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Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Workch: 4:31pm On May 18, 2023 |
ledaman:I can't even talk to my wife younger brother in that manner. Not to talk of my mother in law. This boy dey craze 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Sensiblerealist: 4:31pm On May 18, 2023 |
Unless you completely lack home training or you are just too proud and uncouth, you can't have told her in the manner you posted here. Yes, you want to put her in her place but Christ's sake, she's like your mother too an I'm sure you should not be able to talk to your mother like that thesilentman: 6 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by New007: 4:32pm On May 18, 2023 |
QuantAnalyst:Don't mind the guy. He got a good MIL others can only wish for. He just missed out on increased stability for his future kids. Truly, not every married man is wise. 5 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by GodisFirst: 4:32pm On May 18, 2023 |
You messed up big time. You should have planned relocation to a bit far location to reduce her frequency if you think close proximity was the cause. Soon you will need her and it will cost you much. 2 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by friendl: 4:33pm On May 18, 2023 |
That was kinda rude ,....you are lucky she is not the trouble some type ,... 2 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by sheldonbbt: 4:33pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman: If you truly said all that, then you are a very arrogant, foolish and stupid. 5 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:35pm On May 18, 2023 |
Workch: a husband need to explain this issue to his wife BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY she needs to understand it. there is absolutely nothing wrong with a parent living close by to come over and spend day with daughter rather than having be home alone all day long, NADA!!!! It's very okay to have the conversation with the wife and the wife needs to understand. If the wife doesn't understand then the house will be on fire. There's nothing wrong if mama comes once a month so she can give them breathing space to start a home and run it pls how can such discussion take place? what kind of yeye husband would tell his wife to stay home by herself all day long and not have the company of her mother, simply because husband doesnt want it? is husband not at work everyday? should wifey be alone because of some yeye state of mind of the husband? what so wrong if mother keeps daughter company during the day and they go to market together etc? i dont get it. 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ZIMDRILL(m): 4:36pm On May 18, 2023 |
Octopusssy: lets say he talks like that to his mother does it change the behaviour of the mother in law? Whether he said it nicely or not it would just backfire on him The mother in law should know better, does her own mother in laws visits her daily? Lets not be biased and also protected bad habits from elders |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by AliEzeOlu: 4:37pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman: You mean you said this to your children's grandma? Remember karma. Be prepared to get same treatment from your son/daughter-in-law. You fvcked up big time bro. Apologies to her wouldn't hurt one bit. At least you have told her already. I believe she won't continue such unwanted visits anymore. Get to apologize to her ASAP please. 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by SeriouslySense(m): 4:38pm On May 18, 2023 |
At least there should be some kind of balance to everything, husband may want to spend some time with wife and she should let her mother know. This should not even be an issue if everyone is matured. And it is nice to see family bond together, the last thing i would want to do, is diminish good family bonds. Even if it makes me feel a bit jealous. I would want what is good for others. I hope her mother is not going to be always alone. MrBrownJay1: |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Nobody: 4:39pm On May 18, 2023 |
Things dey happen oo. Normal for my area if you yarn dust to older people them go mend your running mouth. Now imagine wetin go happen if you yarn okpoto for your inlaw Them no use osuka reshape this one mouth at all. Mother in law self do too much, make we talk the other truth. 2 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by NwaliE01: 4:40pm On May 18, 2023 |
Probably because she's a poor woman. You can't dare look into my mom's face and tell her that. Money trully stop nonsense. You didn't do well at all. There are so many ways to solve this, but you choose violence. 3 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by superCleanworks(m): 4:40pm On May 18, 2023 |
ivolt: Mr knowington. i hope this knowledge is actually helping you if not you better spend time knowing your own self. |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by BeardedmeatR(m): 4:42pm On May 18, 2023 |
superCleanworks:The message was good but the delivery was poor. 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:43pm On May 18, 2023 |
SeriouslySense: sadly this dscussion is showing the nature of some people, that want to control everything, even what their wife should (or not) do when she is home alone during the day.... shiiit, in this day and age, i would rather my wife goes to the market in Nigeria with her mother than by her self. |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Diddycsbsb: 4:44pm On May 18, 2023 |
Guy I understand that poverty is really dealing with you.. since your mother inlaw is not troublesome why can't u allow the woman come in peace, nah marry you marry her daughter,she no sale em for you. Instead of you to come out plan and said you are tired of feeding your mother inlaw. 4 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by vikstandon(m): 4:44pm On May 18, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: Then you must do well to have your daughter... You must be incestuous. Keep your daughter with you if you can't let your in-law have his privacy. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by SaturnNick(m): 4:44pm On May 18, 2023 |
