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Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by ChuksHills(m): 10:30pm On May 24, 2023 |
Indulging into sexual practices or many sexual practices when you're not married as a man or woman will make you get tired or not finding pleasure In it when you eventually get married. I heard many couples complaining that their partner is denying them sex which is not right. This has been the situation of many women which results to them denying their husbands sex. Come to think of it I have never heard any woman complaining that her husband is denying her sex. And looking at it, this men and women aren't up to fifty years finding no pleasure in sex because they have done it severally when they were single and have lost all the joy and sweetness in It and now it is affecting their marriages today. My dear single brothers and sisters try to abstain from sex for the sake of your future marriage so that you and your partner can enjoy it without no one denying each other of the process or getting tired of doing it or finding no pleasure In doing it. Sex is something that God ordained for marriage for the partners to be bonded as one flesh. When says the singles to flee from it he has a reason because he created it. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by God1000(m): 10:39pm On May 24, 2023 |
You are right man, it's really terrifying reading some stories these days. Some of them start enjoying life even as teenagers 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by jaeyking(m): 11:17pm On May 24, 2023 |
It work both ways A woman might be a virgin all through her life, after getting married, the first night might be horrible for her and she won't want to experience such again, So also a virgin who had it first night, would want it all the time A woman might enjoy sex before marriage with a man and still enjoy with that same man The prayer is to get a partner that everything would work out well for you guys 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by Absuchat(m): 11:50pm On May 24, 2023 |
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Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by emperor4love(m): 6:39am On May 25, 2023 |
Bills nv choke u bro bfr |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by Teetee777: 8:18am On May 25, 2023 |
Don't be deceived, 99.9% of married women will change after marriage. My opinion and observation are: 1. Most women like sex more than anything in the world but some married men can not handle or satisfy them well after the marriage, some men are selfish in sex, and they don't consider the wife to enjoy the sex too. This will lead to some women having no interest in sex again. 2. You can't satisfy some married women for sex in the first round and some married men will not exceed 2mins in the first round, this also affects the women having no interest in sex. 3. Most women like their children more than their husbands in marriage. Women will give 99% of their attention to their children while 1% attention to their husbands. This also affects women to have no interest in sex. I will like to advise some married men to work on their sex responsibility with their wives because some women didn't enjoy sex with their partners and that is what causes some married women to cheat outside the marriage and all the cheated women have forgotten that all married men are the same in the sex. No married men will last more than 5mins in and out during sex except if they used drugs, alcohol, sex enhancement. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by Natbrowny: 8:54am On May 25, 2023 |
U marry a lady. She gives birth to her best friends and u r replaced. Responsibility n bills can remove sexual pleasure from ur mind 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by diogo23: 9:34am On May 25, 2023 |
ChuksHills:Go to court and hear for yourself |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by Vinnie2000(m): 9:41am On May 25, 2023 |
OP, in our Fathers and Grandfather's time, It was NOT so. ![]() in the 40's,50's,60's,70's, Guys and Ladies married as Virgins. ๐ But diz days, Many Ladies have @least 7 Ex Boyfriends +Sugar Daddies they dated before Marriage. ๐คจ They have FUCCKED too many Gbola, so hw can they enjoy sex again? ๐๐คท |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by Sonnobax15(m): 9:49am On May 25, 2023 |
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Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by Vinnie2000(m): 9:50am On May 25, 2023 |
Teetee777: Great points from you. ๐ Many married Men Practice 2-4mins sex with the wives hoping she is fine with it. ![]() +The fact that Many Marriages in Nigeria are out CONVENIENCE. They Married who was available, not Who their Hearts and Gbola/Kpenkus really wanted. ๐คจ๐ Sexual and Romantic Chemistry is DEAD in many Naija marriages. ![]() |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by wisdomkid: 10:26am On May 25, 2023 |
ChuksHills: Lol, I have. Women complain about their husband not wanting them after giving birth, and men also said they don't find their wife attracted after few years in marriage. STOP making these about women. No be only you, dem do break him heart 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by BRIMBRAM: 10:37am On May 25, 2023 |
ChuksHills: I have a true life story for you by my barber. How he makes money from being a per time gigolo. Yes women do complain, alot of them do. It is called sexual frustration. For some, their frustration is because you refuse to give them mouth action or you refuse them to ride you, the cow girl style. |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by Dicado: 12:29pm On May 25, 2023 |
