesiest chat-up line as if they really mean it”, says Sarah, a relationship expert. “In the early stages, when they’re trying to win you over they have a knack of making you feel incredibly special and absolutely fascinating.

“Unlike most men, they are not shy of using three little words you long to hear, usually within a short time of knowing you. So, it’s not surprising that they have great success with woman. But with this success comes danger. One woman is never enough

"There are many women out there having their hearts broken by love rats, yet they give the brush-off to the kind of men they say they are looking for. ‘He’s very nice, they say. ‘In every other way he would be perfect, but there’s no chemistry. I wish I could fancy him, but I don’t”."

Brokeloser:
The tougher the men around her, the softer she is. The softer the men around her, the tougher she is. The toughest woman is the fatherless woman, for the fatherless woman seeks a surrogate by whoring herself. ~Glycosis

You see this quote na very confirmed fact

Use it for your own purpose to avoid pains and have peace of mind as a man

qbqetell:


Many go through things they can't speak of.
But rather than discouraging other men, they would rather keep quiet, let other men fall into the same trap, so that they have partners in misery.

Only some who have been married for 15+ years muster up the sincerity to speak up regarding the harsh realities of a married life.

Don't take the words of newly married men too seriously and those who are just about to get married.

Bro it's not like that

Sometimes you may have come across some information but you never took it serious.
The information only begin to make so much sense when you have had first hand experience of it yourself

That's what happens to many men

There eyes open when they are already inside the game

Some then begin to find ways to mitigate the effects of there mistakes

qbqetell:
The acceptable reason you might consider marriage is to procreate, just like your father procreated you.
And even at that, extreme caution must be taken.

If you are considering marriage for any other reason, you might want to ask if you have learnt anything at all.

If you are considering marriage for love, you still haven't been unplugged. Romantic love is an illusion. (Would write on this specifically some day).
If you are considering marriage for sex, without mincing word, you're delusional.
If you are considering marriage because of pressure, you are about making a mistake you'd regret for decades of your life.
If you are considering marriage so you can always have someone who would always have your back, you have chosen the worst way to go about it.

What you're saying is true to a large extent.
Most people especially Christians will marry cos they don't want to have sex with every body. It's usually a tough choice, tho

Those guys complaining that redpill messed them up
It's funny some people think rp is a magic button to get girls or they think it makes you hate girls and that's really funny cos they miss 99% of the whole message.

Rp is a discipline it makes you work on yourself, On your emotions and finances. It's a development course when you are done with the courses, you should have been a better man physical,
stronger man mentally
and a richer man financially.

its impossible for girls not to get attracted to you if you have these 3 factors.

Another funny thing is some guys that are claiming to be red pill are only armed with the information of them being a red pill and they're not working on themselves.
As a man how do you look physically?
Do you take care of yourself?
What's your wardrobe game like?
How many shoes do you have?
What about your accessories?

Some of you guys should first learn how to take care of yourself before you talk of woman, cos if you are not getting married in 6month why do you need a woman?

Why do you guys like forcing "self improvement" on red pill na? Lol. "self improvement" is Self improvement, durrrr.

Red pill is just red pill abeg. You swallow it properly doesn't automatically make you richer or improved or something. It literally just gives you a taste of the world from another angle, simple.

Based on the concept of the red pill on this thread, if you think women are saints, it simply proves to you that they're not. Like wise to men. Self improvement/finance is a standalone thing. You can improve yourself/finance even when blue-pilled. Lol.

Infact, a very high level of red pill in this realm we live in is to stop "improving" yourself physically/financially, and ONLY focus on the spiritual aspect of your essence. If you don't know what I just talked about, then you don't know. Lol.

Red pill na red pill abeg. It's just means digesting a view you were unlikely to agree to in your past. No dey associate am with all those money and self-improvement thing abeg. Why do you think this thread was made in Romance instead of Lifestyle or Business section?

By the way, this thread's red pill is red pill related to gender dinamics. Don't sugar-quote it. Of course you can drop stuff to help people who want to improve, but it is what it is: strictly redpill (nature of women and men, and the relationships that exist between them).

Thanks

Oboy heartbroken men choke ooo
Yeeeeee 😂😂😂😀😀

Marriage has been Historically Contracted for Business, Politics & Debt Payment.
It was never about Love (Which I think is a recent Construct).

