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Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by superCleanworks(m): 4:06pm On May 18, 2023 |
BeardedmeatR: i don't agree with you on the equivocation of how he regards his mother vs how he regards his inlaw. after God, my mother follows but if my mother inlaw CONSISTENTLY roams around my house and refuses to take all my subtle hints then I will spell it out for her. Will it sound nice or harsh? It is objective. But has my message been delivered? SURE. If I need her tomorrow and she refuses to honour my call because I drew boundaries, then that is her business. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by tolexy007(m): 4:07pm On May 18, 2023 |
u are disgusting and u lack manners. y dont u first tell ur wife to talk to her mum to reduce the way she always come to ur house? this is how u guys always bring issue to ur life unnecessarily. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by HAJJIMUKHTAR: 4:09pm On May 18, 2023 |
superCleanworks:I de ur side jor ... Unlike all the hypocrite above ..... |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Workch: 4:10pm On May 18, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:Mama should not be coming everyday. Mama should know that. Maybe once in a while. Some People like privacy. For me, I wouldn't have been a big deal depending on how close I am to mama, but if I don't really fancy mama. I will call my wife and make her understand why privacy is very important in a marriage. I won't even tell her in such a way that I don't want mama to be coming around. Everything na wisdom 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by SeriouslySense(m): 4:10pm On May 18, 2023 |
I keep wondering if i we should look at it from this perspective. His concern was very legit, but his approach was very very wrong amykutex: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by dfrost: 4:11pm On May 18, 2023 |
ALLNIGERIANSMAD: Some people matter eeh... |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Spanki(f): 4:12pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman: In wrapper or bump shorts😋😋😋 |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by QuantAnalyst: 4:12pm On May 18, 2023 |
Lol..I can't even talk to my wife in that manner let alone her mother. I wouldn't mind my mother in law living with us permanently, at least, that's an extra care for my kid. Different strokes for different folks. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by SeriouslySense(m): 4:13pm On May 18, 2023 |
true, i would not mind also, as long as they are not a burden (overly exerting) or very controlling. Sometimes people do not consider others, they always complain, lament, and demand QuantAnalyst: |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Workch: 4:15pm On May 18, 2023 |
QuantAnalyst:I swear, I no fit talk to my wife like that. This one is not matured enough to handle a family. He's plain dumb 4 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Godwin4444: 4:15pm On May 18, 2023 |
Workch:check his previous posts n u will know he’s one of those small boys wit useless fantasies He will learn d hardway 3 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Nobody: 4:16pm On May 18, 2023 |
GodPrince: Fixed. 5 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Nobody: 4:18pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman:U did very well |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:19pm On May 18, 2023 |
Workch: at last someone making some sense in this discussion!!!! as a parent, if my daughter has no problem with mama coming over and/or spending all day with her mother to go to market, then mama will come over as much as she desire (and if i am jobless then i will come over too)...now if husband has a problem with parents visiting, he will tell his wife and SHE will tell us to back off (which any sane parents would certainly do while checking them from afar). a husband coming to tell me to back off while my daughter is cool with me coming over, is a RED FLAG right there. |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by tosyne2much(m): 4:19pm On May 18, 2023 |
Good fight but poor delivery. The issue should have been addressed in a civil manner But why on earth will a MIL be parading her daughter's house incessantly in the first place? |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by New007: 4:19pm On May 18, 2023 |
Redpill in the dust! If validation is what you seek, you have completely missed it. Your wife set trap, you enter without sense. The moment she said she couldn't handle it, you would have tactfully developed a plan to at least suggest to your MIL that the visit was too much. You may need her at some point in life. TOMORROW IS PREGNANT. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by jeffsummers(m): 4:22pm On May 18, 2023 |
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Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by purples25(f): 4:23pm On May 18, 2023 |
If it was a man -'After my mother trained me for years, she should not enjoy her labour.' -'That witch (referring to wife). -'She is a stranger and I cannot leave my mother who is my blood.' -'Any woman that doesn't respect my mother, out!' Man's life is about getting his way at everyone else's expense, but being upset when others want things done in their own way. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Workch: 4:23pm On May 18, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:nope, it's not about your daughter. It's about both of them. If your daughter husband is not cool with it, your daughter got to understand. No be your daughter marry him, na him marry your Daughter. It's very okay to have the conversation with the wife and the wife needs to understand. If the wife doesn't understand then the house will be on fire. There's nothing wrong if mama comes once a month so she can give them breathing space to start a home and run it 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Nobody: 4:24pm On May 18, 2023 |
Maobichek: Then if you know you can never abuse your mother in law with such words, the bolded is meaningless and senseless, even if most men bought everything right up to the pads their wives uses, it does not give them the right to abuse their wives mother like that, that bolded is not an excuse, that is the bone of contention here. 4 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ivolt: 4:24pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman:You are engaging in silly quarrel and at the same time applauding yourself. Unless your mother-in-law is the type with no self-respect or their culture permits such insolence. you have permanently damaged the relationship between you and your in-laws, not only your mother-in-law. She will tell her other children and also the husband and they will all get the message that your house is a no go area. Now, you have two problems. First, if anyone from your family side comes for a visit no matter how brief, they will get a cold subtle treatment from your wife. Secondly, if there is any issue in the future that requires the cooperation of your in-laws, they won't take you seriously and neither will you feel comfortable in their midst. Some fights are not just worth it. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Workch: 4:25pm On May 18, 2023 |
Godwin4444:seriously hard way. There's never going to be any amount of apology that is going to totally amend this. E go still remain somehow for the mama mind until she dies, it's a permanent damage 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ZIMDRILL(m): 4:25pm On May 18, 2023 |
victorVIC1: when say accordingly, you mean according to how she visits? are you crazy |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by lomprico(m): 4:26pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman: You Bleep up! Why didn't you use her daughter to tell her? 2 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by SeriouslySense(m): 4:26pm On May 18, 2023 |
I am glad at least he apologized to her Mother. You should try as much as possible to encourage harmony across your family. Maybe you should ask yourself why you don't want Her mother always around, is it because you are a bit jealous, or you feel like it undermines your authority or you don't like her mum that much, or you just like being an introvert and you easily get suspicious of people. Or maybe she wont have time for sex as you would want, ask yourself are your reasons even reasonable in the long run Seriously i would not want my Wife talking like that to my mum, and i think its fair that i do not talk to her mum that way either. Respect should be reciprocated 2 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Workch: 4:27pm On May 18, 2023 |
Runnerzz:are you being sarcastic? 😂 |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by BigBen23(m): 4:28pm On May 18, 2023 |
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Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ivolt: 4:28pm On May 18, 2023 |
superCleanworks:Yeah, he put her in her place just like one will do to a shameless beggar who constantly harass people for alms. I know people like you who takes everything as a war. It doesn't end well. 2 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Nobody: 4:29pm On May 18, 2023 |
Jovialjune1:Wives do worse all the time it's not even news.. it's all over NL |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ledaman: 4:29pm On May 18, 2023 |
You messed up big time, you made mentioned that @ times, they do the house chores together. There are things done with later regrets. Imagine if your spouse should asked your dad or mum to stop coming to your house, how would you feel? You just concentrated on the Negative aspect without watching the positive aspect. You better go alone and apologize to her. 4 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Hassanmaye(m): 4:29pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman:Is she a single mum? |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by GodisFirst: 4:31pm On May 18, 2023 |
You messed up big time. You should have planned relocation to a bit far location to reduce her frequency. Soon you will need her and it will cost you much. 2 Likes |
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