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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:22pm On May 18, 2023
pocohantas:


They don't know. I tasted both and I will pick my man anytime. Based on my previous experience of not collecting or having headache to collect, I was defensive when I started with him. He would offer and I would reject _ virtuous woman isonu!!! He called me up one day and asked how old I am. Then he asked who is the man here. He said, "allow me..."

Omo! Na that day I know say men get different classes!

LMAO. grin. You been wan dey form good girl.

Jokes apart, it’s very orgasmic to have a man that understand your needs, is intuitive, knows when to do things without being asked , understands your pain points and provides optimally to the minutest, has no penchants for drama or its ilks, and is still committed. Tell me, Poco, what else can a woman ask for? Make I see woman wey wan snatch am na. tongue

It’s why I resorted to leaving these dusty and young boys who do nothing but wail and complain everyday like a goat in labour. At least, the old ones won’t stress me. Had enough of these adolescents in adults bodies. The older the berry, the better. My fellow enjoyment woman, I sight you. 🫱🏽‍🫲🏾

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by BeardedmeatR(m): 11:25pm On May 18, 2023
Jashub:
Women love men on the premise that they provide value , men on the other hand truly love women . Which is why as a man , never ever waste your resources chasing women , especially the ones flaunting on social media
@fronting on social media grin

Very disgusting set of girls on TikTok.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by 7arrows: 11:25pm On May 18, 2023
My brother 95% of niger babes are after what you can offer them. Relationship is transactional. But if u are doing well and still single they will put up with the best behavior in the world and u will say wow God sent me a wife. Behold all na acting.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Kittytom9909: 11:25pm On May 18, 2023
Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man

it seems your father made the first rant no doubts 🖐️🤚

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by bonnyhope: 11:25pm On May 18, 2023
iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since thengrin Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.


You no know before??
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by pocohantas(f): 11:26pm On May 18, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:


LMAO. grin. You been wan dey form good girl.

Jokes apart, it’s very orgasmic to have man that understand your needs, is intuitive, knows when to do things without being asked , understands your pain points and provides optimally to the minutest, has no penchants for drama or its ilks, and is still committed. Tell me, Poco, what else can a woman ask for? Make I see woman wey wan snatch am. tongue

It’s why I resorted to leaving these dusty and young boys who do nothing but wail and complain everyday like a goat in labour. At least, the old ones won’t stress me. Had enough of these adolescents in adults bodies. The older the berry, the better. My fellow enjoyment woman, I sight you. 🤜🏽

🍻🍻🍻🍻🍻
🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂

Cheers nne. We no kill person and the man isn't complaining. 🥰🥰🥰

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by stevo123(m): 11:27pm On May 18, 2023
iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since thengrin Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.



The only reason your girlfriend will be after your money is if you did not try to establish a business for her, or maybe she herself is just too lazy... Cuz I establish business for my girlfriend and she is working so hard, sometimes I pretend I don't have money and she will give me money, if I told her not to worry that I will be fine, she will tell me I establish the business for her so she can also assist me right? And so she will not be depending on only me. So I most take the money she is giving me... So my brother don't just be giving her money for materials things, rather try to establish for her, and if she refuse, then you will know she is not the right one for you

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by xamuel17(m): 11:28pm On May 18, 2023
Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man


says a broke girl

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Kittytom9909: 11:29pm On May 18, 2023
stevo123:



The only reason your girlfriend will be after your money is if you did not try to establish a business for her, or maybe she herself is just too lazy... Cuz I establish business for my girlfriend and she is working so hard, sometimes I pretend I don't have money and she will give me money, if I told her not to worry that I will be fine, she will tell me I establish the business for her so she can also assist me right? And so she will not be depending on only me. So I most take the money she is giving me... So my brother don't just be giving her money for materials things, rather try to establish for her, and if she refuse, then you will know she is not the right one for you

Typical girls like yours are one of a kind

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by MemoriesAndMe: 11:29pm On May 18, 2023
You're probably just one of her clients. You have decided not to give her money anymore and she's probably focusing on other clients that will continue what you just stopped. So, you are on the right track knowing where her head is earlier than other dudes she's milking.

