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Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by Stanislause94: 8:53pm On May 27, 2023 |
SamCeci:no mind them, na the hard truth wey many of them no wan swallow be this 1 Like |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by AHCB: 8:55pm On May 27, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:have you figured out yours, it's a simple question and no need to be rude. š 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by Easybet1(m): 8:55pm On May 27, 2023 |
zed7:@seun please we need dislike button on this forum. Comment like this should be dislike/ downvoted.... What a kid 1 Like |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by Kobojunkie: 8:56pm On May 27, 2023 |
AHCB:Yes, I have. |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by gbolswag(m): 8:58pm On May 27, 2023 |
What if u dont have enough money to be on your own and your parents ain't complaining 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by Kobojunkie: 9:00pm On May 27, 2023 |
gbolswag:Dude, one of the best things you can learn to do in this world is learn how to be you and do what is best for you no matter what the trend or situation. 8 Likes |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by PMONEY6: 9:04pm On May 27, 2023 |
Tell us say your boy/man friend is still living with his parents jor 1 Like |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by Delightsome2023: 9:05pm On May 27, 2023 |
na2016:God bless you. My Case right now 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by Delightsome2023: 9:07pm On May 27, 2023 |
Sirchiboy:and you had to go back to the village to start from square one |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by Sirchiboy: 9:09pm On May 27, 2023 |
Delightsome2023:. Very wicked somebody. You are saying this because you were born with silver spoon 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by Postinor: 9:11pm On May 27, 2023 |
Delightsome2023:so what if you want to get married 1 Like |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by sprints1: 9:12pm On May 27, 2023 |
Its seems this thread is taking to me directly but what can man do. At the moment who will stay with my overaged dad and mum. Barely no one to help them in a mighty big mansion. Living alone this days is terrible and difficult with the rate people dey die like guinea fowl. Even GFs dis days ain't loyal.they can fvcking u right now and be fvcking another random gen z unforsaking dude. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by Bukola94(m): 9:13pm On May 27, 2023 |
Sirchiboy:please kip searching or find a small biz u can start with little capital. Jobs are scarce out there, the available jobs pay megre and them gonna use u till u are not useful for yourself or for them again |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by Donbabaj: 9:13pm On May 27, 2023 |
You think say na every guy like to dey stay their parents house. Your priority should be how to help out and not to be passing the bulk. Rent these days are expensive. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by Delightsome2023: 9:15pm On May 27, 2023 |
Postinor:if she doesn't accept my parents moving in then she should go seek another suitor. My parents practically saved me and contributed immensely to my upgraded version, can't despise and abandon them now. Dad is in his 80's with no one by his side except me and mum that is aging as well 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by Postinor: 9:15pm On May 27, 2023 |
Gangster1ms:are you married,if yes, does ur wife agree with it 1 Like |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by AHCB: 9:18pm On May 27, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:cheers. š |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by Berankis: 9:18pm On May 27, 2023 |
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Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by VTJN(m): 9:18pm On May 27, 2023 |
Blitzking:lucky you. Please do you have masters degree already for PhD or first degree? |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by tyinfinity: 9:19pm On May 27, 2023 |
So it is now a crime to live with one's parents in order to take care of them at old age .also to avoid loneliness parents need company of their children and grandchildren.so if I decide that my child should live with me to avoid loneliness it is not a crime 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by Ashirioluwa: 9:20pm On May 27, 2023 |
JILF: What is undesirable is undesirable. He should be living independently at that age, but as we all know, the circumstances in this nation have made some men into teenagers who still live with their parents or depend on them for food before they can fend for themselves. Find work, get a place to live, and be that man. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by AHCB: 9:20pm On May 27, 2023 |
Gangster1ms:Dude. You're still around. Good reading from you. |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by seunayantokun(m): 9:21pm On May 27, 2023 |
