JILF:


I mean a guy between age 32-38 living with parents or in the home of his grandparent etc

Get him a place to stay nah.independent woman.

Will you ever be bothered if Otedola's daughters (Cuppy, Teni, etc) tell you that they live in one of their parents' homes in London, Abuja, etc?


The things poor people talk and worry about are some of the reasons they hardly make significant progress.

I'm 31 and still serving. I don't give a fvck about that because I don't seek to please people and I run my own race. I'm also single and focus.

Omoh.......life no easy ooh..

Let the so-called innocent person go into crime if he thinks that's the easy route to success, I can bet it with you he still won't succeed or his success short-lived. Even in civilized economy, there are many homeless people in America. The message is clear.

UYEMDO35:

Pray you shouldn't be in others people's shoe..... Do u think life is easy like that... If you happen to find yourself in environment that's uncivilized do u think u will be able to meet up with your daily needs.. dis your statement alone can Make an innocent person to go into crime.

JILF:
Is it ok for a guy to be living at home where he grew up or with his parents between age 32-39? if you are lady will you find such men as someone who is serious with life or someone who is unserious? I understand the economy has not be smiling for many and also understand that some men cannot afford to pay rent due to unemployment.

my brother, nt ok at all

BigBlackPreek:
I'm 31 and still serving. I don't give a fvck about that because I don't seek to please people and I run my own race. I'm also single and focus.

omoh.......boss man,u gather ooh...

my mind 1st skip wen i see ur profile pix.

Illegal1:


omoh.......boss man,u gather ooh...

my mind 1st skip wen i see ur profile pix.

lols na my hustle ooooo and market must sell...abi no be so?

TheFreshVanilla:
Let the so-called innocent person go into crime if he thinks that's the easy route to success, I can bet it with you he still won't succeed or his success short-lived. Even in civilized economy, there are many homeless people in America. The message is clear.

You're not still making sense... Let me just tell u one thing that u don't know, just becuz he good for you today no mean say we sef no dey try for life.

BigBlackPreek:
lols na my hustle ooooo and market must sell...abi no be so?

omoh......naso ooh my brother..

i go soon send u p.m

Illegal1:

omoh......naso ooh my brother..
i go soon send u p.m

okay nau... no wahala I dey wait.

Am 30 staying in my father's house. my parents are late so I basically stay alone, the girls are married. I earn 250 to 400k per month(job plus side hustle) getting married in 2 months time processing my phd in usa for fall 2024. Decided to stay in my father's house so I can spend all my money on it and make it up to standard before I travel out God willing. rather than give it to a landlord by the ways its a3 bedroom apartment owned by my dad. grew up here everyone around know meto be quite reserved.just to prove am an adult babe doesn't want to stay here with me, well I no send cos in the end its in our best interest. I have everything in this house name it she also earns similar to me.

My comment is not meant to comfort or pity you. Nobody has it easy in life. Even in civilized countries, there are poor people. You either do the work, make the sacrifices and activate the grace of God in your life or continue to make excuses and live the life your fore-fathers lived.

UYEMDO35:

You're not still making sense... Let me just tell u one thing that u don't know, just becuz he good for you today no mean say we sef no dey try for life.

Hunmmmm

Not good at all

TheFreshVanilla:
My comment is not meant to comfort or pity you. Nobody has it easy in life. Even in civilized countries, there are poor people. You either do the work, make the sacrifices and activate the grace of God in your life or continue to make excuses and live the life your fore-fathers lived.

Noted

Adewale1603:
It is okay but The question is What are you still doing in your parents house at that age?

what if the parents are not living there, the parents has two to three houses in different cities.??

It depends on the family. In my family Case my Dad prefer us to move to our own house rather than paying rent, my dad lives in another house outside the city. While I lived in is house in the city. My father doesn't allow us to move out, his reason his that " if we don't stay in his house, who do we want to come and stay" I and my brother has been living here because it's a 3(2bedroom flat) since we came back from service. But This your topic has always made me to feel bad about myself for not having my own house, not only your topic wen I see my mate paying for house rent.
My senior Brother is using the money that he should be using to pay rent to build his personal house.
I also know one guy that is 40, he stays in his father's house because his father has so many houses and land, note: the guy has money to rent his house and he is earning big.