Even some married women are like that - never satisfied with whatever they can get from their husbands and still looking for other men to extort. It's best you just dump those types and find a non-materialistic type.

Dealing with materialistic individuals potentially comes with some of these listed below and the earlier you notice the traits is the best time to keep them afar from you

1. Materialistic individuals may prioritize possessions and wealth over personal relationships.
2. They may be more likely to engage in superficial conversations and interactions.
3. They may be less empathetic or compassionate towards others.
4. Their focus on material possessions may lead to financial instability or debt.
5. They may be more prone to jealousy and possessiveness.
6. Their materialistic values may clash with one's own values and beliefs.
7. They may be less generous towards others and less likely to give to charity.
8. They may be more likely to judge others based on their possessions or appearance.
9. Their focus on material possessions may lead to an unfulfilling and unsatisfying life.
10. They may be more likely to engage in unethical behavior in order to acquire more wealth or possessions.
11. They may be less interested in personal growth and self-improvement.
12. They may prioritize material possessions over personal health and well-being.
13. They may be more likely to engage in conspicuous consumption and status-seeking behavior.
14. They may be less interested in experiences and adventures that do not involve material possessions.
15. They may be more likely to engage in dishonest or manipulative behavior in order to acquire material possessions.
16. They may be less likely to appreciate the simple pleasures in life.
17. Their focus on material possessions may lead to a shallow and unfulfilling personal life.
18. They may be more likely to engage in reckless spending and financial mismanagement.
19. They may be less likely to value personal connections and emotional intimacy.
20. They may be more prone to superficial and transactional relationships.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by 7arrows: 11:29pm On May 18, 2023
riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks grin

Yes she has covered the financial aspects with marriage but its temporal. Once una marry my guy u go see colour. All of them na same. Hustle ooooo

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by stevo123(m): 11:30pm On May 18, 2023
Kittytom9909:


Typical girls like yours are one of a kind

I don't joke with her oooo, I try all my best not to offend her, cuz her type is rare oooo

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by pocohantas(f): 11:31pm On May 18, 2023
ibkayee:
Can Nigerian men stop acting like they have money! Which one is women can’t stay with a struggling man, most of you are struggling abeg, all these online millionaires, the statistics are saying a very different thing 😂

And these virtue tests are becoming boring, last last you will spend that money you’re ‘withholding’ on the woman who moves you to

Gbam!!! There is always that woman they spend on. Then some women also have this feminine allure that makes men do things for them. Some others are so masculine, nothing for them.

My male friend once showed me a female comment saying man has never given her money. He said it is either she is ugly or the man no wan give am. grin grin

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by lustra89(m): 11:32pm On May 18, 2023
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by ibkayee(f): 11:32pm On May 18, 2023
pocohantas:


Gbam!!! There is always that woman they spend on. Then some women also have this feminine allure that makes men do things for them. Some others are so masculine, nothing for them.

My male friend once showed me a female comment saying man has never given her money. He said it is either she is ugly or the man no wam give am. grin grin
Lmaoo grin
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by ntwmesuui: 11:39pm On May 18, 2023
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by zanshi: 11:39pm On May 18, 2023
I have said it and would say it again

If as a 20something you are expecting romance from your avg naij girl you are better using an Olosho to gum body because not only would these babes starve you of emotions, they would make you question a lot of things and waste your resources. They are serial consumerist buy, buy, buy splurge and waste resources just to show you can.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by mrdipye(m): 11:43pm On May 18, 2023
Most ladies are like that

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by lollybizzu(m): 11:46pm On May 18, 2023
riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks grin

Na setup o grin
But she's wise.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Moniya4Real(m): 11:47pm On May 18, 2023
I can’t agree with you more bro. But truth be told… I showed the pu…sy no mercy , that’s the reason why she even decided to stay for that long cos she admitted that I am indeed good in bed. But I guess, she felt she needed big money more than good sex-lol. Besi, her previous ex-boyfriend she broke up with before she met me is a yahoo boy so, you can imagine

poweredcom:


