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I Am Really Confused by Star4lyf(m): 9:55am On May 18, 2023 |
Good day, my people. Pls I really need advice from u guys. I am 34 years plus, never been in a relationship. As a matter of fact, I am a virgin. Presently, there is a particular family in which the mother wants me to date her daughter. I just lost my job,I don't have much of cash presently, and going into a relationship now, I am really confused. The girl is really into me. I really don't know if I should accept this. I am just confused.Pls help me out. Modified Relationship kick-started.After like three days, She just told me last night that she loves me via a message.I have not even replied up till now.I am beginning to sense that I may lose my virginity soonest o. |
Re: I Am Really Confused by taylor88(m): 9:58am On May 18, 2023 |
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Re: I Am Really Confused by Draslo(m): 10:07am On May 18, 2023 |
Star4lyf:Your confusion will last for many years. Why? Because you don't have experience dating Nigerian girls. You need at least 5-7 years experience before you consider marriage 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Really Confused by advanceDNA: 10:09am On May 18, 2023 |
Star4lyf: Whats the cause of this ur panic? Is it ur lack of experience?? Or ur lack of job...u need money to pay her for agreeing to date you abi?? What if u have a job now..and u start dating and later lose the job.....u go kii yourself...?? Low self worth is worrying you.... women eat men like u for breakfast 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Really Confused by advanceDNA: 10:09am On May 18, 2023 |
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Re: I Am Really Confused by libertyfather(m): 10:09am On May 18, 2023 |
34 plus, hv never been in a relationship before so what u can't do for yourself someone now giving it to you for free no stress at all, you now come nairaland come dey stress urself.....see guy everybody get matter to fix this ur type I no understand walai 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Really Confused by SonofGod231: 10:17am On May 18, 2023 |
Guy,Leave that woman and her daughter and run to the nearest SEMINARY Convent....You no need person to tell you, you'll be useful to the faith. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Really Confused by blacksam01: 10:23am On May 18, 2023 |
Star4lyf: u shld try her out, but not before u sit her down nd explain the kinda person u are nd ur true financial position.... and also prepare ur mind sh will later dump u...thats if u dont piick up urself in 6-8 months....its normal eith ladies, they date for opportunities not for love..only men love 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Sonnobax15(m): 10:26am On May 18, 2023 |
![]() Being jobless and going into a relationship are two things that shouldn't be thought of ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Lvgirl: 10:27am On May 18, 2023 |
Star4lyf: My brother pls start with ashawo first 1k per round. That is where we great men all started from. They will teach you the basics. What do I mean. After smiling with you outside she will start shouting at u inside to do fast. Some will call u dog. It's all good , we all pass thru it. After u are done for like 3years then u can start dating secondary sch girls . This one's will teach you patience cos of too much drama. After this university girls , this one's will teach u how to spot a liar. This will happen after you have been.lied to several times. Then single mothers, this one comes with entitlement mentality. After all this process you will be qualified for married/dating Nigeria girls. After marriage please proceed to older women. This should happen after many years of marriage. They are the PENCOM of dating. A very sure and reliable retirement plan for every dude. I wish u all the best 8 Likes |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Star4lyf(m): 11:34am On May 18, 2023 |
advanceDNA:Not that I am having low self esteem,but I really don't know if the timing isn't right or because of my financial challenge. |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Star4lyf(m): 11:36am On May 18, 2023 |
Draslo:I really don't have experience,but I have been close to ladies.Anyways, what u said is a big blow o |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Star4lyf(m): 11:39am On May 18, 2023 |
blacksam01:Tanx very much.I will try dat.Thumbs up |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Draslo(m): 11:40am On May 18, 2023 |
Star4lyf:It's the truth. Experience matters 1 Like |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Star4lyf(m): 11:42am On May 18, 2023 |
Lvgirl:Na so experience dey be? Na suicide be dat. The one I dey fight against na to carry body go ashawo center. My caution for long na make ashowo no be the person wey go make me lose my virginity.That one go make person addicted to them. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Star4lyf(m): 11:43am On May 18, 2023 |
Sonnobax15:So what is your advice for me na? |
Re: I Am Really Confused by fyzaila: 12:08pm On May 18, 2023 |
Lvgirl: Which kind of nonsensical advice is this one? We are looking for ways to curb the moral decadence in the society this day. Here you're dishing out an advice to mar the situation. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Really Confused by fyzaila: 12:20pm On May 18, 2023 |
Star4lyf: See if the girl is really into you, please give it a chance and see how it goes. For the mother to approve her daughter to date means she is ok with you personality and character. Don’t let your financial issues stop you trying, infact you'll build natural love and bonding when you don't involve money spending and S3x. Just try it. Please don't listen to those saying go and explore first. There is nothing to explore there. And where is it written in the holy book that one must involve in premarital s3x before he/she can enjoy sexual life? All this things are natural and ordained from God to make marriage blissful and any couple who are sexually attracted to each other before marriage will know how to do anything. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Really Confused by advanceDNA: 12:53pm On May 18, 2023 |