"Am No Longer in Love. Nigerian Woman Laments, Loses Interest in Husband after He Sponsored Her to the UK. The lady said she can't explain why she does not love her husband anymore but would not want to remain in a marriage where there is no love. She appealed to people to advise her on what to do.

“The woman said it was her husband who told her to study nursing in Nigeria and partly sponsored her studies. The nurse added that he also catered for her needs and that of her family and was responsible for doing her travel documents. Things are happening.”

Apart from making ur babies and cooking ur food why will you send a woman to UK to study! But simp wouldn't listen.

EastAlchemist:
Oboy heartbroken men choke ooo
Yeeeeee 😂😂😂😀😀

Na so we see am o

djon78:


You see this quote na very confirmed fact

Use it for your own purpose to avoid pains and have peace of mind as a man

That quote is by Ubunja, not Glycolysis.

chikasnight:


Reading this I tried to flash back on my simp days and realised I was very lucky cuz I didn’t lose that much money. my impatient personality didn’t even allow me stay in a relationship I’m not getting what I want.

I think my biggest simpin was back in school chasing a so called church girl for close to 3years. It was mostly calls and chats because she never agreed for once to hang out.
Tho I was trying to experiment if chasing a girl longer will make a girl who’s not interested become interested.

I gat this impatient personality too even without that i don't take a girl that behave somehow serious . Immediately i see nonsense behavior from you i dismiss them from my fuckin mind.

Agelastus:


That quote is by Ubunja, not Glycolysis.

I think that quote is by Rollo. I only broke it down.

Ubunja, i see you!!!!!!

Happy international boy child day to nighas here with male kids
Let them overdoze on this pill
Trust me, they'll thank u fr it

logicalhumour:


Infact, a very high level of red pill in this realm we live in is to stop "improving" yourself physically/financially, and ONLY focus on the spiritual aspect of your essence. If you don't know what I just talked about, then you don't know. Lol.

Thanks

Can you say more on this?
If you're inclined to.. Thanks

PstDapo:
💞𝗞𝗲𝗲𝗽 that woman who always talks to you first.
💞𝗞𝗲𝗲𝗽 that woman who always makes you smile.
💞𝗞𝗲𝗲𝗽 that woman who cracks silly jokes just to make you laugh.
💞𝗞𝗲𝗲𝗽 that woman who always understands you.
💞𝗞𝗲𝗲𝗽 that woman who gives you her effort, that is loyal, committed, faithful and love you unconditionaly.
💞𝗞𝗲𝗲𝗽 that woman who is always sacrificing her sleep just to talk you for long hours.
💞𝗞𝗲𝗲𝗽 that woman who accepts your imperfections and flaws.
💞𝗞𝗲𝗲𝗽 that woman who cries when losing someone, especially you.
💞𝗞𝗲𝗲𝗽 that woman who always give her best just to make you stay.
💞𝗞𝗲𝗲𝗽 that woman who really loves you more that herself.

💞𝘉𝘌𝘊𝘈𝘜𝘚𝘌 𝘞𝘏𝘌𝘕 𝘛𝘏𝘈𝘛 WOMAN 𝘚𝘛𝘖𝘗𝘚 𝘈𝘕𝘋 𝘎𝘐𝘝𝘌𝘚 𝘠𝘖𝘜 𝘜𝘗, 𝘠𝘖𝘜'𝘓𝘓 𝘓𝘖𝘚𝘌 𝘛𝘏𝘌 𝘏𝘈𝘓𝘍 𝘈𝘕𝘋 𝘐𝘔𝘗𝘖𝘙𝘛𝘈𝘕𝘛 𝘗𝘈𝘙𝘛 𝘖𝘍 𝘠𝘖𝘜𝘙 𝘓𝘐𝘍𝘌.... ✍️✍️

She hasn't seen a better option

Mandela27:
Flee from it,just love women,love women bro,if they ask u for something, do it for Dem,joke with them, God created them for us bro,enjoy every moment with them,call them sweet names that will make them happy bro,women are angels. Redpill is ruining the brains of young boys and I feel bad and sorry,cus they don't know what they are involved in

If you understand vvomen, you cant love them!

Seeker3:
Omo... The leftovers are for Simps and they get that as a duty sex. They eat last

Reality of most married men who didnt marry covered food..

To the aspiring married men,this is what they gonna spend their money on..

Men are fvked up.

