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Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Gamusgamus: 9:06pm On May 24, 2023 |
This is surely coming from woman who couldn't build her marriage to success Beca |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Gamusgamus: 9:07pm On May 24, 2023 |
This is surely coming from woman who couldn't build her marriage to success Because of over sabi 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Emaprince: 9:15pm On May 24, 2023 |
BloomingDale:I stopped reading when it said men live longer. And benegit more from marriage..Like ..for real? Upon all the physically demanding hustle men goes through everyday to create a better life for women, hence shortening their(men) life span. Babe, you really believe that? Jokes apart. |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by FlipModeSquade(m): 9:20pm On May 24, 2023 |
iammo:LoL.. This has become a broken record.. If marriage no work, make everyone dey go their Papa house.. This life na only once.. No time to waste it on regrets because of some mod.afurker or b1tch . 1 Like |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by DrDunamis(m): 9:22pm On May 24, 2023 |
nlfpmod: How do you guys sit and write articles from hell so comfortably? |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Mindlog: 9:23pm On May 24, 2023 |
felong: Not be only install fear in her, na download fear into her! Weak minds who are scared of strength. 2 Likes |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Emmanuel909090: 9:41pm On May 24, 2023 |
Jump and pass |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by armadeo(m): 9:50pm On May 24, 2023 |
bukatyne: I just tire . Why even bother to start |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by kazyhm(m): 9:57pm On May 24, 2023 |
isabi2lof: Good observation....we don't know this particular Doctor.......hence the story can't be verified. 1) Saint obi is popular....the the stories as narrated by the friends are true. 2) We know Anie Idibia story aswell 3) Pero Adeniyi case 4) Emeka Ike story is there 5) Mercy Aigbe story 6) Nedu case is there7 7) The MD of I can't remember the name of the bank now is verifiable Wizkid baby mama....we all read the WhatsApp conversation 9) Davido baby mama drama We all watch Johnny Depp case both in the UK and USA.......... Enough verifiable evidents for men to learn...... I know of a hell on earth marriage between an Accountant (Husband) and a Surgeon (wife)... You'll shed tears........the man doesn't even talk but I bet you can't live in the street..... you'll kill the wife yourself....and fullfil you did. |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by isabi2lof: 10:02pm On May 24, 2023 |
kazyhm:I don hear , if it makes you guys happy so be it. |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by armadeo(m): 10:04pm On May 24, 2023 |
Newnas: Your matter sef don tire me. Enjoy as you see fit |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Suspect33(m): 10:05pm On May 24, 2023 |
babzlim:drop gist boss |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by bukatyne(f): 10:13pm On May 24, 2023 |
armadeo: I don't understand. Some people seem to take the 'I don't want peace, I want vawlence' memes seriously. 1 Like |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by armadeo(m): 10:15pm On May 24, 2023 |
[quote author=BloomingDale post=123346698][/quote] It's a proven fact that married men have shorter life spans. |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by kazyhm(m): 10:18pm On May 24, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Lol..... you're very talkative.....about things you know nothing about.... Were you there with them at the beginning.....what is so special about being a medical doctors ?...and even with carrying the profession on her head, she won't still be responsible for any bill in the relationship....untill when the carpenter of her husband is dead broke....... When you're responding...... consider that you're not talking to kindergarten. |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Kobojunkie: 10:29pm On May 24, 2023 |
kazyhm:Arrghhh!! So after I shot down the lame reason you gave earlier, you decided to go another lame way. Everyone who dates a medical student knows these things. It is not rocket science. You claim I was not there with them in the beginning but here you pretend you have them all figured out ba! 1 Like |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by BloomingDale(f): 10:36pm On May 24, 2023 |
armadeo: So why do widowers or divorced men rush to get married again if marriage do not benefit them? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by BloomingDale(f): 10:37pm On May 24, 2023 |
Emaprince: Your private opinion does not trump real data statistics. 1 Like |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by kazyhm(m): 10:45pm On May 24, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I never claimed to have any fact whatsoever pertaining to this story.....but many theory, motives and ideas about what transpired in this story have been coming from you...... My take is.....if you so much love your single, unrestricted life.....stay clear from any kind of committed affairs...........life itself is a crazy ride......so is marriage. Nothing is special about being a medical doctor........and I believe the husband is not a vulcanizer. |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by DollarSigns(m): 10:47pm On May 24, 2023 |
pocohantas: Youโre a wise lady but itโs very necessary to point out that whatsoever happens to these women are caused by themselves Iโm not saying itโs bad to desire good things but you canโt eat your cake and have it Most Nigerian ladies always want it all or are often foolishly in love with the wrong person in their prime, thus making mistakes and when married to a man who has his on idea of a dream family (which I am sure he must have shared with the lady during courtship), the lady now wants different things and boom๐ฅ another lady has been victimized Free the ladies gang enter full force Quick question: What stopped a med doctor from discussing about her career with her prospective husband during courtship ๐ฅบ Or daughter of Zion wanted a diamond ring and Alexreports kind of wedding and doesnโt want to remain at home and look after family after getting such๐ค๐ฅบ๐ฅบ Most Nigerian ladies feel entitled ๐ You were jobless when I married you, and we got married, boom you now want to work nights all of a sudden without adequate dialogue and allowance of enough years for son of man to adjust accordingly How are we unsure that being jobless med doctor was what attracted the man in the first place ? ๐ Who do some Nigerian ladies think they are for goodness sake? โน๏ธ 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Kobojunkie: 11:05pm On May 24, 2023 |
