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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by armadeo(m): 6:46pm On May 24, 2023 |
Newnas: Still not getting it I guess. You have all the power to decide but don't make a decision that you don't like from the beginning. If she has a job that requires anything you aren't comfortable with as a man let her go!!. Don't marry her and start trying to change the rules when the match had started. In the example you have given above I would call you a bad husband if you were aware of the nature of job, went ahead to marry her and start threatening her second wife. In summary if you're uncomfortable with any aspect of her life that you cannot absolutely tolerate then let her go. |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by BloomingDale(f): 6:47pm On May 24, 2023 |
felong: The white man says they are coming back to Africa to put you fools under slavery. I’m just happy you will learn the definition of submission as a man. 1 Like
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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by unmask: 6:52pm On May 24, 2023 |
iammo:how is divorce not a solution? If you are unhappy in marriage, why stay there? |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Emaprince: 6:53pm On May 24, 2023 |
Yet women will never stop making marriage their number one prayer point. They will never stop begging men to marry them? Women should start by refusing to get married first...this world will be a very peaceful place without commitment to any one. That's exactly what men needs. 1 Like |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Newnas(m): 7:01pm On May 24, 2023 |
armadeo:Wasn't she aware of the nature of her job before choosing to get married? Please rest. |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Newnas(m): 7:03pm On May 24, 2023 |
bukatyne:1. It's her responsibility to explain before getting married. If a part of my career requires something that I know could cause friction in my marriage then I make sure I explain it before marriage. 2. Is night duty a must? You're talking as if it's impossible to be a doctor or nurse without doing night duties. 2 Likes |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Idaytesj29(m): 7:04pm On May 24, 2023 |
Jennyclay: What will you give in return? |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by harmony75: 7:07pm On May 24, 2023 |
Some men are useless set of people 😔 1 Like |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by cococandy(f): 7:17pm On May 24, 2023 |
Postinor: Right. Because I said it’s unafrican to respect women. I guess I should be flattered to me chosen? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Idaytesj29(m): 7:31pm On May 24, 2023 |
JpBiz92: How can these marriages work when one party is always demanding many things and conditions. You must have this, provide that, ensure this, proclaim that and do this but the person demanding can only give one thing or nothing in return. |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Nusooo: 7:32pm On May 24, 2023 |
They can’t because many of them depend mainly on men financially |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by newdawn2017(f): 7:35pm On May 24, 2023 |
Postinor:d man should end up with his mother with such kind of behavior. Better for worse doesnt apply to when d worse if from ur partner who has turned into a source of pain, sorrows, humiliation, sadness & unhappy, when it's ur partner who breaks down ur wall, & exposes u to wolves & d cold. Such a spouse is ur mortal enemy. Ur Kingdom won't stand as ur enemy lies on d same bed with u. 1 Like |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by deyplay: 7:37pm On May 24, 2023 |
Jennyclay:Most men do that and can do those 4 crucial things you mentioned. So what are the 4 crucial things you can offer a man that should stop him from divorcing you if you were married please? |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by bukatyne(f): 7:39pm On May 24, 2023 |
Newnas: It is her duty to explain before marriage? A lot of people don't have issues with night duty. Aren't you the one who has an issue with night duty so should have researched the schedule of a doctor before proceeding with the marriage? A doctor/nurse who would not be required to work night shifts would be scarce. If I remember correctly, a hospital operates for 24hrs and there must be personnel on site to man them. Now you know, steer clear from a medical professional. 2 Likes |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by adontcare(f): 7:42pm On May 24, 2023 |
pocohantas:plain truth |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by allenpaul(m): 7:46pm On May 24, 2023 |
tiswell:. ur own mumu na carry come can't be cure |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by hotwax: 7:46pm On May 24, 2023 |
Nigerian ladies don't like nice guys...they always look for bad guy ..happening guy... e.t.c. When they married bad guys, they kuku secretly endure the torture .. I have seen countless cases of them marrying animals...I used to wonder when they know a guy is an animal, yet they go ahead to marry him in the name of "he loves me". They will come online on twitter to post their bloodied face after getting punched to seek for sympathy. When you are dating a man who scolds you at every mistake and you don't run. He even mistakenly slaps you one day and he apologize and you stay in that relationship. Women pretend alot. |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Idaytesj29(m): 7:47pm On May 24, 2023 |