Love, to men is all about sacrifice.
Love to vvomen is benefit oriented.

Marriage to men was/is all about love..
Marriage to vvomen was/is all about survival..
Go and Marry; Lol!

Nyascobar1414:
Love, to men is all about sacrifice.

Love to vvomen is benefit oriented.


Marriage to men was/is all about love..

Marriage to vvomen was/is all about survival..

Go and Marry; Lol!

"Love, to men is all about sacrifice."
Just dey play. Lol.

I understand men's Biochemistry of Love (and I'm talking literal Medical Biochemistry here), and what if I told you that men don't jump into love for "sacrifice", but for a literal selfish desire (benefit) —just as the women. They just jump in without thinking, and make certain commitments that end up with so much responsibilities on their path; they then realize how much of a failure they'd truly be if they cannot tend to the responsibilities they created out of the blue. However, by that time, it'll be 15 years too late to turn around.

I just hope that the red pill on this thread does not make some of you begin to see men as saints. Lol.

Love to men was never about sacrifice, lol. We just like to think that way.

If you're swallowing the red pill, swallow it completely abeg. It's not really a men-sympathy pill. Men are not innocent, lol. No gender is. The two genders go into relationships for their selfish reasons, just that women tend to beat men hands down in the game. Swallow the red pill properly and try using it to win instead, lol.

Men aren't saints/sacrificial father-Christmases, they're just dumber in "love".

P.S
I hope this pill meets someone well
Just kidding. I actually hope it scatters everything you've ever thought of yourself as a man: you are not innocent. You are selfish, just as the selfish woman. You're just a bunch of selfish HUMANS...all of you. As for me, I'm no longer human

P.Sx2
While someone's selfishness may make him/her a winner in the end (most women), the selfishness of another might make him/her a loser in the end (most men). I won't go further

Bye bye

Logicalhumour, I always look out for your posts as their mostly fact-based and devoid of anecdotal emotions.

Abeg analyse marijuana for me. How bad is it instrincally and how bad is it when compared to cigarette and alcohol.

akwesenana:

Abeg analyse marijuana for me. How bad is it instrincally and how bad is it when compared to cigarette and alcohol.

Oooohhhh friend.... You're looking for heavenly vawulence o

logicalhumour:

Oooohhhh friend.... You're looking for heavenly vawulence o

You can quote me on a dead thread if you mind sharing it here.

I still remember how you dissected masturbation.

Who else has noticed that - You actually enjoy Women more when you don't take them serious

Acenemona:
Who else has noticed that - You actually enjoy Women more when you don't take them serious

You tend to enjoy the company of children more when you stop taking anything that they say and do seriously.

No surprise there.

Be careful in giving authority to fellow men as this could weaken your frame.

If you are married and redpilled, how you render authority to other men is even more important. Many men get Amog’d by who they submit to and their LTR pick cues watching with one eye. That mentor, that religious leader, that Boss you cannot say no to, could easily AMOG you and weaken your frame.

For a religious redpilled, for instance, he must show that he only submits to God directly and not through other men who could easily get you Amog’d. Demonstrate to your wife and children that you only submit to God and not through anyone. Make family devotions led by you more important than religious gatherings. Make Daddy’s prayers more important than Pastor’s prayers. Be the authority.

Else, it’s either you end up seeing hypergamy playing in the strangest of places or you’d always be less alpha than those you submit to.

Maintain frame. Be the authority. No matter how much you can learn from or respect the AMOG, note that he is also human and in the sexual marketplace, and you probably are better in some domain, so why to lose your frame easily?

Note: This has nothing to do with ego.

Nyascobar1414:


If you understand vvomen, you cant love them!

Change ur mindset.

imustsaymymindo:
Be careful in giving authority to fellow men as this could weaken your frame.

If you are married and redpilled, how you render authority to other men is even more important. Many men get Amog’d by who they submit to and their LTR pick cues watching with one eye. That mentor, that religious leader, that Boss you cannot say no to, could easily AMOG you and weaken your frame.

For a religious redpilled, for instance, he must show that he only submits to God directly and not through other men who could easily get you Amog’d. Demonstrate to your wife and children that you only submit to God and not through anyone. Make family devotions led by you more important than religious gatherings. Make Daddy’s prayers more important than Pastor’s prayers. Be the authority.