Star4lyf: I asked u earlier...what if u have already started dating her before losing u your job....?? Does that mean u will break up immediately and call her back when u get another job again?? Dont carry the mentality that u must have plenty money to pay a woman to be in a relatiinship with you......its whats making u feel less than capable or insecure of going into a relatiinship now..... Una go dey put broke women wey no get anything untop high pedestal, making them feel u are not qualified to even talk to them because u dont have plenty money to pay.... Give it a chance first naaa..she go kii you because u are searching for another job?? Abi she ask for ur bank statement?? 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Really Confused by wisdomkid: 1:37pm On May 18, 2023 |
This may sound funny, but it's the truth. I know two guys who are virgins, one is 27yrs and the other, 30yrs old who have never kissed a girl. I can swear for one though. But my honest opinion, never rush into marriage because the mom and daughter sees you as good. What is their reason, focus and grow yourself first. Is she your spec? Do you see yourself settling down with her soonest? 1 Like |
Re: I Am Really Confused by eniolorunfe: 1:50pm On May 18, 2023 |
You should be more focused on sorting out your finances. The reason they’re into you is because they think you still have a job, don’t be deceived! 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Zigzagman: 1:53pm On May 18, 2023 |
Star4lyf: Baba, listen to this guy's story and you will figure out what to do. He was exactly in your situation. Thank me later https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sryz0jjIXlU 1 Like |
Re: I Am Really Confused by woginid967: 4:33pm On May 18, 2023 |
Star4lyf: Making money is simple sha, just know where the world is heading to and arrive there earlier. Get soft skills, buy a land, even if you make six figures, pls lieeee o... Lie to the lady and your folks that you make half of your actual Money, so that you can have peace and also you can see true colors. I feel you're an introvert, so you need extrovert friends. You need real nigggaaa friends who gat your back. They can arrange from SFS or codedrunnns for you and the lady will have mind-blowing sex with you to help your life. Dont date family friend daughter oooooo because it will Guilt trip you into marriage. Biko run from family friend daughter. Because no matter what goes wrong.... Na beggi beggi them go use manipulate you. If you were in delta state, i could have taken you to churches where you can straff female pastors, virgin sisters, and choir members till you're tired. You need to master the ways of women so you can create your own technique to manipulate the manipulators. Asides that, make sure any girl you sleep with or date is farr from your home location and not a mutual friend to any mutual person you may know. To avoid nonsense. For me i work remotely, so i am free to bleep women easily and since i drink lots of healthy herbal drinks, even secondary schools girls are still loyal to me years after gaining university admissions because i know how to out them to sleep after making their legs shake. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Star4lyf(m): 10:35pm On May 19, 2023 |
fyzaila:Tanx for this.I am really thinking starting a relationship with her without engaging in sex, or we leave sex for now,but maybe later. May God help me o.....But she desires sex in the relationship. According to what she told me. She even said that it's not all the time. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Star4lyf(m): 10:39pm On May 19, 2023 |
advanceDNA:It would be nice starting without money in mind.Let me see how it will go.I just hope she understands. |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Star4lyf(m): 10:40pm On May 19, 2023 |
Zigzagman:Tanx.I will check it out. |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Star4lyf(m): 10:43pm On May 19, 2023 |
woginid967:You have a point der.But I don't have the luxury of time to want to be bleeping around, so help me God. I don't have much years at my disposal.Let me just try her out. |
Re: I Am Really Confused by MechanicMike: 10:45pm On May 19, 2023 |
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Re: I Am Really Confused by Lifestone(m): 10:46pm On May 19, 2023 |
Sonnobax15:What if the new girl will bring him luck. He has nothing to lose. He should give that girl a trial. It's better for the girl to love the guy more as in this case. This is a window, grab it 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Really Confused by MechanicMike: 10:48pm On May 19, 2023 |
Star4lyf: Son..u want us to help u find puccccccci BECOZ u r confuse... correct? Ok we are confuse. are u confuse BECUZ u are confuse by confusing Yor sef confused by the whole confusion confusing confuse issue or u juss cofusely confused by confirmation to confuse sir?(no offenscce) ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Star4lyf(m): 10:51pm On May 19, 2023 |
wisdomkid:Not that I am rushing into marriage.It is just a relationship I have never been into.At least, relationship comes first before thinking of marriage when we both are compatible.If not, no marriage o |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Star4lyf(m): 10:53pm On May 19, 2023 |
eniolorunfe: Hmmmmmm. I will tell her how it is.If she wants to continue no problem. I am presently learning a course which I hope will help me financially in distance time. |
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