Shugargal:


Oh God! This your comment scares da hell outa me, Jeez! This is one of the reason I stay away from men, its just all about sex and forceful part of it is the worst part of it all. I have seen can never be straight in this life. Men act like demons when it comes to sex. I think sex is supposed to be mutual. Shaking my head.

well you can keep using dildos as long as you want. It still doesnt change the fact that girls worship gbola more than anything

But make una wait o..

Shey na cuz of sex most man dey marry this days?

I wrote this song for you by the weekend….
Creepin! I don’t want to know if you’re playing me keep it on the low cause my heart can’t take it anymore…

My fellow Nairalanders, don't we think we should'nt jump into conclusion until we hear from the woman? let's gather here by 12noon tomorrow for the meeting before we know the advice to give to this man because husband and wife mata na brain dem dey use. I nor fit advice u finish dem go say na me spoil u LOL! E fit be say this man dey lie ni.

primeredge:
Some men don't want to cheat, but some women, once they gave birth they started neglecting the man and hence give the men reasons to cheat and justify their actions

Larger percentage of marriage experience this scenario 😳...hence cheating starts creeping in.[color=#000099][/color]

Sonnobax15:

Sexxx sexxx sexxx . What a generation! So,of all the problem wey dey this life,na limitation of sexxx by your wife be your major problem? . The same wife that produced two beautiful kids for you....And to even imagine that some kangaroos here are advising the op to marry another wife can't just beat my imagination . Op,if you like,make you go use your own hands take scatter your marriage all because of say your wife ain't giving your too much of sexxx.

is very obvious you have low libido or no libido at all.
Sex is an integral tool that makes every marriage enjoyable.

taylor89:
Konji go soon kill you

God no go let me see anything wey go make me knack two times a month, i dey even Fvck my babe on hospital bed with injection port in my hand

Me wey Fvck dey hungry per second

Very soon you go dey come out for T-Junction dey shout I wan knack oo I wan knack oo

E don do me before, if I sneeze like this sperm go come out, if I run my sweat go dey drip like Ogbono, my spit na spermatozoa

Even Tinubu knacks Remi more than that

Anyways pray hard bcuz I don witness over 8 people wey konji kill

Pfucking funny

mejai:

To sell u just dey hungry me

that one no get libido at all no mind am.

SenecaTheYonger:


Make her feel young, take her on dates, cook for her sometimes, tell her to rest while you take care of the kids. She’ll be more happy to have sex when she feels pampered. After having sex, take some chores from her on that day or the next, that way you’re training her mind that when she gives you sex, you’ll take some chores from her. She’ll be more inclined.


I swear some of you only get married so you can turn your wife to sex machine.

nonsense.

eroticecstasy:


Don't even think about it, rebuke that thought and restore your home.

When was the last time you took her out?
When was the last time you give her gift?
how creative are you on bed?
When was the last time you made her scream and pant for breath?

nonsense

We women are very emotional, you might have done something to warrant denial of sex. Speak to your wife heart to heart and settle everything, cos once you step your prick out to Bleep another lady forget it, you re gone. That’s how you will continue jumping from one toto to another. Please don’t cheat cos, it breaks home. Married couples sex is your conjugal right, explore each other’s body…….: Ire oooo

RIDOO:
Please try to understand her better give her time...pet her so that she can open up to you

She might be going through a lot of things she can't even explain. ... depression, hormonal changes, birth control reaction, dryness,not having urge for sex.

Most of these things are not intentional..help her to open up to you and help her to come out of it.

nonsense

Sonnobax15:

Sexxx sexxx sexxx . What a generation! So,of all the problem wey dey this life,na limitation of sexxx by your wife be your major problem? . The same wife that produced two beautiful kids for you....And to even imagine that some kangaroos here are advising the op to marry another wife can't just beat my imagination . Op,if you like,make you go use your own hands take scatter your marriage all because of say your wife ain't giving your too much of sexxx.

did the op say too much sex? i dont know whether you are a woman or not, but you are encouraging women to deny their husbands sex. Do you know what the result will be-frequent divorce!

Peskid147:
get a sex therapist to hep you and your wife know the importance of sex in your marriage.

nonsense

coputa:
A wise woman build her own household but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.proverbs 14 V1.

Sex is to marriage as sugar is to tea.Without sex, marriage is as good as dead expecially young couples.

Because there's no longer that affection for one another,it will now look like a wine without taste.

Was she denying you sex before you had the two kids,if yes,then she's not a wife material but if it started after having the kids,then,she is telling you something but you are not listening to her

Try to befriend her once again and find out what she's saying,women are like children.never joke with it, she's protesting.make her your friend once again.