Else, it’s either you end up seeing hypergamy playing in the strangest of places or you’d always be less alpha than those you submit to.

Maintain frame. Be the authority. No matter how much you can learn from or respect the AMOG, note that he is also human and in the sexual marketplace, and you probably are better in some domain, so why to lose your frame easily?

Note: This has nothing to do with ego.

Bros, you're spot on.

luminouz:



Lmaoooo...that is because you believe their words na. Dont bro. Believe their actions. That is where their true mindset is. ....

I keep telling y'all that women are crueler than me because they can harbour resentment for so long before showing it. Their emotions are their logic and vice versa. That dude gave her everything but the new guy is way better,so she switched. If not for the AS issue, she wouldn't ever come back to him at all. .
I also learnt one thing. A cheating woman never changes. If you forgive her once, she would still try it again because she knows you will still forgive her.

That Guy's revenge was as exactly brutal as her own. Takes two to fuq shit up and here we are.

That's why I never believe anything that comes out of a woman's mouth.
I have this ex. She's in a new relationship. I fvck her anytime my girl is out of town.
And everytime I'm done with her she will swear that she won't have anything to do with me again. She will swear with her life that I won't be able to sweet talk her again.
I'll then tell her she's my hoe and I get to decide what to do with her. She go para swear and curse over her dead body but na jst make I scope her small you will see her coming over again to get fvcked stupidly

Women are slaves to their emotions. Whoever is capable of tickling that will always have them. You just have to use their weaknesses against them like they also do to men.

It's men that take what a woman says seriously that always get burnt. Whenever they running their mouths I go just dey laff. They really fun and good to toy with if you understand them

5 times Guinness world record holder
No recognition or noise.
Why?
Because him no get yansh take do bbl like some others we know.

Whereas one other person just did one thing and we no hear word again.

Once you have XY chromosomes in this life, you're fvcked


https://www.facebook.com/267978826632355/posts/6704109386352568/?mibextid=7nm2OVv00TIW9Kwy

Miracood2:
I made a post last week about me finally seeing a girl that makes my heart beat very fast.

I was advised by someone here to man up and approach her. Well I didn't! I never had the intentions of asking her out, because I've always told myself that any girl that can make my heart skip a bit, can mess my life up in a second.

We stay in the same lodge (I'm in sch). Somehow we got close without me even spilling crap about love.. I get to handle her oranges at will and grab ass also at will, but she will never let me run my hands down in-between her legs. I'm confused on why it's so. Yesterday was the third time she declined.

The initial love I had done diminish small, my heart no longer beats hard when I see her.

I still like this girl. But I'm considering letting her be. I don't understand why u'll let a guy press you, but don't want him to fucc.

I need advice from experienced kings here.

Pukkalolo

I've talked about sexual comfortableness on this thread...I think you can find it here:

https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/1899#120410679

Preferably, I'll advise you read that before continuing reading this post.


Ok, let's continue.
It's a straightforward issue: She allowed you press her oranges and ass because she's attracted to you. And that's pretty much it. Attraction has it limitations... You might be thinking, "then what alpha moves can I make to get her to drop her panties..."

The true is, you are already alpha enough... If she had perceived you as a weak wussy dumbass beta she wouldn't be allowing you her press Ass and oranges.

She's attracted to you...but that's how far, attraction sometimes can go.


You said, you don't understand why she'll let a guy press her, but don't want him to fucc.... Yes, it's no surprise: women can be confusing. Sometimes, the underlining attitude of yours that makes her allow you press her at will can also be the very attitude that makes her never let you run yout hands down in-between her legs.

Unbelievable right? Well, women themselves know they are unbelievable, that's why they try as much as possible to stay away from their fellow women. They prefer to be friends with a more believable creatures: Men.

Like I said, the very behavior that get her to date you can also be the very behavior that makes her give up on you. For example, your playboy I-don't-give-a-Bleep attitude can attract her into dating you but that same attitude can also frustrate her out of the relationship.

Letting you press her is simply just a sign that she's attracted to you. Basically, she's low-key saying, "hey dude, I'm attracted to you that's why I'm allowing you press my ass."

Again, now you are thinking, "well, if she's attracted enough to make me press her orange and ass, then why doesn't she want me to fucc?"

Well, that's because attraction is sometimes not enough. Most men think getting a woman to become attracted to them is the difficult part. In reality, its actually the most basic part. As you go about your day, there are couple of women who are already attracted to you from just merly sighting you but you don't know because women are good at hiding their attraction for men.