zeuss:You can never tell what she might be planning right now 2 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by superCleanworks(m): 4:45pm On May 18, 2023 |
BeardedmeatR: your point of view. you are seeing 6 while the next man is seeing 9. |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by PROPEACE: 4:45pm On May 18, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:Well, she should wait til her daughter gives birth before she can come to spend months. Many shameless mothers-in-law around. Men like OP are there to speak truth to her. 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Nobody: 4:46pm On May 18, 2023 |
G00DHardDick:I hope you all are also making adequate and effective measures to pack into his house and live with him as well. So you can run his home and marriage together. How you lot forget this is a virtual forum beats my imagination 6 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Nobody: 4:47pm On May 18, 2023 |
vikstandon: Dont mind that one make he continue dey mumu himself...I dey even suspect say na woman wey dey behind that account |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Workch: 4:48pm On May 18, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:there's nothing wrong if she doesn't do it everyday or every other day. Like I said, for me, it may not be an issue as long as the mother inlaw is not trying to dominate me in my house by changing some of my policies. That's the boundary for me. If it's about just coming everyday and gisting with your daughter and helping her do chores, I don't mind. But some people need more space, it's why mother inlaws also need to give their married children space. pls how can such discussion take place? what kind of yeye husband would tell his wife to stay home by herself all day long and not have the company of her mother, simply because husband doesnt want it? is husband not at work everyday? should wifey be alone because of some yeye state of mind of the husband? what so wrong if mother keeps daughter company during the day and they go to market together etc? i dont get it.you don't seem to be matured enough yourself to be in a marriage. In a marriage, you got to discuss everything and reach understanding. The wisest People in marriage know how to deliver discussions, they rethink it carefully before saying it. You seem to be so fixated in your own ideology and it will affect you if you take it to your marriage. Marriage is about live and let's live, even if sometimes it doesn't Favour you. Your husband has a right to contain the way your mother visits if she visits too frequently. It all depends on the way the husbands delivers it. Marriage is not for kids and overly reactive babies. |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:49pm On May 18, 2023 |
PROPEACE: many parents who also "waited" are now mourning their dead children, thanks to abusive husband etc.... you dont need no invitation to come check up on your married child, and if you aint secure that she is ok in her new marriage, go there as often as you need. 2 Likes |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:54pm On May 18, 2023 |
Workch: FAILED ISSUE #1 you think this has anything to do with control, while it aint you don't seem to be matured enough yourself to be in a marriage. FAILED ISSUE #2...why dont you answer the question... instead of bringing childish issues to this discussion. the kid is the person who want to dictate what their spouse should do all day while you are at work.... the kid is the insecure person who is so scared that MIL comes and goes to market with his wife everyday. i guess he'd rather she watches telemundo all day long by herself abi?! |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by vikstandon(m): 4:57pm On May 18, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: Is your mother a Nanny, unless I employed your mother as a Nanny... That's when I expect her to come everyday. If that's not the case, she has no business frequenting my house. The only reason why I would understand and even try as much as possible to bear with her, is if my wife is her only child and the husband is late. I could understand her loneliness... But we must get her a helper or companion. |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by mechanics(m): 4:58pm On May 18, 2023 |
Hmmmm, you should have just talked to her politely, and that's the disadvantage of one staying in the same town with inlaws. |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Wodu89: 4:59pm On May 18, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: Wise one man. Wise |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ORAFA(m): 4:59pm On May 18, 2023 |
The only wrong thing I think you did was the delivery. Otherwise you did well by taking charge of your home and putting an end to the incessant visits. However, if you choose to apologise, make you only apologise for the way you said it. The message should remain the same. Good luck and GOD'S wisdom. thesilentman: |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by Wodu89: 4:59pm On May 18, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: Brilliant |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by lalalista: 5:01pm On May 18, 2023 |
thesilentman:you're just a stupid small boy. That's what you get from marrying a small boy 1 Like |
Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by oluwatitus(m): 5:02pm On May 18, 2023 |
You allowed the anger in you to do the talking ...lol....you ought to have applied wisdom, especially when you are dealing with an elderly person. thesilentman: 1 Like |
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