Karlman:
Since you're innocent, why bother?
If your mother was still alive then you can rearfirm your truth with her but since she is gone forget it.
Except maybe you want to ask the girl why she lied against you but who knows she might still insist you and her did something or she might come out clean. As for her father, i think it's totally unnecessary.
As for your planning to settle down, once you know you're innocent your conscience should be clear and like they say a clear conscience fears no accusation.

this dude dig in deep probably too young to understand how it works

Guy, no disturb yourself jare.

If you are really responsible for the pregnancy, they wouldn't have allowed you to be since all these months... They would have gone for you...

Just for curiosity sake, you can call to ask the girl why she lied on you knowing fully well that you guys didn't have any penetrative sex.... That's if you are so sure there nothing of such o...


Free your mind. Such happens...

Life is Life... You don learn small thing be dat

Yes confront her even very harshly, but this time, have everything on phone record .

You're welcome in advance

No issue here. They knew you are not responsible na

Baronthecelebri:
Sue her, she and her father will sell their family land to pay you back, I say take them to court

CC humble432

Take this advice bro. Sue that girl and demand for 10million Naira compensation for damages.

Cloudflare:


I'm visibly mad at you right now. Dude are you ok? You mean an olosho and a p.rostitute who got impregnated by one of her random customers accused you of the pregnancy and you kept quiet like a dummy? What kind of Simp are you? 😡

When we tell ukaface and her likes who always love to come and rush to defend these small small teen girls, that those small small girls are all oloshos doing things that are beyond the understanding of their male counterparts, they'll think we're joking. That teen girl was already pregnant before she met you. She knew exactly what she was doing. She lied and manipulated everyone into believing her lies because she knew the society well believe her.

U better confront and deal with that olosho ASAP. I'll urge you to swallow the redpill now to learn how to confront her.

Bro you can advice without the name calling and again, if you had read the whole story I doubt if you would use the word "simp" here.


You made a great POINT though. Maybe the girl was already pregnant before coming to meet me that day. We just kissed and a little play with her breast but she was completely strict when it comes to her p*sy. She didn't even pull it off nor allowed me to even put a finger. I didn't bother much because at that age,,,,,sex wasn't my priority. Great point, thanks for the idea bro.

UptownVibes:
Confronting her now that your parents and her mom are now more,won't change anything. She fit put another allegation on your head,if you try to confront her.. She showed you shege in your childhood days, na shege pro max she go show you this time,if you are not careful.. Avoid that demon for your own good..

Thank you, I appreciate.

123yes:
My dear to me, it does not make sense going to wake old wound. Let this matter die like that, even if they're is any curse place against you by any one be the father or the mother will never work because the man is not your father and you are free from the accusation then, she may have made it mentioned your name to the parents but later told them the truth that was why the matter died like that naturally. Please don't go to wake it up.

Thanks

Humble432:


Bro you can advice without the name calling and again, if you had read the whole story I doubt if you would use the word "simp" here.

You made a great POINT though. Maybe the girl was already pregnant before coming to meet me that day. We just kissed and a little play with her breast but she was completely strict when it comes to her p*sy. She didn't even pull it off nor allowed me to even put a finger. I didn't bother much because at that age,,,,,sex wasn't my priority. Great point, thanks for the idea bro.

Which one is name calling? Young man, you were SIMP back then and it obvious you're still a SIMP because you sound like the gentle and quiet dude people can toy with.

Dude, sue that olosho at once. The court will ask them to conduct a DNA test on the child. Sue her and her father and her entire family and demand for 10million Naira compensation for damages. Get a lawyer and explain this story to him, the matter will be taken to court and petition will be served to that girl and her family. Otherwise, girls will do worst than this because they know very well that the society will believe. I say sue that olosho now!

Humble432:



Thanks

Honestly the way my mother look me that year eh!!!! I dey always careful that's why I quickly leave house join my brother. I come dey fear for wetin I no do.

But the girl's mother used to like me but after the accusation, she no wan take eye see me. So I think she actually believed I did it.

Things like this always end up in the girl getting beaten and her opening up on others that participated aside you. She initially mentioned your name because her mother likes you and you look decent. After some beatings, she opens up on others. Problem is that she may insist that you also had your way.

But from the way you described your mother, she will take it head on with them. Probably the girl finally agreed you only had a kiss. Her mother is just frustrated about the whole thing and angry you came into the picture. I am sure they all died with the story that you only had a kiss. Now, the girl may have aborted the child. Don't let them remember the past.

frozen70:


Its not really necessary, but If you insist, ithink you should called the girl in question and book an appointment to see her face to face

When that day comes, take her to a place where both of you can set down and ask her why she lied on you that you were responsible for her pregnancy

Listen to her and ask her more questions

Then ask her about the pregnancy and the child

An sure she will also confirm that you never touched her and the pregnancy was actually not yours but that she has terminated the pregnancy

Then tell her you deserve an apology for putting you and your late parents through embarrassment

After that if she apologizes to you, you can now tell her that you want to clear yourself before her parents

If she accept and allow you, fine and if she doesn't then accept her apology and move on

Thank you so much!!!!!

