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Re: I Am Really Confused by pansophist(m): 11:22pm On May 19, 2023 |
The pain of regret is far far Far worse than the pain of failure. If you like her, then make the move. If she rejects you, then fine, you move on. If you like her, then start a rapport with her. The family that wanted you to date their daughter must have consider you a good man, but you judge yourself far harshly than the world judges you. You should take a leap of faith to believe that her mother should have done the persuasion in her own side, and she probably might be expecting your shot. Having said that, don't let your insecurities stop you. She is insecure as well, like everyone one of us, and it is always like this, when we love someone, they become our judge, like a Messiah to a sinner. The feminine ideal is the mirror men use to structure and restructure themselves. So how you feel is completely natural, it shows you have a good head on your shoulder. Having said that, start by initiating conversations, then upgrade to periodical meetups, then to frequent hangouts. If she respond affirmatively as you push things further, then it's a good sign. So keep pushing until it becomes mutually understood that what you guys have is above just friendship. Make sure you have your own place, no matter how small. And invite her there. You're in your 30's, you must know even before inviting her to know your place that she likes you. Animals know who likes them, what more you? In anyways, don't let your insecurities and fear hinder you. You're a virgin after all, what more can you loose? Besides, you're the one that know if you're a looser or not, to her, you might just be a hero who treated her better than other men. And if she have sense, which I hope, then she should know that a good man is not something material, but something immaterial, and if you are hardworking, things can always change for the good. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Karleb(m): 11:30pm On May 19, 2023 |
Bro OP, if you don't make your moves, a worse guy that do not cherish the girl might end up with her. Watch 3 idiots for inspiration. Do your best to fix your finance too. Godspeed Idan! ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Really Confused by moski5(m): 9:14am On May 20, 2023 |
Star4lyf:does she know about the financial challenge |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Star4lyf(m): 10:05pm On May 20, 2023 |
moski5:Yeah, she knows |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Star4lyf(m): 10:06pm On May 20, 2023 |
moski5: Yeah, she knows |
Re: I Am Really Confused by moski5(m): 7:57am On May 21, 2023 |
Star4lyf:I suggest you take a leap of faith 1 Like |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Dyfynezz12(m): 11:38am On May 21, 2023 |
Star4lyf:My confusion is how u are a virgin at 34 Were u living in mars all this while? Pls tell me how u did it 1 Like |
Re: I Am Really Confused by okoroemeka(m): 12:41pm On May 21, 2023 |
Star4lyf:I still don't want to believe that I read 34 yrs and still a virgin,how by the holy tits of Virgin Mary do you even manage to accomplish that feat,I am still trying to wrap my head around this story,it sounds so fantastic that I am also confused 1 Like |
Re: I Am Really Confused by KingClown(m): 1:22pm On May 21, 2023 |
Lvgirl: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Funniest thing I've read this year 1 Like |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Star4lyf(m): 4:55am On May 22, 2023 |
okoroemeka:That is just the way it is.And I have help positions like President(CDS), Music Director(NCCF) during my NYSC year. Still I am baffled that i still be Virgin till now. I dey sense say I go still lose my virginity to this my new relationship. Imagine,she just sent me a message last night dat she loves me.I shock wen I see dat one o.I never reply till now. |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Star4lyf(m): 4:58am On May 22, 2023 |
Dyfynezz12: It's really a long one sha o. I dreaded going to visit ladies especially the ones I know will want to... From my university years to my NYSC year even till now. It's not been easy. My new girlfriend, I dey sense, won make me lose am o |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Star4lyf(m): 5:00am On May 22, 2023 |
moski5:She does o. She even told me God will give me a better one. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Star4lyf(m): 5:06am On May 22, 2023 |
pansophist: We have started talking o.Even last night,she told me she loves me cos a message.E shock me that I could not even respond till now. Anyway, I know she has been into me for a long time.The mum and the sister told me. |
Re: I Am Really Confused by pansophist(m): 8:59am On May 22, 2023 |
Star4lyf: You see am. I told you to ignore your fears and shoot. Rejection will not kill you but you see regret, that one will eat and destroy your soul. In anything you do in life, always choose rejection over regret. I hope this last. I wish you guys all the best. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Starboytwo(m): 9:57am On May 22, 2023 |
Pls remain a virgin pls, at 34 we need men like you. You are even Nccf president, pls sir, man of God, practice what you preach. Say No to pre marital sex. |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Dyfynezz12(m): 3:26pm On May 22, 2023 |
Star4lyf:If u really want to start girls matter now u fit see shege o šš¤£ |
Re: I Am Really Confused by moski5(m): 9:50pm On May 22, 2023 |
Star4lyf:she sounds like a keeper 1 Like |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Star4lyf(m): 10:17pm On May 22, 2023 |
pansophist:Amen! Tanx a million. |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Star4lyf(m): 10:20pm On May 22, 2023 |
Starboytwo:Not NCCF president o, but a president for my CDS and Music Director for NCCF o |
Re: I Am Really Confused by Star4lyf(m): 10:21pm On May 22, 2023 |
moski5:I believe she is.But time will tell 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Really Confused by frozen70(f): 2:37am On May 23, 2023 |
Star4lyf: For how long do you intend to keep your virginity Besides you can still be friends without sex, it all depends on you You are a virgin and wants to go into a relationship with a non virgin Can you deal with it As in no sex relationship Will she accept it Well because you need a job, you can maintain a no sex relationship while you find your bearing If pregnancy occurs you must definitely be a bye force Dad 1 Like |
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