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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by isabi2lof: 3:43pm On May 24, 2023
No matter the matter , I will marry right and enjoy my marriage 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Some men are just selfish and wicked , just last week , they wanted to skin saint obi ex wife alive ., Saying all kinds of gibberish.

Here's something similar, you won't see them just because it's a woman that's suffering in this particular marriage.

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Paramount01(m): 3:43pm On May 24, 2023
Jennyclay:
MONEY
SEX
LOVE
ATTENTION.

If a man can’t give me enough of these 4 things I listed above in my marriage, I’ll gladly divorce him.

BTW, the lady should be happy that the ERROR called marriage has ended. A better man who would appreciate and respect her career must surely locate her.


You are of which age bracket?

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by zoghys: 3:44pm On May 24, 2023
nlfpmod:
As shared by Vashti Vash Offo:



https://twitter.com/Vash_Offo/status/1660702453648465927?t=iG_-zSFySZJMgg1RI7BOoA&s=08

You have a big problem. So much hate is killing you softly and you let it consume your life like a paper on a burner. Your write up is full of lies and deceit that been for every story there are always two sides to it. Some ladies don't deserve to marry and same goes to men, so stop foolishly putting every marital problem on the doorstep of the man, it's ridiculous. Check yourself before you wreck yourself, you are sounding like a broken record and it ain't pretty.

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Kobojunkie: 3:44pm On May 24, 2023
HaneefahRN:
It is the same women. When they say women are the enemies of women. We need to do better
Indeed! You only need how some women raise their sons differently from their daughters, and then they turn around and wonder why their own daughters end up with equally sad examples for husbands. undecided

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by UptownVibes(m): 3:45pm On May 24, 2023
Abeg e.. When they started were you there with them? Along the line,do you know what happened between the both of them? Did you hear from the man to know why he did what he did? Because she is your frd,you are letting emotions cover your reasoning.. She might have told you the truth,but there is still possibility that she lied about some things.. Try and hear from her husband first,so that you can balance your judgment. Meanwhile, I feel men aren't divorcing wives enough.. Because in this part of the world,once a man is married, his peace of mind is gone.. That is why you see them die early,while their wives takes over everything..

BetterDaysAhead

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Kinehap: 3:46pm On May 24, 2023
Jennyclay:
MONEY
SEX
LOVE
ATTENTION.

If a man can’t give me enough of these 4 things I listed above in my marriage, I’ll gladly divorce him.

BTW, the lady should be happy that the ERROR called marriage has ended. A better man who would appreciate and respect her career must surely locate her.

Thief, get ready to remain single

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Kobojunkie: 3:46pm On May 24, 2023
cococandy:
■ Lol they are polygamous in nature and women must submit. That’s what the Bible says. Don’t bring that western nonsense of asking men to respect their wives. We are Africans and we hate woke.

Umm what else is missing? I believe I covered the talking points
Let's please leave the bible which instead states submission was, in fact, a curse on marriage out of this brain damage abeg! Don't wake them up abeg! grin
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by xevove2061: 3:46pm On May 24, 2023
Jennyclay:
MONEY
SEX
LOVE
ATTENTION.

If a man can’t give me enough of these 4 things I listed above in my marriage, I’ll gladly divorce him.

BTW, the lady should be happy that the ERROR called marriage has ended. A better man who would appreciate and respect her career must surely locate her.

What do yiu have ti give the man?
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Boldtrust(m): 3:47pm On May 24, 2023
iammo:


You talk as if the man isn't tolerating her bad behaviors too or she's perfect

From the story up there am sure the man has several reasons for his actions, and he is the only one in best position to throw more light

A story of a woman narrated by a woman. Trust me, there are more loopholes in this story than the potholes on the entire Nigerian road network.

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by patomalabosan(m): 3:47pm On May 24, 2023
Only an unwise person will reach a decision or judgement without hearing from the other side of the story.

We may not be aware what led to the man's overwhelming insecurity in the marriage. The poster noted that the lady before marriage was a life of the party... that might be it!

So, until I hear from the man, parties should maintain status quo and do whatever make them happy without committing sin/crime.