The society complicate things by saying you are not worthy of the companionship and affection of a beautiful girl unless you do something epical. As a result, guys think they have to accomplish something epical like building spaceship, curing cancer or traveling to moon before they can be worthy of the companionship and affection of a girl.

But the legit players understand that all they need to smash pussy is just their looks, confidence and conversations.

So while Sammy, the fearful nice guy is waiting to build well completed beautiful mansion in the hope that Anita(his crush) will be impressed.....Richie, the Confidence bad boy is holding her hands and taking her to an uncompleted building where he's about to Bleep the shit out of her.

Ok.... let's continue.

Like I said, Men think getting a woman to become attracted to them is the difficult part, so they believe they have to play games and make alpha moves to create attraction. But for the most part, attraction has already taken care of itself.
In few minutes of meeting her, she already knows if she's attracted to you or not. That's because biologically and psychologically women have different taste for men...so once she sight you or at least once she start interacting with you, she quickly subconsciously decide if you're are kind of man. It's not a conscious intellectual decision. Remember, Attraction is not a choice.

A woman's attraction for a man is predetermined; meaning, even before she sees you or meets you, she already attracted certain trait and qualities about you

This is why when I'm meeting a new woman, I'm not trying to create Attraction, I'm only trying to "confirm" attraction. If there's no attraction I'll move on to the next girl...if I confirm there's attraction, I quickly move on to building "sexual comfortableness."

Sexual comfortableness is the key.

Attraction is sometimes not enough. She can be attracted to 7 guys that woo her a day but doesn't sleep with any of them.

The truth is, most women actually don't Bleep most men they're attracted to because they would feel cheap.

Her feeling cheap isn't really about the fact the she gave you the pussy quick. You can go on many number of dates with her or give her excessive gifts... infact it doesn't matter how long she met you: she can know you for years but still feels cheap about giving you the pussy.


The reason she doesn't let you run your hands down in-between her legs is because the attempt triggers the psychologically barriers:" he just wants to Bleep me and use me for sex" OR "if I give him the pussy, he might think I'm cheap."

You're obviously doing well enough to press her without her reacting negatively. The reason why she allow you press her ass is because she likes you. But when you try to advance, her ego is saying, “It's wrong to allow him touch you that way, it makes you look cheap"

Women enjoy sex but they’re socially conditioned to pretend that they don’t for fear of appearing cheap.


Years back as a little kid, I saw this neighbor of ours coming home, carrying a bag ... just like what every little kids around the neighborhood would do, I ran up to him and helped him carry his bags...

I carried the bag to his house... As I drop the load to step out, he told me, "you can sit and relax a bit... don't be in a hurry to leave."

So I relax and sat on his sofa.

A minute later, he offered me some yummy snacks... But then I remembered my parents warned me never to collect things from strangers or else they are gonna flog the shit out of me.

I respectfully rejected the snacks... He insisted, "common, don't be shy, have a taste."

The snacks seems very delicious, even from the Aroma...I was tempted to taste but as he attempt to give me again it triggers my psychologically barriers that my parents install in my small mind: "collecting things from strangers is dangerous because you can be poisoned" and "if you collect things from strangers, dad is gonna flog the shit out of you."

So I respectfully declined the snacks again.

As he made attempt the third time trying to convince me to have a taste, I said innocently, "sorry Sir, my mum said I should not collect things from strangers."

He seemed confused by my statement, then he shot me a cold glance and said, "your mum said you shouldn't collect things from strangers, but she said you can enter a stranger's house and sit on his sofa."

That statement hit me like a straight bullet. I awkwardly stood up and left his house.

Just like you are confused that she lets you press her orange and ass, but then wouldn't let you fucc?"

Same with this Man. He seem confused that I can chill in his house and relax on his sofa but I can't eat the snacks he was offering me.

Yes, I respected him enough to help him carry his bag and I sat on his sofa...but I wasn't "comfortable" enough with the idea of eating the snacks.


Just like mum warn little me not take things from strangers...Her mum has probably warn her that if she gives up the pussy too easy, men will think she's cheap and not a wife material.

If you're concerned about getting the pussy, then you have to be more concern about her sexual comfortableness with you.