JILF:
Is it ok for a guy to be living at home where he grew up or with his parents between age 32-39? if you are lady will you find such men as someone who is serious with life or someone who is unserious? I understand the economy has not be smiling for many and also understand that some men cannot afford to pay rent due to unemployment.

I moved out of my parents house at 16, not because of anything but because my dad was too difficult and we didn't get along. Didn't want to be in his shadow.

For the next 2 years I was in the streets of Aba, from MCC to Osisioma, to Ariara to Ngwa to Umuojima joggling between 2-3 jobs.

I gained admission and would only go home for maybe a week or so, other days I was busy doing my own thing.
After I finished NYSC, i invested in a right business which turned out to be wrong and I went flat broke.

I moved back to a single room and started doing all kinds of things to survive. It was so bad that I had to go back to my parents house for one month before I got my shit together again.

Honestly as I tell you, there were some of my friends who were still in their parents house until they were 30, but now they are so rich and successful that I don't even come close at all.

The point is, whether you leave your parents house at 16, 26 or 36.

What works for everyone is different. Some guys are making 10Mil monthly and they are still living with their parents.

Some just love the company of their parents. Don't pressure anyone, let people live the way they want

Illegal1:


omoh......naso ooh my brother..

i go soon send u p.m

You want another person mind to cut for your own soon abi? Small small o..

This life isn't a competitive race to finish. What favours you is divine coupled with this economy, if you like stay with you G/Pa or G/Ma. Do your thing and what makes you n the ones you love happy

In benin it ir a very common thing.even the married men and and women still marry and live in their parents house.and the women are just ok with it.no be sofar you see house plus food give woman and meet her other small small needs? Finally our people say"if you no see as you go do am,you do as you see am.

vastolord4:


You want another person mind to cut for your own soon abi? Small small i

omoh........i swear bro,see wetin person carry for waist..

BigBlackPreek:
I'm 31 and still serving. I don't give a fvck about that because I don't seek to please people and I run my own race. I'm also single and focus.

There is no way someone like you would not succeed. As long as you are focused, you are already 3 steps ahead

Kobojunkie:
A man who is living with his parents at that age need not concern himself with what ladies think but rather with how he can get his own place and house first.

There is nothing wrong with living with your parents at that age but it is utterly wrong if such a one has still not figured out his priorities at that point in life.

first time I'm agreeing with you.
God bless you Kobojunkie

this is very good answer. I have friends whose parents are very wealthy and still stay in the same house with the parents, some senators , governors sef. omo some people just like to be with there parents oh.

FRANCISTOWN:


I moved out of my parents house at 16, not because of anything but because my dad was too difficult and we didn't get along. Didn't want to be in his shadow.

For the next 2 years I was in the streets of Aba, from MCC to Osisioma, to Ariara to Ngwa to Umuojima joggling between 2-3 jobs.

I gained admission and would only go home for maybe a week or so, other days I was busy doing my own thing.
After I finished NYSC, i invested in a right business which turned out to be wrong and I went flat broke.

I moved back to a single room and started doing all kinds of things to survive. It was so bad that I had to go back to my parents house for one month before I got my shit together again.

Honestly as I tell you, there were some of my friends who were still in their parents house until they were 30, but now they are so rich and successful that I don't even come close at all.

The point is, whether you leave your parents house at 16, 26 or 36.

What works for everyone is different. Some guys are making 10Mil monthly and they are still living with their parents.

Some just love the company of their parents. Don't pressure anyone, let people live the way they want

ednut1:
there are women who will accept it and even move in with him after marriage. While many ladies will reject him. Shebi na one wife/ babe he need find am

I'm 33 living with my parents.
They are old and advance in age, I'm the only one taking care of them, if I leave them and get a house of my own because of one evil daughter of Jezebel I wonder who will take care of them.
That's what one useless girl I was dating tried to separate me from them till the God my parents served chased her away.
Also the bills I would have used for rent I saved it for years and use it to buy a land, working to build my own house while still staying under my parents roof and taking care of us with my current job

nokspos:
we leave our parent home too early in africa but for the wrong reason, there's nothing bad living with your parent as long as he's working and can afford an apartment.

