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Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by OChimex: 4:35pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Caleycash: Western men and women can bear more. There are so many stay at home moms here in America, bro, as well as stay at home dads too. And some split bills, it’s just what works and the situation. They apply common sense Guy whites are more reasonable and common sense individuals and that’s why their countries work. There are bad eggs although in women, but there are much more good ones that have been destroyed. Africa can only grow if they change their stupid mindset and always apply common sense. 2 Likes |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by bolademi(m): 4:39pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Fineman2: |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by fisco82(m): 4:41pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
[quote author=GboyegaD post=123529240]My she should lower her ego, and face her marriage, marriage is different from courtship |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by NezzyMike: 4:44pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Fineman2: It's like you ain't contributing to the wedding plans...most especially financial aspect of it. 1 Like |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by CaptMarvel(m): 4:44pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Fineman2:this is just a mere story. There have to be an agreement between the two on anything. |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by DWJOBScom(m): 4:46pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Cancel the married Take a break Relax Stay away This is pending disaster |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by deyplay: 4:48pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Fineman2:your moniker is fineman and you are Dona. Continue! Anyways whether real or fake, talk to him and try to endure, and didn't u see his controlling nature till he proposed within the one year? Dating and courtship is to study one another for marriage. Anyways, If u back out, you will now be too careful to avoid a controlling man and time is not on your side to be that picky. And moreover at what age will u find another man that is perfect and when u finally found him in your late thirties , will he want to marry u? If that's the only character flaws he has , work on it. It also seems you are on the receiving end and that you are contributing little to the wedding, that's why he has the temerity to do as he likes since you are contributing little to nothing 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by ryfoz(m): 4:48pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Boss how u take reduce those text size u quoted, I've tried this function many times but doesn't reduce on this platform. Pls help a broda |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by ryfoz(m): 4:50pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
I no dey comment on advice page wey don pass 5. Advice(s) don burekete for ground, just select d good ones and filter the sand sand ones |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by InvertedHammer: 4:50pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
/ Try to marry between 21-25, they won't hear. At her age, the quality of men approaching her for marriage will be divorcees, widowers or low quality men like she is dealing with right now. Pressure from family members and the society made her push herself cheaply to him. She waited too long to get married. It is a cross she must bear and it goes for both men and women. There is a reason why he is still single at 40. / 1 Like |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Kobojunkie: 4:51pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
ryfoz:Select the text you wish to reduce and click the fontsize button above the text area. Or you can type [size=8pt](include a close) around the text |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by inforesource: 4:51pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Fineman2:Should I tell you the truth? If you are getting married because you are getting old, then I can bet you, there will be no peace in that marriage. And concerning the choice of man you want to marry, is he genuinely in love with Jesus Christ? How often has he called you and sit you down and teach you the way of the LORD? Are you yourself born again? Note, this time is a very difficult time for marriage. In conclusion, can you bear with your husband-to-be with his faults, pray for him and show understanding? Don't let desperation take charge of your sense of reality. Be wise! |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Ndipe(m): 4:53pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Good one. You are eagle-eyed. Thumbs up 👍 for exposing this fake story. Seun should award you a medal for debunking this story. Amenam etieti tremilatre: 1 Like |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by komzy589(m): 4:53pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
teekay213:This one is not an option for them. Husband full everywhere. |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by mechanics(m): 4:55pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
You should talk to him about your complaints and get it resolved now, actually he should have carried you along. |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Caleycash(m): 4:56pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
OChimex:You know very well that's not gonna happen even in the nearest future, the westerners have there own problems as well, with so much freedom and empowerment look how psychotic most of them are, with psychological problems here and there, there's no perfect system! |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by komzy589(m): 5:00pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
babzlim:Did she mention anything about abuse! What is the problem with women and being submissive to most likely, the man that is footing all the bills for the marriage! To me it’s nothing but pride. |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by calmandwild101(m): 5:01pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