No, not ok |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by frozen70(f): 9:22pm On May 27, 2023 |
JILF: If I find a man in that situation and he has focus, that means he needs some one that will push him further So I will advise him we get a room for him to pack out so that he can find his bearing If he refuses, then I will know that what is holding him is bigger than what am planning for him I will stylishly end the relationship But if he accepts my idea, I will make sure he pays for the rent and gradually starts getting things like bed and fridge and pots My major role will be to come for visits, get food stuff along and cook for our meal With time I will be requesting money for soup and stew, this is a way of teaching him how to provide If by six months into the relationship he hasn't propose to me I will inform him that I want to end the relationship as it's heading no where and I will. Move on but if he pleads with me then he should do the needful 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by harmargedon: 9:24pm On May 27, 2023 |
JILF:Jesus is over 2000 years old, and he still lives in his father's house. 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by FarmTech(m): 9:36pm On May 27, 2023 |
Nothing wrong with that. So long as he is working hard. He will even make it faster than living alone. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by vickydevoka(m): 9:37pm On May 27, 2023 |
frozen70:Whether man or woman u suppose exit papa house b4 30. I de jobless still leave my papa house at 30, today Iām a millionaire in naira. Omo las las everybody go de alright. All this university graduates are the cause of their problems, submitting cv everyday like their papa na Admin officer 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by workchopNG: 9:38pm On May 27, 2023 |
zed7: You guys have to understand that there are many scenarios to this question. I for one is in the age bracket, married with a kid, still live with my mum and sis. Am I lazy? NO! I earn not less than 200k every month. If I stay away from my family, I may not understand their needs. If I give them 80k every month, it may serve them well for some month, while it may not go for 2 weeks for some months. I'm more comfortable having them around, taking care of them, in same house I grew up. 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by Bukola94(m): 9:38pm On May 27, 2023 |
onuman:well I got a family friend who is like 36 or 37yrs of age,who still leave in his father mansion, is father got like 2more big bungalows, and flats which they rent out. He is doing well, got is handy work,and is other family are living in another state. So situation may differ 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by Ade3131: 9:38pm On May 27, 2023 |
zed7: Your submissions above says a lot about how much you've experienced in life than it says of the 30+ guy living with his parents. Lemme ask you why you think everyone above 30 that still lives with their parents can't really afford to rent his own place? And who told you that most of them don't have a job? Ifeel your perspective on life in this regard is so narrow and bereave of wisdom. They're people that decide to stay with their parents due to their parents' health condition. I guess you didn't factor that into your submission. They're also guys like Seyi Tinubu who's born into wealth. His parents live in mansion and they have a lot of them littered around the world. Whichever one he chooses to stay, it still won't change the fact that he lives with his parents. Then lemme also ask you what economic or logical gain is there in renting your own house (even when you can afford it) and your dad owns an estate and they'll only sleep in one or two rooms while they're lots of vacant rooms available? Or you just want to go out for the society to see that you're truly a man? And if we're being realistic, the realities of the present day Nigeria is not in synch with whatever fantasy any of us have had growing up. Renting a room and parlor at Orile, in Lagos state now goes for as much as half a million for a year and landlords are demanding 2 year rent upfront in addition to agent and commission fee. Total package is 1.3m. That's a room and parlor. Tell me how your 20k of 2 jobs can afford that. Let's not pressurize the less-privy men among us. Yes, it is expected that at certain age you should be financially stable enough to stand on your own, but if you're reading this and you're above 30 and still stays with your parents, and your reality says otherwise to the expected norm, pls don't go into crime bcuz you want to size up with your mates. Life na turn by turn. You might be a late bloomer, and there's nothing bad about it. What's bad is knowing that you're down and still be digging. If you're down don't dig. Instead, stand up. 15 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Is It Ok For A Guy To Be Living With His Parents At Age 32-39 ? by FarmTech(m): 9:42pm On May 27, 2023 |
frozen70:. The money he will use to invest in biz, u want him to spend it on rent and food? Not a good idea. |
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