kazyhm:Whatever grudge you may have against doctors na your own. All I know is that for a doctor, night shifts are pretty much a career requirement. 1 Like |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by kazyhm(m): 11:24pm On May 24, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: It is clear you know nothing about this practice.....career requirements set by who and to attain what ? |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Kobojunkie: 11:27pm On May 24, 2023 |
kazyhm:Make Google your friend abeg! |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by AutoConsult: 11:32pm On May 24, 2023 |
Biglittlelois:Nigga said he saw some messages on the lady's phone after he went through her whatsapp conversations. He claimed she was seeing another nigga. They started fighting on wedding day. They only managed to finish the wedding. We friends created a whatsapp group to resolve this issue, but these two just held their horses. They didn't look back o. Anyone that has gon for wedding in those areas would know what it costs to wed a woman from there. We traveled by boat, cruise boat to, speed boat fro, some others through air, risked my life for this modafucker, and they just ended things because of one stupid whatsapp chat? On wedding day? Although the lady also got to find out the guy lied about his age. It turned out she was older than the nigga๐ฉ The whole Union was built on lies, so she started picking out those lies one after the other. At the end, both of them had reasons to end things. It wasn't funny at all. 1 Like |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by AutoConsult: 11:33pm On May 24, 2023 |
bukatyne:Well thankfully, he paid for it๐๐ 1 Like |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by kazyhm(m): 11:44pm On May 24, 2023 |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Basicend: 2:18am On May 25, 2023 |
foleskay: Don't mind her. . You will easily know them. . Ladies like that definitely can't have a husband in their life. . It's obvious. |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Basicend: 2:21am On May 25, 2023 |
Gamusgamus: Absolutely. |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by delishpot: 2:21am On May 25, 2023 |
Those are the kinds of women Nigerian men would die to have. The ones that will cook for them and their side chicks. Anything less and she isn't submissive 1 Like |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Basicend: 2:25am On May 25, 2023 |
Newnas: You know most of this ladies.think just one way. . Very myopic. |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by Newnas(m): 2:51am On May 25, 2023 |
bukatyne:The fallacy in your first sentence is overwhelming. |
Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by ZIMDRILL(m): 3:35am On May 25, 2023 |
nlfpmod: Mostly in africa and asia we have what we call SHAME CULTURES, you are shamed apon if you do things that are supported by customs and tradition, Divorce is of them, parents and relatives would rather see you endure your marriage than divorce, to them it brings shame to the family Then you find how society treats divorcees, soon she divorces and she is doing wel for herself society label her as prostitute and own success without a man in sight grand her the title a prostitute. In church a divorcee is the last person to be respected or given help So basically the woman would be too afraid to divorce herself she is afraid to shame her family and also afriad how society will treat her. A divorced man is treated better than a divorced woman and usually we have this quick to rush that the woman should have manage her husband no matter how bad it was. Women are taught to tolerate rubbish from husbands while men are taught send her packing and marry another one In simple terms most women are suffering in silent due to how society looks and treats divorced women so they rather endure the suffering Hence you find that when they move to western world they divorce their husbands, not becoz the western world has influence them but gave them the opportunity to walk away from toxic marriages that were held together by a shame culture. Look at the asians most indian and pakistan, divorces are very low due to shame culture and honor killing, women dont even dare to say they want to divorce There are circumstance were divorce is needed, i wouldnt want by daughter to come back in coffin I think the guy married his wife as trophy wife, aka you marry the most beautiful wife by appearance and everyone gives you thump up and also the fact that she is a doctor. But with all that you are also very insecure of beauty and her job. She either becames prisoner or less love and affection she is a trophy wife on display For those blaming the other gender (male or female) you are forgetting one thing, we behaviour and attitude as collective being eg igbo, yoruba or nigerians as whole are based on society's attitude towards eg its women ot how man are supposed to behave etc What i mean is this i have heard few people saying our girls have entitlement mentality, think deep who gave them the idea and promoted it? its men those who say i will look after you, the guy literally takeover responsibility of the girls parent. Now it became a measured standard that if a guy cant do ABCD is not man. Its the poor guys now who get laughed at and not the girl My point is society's behaviour is reflection on its self, you cannt blame one gender, if girls feel entitled who promoted that behaviour its men 1 Like |
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