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Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by Tareq1105: 7:41am On May 29, 2023 |
Rayban25: Madam, pls talk to your husband to stay away from the dirty water of politics. I'm a Winner (Living Faith Church) and I love him so much but I'm not comfortable with his deep involvement in political talks and prophecy. All these prophecies are affecting the body of Christ negatively and I'm not comfortable with it. |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by Sammy5413(m): 7:47am On May 29, 2023 |
Until you're married you'll understand why she said so. You're still tender to understand the language of the elders Kobojunkie: |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by Sammy5413(m): 7:49am On May 29, 2023 |
Anakogheri Jennyclay: |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by simfrost90210: 7:51am On May 29, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: "Looking at" and "checking" are not the same. Looking at and looking through are not same.. She's insisting you don't have to "look through" or "check" your husband's phone to avoid misconceptions of any sort if you're built psychologically on suspicion.. You can actually "look at" your partner's phone, YES but for safety reasons, if you're an insecure type, don't look through it😊 But everyone should just be free with their partners... It's a love union not a contract 😅 Happy Inauguration Day.. Don't have a good day.. Have a great day!!! |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by xamodans: 8:09am On May 29, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I get you, but I think what she means is that any woman that is in the habit of checking her husband's phone to dig up or investigate is laying a foundation of distrust.. |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by sniperr007(m): 8:31am On May 29, 2023 |
Jennyclay: I agree. It's a just to know his password and vice versa |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by okoroemeka(m): 8:54am On May 29, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:what the woman indirectly saying is that if you put your finger into your anus you must smell shit,there are many things to see when you look into a man's phone,best option is simply to leave it alone |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by NairaMaster1(m): 8:59am On May 29, 2023 |
Jennyclay: That is why it is difficult for you people to keep your marriage. |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by Bigii(m): 9:21am On May 29, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Come and collect my password baby😋 |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by Nobody: 9:39am On May 29, 2023 |
Tareq1105: Check again you may have quoted the wrong person..cause your write up has no correlation with my post |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by korede181: 9:50am On May 29, 2023 |
Jennyclay:hhhhhhh..must... who told you that you will even marry....use your words wisely since you have no clue of the future |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by dedoz: 10:07am On May 29, 2023 |
How about trusting someone so much!!..the person is faithful and all that! Then boom!!! The person changes along the line....As I am now,I don't trust anyone....the phone may not be passworded but the chats will be hidden such that you can't find them....Once bitten twice shy. |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:34am On May 29, 2023 |
ecolime: Nope. It isn't about "secretly" checking. I and my husband should be free enough to have our phones open to each other, even though we have a sense of responsibility, maturity & trust to not be funny with the access granted. An ideal marriage in my thinking is one where my husband knows I have access to everything, and he also does to mine. But because we're responsible people who trust each other, we do not abuse openness & transparency. ****** As a teenager, I was my mum's right-hand woman. I had access to all her everything. Knew all the accounts and cooperatives she maintained, her fixed deposits, expiration dates for all...her ATM cards and pins, her phone and the password. Infact, I could go to her office to help her conclude a screening exercise. Her colleagues knew me, and would facilitate the process. On those occasions, I simply took all the documents that were required. But I never for once withdrew her money without permission...or started reading her SMS or emails. Infact, I could ask for certain things and she'd defer it...while we both knew the money was available. That's how I believe marriage partners should be with one another also. ** But then again, to each man his own. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:40am On May 29, 2023 |
Jovialjune1: Don't mind them. This is why it's important to marry correctly, checking all the indices that matter...and then being a good person themselves. After that, people in marriage must really activate trust. Practice trusting one another. It's an essential ingredient in having a successful marriage, and an intimate one. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:41am On May 29, 2023 |
bukatyne: Spot on! And it's disappointing that message is coming from a Christian matriarch. When there's a battle in this age to help marriages thrive, to teach people what a kingdom marriage looks like, Mrs Enenche is instead, postulating worldy principles. |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by kwasoly(m): 10:53am On May 29, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: What exactly are you looking for in your partners phone, kindly school me on that. |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:57am On May 29, 2023 |
Angelfrost: @emboldened That's what most people are missing. Having access to each other's phone is simply about ensuring transparency & accountability. I believe the best way to avoid temptation, is to not get into temptation. I believe in "fleeing" every appearance of evil. Let's use the CCTV camera at work, for instance. We know that no one is necessarily watching the camera in all sections 24/7. But you know that the camera is capturing. And so because your job is important to you, and you know that the office may stumble on what you've done while the camera was on, you'd simply not risk doing certain things that aren't allowed on cam. But if the camera wasn't there AT ALL! Trust me, crazy things would happen at work everyday! That's part of the rationale behind partners having access to each other's phones. When I have an access to my partner's device, I don't go checking. Everything isn't about whether or not someone is cheating. There are more things than that. Family discussions, business transactions, places visited, discussions with friends & acquaintances, etc. I do not just sit down and start snooping. But for as long as he knows I have access and would see something funny if I decided to do a deep-dive, he'll always remember to not start those things. That's the point. Reducing allowances for untoward behaviour. |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:00am On May 29, 2023 |
BJanta: Very carnal message. |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:02am On May 29, 2023 |
Clash01: Stop running things outside your home. It may seem like fun today, and that you're getting away with it, but you're creating cracks in your home. Giving the devil legal access into your home. One day he'll come to occupy. So please desist and consecrate while the time is there. |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by Angelfrost(m): 11:20am On May 29, 2023 |
PrimadonnaO: You have said it all... Nothing more to add! Quite apt! 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:24am On May 29, 2023 |
Aposteli1: Amen. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:28am On May 29, 2023 |
Streetmovement: There's a solution. Most people simply do not want to defer to that solution. The solution is to first be children of God, and then to do marriage as prescribed in the bible. To let the Holy Spirit be the wisdom that runs the marriage, not hot takes, and inconsistent personal philosophies. |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:35am On May 29, 2023 |
Ellasure: You've expounded beyond the context. |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by smokeyupu(m): 11:55am On May 29, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: GO AND BE CHECKING YOUR PARENTS PHONE SINCE IT'S YUR FAVORITE PASTIME |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by erniok(m): 12:53pm On May 29, 2023 |
bukatyne:Pst has quickly forgotten "both were naked and not ashamed". If yoga is making madam check the phone, he needs to embark on a spiritual retreat as a Christian. |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by ucheuzor1(m): 1:57pm On May 29, 2023 |
Jennyclay: You want to steal his money abi. People like me that don't check debit alert or account balance, you'll just loot me finish. |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by boxypane(m): 2:23pm On May 29, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Exactly. Are you married sir? |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by Kobojunkie: 2:28pm On May 29, 2023 |
boxypane:Oh, now you think because my opinion and experience differs from yours it means I am not married. Look, your case is like that of a woman who thinks the only way to raise is to flog said child whenever it errs,ignorant of the fact that there are less brutal and even more effective ways of doing the exact same. ![]() Marriages break up whether you check each other's phones of you don't. So, telling me that not checking your partner's phones is key to longevity marriage is another foolish trip down the path of denial. ![]() |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by boxypane(m): 3:50pm On May 29, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:You didn't answer the question sir. Rather resulted into demeaning the conversation. It's obvious you're still suckling. |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by Kobojunkie: 4:07pm On May 29, 2023 |
boxypane:I didn't answer because this issue is not meant to be subjective but objective . ![]() |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by boxypane(m): 4:12pm On May 29, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:And that's why you downgraded the female gender in your previous statement? |
Re: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by Kobojunkie: 4:15pm On May 29, 2023 |
boxypane:What in the world are you talking about? ![]() |
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