BigBlackPreek:
I'm 31 and still serving. I don't give a fvck about that because I don't seek to please people and I run my own race. I'm also single and focus.

that's why I try so hard to avoid women as possible so I don't take wrong decisions to please them

Jamahyel:
this is very good answer. I have friends whose parents are very wealthy and still stay in the same house with the parents, some senators , governors sef. omo some people just like to be with there parents oh.

It's the truth bruv. Here in Nigeria, we just like mounting unnecessary pressure on people , because we are too egoistical and dumb.

That's why you'll see some people come out to say "If you've not made your first 1million by 25, you are a failure" , "if you are 25 and you don't have your own house , you are not a man enough", "if you are 25 and you are still in your parents house, you are lazy and weak".

So what happens to someone who makes his first 1million at 25 and blows all his money before 30? And someone who makes his first 1 million at 30 and later goes on to be a billionaire?
I know when I made my first big money, and how it went all off, because I was too young to understand the principle of money.

What happens to someone who moves out of his parents' house at 19 but returns at 40 because he no longer has shit goin on for him, and someone who moves out at 40 and later goes on to own estates and malibles.

In India, most of the family live together. No matter how rich you are, you'll live with your extended family.

As a man, if you are still living with your parents at 40, you are not a failure. If you've still not made your first 1million at 30 you are not a failure.

Just be sure within yourself that you are doing something to change the situation. As long as you are not idle. You are a champ.

FRANCISTOWN:


It's the truth bruv. Here in Nigeria, we just like mounting unnecessary pressure on people , because we are too egoistical and dumb.

That's why you'll see some people come out to say "If you've not made your first 1million by 25, you are a failure" , "if you are 25 and you don't have your own house , you are not a man enough", "if you are 25 and you are still in your parents house, you are lazy and weak".

So what happens to someone who makes his first 1million at 25 and blows all his money before 30? And someone who makes his first 1 million at 30 and later goes on to be a billionaire?
I know when I made my first big money, and how it went all off, because I was too young to understand the principle of money.

What happens to someone who moves out of his parents' house at 19 but returns at 40 because he no longer has shit goin on for him, and someone who moves out at 40 and later goes on to own estates and malibles.

In India, most of the family live together. No matter how rich you are, you'll live with your extended family.

As a man, if you are still living with your parents at 40, you are not a failure. If you've still not made your first 1million at 30 you are not a failure.

Just be sure within yourself that you are doing something to change the situation. As long as you are not idle. You are a champ.

thank you sir. I have been feeling so depressed this days. Because I feel like I am a failure. This your comments will and me get better, and I will strive to succeed.

Acidosis:


Will you ever be bothered if Otedola's daughters (Cuppy, Teni, etc) tell you that they live in one of their parents' homes in London, Abuja, etc?


The things poor people talk and worry about are some of the reasons they hardly make significant progress.

lol, how can you be comparing adult female children living in their parents house with an adult male child of over 30 years still leeching off his parents... You guys should try and reason logically.

Edipet:
what if the parents are not living there, the parents has two to three houses in different cities.??

that's a different things entirely. What you mean is, the parent had gifted the house to him as his property and he's on his own and cater for himself. So it's not the same thing as living together with his parents or still under his parents.

BucketMan:
lol, how can you be comparing adult female children living in their parents house with an adult male child of over 30 years still leeching off his parents... You guys should try and reason logically.

Replace Otedola/Cuppy with Tinubu/Seyi Tinubu.

Seagodess:
you're a goat.. Because you had it easy doesn't mean people staying with thier parents at 40 are lazy.. have seen a guy trying to leave alone doing odd jobs and lossing his life in the process.. even you that's typing Rubbish can go back to your village house tomorrow.. just thank God for grace

40?💀