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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Moniya4Real(m): 10:50pm On May 18, 2023
Very spot on bro. I almost went bankrupt by giving my ex-girlfriend money I don’t even have. I sometimes went out of my way to satisfy her financially, but found out she considers my efforts not being good enough. I almost kicked myself that I should have stopped earlier altogether. Guess what? She still left me , saying that I should use the little I have to manage myself. Now, the money isn’t even coming in again at all

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by isHArOn(f): 10:50pm On May 18, 2023
BrotherFolake:
😎

I wonder what Ladies would do if I'm the only man available on Earth 🌍

Maybe, they would Marry themselves or become Lesbians by force cry
thank universe you ain't the only man
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Bakrabas: 10:52pm On May 18, 2023
riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks grin

A lady who doesn't ask anything deserves everything unlike those with this WhatsApp status "God bless the guy behind my wallet"

Women are the source of life, I pray for the best among them as wife and as daughters

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Reminderz: 10:52pm On May 18, 2023
juwoonn:
I’m married for 9 years now... and we dated for 7 years prior to wedding. She was not asking for money then and she’s still not asking for money now. In fact, we pull resources together to do things.
she's not asking you directly because you still spend.. it doesn't change the narrative... it doesn't matter whether she's being vocal with it or not... try not to spend or do anything that involves money at home and see what I'm talking about...

and also, exceptions are not the rule...

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by kaybobo200: 10:52pm On May 18, 2023
Oloso spotted
Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Moniya4Real(m): 10:52pm On May 18, 2023
Means she is taking care of herself. But mind you, do try to give her money occasionally when you have without her asking. I think you should try study her very well if she suits your type of woman. Put the ring on it bro.


riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks grin

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:53pm On May 18, 2023
pocohantas:


No mind them. Some do not ask o. Then they will be shouting at the top of their voices of how they have never asked their guy for one Naira. I was once that stupid. May I never return to Egypt!! That is how they form good girl and end up with non-providers. grin grin

Babe, I can't imagine these ladies thinking not asking their men for money is a virtue. I'm not all for women being entitled to what their men own but the truth is, when a woman dates a man that provides, she just glows differently. A man who revels in his masculinity will automatically shine out the femininity in ANY woman. Any. Sometimes, when I read the banters amongst these men here who won't rest on this provision thingy, I'm just conflicted to understand if their motive is being driven by frustration or being broke or BOTH.

I have tasted the goodness and peace that a provider man brings and my conclusion is that I can't accept less if I were to have another. I have been there where I was in that so-called “understanding girlfriend” era and that can't be me again.

I wish the others goodluck. Cheers to the men who provide. 🥂

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Ferdinandu(m): 10:54pm On May 18, 2023
You never become a man till you realise the love women gives you is based on the value you provide. If you continue being a sisi looking for that elusive thing called love, the day the realisation will hit you, you may not ever be OK again

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by nedekid: 10:54pm On May 18, 2023
riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks grin
She fit de collect the money from ogas at the top while she keeps you for marraige levels. If you know you know. cool

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Moniya4Real(m): 10:55pm On May 18, 2023
Don’t know why they like putting unnecessary press on men fa? Pls, don’t let any woman push you into marriage if you are not ready o

Smartguyboy:
you are not a alone
Mine told me she will be 28 this year and she’s passing out from nysc next week.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:57pm On May 18, 2023
kenchop:
MY GEE , NO WOMAN EVER LOVES A MAN FOR FREE, THERE'S ALWAYS SOMETHING IN IT FOR THEM. HENCE WHEN THEY STOP GETTING OR SEEING THAT THING THEY QUICKLY GO ROUGE.


Can you love a woman for free? Can you love a woman unconditionally without any clause attached?

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by pocohantas(f): 10:57pm On May 18, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:


Babe, I can't imagine these ladies thinking not asking their men for money is a virtue. I'm not all for women being entitled to what their men own but the truth is, when a woman dates a man that provides, she just glows differently. A man who revels in his masculinity will automatically shine out the femininity in ANY woman. Any. Sometimes, when I read the banters amongst these men here who won't rest on this provision thingy, I'm just conflicted to understand if their motive is being driven by frustration or being broke or BOTH.

I have tasted the goodness and peace that a provider man brings and my conclusion is that I can't accept less if I were to have another. I have been there where I was in that so-called “good girl” era and that can't be me again.

I wish the others goodluck. Cheers to the men who provide. 🥂

They don't know. I tasted both and I will pick my man anytime. Based on my previous experience of not collecting or having headache to collect, I was defensive when I started with him. He would offer and I would reject _ virtuous woman isonu!!! He called me up one day and asked how old I am. Then he asked who is the man here. He said, "allow me..."

Omo! Na that day I know say men get different classes!

