Thomasankara:
women don't consider your sexual past when marrying,in short such sexual escapades turn them on,what they consider mostly is can this man fend for me,any other reason is useless. Most of them believe most bad guys can never be stranded financially,hence they get clingy to them

BRIMBRAM:


Would they have gotten married to her if they knew. And will the marriage continue to stand if the eventually know?!

A woman's past is important to men. A man's future is important to women.

isabi2lof:


We're going to judge everyone by their past and by their future, you guys wants to eat your cakes and have it back .

It's not only men that has future , we women too has future.

So you except me to forget a rapist past or a ritualist past , you'll must be joking.

I'm gonna judge you , by your past , present and future , don't just let me know about it cos definitely I will judge you harshly 🤣🤣🤣

Rayban25:


We no send una before so dont overrate your importance please...after vetting me will you be the one to pay the Bills? Shift abeg

UyaiIncomparabl:


Is it about paying bills? Whether you pay the bills or not, we will still judge you harshly by your past and vet you in every way possible.

jaxxy:


guys are also thrilled by a girl that can do they bed gymnastics rather than stay like a log of wood. where do u think she got her experience from b4 meeting u?

stanliwise:

Not as a wife trust me.
Maybe it’s only 10 percent.

Olosho are the best in that category not what a wife need to be.

razible5384:
your last line just got me laughing so hard , abeg take am easy oh

Rayban25:


My point is whether you judge us or not it dosent affect us because men dont need women like that we mainly need you when konji is catching us. You need and depend on us more to provide for you and continue from where your fathers stopped .. if you cant swallow that pill then that is your problem

UyaiIncomparabl:


There’s no pill here to swallow. We don’t depend on you people for provision anymore because we can do that and more already. So, what else can you people do asides from provision which we do for ourselves and sex which we have grown uninterested to?

Maynmann:


Men complain about their wives hoarding sex, not performance.

What’s the percentage of women getting married to younger men compared to men getting married to younger women?
Which is more prevalent? Why?
This are common sense and basic things even for a teenager.
Minority doesn’t determine the norm.

Rayban25:


I too wish you could live in denial for as long as you want but sorry my dear..truth is bitter.

So sorry.

SAMBARRY:
even men wey dey fvck olosho and the ones wey dey look for olosho joints on NL too go come here to condemn


I'm not saying men should marry indecent women and vice varsae but men that have a stinking past do not have the moral justification to be slut shaming another woman


You will see the ones that used to steal,do drugs,got involved in cultism, patronised prostitutes or was a Gigolo, pedophile or rapists having the audacity to judge.if our pasts were open to us all in a projector before we get a job or get married, nobody will want to have anything to do with anybody talkless of getting married

G00DHardDick:


As usual. Always playing the victim card. Madam did those men forced you to open your legs for them? Did you commanded you to open your kpekpus? In most cases, you were offered money and you willingly gave in. So why lamenting and disgracing yourself here?

UyaiIncomparabl:


I disagree.

OloYeOfEgbE:


Even King David slept with that soldier's wife.,got the husband killed with his actions and God forgave, he didn't forgive Lot wife sister that disobeyed and looked back.. na Salt e turn..

Farfalla:


Even this one will claim to be logical. Smh.

jaxxy:


aslong as the wife isn't a virgin nobody wants log of wood.

1stola:
Lol
I know your type... Not everyone is foolish sha... Not everyone can settle for less a a leftover.

Flows001:

Hope you won't divorce her after getting to hear or see any of her past deeds like the attached?

Omoh, a woman's past matters, just as much as a man's future...

immortalmortal:


Imagine you're one of the guys in this picture... Would your past matter to your wife?

Flows001:

Inasmuch as I do not support immorality in both guys and ladies, it is an obvious fact that a woman's body is not the same as a guy's body.
A guy can sleep with 100 ladies and his d**k will still remain active and in perfect condition, a woman on the other hand who sleeps with as low as 10 men, will have either a slack and extremely wide p***y or fallen br**sts, thereby reducing her worth and outward beauty before her future husband...

I recently met a 19year old lady whose breasts have so fallen and gone completely flat that they can be compared to that of a 70year old grandmother, I kept wondering what such lady's eventual husband will enjoy when he marries her...

Apart from the body losing shape, it is a huge slap on a man's ego to eventually know that the woman he paid bride price to have was freely sharing herself to every dick and Harry while she was single, or has done multiple abortions for different guys, which of course will affect her chances of conceiving for such husband....
E.t.c..

UyaiIncomparabl:


So, why do you men complain about women who do not participate in the humping activities inside the bedroom? You men will always nag about a woman lying like a log on the bed while you do the whole work. Since you aren’t concerned about performance, why then do you complain about a woman who doesn’t give you as much energy in the bedroom as you do?

Maynmaynmayn:

When did “men” complain?
Which venue did “men” use?

UyaiIncomparabl:


Men on Nairaland.

I'm speaking for the men I have read their complaints and listened to on and out of NL.

immortalmortal:



Even some virgins have slacked breasts... Some girls who have slept with over 20 guys still have tight p**sies. so according what you just said, as long as her p**say tight and her breast are firm, her past doesn't matter

Flows001:

I didn't only make the fallen breasts or slack p***y instance, check my last paragraph, my last paragraph is the worst of it....

No need to even talk much, my girlfriend is still a virgin and I happen to be her first ever boyfriend; so no "ex" wahala at all, I will be marrying her soon.
I just dey feel for other men that will be so unfortunate to wife the uncountable hookup girls jumping around these days, an average active hookup girl has slept with at least 10 strangers, and you expect men to just fold their hands and marry them without digging about their past lifestyles?
Dey play...

immortalmortal:



Hahahaha... What if you marry her and find out she's not a virgin? We see a lot of these things these days. Happy married life in advance

Flows001:

I couldn't have been bold enough to refer to her as a virgin if I hadn't confirmed it myself...
I personally saw it tightly closed and still decided to leave it that way and help her remain so until I marry her...