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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Flawless18: 7:20am On May 19, 2023
Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man.

Just say you don’t have money we’ll understand.

Broke wretched men everywhere!!! Shior!!
coming from a wrenched lady whose dad is an okada rider 😜

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by mordred44: 7:20am On May 19, 2023
riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks grin
e get why.... Just dey play 4 now
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by MrDoGood(m): 7:22am On May 19, 2023
Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man.

Just say you don’t have money we’ll understand.

Broke wretched men everywhere!!! Shior!!

You're already into sugar daddy, the post is not for people like you. You're gone!

Otilo
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Offwarp: 7:24am On May 19, 2023
frozen70:


There is a great difference between dating a girl and dating a woman

One is inexperience and not really matured to understand that loving a man is different from making him her 🏧, she doesn't want to understand that you struggle to make money and you are not expected to spend it anyhow

The other is very matured and understanding
Knows that loving a man is not making him her 🏧 but loving him for who he is
She equally struggles to get or make money and depends less on him

See matured answer from a matured girl. See, if u don't marry a loving caring husband that means there is no God. Aswear, ir ans is the best of best for the OP. Moreover, na ur type we dey always should 'good girls are scarce '
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by MrDoGood(m): 7:24am On May 19, 2023
iInjureHerYansh:
Seems like comprehension is a really difficult thing for you or you are the hasty type that don't pay attention but just jump into conclusion. Where did I generalize?
Is majority same as all?
Sounding like you are dating one of those nairaland evening newspapers. Trying to defend women unnecessarily to impress her?
lol

Leave that man alone. He's gone
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by vince96w2(m): 7:26am On May 19, 2023
riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks grin
that's the settlement she wants na..it's either they have been heart broken so much that they wanna settle down or they want to use you to solve their family problem..

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by vince96w2(m): 7:27am On May 19, 2023
Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man.

Just say you don’t have money we’ll understand.

Broke wretched men everywhere!!! Shior!!
says a broke woman..Nigerian girls are always lazy and entitled..go make your own money

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Flawless18: 7:28am On May 19, 2023
Saintinoo:


Imagine a Nigeria girl telling me that if she doesn't ask me for money, is it her father she will ask. I told her she is her father's responsibility.

Just imagine Nigeria girls mentality. It’s because her father is a poor vulcanizer who has failed to take care of a nuisance he brought to this world 😕


Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by 77up(m): 7:29am On May 19, 2023
riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks grin
set up shocked
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Offwarp: 7:32am On May 19, 2023
OBTOREPA:

I would've loved to see your pic. You speak smart.

Funny enough she fit no fine at all because E b like say most girls wey no too fine dey always get sense pass the one wey fine..... For Africa......Fine girls = empty brain.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by ItisWell22(f): 7:36am On May 19, 2023
thesilentman:

BRO...the reality is that love is not enough and will never be.Being a provider is one of the most attractive quality in a man.


Don’t forget to apologize to your MIL shaa… 🥱
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by folks4luv(f): 7:37am On May 19, 2023
You won't be suprised if you understand the law of value. You have been giving her money right from start yea? Your value to her has been tied to money. Once you stop giving her money, what will keep her will be other valuable things she is getting, in this case, nothing.

It happens when a girl suddenly stops having sex with a guy too. If sex is the value he is getting, hardly will a guy stay if the value is off the table. But if the value he is getting is more than sex, he'd still want to soldier on.
This is not a gender thing, understand value

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Flawless18: 7:38am On May 19, 2023
kunle75:



Am with you on this,few days go I told my white girlfriend to pay for the food she ordered for herself and she said am been mean and inconsiderate, that she is disappointed.
I said she should wait till she would see the real meaning of disappointment.
2days later she texted me for a ride to work l, didn't respond untill few mins to her going to work that am out of town she should arrange for an alternative.
Meanwhile I know for sure she will be super late catching public /metro bus to work,she is still super mad at me now but who cares.
a whole trailer of Heineken for you comrade 👊

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Entanglement: 7:43am On May 19, 2023
frozen70:


There is a great difference between dating a girl and dating a woman

One is inexperience and not really matured to understand that loving a man is different from making him her 🏧, she doesn't want to understand that you struggle to make money and you are not expected to spend it anyhow

The other is very matured and understanding
Knows that loving a man is not making him her 🏧 but loving him for who he is
She equally struggles to get or make money and depends less on him
in naija there's no difference in dating a girl or a woman! angry
Both of them are mentally deluded

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by sukkot: 7:45am On May 19, 2023
Like my nigga black eye peas said ' where is the love ' cry

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by TsbAfrica: 7:46am On May 19, 2023
Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man.

Just say you don’t have money we’ll understand.

