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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by geezynoni: 9:08pm On May 24, 2023
Cheat away



I hope this statement is not used against me in the future
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Kubin: 9:08pm On May 24, 2023
Just keep condom where she will see it, matter close.

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by EnterpriseMan(m): 9:09pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.
If your wife will not give you, kindly find someone that will. If i am in such a marriage, i would have requested for a open relationship long ago. Simple as that

If she doesn't give you kindly tell her you want an open relationship, its better she knows about it openly than cheating

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by vatiqan(m): 9:09pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.


The choice is yours, to make. But if you'd take my advice, get a lady for yourself and for your sanity.

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by walex2(m): 9:09pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.
I don't just see how some simp nigga reason, you married a wife with your own wife and she is denying you sex but instead of you to talk sense to her head or get her out of your house you are coming here to rant. Once your woman start denying you sense it means she is having it somewhere

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Guynexttdoor: 9:10pm On May 24, 2023
As hook-up full everywhr u dey find fuckkk. No be to fuckkkk? Oboi find runs babe fuckkk tell ur wife u dey meeting. kiss

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by vengertime: 9:10pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

I've watched so many seasons of Cheaters on CBS Reality 98% of the time when she's denying husband sex she's having sex somewhere else.

But usually husband always live in denial thinking wifey is a Saint .

Women are usually wired differently, a man can cheat and still make his wife feel like she's the only one, but when a woman cheat, a lot goes into her mind, Guilt , disconnected etc will be so obvious

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Kaido: 9:10pm On May 24, 2023
Talk, negotiate,.and re-evaluate stuffs together

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Berrityga: 9:11pm On May 24, 2023
So we should sign petition to allow you cheat on your wife?? Thats why your here

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Nobody: 9:11pm On May 24, 2023
If there's no food in the house, go outside and eat. Depending on your pocket, you can eat at Hotels, restaurants or mama put. Don't kill yasef with hunger

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by crackhouse(m): 9:12pm On May 24, 2023
U never cheated on her is because u no get money. If u have money u will do without bringing it up here.. if u can't get kpekus outside then go fugk ya self.

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by mejai(m): 9:12pm On May 24, 2023
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Sexxx sexxx sexxx angry. What a generation! So,of all the problem wey dey this life,na limitation of sexxx by your wife be your major problem? shocked. The same wife that produced two beautiful kids for you....And to even imagine that some kangaroos here are advising the op to marry another wife can't just beat my imagination angry. Op,if you like,make you go use your own hands take scatter your marriage all because of say your wife ain't giving your too much of sexxx.
To sell u just dey hungry me grin

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Easylife1234: 9:13pm On May 24, 2023
taylor89:
Konji go soon kill you


God no go let me see anything wey go make me knack two times a month

Even Tinubu knacks Remi more than that
kiss
grin that true
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by fx45(m): 9:13pm On May 24, 2023
taylor89:

Even Tinubu knacks Remi more than that
Stop talking nonsense... Druggie is 87 years old this year and you still expect him to have an erection You want him to die on top of a sex-starved Remi? Make una dey fear God ooo

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Moh247: 9:13pm On May 24, 2023
As Pope wey you be abi....

Bro you would soon cheat

Better start planning the cheating at far away hotel and who you'd sharply use to cure konji
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Chris2863(m): 9:14pm On May 24, 2023
MechanicMike:



bro be nice & i will giv u one of my babe for free....she can cook but can use micro wave. her name is Siofra...U WANT?? ..(((((THANK ME LATER))) smiley
The Siofra I know doesn’t know how to cook

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by SenecaTheYonger: 9:14pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

Make her feel young, take her on dates, cook for her sometimes, tell her to rest while you take care of the kids. She’ll be more happy to have sex when she feels pampered. After having sex, take some chores from her on that day or the next, that way you’re training her mind that when she gives you sex, you’ll take some chores from her. She’ll be more inclined.


I swear some of you only get married so you can turn your wife to sex machine.

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by OKOATA(m): 9:15pm On May 24, 2023
ehay:
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He can just take injection like prep and he won't contact anything oga. Stop making it look like the disease is a big deal.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by OKOATA(m): 9:16pm On May 24, 2023
ehay:
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He can just take injection like prep and he won't contact anything oga. Stop making it look like the disease is a big deal. So make konji kill am or na you go drop your yatnch.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Vinnie2000(m): 9:16pm On May 24, 2023
Beebah321:
I wonder why married women no dey gree knack after them born. undecided

Dat's because they have OVERKNACKED in their Youthful days. smiley

Too Many Ex Boyfriends and Dicks received. 🤨

So Sex with their Husbands does not Freak them Again.😒

Hope you see why some Guys are finding Virgins as Wives. sad

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Veezy4u(m): 9:16pm On May 24, 2023
Married men and their wahala this should be d 3rd or more thread on similar issue. Wetin de sup ? Before marriage u de fvck left right and center, u marry dem de ration an for u. I fear most relationships this days

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Blackdisciple(m): 9:17pm On May 24, 2023
primeredge:
Some men don't want to cheat, but some women, once they gave birth they started neglecting the man and hence give the men reasons to cheat and justify their actions

Hmmm..
I just don't know what is wrong with many women oo...

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Moniya4Real(m): 9:18pm On May 24, 2023
I beg Shut up! If to say that plac Dey block , you think men would get married? Believe it or not, we get married basically cos of unfettered access to Kpekus and when it’s no longer forthcoming, there would be war!


Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Sexxx sexxx sexxx angry. What a generation! So,of all the problem wey dey this life,na limitation of sexxx by your wife be your major problem? shocked. The same wife that produced two beautiful kids for you....And to even imagine that some kangaroos here are advising the op to marry another wife can't just beat my imagination angry. Op,if you like,make you go use your own hands take scatter your marriage all because of say your wife ain't giving your too much of sexxx.

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Lukuluku69(m): 9:18pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

This seems a tough one but believe me it is quite a simple thing. Married for 6years, so I will put your wife's age at around 34-36years. If it is not a case of frigidity, then it is either someone else is doing it or she doesn't want you again (regret choosing you over someone else)

Talk to her about it, if she persists, then look elsewhere legitimately: Marry again!
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by InvertedHammer: 9:18pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

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Sex usually dies with marriage after about 2 years. Twice a month? You are doing a lot better than many men. If you dare step outside, she will be the first to cry "infidelity!". Men with high libido do realize a tad too late after marriage that infrequent sex is the norm.

Good luck!

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by adecz: 9:18pm On May 24, 2023
You should have gotten a side chick♥
since last year..


However, it's better late than never.
Get one now and thank me later..

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by advanceDNA: 9:18pm On May 24, 2023
Them just dey scam all of una with marriage...
Some of these women...all they need is children and someone to pay their bills... then they frustrate the hell out of u.....


What me i dont get is how u pple allow ur self to remain in a frustrated state...coming on line to come cry ......

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by MadamOk(f): 9:18pm On May 24, 2023
Sex wahala in marriage this days is something else
After them don do am well well while single, in marriage they will not value it again

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