Kinehap: She will in fact break another woman's home to get to have a man give her some sort of lady treatment. 1 Like |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Idaytesj29(m): 7:51pm On May 24, 2023 |
Boldtrust: She won't have a reply for this. |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Almunjid(m): 7:52pm On May 24, 2023 |
Jennyclay:Apart from sex what do u have to offer the man in return? |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Idaytesj29(m): 7:52pm On May 24, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: He was talking about the night shift |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Kobojunkie: 7:53pm On May 24, 2023 |
Idaytesj29:So you no know say doctors-in-training dey work almost 80 hours per week in some places which means Night shift must dey am since there aren't enough hours in day to make up for all that? 1 Like |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Tenrack: 7:57pm On May 24, 2023 |
Jennyclay:and you're currently seeing one. |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by SonofGod231: 8:03pm On May 24, 2023 |
What is wrong with a woman putting her husband first?!It would have been a win win if the man had reciprocated by putting his wife first too in everything. I don't generalize and hate peeps who do but many women are self-centered,once they sense you're into them,they manipulate you,they don't like to compromise or to be challenged,they want to always be in control even if it's means you pretending they're..They just live their life complaining that men are controlling.When in fact it is often the opposite. i.e My babyma wanted to control everything about me,what I eat,when I eat (because she does the cooking so if I should buy food outside without telling her she would frown),what i wear(I stopped her),what parts of my body I should or shouldn't shave,what we do at weekends and holidays.Often planned without any discussion with me,the funny part is she thinks I'm an idiot...She can watch ZeeWurld 24/7 from 6pm to 12am every day not minding if I'm interested or not since we both share a single telly.I dare not watch anything that doesn't interest her like sports or football coz she would nag the hell outta me(I would be left with my lappy).I can go on and on with her excesses to think this is someone I want to end up with...Women?!Manipulating is hard coded in their DNA.More often than not it is their way and cry fowl if they can't have it but I finally said no way.It was over |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by missyblissy: 8:19pm On May 24, 2023 |
iammo: What stupid reasons? If your spouse stops and doesn't support you from growing in your career, abeg na witchcraft. Walk away as his aim is to kill your self esteem. What rubbish. Na men wey dey cheat believes their spouse too dey cheat. Women should work for their money, if the man treats you like shit ans you have condone alot of his excesses, my dear bounce. Martiage is meant to be enjoyed not endured QED 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by tonytony208(m): 8:30pm On May 24, 2023 |
Jennyclay: You are just a stupid child with a baby's brain in an adult body 3 Likes |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Princeton92(m): 8:32pm On May 24, 2023 |
AllDModsAreMaad:🤣🤣🤣 |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by armadeo(m): 8:49pm On May 24, 2023 |
DeLaRue: This has to be one of the best comments i have ever read on this forum. This is the pure truth. We have already failed from the foundations ( family unit) hence the building ( society) is shaky. Well put. 1 Like |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by soles21(m): 8:52pm On May 24, 2023 |
nlfpmod:post like this are suppose to be banned for God's sake. You will just wake up, pick up your phone just to start a gender war or spread negativity. While we can all agree they're bad marriages. They're also a lot of good marriages too, yet I Don't see more threads on that. Alot of young girls and boys are seeing threads like this and it'll affect them negatively. |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by olatunji390(m): 8:57pm On May 24, 2023 |
nlfpmod: "She was the life of the party in med school and an entrepreneur". U say make the husband don't know what he is doing! |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by beyondbasicsng: 9:01pm On May 24, 2023 |
felong: why should your wife FEAR you? that is a question that I don't understand. When you were dating was she afraid? Why should she now be afraid when she becomes a wife? A woman shouldn't have to walk on eggshells around their husband. submissive? I'm unsure I get this too. So much about submission but nothing about husband loving his wife as christ loved the church and gave himself for it! The husbands love for his wife should his primary responsibility. If the man is the right person for the woman, she would feel comfortable. Should anyone want to live in fear around their spouse? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by BloomingDale(f): 9:03pm On May 24, 2023 |
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