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Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Colitis: 2:56pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
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Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Enemyofpeace: 2:56pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Medically dangerous to conceed baby and, if she managed to conceed baby, it is also dangerous for her to deliverance the baby becourse of her age |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Emmanuel909090: 2:57pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Fineman2: What do you guys even call red flag? A man is supposed to be in control, the only problem I have is his decisions being dependent on his family asides that he is a man and need to act one. 5 Likes |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by lomprico(m): 2:57pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Fineman2: Talk to the nigga about it 1 Like |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by HEBEI: 2:57pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
If you don't like what you are seeing now, please call off the wedding, because it would continue or even get worse after the wedding. Marriage is sweet when true love is there. And true love can only be there if the couple understand themselves. 3 Likes |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:57pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Fineman2: of course any normal person in your shoes would/should RUUUUN, but the important question IS: how desperate are you to get married? the dude is showing you his true controlling face, dont ignore it. 1 Like |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by BigBlackPreek(m): 2:57pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
I'm 31 leaving my life not to anyone but myself coz I'm having limited time on here 3 Likes |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by SafariHunter(m): 2:58pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
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Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by LeyeWrites: 2:58pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Kajaard:Are you a woman? Are you single? If no, then silence is a better option. 2 Likes |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Mummyfour(f): 2:58pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Fineman2:serious red flag. You never grind beans, moi moi don dey smell. Use your tongue count your teeth. Better a failed courtship than a failed marriage especially if there is no understanding and compromise as it stands at this period of courtship 5 Likes |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by LugardD1: 2:58pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Get sense for once, who told you all men are cheats? All women are what? |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Kobojunkie: 2:59pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Toscarel:If she isn't Osinachi-ed before then, right? ![]() |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by obinna58(m): 3:00pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
tommy589:Are you so blind? She wants a man she’ll control and thought she found him only for things to overturn at the dying minute He took the wheel at extra time and she’s not having it 1 Like |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by CodeTemplar: 3:00pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
When you need to see into the future, you should seek the creator of marriage and a future for advise and not intellectual advise from anonymous entities who have no attachment or empathy as relates to your situation. |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Toscarel: 3:01pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
I dont think she mentioned him being vawulent Kobojunkie: 1 Like |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Vision101(m): 3:01pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
My dear marriage require hard work, real hard work. Nothing is complete but you have to make it complete ✅. 2 Likes |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Mayeldah(m): 3:01pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Talk to him about it in a polite manner and make him understand how such behaviour makes you feel if he is not changing, get someone else he listens to, to talk to him about it. We should learn to make efforts in resolving conflicts and not run once our partner just behaves in a way we don;t like. Some people do change when you talk to them, not every adult sticks to their learned behaviour all the time when corrected, some responds However, follow your heart after you have done all these and he isn't changing I wish you well 4 Likes |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by obinna58(m): 3:01pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Fineman2:So what’s wrong with him taking charge? Are siofra Siofra come see your fate |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by babzlim(m): 3:01pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
seat him down and have a one on one talk with him if possible tell him how scared you are concerning his new attitude and how much he has changed, after the talk if you still don't see any changes my sister the advice I will give you is same I will give my own biological sister. RUN IN CAPITAL LETTER. Trust me is better to live a single life and be happy then to be in an abusive marriage either male or female. 3 Likes |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Pakwel(m): 3:02pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Please do not listen to this people hear oh.. abeg you with God. Most of the ladies here after given you bad advice they will locate that your man and submit to him. You think men are scum,? Ladies hates ladies progess. Especially marital progress 2 Likes |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Kajaard: 3:02pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
LeyeWrites: Shut your trap. |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by capnies: 3:02pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
GET MARRIED TO HIM YOU SAID HE WAS NOT LIKE THAT BEFORE. HE'S JUST LOOKING FOR WAYS TO REDUCE EXPENSES. I WANT TO ATTEND YOUR CHILD DEDICATION NEXT YEAR. .MUCH LOVE 3 Likes |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Kobojunkie: 3:03pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Toscarel:She said he is controlling, a sign of a potentially violent being. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by kenolsquad(m): 3:04pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
People who pay bills don’t seek the opinions of dependents except for when it really matters. Secondly, you should expect changes in temperament especially when one finances a venture with no +ve plowback. 2 Likes |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by LUCASC(m): 3:04pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Fineman2:You didn’t mention if he’s the one in charge of the bills here😁. Have you considered that he is considering the fact that he is the one who sponsors all the expenses? He might just be a cautious spender to avoid unnecessary debt after marriage considering the price of things now in the market. You are considering people's opinion, on this without judging this from all angles. I will advise you not to put all your efforts in planning for wedding but life after wedding that's where you will know for yourself. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by akevic: 3:04pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Why allow third party into your marriage even before it starts. Your fiancé is childish as well as u who is bringing it to this platform for discussion. You will definitely hear several opinions that will destroy your marriage. If u are waiting to see a perfect man, u better think twice or remain single. 1 Like |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Mayeldah(m): 3:05pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Enemyofpeace: Baba, your dad deserves a refund for those school fees paid years back ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Nobody: 3:05pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Why do folks see marriage as the end goal in life, marriage is not a do or die affair ohh |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Ellasure: 3:07pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Fineman2: Dora, I will plead with you not to listen to nay sayers and the lonely kids on this topic. can I tell you that your man is just feeling happy and he is trying to be a man first time in his life. kindly stay supportive and enjoy the provisions and arrangements he is making towards the marriage. besides, I am sure that there are some inputs you will still make in conjunction with your mother in law. also use this time to assess the family you are marrying into instead of living in fear or terror of the unknown. at 35 you are fully matured and be more patience with your thinking and conclusions. best wishes and almighty God guidance over you. 1 Like |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by flokii: 3:07pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Hmm.. hanty you don old o. Don't throw this one away because of minor issues that can be resolved. Remember menopause now start at 38-40yrs for some women. Ire o. |
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