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by shegzhkn: 3:47pm On May 24, 2023
foleskay:
grin
Divorce is not an African culture.

All these eye feminists trying to change the narrative sef. You can't force ur warp ideology on we Africans. Carry ur divorce go Europe and US.
Pukes, of course not. poverty is africa unalienable right so divorce is a no-no.
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Adranidoo(m): 3:48pm On May 24, 2023
Jennyclay:
MONEY
SEX
LOVE
ATTENTION.

If a man can’t give me enough of these 4 things I listed above in my marriage, I’ll gladly divorce him.

BTW, the lady should be happy that the ERROR called marriage has ended. A better man who would appreciate and respect her career must surely locate her.
And what will u give the man in return if he provides all this things for u.

Chai

Men don suffer

MEN WILL NEVER LEARN,WOMEN WILL NEVER CHANGE

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Kobojunkie: 3:48pm On May 24, 2023
UptownVibes:
Abeg e.. When they started were you there with them? Along the line,do you know what happened between the both of them? Did you hear from the man to know why he did what he did? Because she is your frd,you are letting emotions cover your reasoning.. She might have told you the truth,but there is still possibility that she lied about some things.. Try and hear from her husband first,so that you can balance your judgment. Meanwhile, I feel men aren't divorcing wives enough.. Because in this part of the world,once a man is married, his peace of mind is gone.. That is why you see them die early,while their wives takes over everything..

BetterDaysAhead
So, you are thinking that something happened that would rationally cause a man to subdue his wife, reducing her to living in her own marriage as though a slave, in the way described in the OP? undecided

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by NaijaCowFarm: 3:49pm On May 24, 2023
Problem is that the men do not want to get married, but women keep pushing them into it. They initiate marriages and later cry wolf.

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Mrfeel: 3:49pm On May 24, 2023
Jennyclay:
MONEY
SEX
LOVE
ATTENTION.

If a man can’t give me enough of these 4 things I listed above in my marriage, I’ll gladly divorce him.

BTW, the lady should be happy that the ERROR called marriage has ended. A better man who would appreciate and respect her career must surely locate her.
There is no need for you to marry in the first place , get your own money , find your own love , and you will get the attention you need

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by sonnie10: 3:49pm On May 24, 2023
pocohantas:


Look at Annie's hairline.
Even the late Osinachi. lipsrsealed

You might be far from the truth. But age, hormonal changes and previous styles of hair do is the main culprit not men. Baby hairline is for babies.

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Kinehap: 3:49pm On May 24, 2023
Rubbish

If you can't work your marriage out you want others to divorce and be like you. Tommorow you will still look for a man to satisfy you.

If you are divorcing, avoid anything men.

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by drdeath: 3:49pm On May 24, 2023
Jennyclay:
MONEY
SEX
LOVE
ATTENTION.

If a man can’t give me enough of these 4 things I listed above in my marriage, I’ll gladly divorce him.

BTW, the lady should be happy that the ERROR called marriage has ended. A better man who would appreciate and respect her career must surely locate her.
You are already an old woman.
Continue consoling yourself.
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Obrigardo: 3:49pm On May 24, 2023
iammo:
Divorce is never the solution, marriage is not meant to be perfect

Why are people this dumb that it hurts?

So if the woman keeps gets getting STDS because the husband keeps sleeping around, she should remain dumb and keep getting slammed. You are so dumb, i feel like slapping your teeth out.

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Maga123: 3:49pm On May 24, 2023
A man will leave his father's house and a woman will leave her father to become one
Marriage is not for children.court/date a man well enough to know weather he still behaves like a kid
Devorce is never the way out
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by almarthins(m): 3:49pm On May 24, 2023
Jennyclay:
MONEY
SEX
LOVE
ATTENTION.

If a man can’t give me enough of these 4 things I listed above in my marriage, I’ll gladly divorce him.

BTW, the lady should be happy that the ERROR called marriage has ended. A better man who would appreciate and respect her career must surely locate her.


Work for Ur own money. And don't depend on a man for it.