And this has nothing to do with game or being alpha. Using game or being alpha or showing toughness might make her feel sexual attraction for you...but that is totally different from the feelings of sexual comfortableness. Most guys don't understand this, and this is probably one of the reasons why they lose out on girls times without number even though these women seem attracted to them.

Few Years ago I was watching this dating game show on YouTube were 5 guys had to compete for the affection of an attractive lady (still trying to recall the name of the dating show).
The winner get to go home with the lady and he would also be given a cash gift.
The lady would interact with the guys, ask them certain questions and see their response... 3 guys were evicted... Only two guys were left.

The game got more intense and interesting.

The first guy seem like your proverbial smooth alpha tough guy. The second guy seem more like your normal carefree guy.

They put the men in certain situations with the lady just to see their response, reactions and general attitude.

They took them to a bar... She sat with the tough alpha guy to drink...the lady asked if he's an heavy drinker. He said he drinks but he often controls himself not to drink to stupor. He said he never allowed himself to over drink. The lady compliment him, she said, "Wow, that's cool."

She sat with the carefree normal guy. She asked if he's an heavy drinker... He laughed and said he used to be a heavy drinker..he then share story of times he got so drunk and literally fell into the gutter while going home. The lady found his story quite hilarious. Then he said after that day he has learned to caution himself to drink responsibly.

The tough alpha guy act like a perfect person who never mess up... But the normal guy isn't scared of showing his imperfections.


They took them to a swimming pool...
While in pool with the tough alpha guy, he was busy showing off his swimming skill and showing her how to swim like a pro. She seem impressed with him. She was like, "wow, that's awesome."

While in pool with the normal guy, he was busy whispering in her ear and telling her that she's free to pee in the water if she wants to...that nobody is gonna find out and he's discreet, so he's not gonna tell anyone about it. She laughed and playfully said, "you are crazy"

When it was finally time for the lady to choose... As expected, she said she was more attracted to the tough alpha guy. But then she said she chose to go home with the normal guy...

"Unbelievable! are you kidding me?" The judges exclaimed. The judges and observers were surprised that she didn't choose the alpha tough guy.

She said she doesn't even know why she prefers the normal dude.

Well, I was not surprised though... No one noticed that the normal guy build sexual comfortableness from his behavior and from the way he responded to her questions or statements.

She felt sexual attraction for the smooth tough Mr Alpha guy...but I guess she felt he was putting up a false-front. He went home alone that night.

...She felt sexual comfortableness for the normal guy... he seemed more genuine to her, so she felt safe about spending the night with him. He got the girl and won the cash gift.

When a lady is attracted to you but resisting your sexual advance, then maybe it's because she's not sure if you genuinely care about her.

When a woman feels that you genuinely care about her, that would naturally neutralize the psychologically barriers:" he just wants to Bleep me and use me for sex" OR "if I give him the pussy, he might think I'm cheap."

In case you don't know, real Playboys and Pimps genuinely love women... If you've hangout with Real Pimps and players, you'd understand what I'm talking about. And as a result women shower them with pussy.

The Legit playboy show genuine love differently from the way the nice guys show love .

The nice guy take it the wrong way. He think the way to show her he care is by saying it verbally, "Baby, I truly care about you, I love you." Or worse he think is by showering her with expensive gifts Or even worst he think is by doing things for her.

But he still lose the girl. That's because the girl doesn't value his nice caring act: she thinks he's only doing that so she can reward him with her sexual companionship.


Using that dating game show for example...
Remember while in pool with the tough alpha guy, he was showing her how to swim like a pro. She seem impressed with him. That seemed like he cared for her, but she didn't view it that way. She felt he was only doing that to impress her.

But the normal guy was busy whispering in her eye that she's free to pee in the water... that's he's discreet, so nobody is gonna find out.

Although she finds his statements wierd, silly and funny... But she automatically viewed him has someone who won't view her negatively if she actually pee in the water and he gonna be discreet about it i.e he won't tell anyone.

She view him as someone who won't judge her negatively like the way society would judge her.

In her shallow feminine mind, she interpreted that as "he genuinely cares about me,"

You might say, "well, that doesn't make sense." Yes! You are right, that's women for you. The way they think doesn't make sense that's why men are just confused and clueless about women.

In summary,

She would willingly give you the pussy when she feels that you got good intentions, you truly care about her and you won't judge her negatively if she show you her sexual side.