Buy her things she love,pamper her,she will open up to you.

nonsense

Peterpanny:
nonsense

Bastard, what do you know about marriage? You think sleeping around with strange women makes you a man? Foool.

Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

Your wife needs to see a gyno. She might be running dry easily during sex thereby hurting her during the act. Due the pain she doesn't look forward to the sex. Get her to see a gynaecologist and that can be rectified easily or gradually over time.

Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

If she's denying sex, it's either she's not attracted to you or she's cheating. How old is she ? I guess she's not near menopause or having some craazy hormonal issues. I don't see why she would just lose attraction for you.

dfrost:


You don marry?

no

Beebah321:
I wonder why married women no dey gree knack after them born.

Hormonal imbalance resulting from child-bearing, Doctors know better.

If you like, listen to all the unmarried people on the first page telling you rubbish. You will destroy your life with your hands. Look through this thread and take note of the comments that are from married men. Most married couples go through this thing, infact all couples.

Divoc19:
Get a matured side chick, regardless of age. She won't stress you. You have to be financially bouyant though
@ Nation1

are you advertising yourself?

Peterpanny:
nonsense

There's sense in nonsense.

eroticecstasy:


Bastard, what do you know about marriage? You think sleeping around with strange women makes you a man? Foool.

nonsense.



You are calling someone who can feed your entire generation bastard,can't you see that you just an unfortunate swine.

Marry another wife

Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

U startin to block her off mentally, emotionally and physically, soon u will begin to see her as a sister
Good luck..

Victor2707:
You got married thinking there will be unlimited sex.

She want to use sex to control you to do her bidding because she knows you love sex.

That's her weapon.

Don't ever ask her for sex anymore.
b
Marry another wife if you can finance it. A younger one to be precise.

Agba awo, gbayi brother mi , this is actually the best way to go about it.

holybabayo:
Please all these people advising you to go and cheat do not know what they are saying. Let them tell you from experience whether it solved the problem or not.
The reason your wife may be denying you sex can be emotional, physical, or spiritual problem.

Emotional.
Are you two friends? Are you fighting? Are you rude or stubborn? Is there something she is complaining about? Are you not noticing her needs without her telling you, like hair, clothes, etc? Do you complement her? Do you call her sweet names? Do you lie? Do you have a vice she hates?

Physical:
Are you dirty? Do you dress well and cut your hair? Do you smoke or drink? Is she cheating? Is she sick? Is she sick down there? Are you doing your job well down there? Are your kids a handful to manage? Is she spending to much time taking care of the house and kids?

Spiritual:
Is there a devil fighting your home? Is she or you from a broken home and events wants to repeat itself? Is there a ex someone fighting your home? Are your inlaws at peace with you and vice versa?

These questions you need to answer.

God be with you

but why can't she open and mouth and explain the reason? Why is it his job to find out? Na wa oh

MrBrownJay1:
as much as your wife is denying you sex, it doesnt mean you should go without it altogether. talk to her and let her know that:"due to your high libido and her constant excuses and denying you of sex, you will be looking for other ways to satisfy yourself sexually....EOD!"

Lol
They will easily tell you to go ahead and look for other ways to satisfy yourself that they don't care,
Later they will use it against you for cheating on them

When it becomes an issue no body will care whether she deny you sex they will focus on the fact that you've been cheating...

Fear women!

taylor89:
Konji go soon kill you

God no go let me see anything wey go make me knack two times a month, i dey even Fvck my babe on hospital bed with injection port in my hand

Me wey Fvck dey hungry per second

Very soon you go dey come out for T-Junction dey shout I wan knack oo I wan knack oo

E don do me before, if I sneeze like this sperm go come out, if I run my sweat go dey drip like Ogbono, my spit na spermatozoa

Even Tinubu knacks Remi more than that

Anyways pray hard bcuz I don witness over 8 people wey konji kill

just dey play 😂

simfrost90210:
Nairaland is gradually becoming boring where situations not worth bringing out to the front page is brought out when it's personal

Nairaland forum shouldn't be all about Politics, tinubu, buhari Obi and yeyebrities
Sometimes let's engage in some other things affecting us individually

My brother.....
In all you do, as a man, DON'T DIE

It's either you learn how to drink beer/whiskey or whatever or get an understandable sidechick
As much as the environment frowns at the latter, remember one golden rule. Whatever you do outside must not affect your home
Your home/wife and kids are your major priority, and in the quest to keep up with these major priorities, Don't die
Wish you best of luck


Every married man will understand what I am talking about
Women ....as much as they can sometimes be our emotional dilemma, we can do without them in all ramifications
I come in peace