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by OdefaGirl(f): 3:49pm On May 24, 2023
This is the main reason.... Nigerian men are "presumably" ill treated abroad.
You can't tell me otherwise....

When our women crosses over, they see a system that will judge them less and they have something doing to sustain them... Including their safety is a bit assured.

Is it not most of our young men that devalue women here on Nairaland on a daily basis.

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Kobojunkie: 3:49pm On May 24, 2023
NaijaCowFarm:
■ Problem is that the men do not want to get married, but women keep pushing them into it. They initiate marriages and later cry wolf.
Are the men imbe_ciles that they would let themselves be pushed into something that they don't want? undecided
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Paramount01(m): 3:49pm On May 24, 2023
bukatyne:


Let's take the men's behaviors at face value:

What would make husband 1 an enemy of progress with the intent to ruin her career? He saw teachers who would be home every night, he did not marry; instead he went for a doctor.

What would make husband 2 a septic tank always giving his wife STDs like he is their chief distributor in Nigeria?

I would like to hear your justifications for their actions.



What have been the discussion befofr marriage?
Did yiu knwo if the lady in question agree to stay at home before marraiage

If lady needs mariagr,they act like angel ,do all the undoable, ask them what work did u want me to be doing fir you at home,she will say nothing i can do everything but after marriage that is when she will realize sfe js not your slave

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Nobody: 3:49pm On May 24, 2023
patomalabosan:
Only an unwise person will reach a decision or judgement without hearing from the other side of the story.

We may not be aware what led to the man's overwhelming insecurity in the marriage. The poster noted that the lady before marriage was a life of the party... that might be it!

So, until I hear from the man, parties should maintain status quo and do whatever make them happy without committing sin/crime.

It's very surprising that in 2023 when women lie about everything people are quick to believe that they are always the victims..hian

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Lifestone(m): 3:49pm On May 24, 2023
Jennyclay:
MONEY
SEX
LOVE
ATTENTION.

If a man can’t give me enough of these 4 things I listed above in my marriage, I’ll gladly divorce him.

BTW, the lady should be happy that the ERROR called marriage has ended. A better man who would appreciate and respect her career must surely locate her.
But money and attention don't work together, you will have to pick one
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Boldtrust(m): 3:49pm On May 24, 2023
xevove2061:


What do yiu have ti give the man?

Nothing. Just nothing. She goes into the marriage with a whole load of body counts, traumas and argumentative character.

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by pitoski(m): 3:49pm On May 24, 2023
Princessdainty:
and what do you give the man in return?
Thank you. Their own is Man give me this, Man give me that. But they don't care what the man wants.

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Saidfx(m): 3:50pm On May 24, 2023
Princessdainty:
and what do you give the man in return?

Sex
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Swimcsh: 3:51pm On May 24, 2023
Hope you can reciprocate all listed 4. If na just number 2, 3 & 4 you fit offer then na OYO be your name
Jennyclay:
MONEY
SEX
LOVE
ATTENTION.

If a man can’t give me enough of these 4 things I listed above in my marriage, I’ll gladly divorce him.

BTW, the lady should be happy that the ERROR called marriage has ended. A better man who would appreciate and respect her career must surely locate her.

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by UptownVibes(m): 3:51pm On May 24, 2023
Kobojunkie:
So, you are thinking that something happened that would rationally cause a man to subdue his wife, reducing her to living in her own marriage as though a slave, in the way described in the OP? undecided
Did the man use chains on her in the marriage? If she is not comfortable, she should move out.. Do you even know what the man is going through in the marriage too?

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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Kobojunkie: 3:52pm On May 24, 2023
Paramount01:
What have been the discussion befofr marriage? Did yiu knwo if the lady in question agree to stay at home before marraiage If lady needs mariagr,they act like angel ,do all the undoable, ask them what work did u want me to be doing fir you at home,she will say nothing i can do everything but after marriage that is when she will realize sfe js not your slave
So, a doctor in training agreed to hampering her own training schedule, right? You are trying to argue that it was not really the husband who made it difficult for the lady but the lady who wanted it difficult for herself but refused the work hard and all? She also locked herself out of her own married home after it all, right? undecided

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