Tell her to stop dressing like Egungun.

MisterBanny:


Check Pm

I don't understand!!!!

Enny2013:

I don't understand!!!!

I sent you a mail. Check it

Rayban25:
If you attempt to go through my phone that is the end of the relationship/marriage.

Who be this one?
I ll know your password, your ATM code, all details of your life else I dump your ass & I ll make sure you pay me well for any delay. No sex till marriage and if you can't make it to marriage, it's your destiny.

ebukajay184:


https://www.instagram.com/reel/CsvXqoQAzPV/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

She is in delusion. My wife must check my phone. Na only my account I no gree make she check because woman wants be like Oliver twist matter.

Jesusmystrength:





I am already in my husband's house for 7years now, and my husband's phone is always with me most of the time because he is not into social media na me dey use him data anyhow. My husband doesn't even care about me going through his phone or him going through my phone, I just wonder why phone will become an issue in some marriages...the thing dey baffle me big time!

That's fine if that's what two of you agreed on. Absolutely fine.

I'm talking about in a situation where the husband has passwords and the wife is insisting or pushing to know it so she could be spying or vice versa.

That particular act can make them suspicious of each other and there will be no trust.

Jennyclay:
If I can’t go through my man phone, then he shouldn’t go through my phone.

I must know his password to his phone and ATM card.

Are you even married with your neck like Zimbabwean turkey! Financial parasite, you must know his ATM password? No wonder your forehead is like the edge of ATM card!!!

Jesusmystrength:
God abeg o...me and my husband no even care about all this things. Why will I be married to someone that I can't touch or check his phone is that normal at all? Bible says two becomes one ooo

A phone is a personal property. A woman who insists on seeing her husband's phone is a troublemaker

Goodlady:

Who be this one?
I ll know your password, your ATM code, all details of your life else I dump your ass & I ll make sure you pay me well for any delay. No sex till marriage and if you can't make it to marriage, it's your destiny.

So why are you telling me? Am I the one that is going to marry you?

This info should be given to zonefree not me.

Rayban25:


So why are you telling me? Am I the one that is going to marry you?

This info should be given to zonefree not me.

So you know that dirty boy?
Tell him to stop trolling me.

I really do not subscribe to some of these teachings. Why would a spouse even password his or her phone?

Goodlady:

So you know that dirty boy?
Tell him to stop trolling me.

Na am dey troll you or vice versa?

Because I can bet virginprincess right breast that you're the one trolling him because you love him and wont let him know

bukatyne:


If she said phone checking is indicative of lack of trust and both parties or wives (depending on the audience) should work towards a trust marriage, I concur.

If she said wives should mind their business and stop intruding on their husbands' privacy, I absolutely disagree.

In a Christian home, there is no privacy and no personal business to mind. This is a 'worldly' wisdom and principles creeping into the Church.

That's why every Christian owe himself/herself the duty to study the Word and understand for themselves.

God bless you abundantly in Jesus name.

Jovialjune1:
For a married man to password his phone, that means he has so many things to hide, meaning he is not to be trusted, and if a marriage is not bound by trust whereby everything is laid bare, that marriage is bound to fail.

So you mean a married man password his phone just because of his wife? Think deeper, it goes way beyond that, my phone is a gate way to my hard earned money and other sensitive office work, can't afford it being in the wrong hands.

Aposteli1:

God bless you abundantly in Jesus name.

Amen and you too.

BJanta:
Is this really a woman of GOD? Why would a man not freely leave his phone anywhere in the house? My wife can take my phone and travel abroad for all I care. Let her just leave another one for me to use. Is dustrust a sin if there's ground for it ? Why would the woman not search her spouse's phone if there's a strong reason for this, and then discuss any matter that may arise in the Christian way. Would this not be much better than bottling up emotions but nursing a grudge and resentments? All these self-ordained pastors with their carnal messages.

You obviously didn't watch the video or at least all of it...