Your eyes don clear say no girl truly love you

Like i say it no woman truly loves a struggling man they all love what they wanna gain first

This is what we call money for hand back for ground

Shame to all of them , @strongalphmale always warn us against them una no de gree hear...bang dem and kick.dem.out

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by SonofGod231: 11:50pm On May 18, 2023
I know every woman needs a man that can take care of them but she should try and show the world that she's self-sufficient and career oriented not self entitled to what a man works his ass off for...it ain't cool...I'm currently stocked with a jobless soul,I provide every gat damn thing she needs, uses and eats.
I do every gat damn thing for her so tey now she dey call me "DADDY! And I was like which one be Daddy?! She say yesssss ooohh,I be her papa,her mama and her every thing....I realized I'm doing more than her Father does for her....5months now and counting if her status doesn't change before July I will just discard her and move along.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Workch: 11:50pm On May 18, 2023
DaudaTheSexyGuy:
This is the reason why I date only married women.

I don't have the time for stress from single ladies grin
you go soon collect
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by pocohantas(f): 11:51pm On May 18, 2023
SonofGod231:
Every woman needs a man that can take care of them but she should try and show the world that she's self-sufficient and career oriented not self entitled to what a man work his ass off for...it ain't cool...I'm currently stocked with a jobless soul,I provide every gat damn thing she needs, uses and eats.
I do every gat damn thing for her so tey now she dey call me "DADDY! And I was like which one be Daddy?! She say yesssss ooohh,I be her papa,her mama and her every thing....I realized I'm doing more than her Father does for her....5months now and counting if her status doesn't change before July I will just discard her and move along.

Hahahahahaahaha. This one off me.
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by SonofGod231: 11:53pm On May 18, 2023
pocohantas:


Hahahahahaahaha. This one off me.
Honestly!!
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by zanshi: 11:55pm On May 18, 2023
Sniper101:
these leeches and money sha

Just three days ago
I had to ask one to dress up and get d'fvck outta my house by around 8pm.

REASON.
We were right in the middle of the act and bitch said... "I told you I had a lot going on in my mind and therefore my mind isn't settled. You didn't say anything about it. All you could think of is to make love to me".

Omó, I had to get down
Ask her to get dressed and get d'fvck out.


NB: asking for money DURING sex is a very huge turn off for me.


A lot of men are slently opting out for this relationship/marriage thingy them go just tire you most nibbas who enter it are literally a shadow of themselves.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by MoneyMustBMade(m): 11:55pm On May 18, 2023
frozen70:


There is a great difference between dating a girl and dating a woman

One is inexperience and not really matured to understand that loving a man is different from making him her 🏧, she doesn't want to understand that you struggle to make money and you are not expected to spend it anyhow

The other is very matured and understanding
Knows that loving a man is not making him her 🏧 but loving him for who he is
She equally struggles to get or make money and depends less on him

You're right
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by MoneyMustBMade(m): 11:59pm On May 18, 2023
pocohantas:
Every woman loves a provider male. This includes women that work so hard to pay their own bills.

The only woman that thinks she doesn't love or want a provider is one who hasn't tasted a provider male. A man in touch with his masculinity. A man that knows what to do and when to do it. You don't need to ask him or talk too much. The day she experiences one, she would know independent woman dey suffer.

You can't be hyped about a non-provider.
It is what it is...


So independent men they enjoy?
See reasoning

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by KingMack(m): 12:07am On May 19, 2023
Kasdat5:


E be like sey na twins we be for this matter .


My triplets brothers where have you guys been 😔

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by deavicky(m): 12:07am On May 19, 2023
riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks grin
she can't be asking for the two at once.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by endy69: 12:07am On May 19, 2023
All men for their own. I force my GF to take money from me honestly and she's the most caring GF. My other babes na always on billing, like this now, I don find wife

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by pendragonbladgo(m): 12:10am On May 19, 2023
Samething with me, this girl start insulting me cause I demanded for sex, she refuse and I stop giving her money. I need care as she need too.

All she want is for me to be providing for her schooling, then she will be going to meet her boy friend for sex and me ATM.

Girls of now a days wants Favour as if am United Nations

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