You are totally wrong. There are many factors that affect one's sexual urge of which stress is one of them. Check this out, why do most rich women become sugar mummies to younger and active sexual partners? The answer is simple, due to a limited physical stress. But check out marriages where women deny their men sex, they're either doing all the chores plus taking care of their babies plus their baby adult husband, working 20 hours everyday etc. Some factors are medical conditions. Some people especially women lost total pleasure in sex in their mid 30s and instead feel pain every single sex they have. Some other factors are age. Most women fake their ages, so by age, you will begin to only feel sexual urge once a week until it becomes once a month, etc. as a woman ages. Other factors are lack of love to even ignite urge in women ChuksHills: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by ChuksHills(m): 2:10pm On May 25, 2023 |
Dicado: I don't think all this factors you made mentioned here are the reasons except they're not healthy. This married people don't bastardized sex unlike the single people. Some sets time table when to do it either one or two times a week even some goes by one or two times a month, so they don't have it frequently that you will tell me it is stress that is making them to deny their partners their conjugate right. There is something about life, when you're very use to something you will find it no more attractive or get tired of it. So some of this people because of their excessive sexual practices when they were still doing boyfriend and girlfriend relationship eventually make them to get tired of the act in marriage. Remember some of them might have dated for years before they finally get married and this things is happening to them in their early and late thirties not finding pleasure in sex saying it is stress which is very wrong. Most women who do sugar mummies with Younger men are women who were not much exposed to sex when single got married to a man who has likely used all his energy in the act when single and age have cutoff with him he now find no pleasure In it . 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by ITbomb(m): 4:03pm On May 25, 2023 |
Enjoy your youth responsibly because when responsibilities start coming, you will forget about cum |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by Reminderz: 5:52pm On May 25, 2023 |
one of the reason is that, in terms of love, most people marry who is ready not who they love or sexually attracted to.. another reason is that, most people stop putting in the work needed for seduction after getting married, so end up getting bored and not inclined to have sex anymore with each other... some might not actually be good in bed and also don't know how to initiate sex or get their partners in the mood.. some don't even know how to take their of their bodies and appear tattered.. another is, after getting married and responsibilities and kids start compiling, couples lose interest in sex and focus more on how to make the family stable especially if the couple are still struggling financially... this can cause a temporary loss of attraction and make them vulnerable to cheat.. most people these days marry for other selfish reasons other than deep affection for each other... deceptive cases such as this are numerous.. |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by Yugoslavia247(m): 5:57pm On May 25, 2023 |
ChuksHills: Not having premarital sex is not going stop women from avoiding sex. It is like you people don't read well enough. If your wahala pass sex will you have sex. Most women during nursing of the child the hormones for sex reduce. And women is women premarital or not |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by advanceDNA: 8:17pm On May 25, 2023 |
Na because Dem dey craze..... Some pple just want to be begged and be doing shakara |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by Itohanmiwa: 6:42am On May 26, 2023 |
Because they don already chop the honey before they reach the moon. |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by TheMaharajah: 11:52am On May 26, 2023 |
Because the illusion faded. |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by OtuologyProf(m): 4:38pm On May 26, 2023 |
TheMaharajah: You are closest to the reason. At times I just laugh at all these confounded reasons people give. Married people lose interest in sex because they are in an abnormal association. A normal association of homo sapiens is having sex with anyone appealing to you, but societal norms are taking the normal for abnormal. Animalistic? Mba!!! what's more animalistic, is Promoting these norms while you hide and fuk around. Prof itid Ukwu Dean, faculty of Otuology |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by ItisWell22(f): 4:48pm On May 26, 2023 |
Responsibilities! |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by OtuologyProf(m): 4:52pm On May 26, 2023 |
ItisWell22: Confounded! Is it responsibility that's stopping her from getting dicked outside? Such responsibility ! |
Re: Why Do Married People Don't Find Pleasure In Sex. by ChuksHills(m): 11:37pm On May 26, 2023 |
ItisWell22: No now responsibilities can be the cause, because they don't have it frequently. If the married people understand the mysteries about sex they wouldn't deny their partner of it. There's a deep mysteries about sex, it unite the couple. Lack of it in marriage today is making many couples to divorce because there's no bonding and this bonding comes through sex. |
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