She actually clearly stated that both should never password their devices or keep secrets! This was the crux of her teaching... She merely mentioned in passing or wondered why exactly women constantly keep searching and reading their husband's phone messages. That they shouldn't make it a habit, as it creates the impression of distrust!

Honestly, that act of snooping irritates most men, even those who have nothing to hide!

Some women hardly give their husbands privacy, even when they receive calls... Doesn't really make sense!

We shouldn't overdo everything!... If you can't trust your partner, then the marriage is already doomed!

Beolly:

A phone is a personal property. A woman who insists on seeing her husband's phone is a troublemaker

Nothing like insisting here. Is just dat we gt nothing to hide.

Rayban25:



That's fine if that's what two of you agreed on. Absolutely fine.

I'm talking about in a situation where the husband has passwords and the wife is insisting or pushing to know it so she could be spying or vice versa.

That particular act can make them suspicious of each other and there will be no trust.

Well it depends on both of them.

If I don't check urs , leave mine alone , if I'm having a doubt about our relationship, I will talk it out with , highest na to go our separate ways . 🥱

Rayban25:


Na am dey troll you or vice versa?

Because I can bet virginprincess right breast that you're the one trolling him because you love him and wont let him know

Lol. Boys and their imagination!
Abeg shift!

Wotoporiously speaking

If you like check, if you no like no check, person wey wan cheat go cheat, this matter has been deliberated on since B.C and them never still find solution to am.

Most marriages this days are just for titles, so expect more divorces.

Ojukwudfugitive:

Are you even married with your neck like Zimbabwean turkey! Financial parasite, you must know his ATM password? No wonder your forehead is like the edge of ATM card!!!

She's beautiful, must she be married before knowing what is right , so to you , marriage is a battlefield.

Nazgul:

No when she's from a wealthy home with some many properties on her name. The man would know that divorcing her would be a great loose to him. So killing her and inheriting her family's wealth would seem like a better option for him.

a woman coming from a rich home doesn't always favour the husband.

Besides,most men doesn't care about stuffs like that

@Jovialjune1
For a married man to password his phone, that means he has so many things to hide, meaning he is not to be trusted, and if a marriage is not bound by trust whereby everything is laid bare, that marriage is bound to fail.


@me
What do you want to see in his phone? Is the housekeeping allowance inside it.

-To unlock my phones, you will need my fingerprint. But why would a wife have a need to check her husband's phone, or some men allow such to happen? ...well, Simps abound.

-As my phones are more than mobiles, my wives know they're out-of-bound. I renew their phones when I renew mine for a reason; so they stick with theirs.

-Anyway, check my phones at your own peril.

@Nice2023
Any man that hides his phone from his wife is a criminal.

Is a day light robber.



@me
Too much see see can blind the eyes.

Samantha124:
Funny enough, I'm holding my man's phone right now and he's right here and not complaining.

Anyways, good night..🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️

Who are you trying to impress.
Liar.
Rolling Stone.

ebukajay184:


https://www.instagram.com/reel/CsvXqoQAzPV/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Any spouse that is protective to his or her phone and that can't reveal he or her phone or ATM passwords to their partner is guilty of cheating and can not be trusted.

Allowing your partner to know your phone and ATM passwords shows that the both partners trust themselves. There's nothing wrong if a woman or man tries to go through their spouse's phone.

[You're too young to understand the advice dear .quote author=Kobojunkie post=123422657] Any woman who suggests this to others is not in a marriage herself but a prison defined by such restrictions. If you are not free to even look at your partner's phone, then you might as well say you are just fuckmates? [/quote]

Jacobx007:

So you mean a married man password his phone just because of his wife? Think deeper, it goes way beyond that, my phone is a gate way to my hard earned money and other sensitive office work, can't afford it being in the wrong hands.

Your wife is the wrong hands? Hope you wouldn't over react if your wide passwords her phone too, she may also have sensitive office work things she doesn't want you to see.

Jennyclay:
If I can’t go through my man phone, then he shouldn’t go through my phone.

I must know his password to his phone and ATM card.

.
Access to his phone? Yes u are free. But atm card? Not advisable.