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by nedekid: 11:00pm On May 18, 2023
Quality20:
Since u in relationship ,why not put her on monthly stipend or any financial poverty alleviation measure
Is he her father?
Never put woman you have not married on any such expenses, rather place her on "transport" when ever you mulai her. Ie "take" for taxi, okada or Uber, according to the levels. cool

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Charmillionaire(m): 11:00pm On May 18, 2023
BrotherFolake:
😎

I wonder what Ladies would do if I'm the only man available on Earth 🌍

Maybe, they would Marry themselves or become Lesbians by force cry
Vanity and pride are different things, though the words are often used synonymously. A person may be proud without being vain. Pride relates more to our opinion of ourselves, vanity to what we would have others think of us.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Cassandraloius: 11:02pm On May 18, 2023
Women!
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Confirm4real(m): 11:03pm On May 18, 2023
You realized late to stop giving her money my friend grin
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:05pm On May 18, 2023
8stargeneral:
Exactly what mine told me...that as soon as she done with her nysc she want to surprise her parents with a man that she want put smiles on their face ....i was like are you for real,but am not ready for that,i now told her that if you see someone you can go ahead i don't want pressure please...Na so dey babe dey give attitude since then

I don't even understand why women will go into a relationship with a man who's not ready for marriage. I can't wrap my head around it. They date these men for years and later on when they think they are ready, these same men will never still be ready. As a woman in her mid-20s and above who is ready for marriage, what business do you have dating a man for years and without definition?

As an intentional woman, the least time you should spend dating a man is 6 months - 1 year (this is even an overkill). That is how you separate the weed from the chaff. Let them call you desperate, it’s okay. Except you aren’t very marriage-oriented and don’t mind dating for long, then disregard my advice.

Mr man, you are a time waster and I'll implore you to leave that woman alone for a man who is ready.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by jaxxy(m): 11:07pm On May 18, 2023
iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since thengrin Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.


Hungry ass girls everywhere. They ask for money religiously like they have no parents or family members and no job.

They have nothing valuable to offer than sex, bad attitude and cheating.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Nobody: 11:10pm On May 18, 2023
kenchop:
MY GEE , NO WOMAN EVER LOVES A MAN FOR FREE, THERE'S ALWAYS SOMETHING IN IT FOR THEM. HENCE WHEN THEY STOP GETTING OR SEEING THAT THING THEY QUICKLY GO ROUGE.

In not more than 50 words ( could be less) define LOVE.

Let's start from there first . 🧐
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by ISellBeer: 11:12pm On May 18, 2023
iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since thengrin Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.

Relationship is transactional
Even your wife knows that

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by isabi2lof: 11:13pm On May 18, 2023
But side chick fit dey chop your money

Dey play just dey play 🤣🤣

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by ikpumbe(m): 11:14pm On May 18, 2023
Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man
Many of you who have this greed are from extreme wretched family.
No level

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by poweredcom(m): 11:17pm On May 18, 2023
Moniya4Real:
Very spot on bro. I almost went bankrupt by giving my ex-girlfriend money I don’t even have. I sometimes went out of my way to satisfy her financially, but found out she considers my efforts not being good enough. I almost kicked myself that I should have stopped earlier altogether. Guess what? She still left me , saying that I should use the little I have to manage myself. Now, the money isn’t even coming in again at all

Your eyes don clear say no girl truly love you

Like i say it no woman truly loves a struggling man they all love what they wanna gain first

This is what we call money for hand back for ground

Shame to all of them , @strongalphmale always warn us against them una no de gree hear...bang dem and kick.dem.out

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by UjuJoan2: 11:17pm On May 18, 2023
iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since thengrin Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.


Just one question, did you stop asking her for sex?

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by pocohantas(f): 11:17pm On May 18, 2023
Merch:
When will your man marry you?

Except you have evidence that we are not married or we have plans of getting married, I would advise you keep shut and focus on what makes your life better.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by vickydevoka(m): 11:18pm On May 18, 2023
Keep2gether:
Women love money. Just know that.
Thank you. But it hinders many from getting married. Imagine a lady of 36 saying her boyfriend only gives her 20k a month. I told her I can't put a lady on salary
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by dreamxhaser: 11:21pm On May 18, 2023
riverbird:


🤔

Lwkm

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by pocohantas(f): 11:21pm On May 18, 2023
vickydevoka:

Thank you. But it hinders many from getting married. Imagine a lady of 36 saying her boyfriend only gives her 20k a month. I told her I can't put a lady on salary

How does it hinder them from getting married? Isn't it men spending on side-chicks? So you hate to marry the one that likes money, but you spend same money outside? Illogical gender.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Benjamin4388(m): 11:21pm On May 18, 2023
okoroemeka:
their is a proverb in igboland that says it is he who is carrying palm fronds the goats will follow,majority of goats anyway because I can't deny that I have been friends with girls that flatly refuse my money,some even giving me money instead
OG We be spec abeg...i cant relate to 90% of guy issues with our women...they are really beautiful when they like u

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by omoadeleye(m): 11:21pm On May 18, 2023
iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since thengrin Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.




Lol, i understand you
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by ibkayee(f): 11:22pm On May 18, 2023
Can Nigerian men stop acting like they have money! Which one is women can’t stay with a struggling man, most of you are struggling abeg, all these online millionaires, the statistics are saying a very different thing 😂

And these virtue tests are becoming boring, last last you will spend that money you’re ‘withholding’ on the woman who moves you to

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