teekay213:After doing all these for him, what if he doesn’t change, wouldn’t it be too late for her to opt out ? |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by freshkpomo(m): 5:02pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Kajaard: Try nor dey disgrace yourself. Europe, Asia and all have their women running after men but this buzu dey look for means to always trash talk black man. Where u don travel go for life? How many countries you don visit? I be Benin man and I don Waka places. I know how many women dey die of loneliness for uptown and you dey here dey abuse Africans. Our culture still remains one of the best in the world and I pity women who will listen to people like you because na Love Machine go be their portion. |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Kajaard: 5:04pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
freshkpomo: Lol, you be idiot. |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Caleycash(m): 5:04pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
OChimex:You sound so much like a feminist... the so called feminised west how has it been for them!?, lots of Divorced home, separations, lots of damaged women with mental illness deemed as "weird", children from broken home behaving very badly and filled with criminal tendencies, I reiterate there's no perfect system, most men even in that your so called west will still prefer Nigerian/African way of being with women, women can't handle so much power, they always tend to abuse it. exception of few, so you mean those divorcing and separating everyday in tye west is a good thing for the society!?, finally it's a man's world 💯, all inventions, wars and great feats were all achieved by men! That's the reality and it's not changing even in 10,000 years to come, it's a man's world |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by nnmichelle3542: 5:06pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
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Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by komzy589(m): 5:06pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Pakwel:As a lady, the last person you want to take advice from is a single lady. Especially the ones in their late 20s and 30s. 1 Like |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by babzlim(m): 5:06pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
komzy589: there are two types of abuse physical and verbal I never said a woman shouldn't be submissive in a marriage, what I actually mean is if you find anything you know or feel you cant live with in a marriage pls say it or leave because forever no be joke. |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by pansophist(m): 5:07pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Like cement, an over 40 years old man is already hardened in his ways, and even the spirit of God cannot change him. But you can compromise. So since he decides for things to go his way, then he should bear the cost only. It's just a twist to the old saying that "he who plays the Piper dictates the tune". You want things to go your way abi? Oya pay for it alone. E no hard. No perfect man outside, and if this is the only flaw he has, then manage him like that, you're not perfect either. But if he beats, sleeps around and can't provide for you, then I'll personally come and drag you out of that marriage, while donating a jaw-shifting uppercut to him as I exit the door. Keep talking to him that he should consider your opinion, but also know where to draw the line between been submissive, and being imposing. Things doesn't have to go your ways always. No offence to you, but my experience with over 30 year old women is that submission is hard for them. They've grown past the age of easy integration into a man's program. Make sure this is not your problem. You've probably being with other men and have develop a taste of everything, and how you want your things done. A young woman will not care since she is inexperienced and helplessly in love. Relationships between matured couples are mostly transactional, and engineered to the last bolt. These are some challenges associated with marrying older. Easy integration into each other's lives becomes hard. Like water and oil, you coexist, instead of mixing. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by komzy589(m): 5:08pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:See your life. Sign detector. |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by GboyegaD(m): 5:09pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Pakwel: Who wears the female rings? They both should be able to decide what type of ring(s) each other wants while the man should get them. In this case, it seems she isn't involved as the mummy's boy has left it for his mom to get their rings hence, her complaints. |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Acehart: 5:10pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Fineman2: He is a narcissist. What lies ahead could destroy you. 1 Like |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by Caleycash(m): 5:10pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
OChimex:By the way the name calling of men "CAVEMEN" is an emotional manipulation, doesn't mean shit in reality, there lots of Nigerian/African men who sticks to there traditions, culture and good home ethics doing fine all over the world, if women were that really interested in equality they would be fighting in Ukraine right now not blabbing about equality online! 1 Like |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by merits(m): 5:11pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Fineman2: You want to run after you are left with only five years to your menopause. 2 Likes |
Re: This 35 Year-old Lady Needs Your Advice As She Plans To Get Married by faithfull18(f): 5:11pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
No comment, do what's best for you regardless of what the world thinks, life is per head. |
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