Broke wretched men everywhere!!! Shior!!
you are having clear DADDY issues ... Haha that man really warped you beyond redemption. Well with your mindset, you can bet the only men that will find interest in you will just fall in and fall out ... So keep the energy. I'll check back in 20 years when you will be lonely old woman or a single mother raising kids with similar daddy issues to yours. The cycle continues!

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Flawless18: 7:46am On May 19, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:


Babe, I can't imagine these ladies thinking not asking their men for money is a virtue. I'm not all for women being entitled to what their men own but the truth is, when a woman dates a man that provides, she just glows differently. A man who revels in his masculinity will automatically shine out the femininity in ANY woman. Any. Sometimes, when I read the banters amongst these men here who won't rest on this provision thingy, I'm just conflicted to understand if their motive is being driven by frustration or being broke or BOTH.

I have tasted the goodness and peace that a provider man brings and my conclusion is that I can't accept less if I were to have another. I have been there where I was in that so-called “good girl” era and that can't be me again.

I wish the others goodluck. Cheers to the men who provide. 🥂
so I should be working for another human to glow while I wrinkle right 🤷 A man dies at 55yrs and his wife die at 95yrs enjoying all what the man toiled for and enjoy alone what the children brings later in life after the man must have paid school fees and all. E be like say werey Dey your brain. Anyways, as a man, if like work all your ass off to impress a woman shogbo, don’t enjoy your life with your money. E go clear for your eyes

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by imam07: 7:48am On May 19, 2023
Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man.

Just say you don’t have money we’ll understand.

Broke wretched men everywhere!!! Shior!!
I just discovered another gold digger. I hail u oo
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by badmuskamal(m): 7:49am On May 19, 2023
I concur on this this
[Iquote author=frozen70 post=123181496]

There is a great difference between dating a girl and dating a woman

One is inexperience and not really matured to understand that loving a man is different from making him her 🏧, she doesn't want to understand that you struggle to make money and you are not expected to spend it anyhow

The other is very matured and understanding
Knows that loving a man is not making him her 🏧 but loving him for who he is
She equally struggles to get or make money and depends less on him [/quote]
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by tbliss22(m): 7:50am On May 19, 2023
Jashub:
Women love men on the premise that they provide value , men on the other hand truly love women . Which is why as a man , never ever waste your resources chasing women , especially the ones flaunting on social media

Your last statement... "Especially the ones flaunting on social media"
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by cliqtips: 7:50am On May 19, 2023
riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks grin

Put a ring on it first and see her tell you history of how she's not been asking you for money or any financial assistance since you guys started dating.
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by 00FFT00(m): 7:51am On May 19, 2023
Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man.

Just say you don’t have money we’ll understand.

Broke wretched men everywhere!!! Shior!!

Including your papa

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Bfly: 7:52am On May 19, 2023
The rich simps spoiled the girls.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Paretomaster1(m): 7:52am On May 19, 2023
riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks grin

You are her long term investment... Just marry her first.
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by safarilove(m): 8:00am On May 19, 2023
Normal things..some reasonable ones still exist though
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by freshkpomo(m): 8:02am On May 19, 2023
frozen70:


There is a great difference between dating a girl and dating a woman


As rich as Aisha buhari, she can still deny buhari za oza room because he refuse to got her bills or pay for her to go on a particular trip. it's an African thing for women to depend on men, but it's good because it reduces the level if divorce. If women are the providers or too if the food chain, most marriages won't last two weeks, that's why our boys will continue to scam white women because their law favours women which makes them jump in and out of marriages as they like till they get hooked by an on-line scammer.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Chetas81(m): 8:08am On May 19, 2023
Keep2gether:
Women love money. Just know that.
liability shouldn't be first priority
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by INVINCIBLECSP1(m): 8:10am On May 19, 2023
iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since thengrin Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.

Is alright. But why must you injure her yansh
🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Abeg don't tamper with that her selling point else her market don finish be that.
🙃🙃🙃
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by sunkieisland(m): 8:11am On May 19, 2023
Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man.

Just say you don’t have money we’ll understand.

Broke wretched men everywhere!!! Shior!!
The lesson from the OP's posts is that if a richer guy shows up for the babe, she will move. It shows that some ladies will always go after the bigger bag
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Chemlite: 8:11am On May 19, 2023
Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man.

Just say you don’t have money we’ll understand.

Broke wretched men everywhere!!! Shior!!

Well to do woman be contented, while you tell your broke0s colleagues to double their huddle.
Thank you.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by kingmsookwagh(m): 8:11am On May 19, 2023
riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks grin
A desperately single girl is the worse that can happen to you. Run o!!!!! She is looking at her own time click and nothing else.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by kingmsookwagh(m): 8:12am On May 19, 2023
Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man.

Just say you don’t have money we’ll understand.

Broke wretched men everywhere!!! Shior!!
golddi**er don drop quote...

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