Humble432:



Thank you so much!!!!!

You mean your mom and dad passed away with this issue in their heart? No make me vex for you. Sue that olosho now!!!!!! Your mom passed away with that ugly incident thinking her son impregnated a girl 😡

Oga, sue that girl for god's sake! Sue her and demand for 10million Naira compensation for damages. Then relax and watch how she'll be the one to confess by herself and will even reveal to her family the real father of the child within seconds. SUE THAT hook-up girl now!!!!

gaddafe:


Do not do that. That's none of your business now. Your business is to meet the father and clear your name. Meeting the girl and asking her of such can go either way especially as you don't know who she later turned out to be. Meet the Dad and the man will explain things to you. If she later finds the need to apologize, fine. If not, let her be.

You're definitely not a child. Very matured advice.

alizma:

Is possible she didn't confess but the parents both agreed they were too young to take responsibility for that. If she had confessed as you think, the first person to know would have been her mother, yet the mother didn't respond to the guy's greetings till she passed on, that is to say she believed the guy was responsible.

Thanks for your opinion on this.
Yes myself and the girl were both under 18 back then. I was in SS3 while she was in SS2.
One of those days I came back from school (Uni), I passed through her shop and greeted her but she didn't respond and gave me this bad look. I had to quickly find my square root.
This is a woman that used to like me and talk with me. I felt maybe our both parents did something about the pregnancy which i don't know about. As it is now, it's only the girl and her father that know what happened, because my parents are dead and her mother is also dead.

Childish story! How will you just kissed and Romance only then accuse of impregnating someone? I stop reading immediately I got the the foolish part of story.

frozen70:


Its not really necessary, but If you insist, ithink you should called the girl in question and book an appointment to see her face to face

When that day comes, take her to a place where both of you can set down and ask her why she lied on you that you were responsible for her pregnancy

Listen to her and ask her more questions

Then ask her about the pregnancy and the child

An sure she will also confirm that you never touched her and the pregnancy was actually not yours but that she has terminated the pregnancy

Then tell her you deserve an apology for putting you and your late parents through embarrassment

After that if she apologizes to you, you can now tell her that you want to clear yourself before her parents

If she accept and allow you, fine and if she doesn't then accept her apology and move on

OP, avoid this kind of emotional manipulating advice. This will make the girl even end up manipulating you the more.

Dude, sue that girl, take her to court and demand for 10million Naira compensation for damages. These olsohos needs to be taught a bitter lesson. It's time they start taking action for their responsibilities

SweetDipBenny:
Take her to court

CC humble432

The best advice Bro. Dude do the needful and sue her!!!!

Humble432:


Ok
So do you think I should go ahead to confront her or meet her father?

Ignore them, free yourself from what you're innocent of

Cloudflare:


OP, avoid this kind of emotional manipulating advice. This will make the girl even end up manipulating you the more.

Dude, sue that girl, take her to court and demand for 10million Naira compensation for damages. These olsohos needs to be taught a bitter lesson. It's time they start taking action for their responsibilities

Court works with evidence, does he has any in regards to the accusations?

Humble432:


Thanks for your opinion on this.
Yes myself and the girl were both under 18 back then. I was in SS3 while she was in SS2. One of those days I came back from school (Uni), I passed through her shop and greeted her but she didn't respond and gave me this bad look. I had to quickly find my square root.
This is a woman that used to like me and talk with me. I felt maybe our both parents did something about the pregnancy which i don't know about. As it is now, it's only the girl and her father that know what happened, because my parents are dead and her mother is also dead.

At the bolded, when we told ukaface that girls below 18 knows more things than her, she'll start wailing and attacking us. From the op's story, it's so obvious that the girl was between 16-17 but already a pro in the olosho and hookup business. She outsmarted the op and manipulated everyone into believing that the OP got her pregnant. When we say these teen girls knows exactly what they're doing, ukaface and her gang will come for us.

OP, I'll urge you to Sue that girl and demand for 10million naira compassation for damages. It's high time these small small girls starts taking responsibility for their actions

Cloudflare:


Which one is name calling? Young man, you were SIMP back then and it obvious you're still a SIMP because you sound like the gentle and quiet dude people can toy with.

Dude, sue that olosho at once. The court will ask them to conduct a DNA test on the child. Sue her and her father and her entire family and demand for 10million Naira compensation for damages. Get a lawyer and explain this story to him, the matter will be taken to court and petition will be served to that girl and her family. Otherwise, girls will do worst than this because they know very well that the society will believe. I say sue that olosho now!

Sue a family that is not finding life easy for 10m? To what gain?
I am interested in knowing why she mentioned my name at the first place, what happened to the pregnancy and or the child, and those words the parents must have said in anger out of ignorance, believing I was responsible.
I am not interested in cashing out bro.

eroticecstasy:


Court works with evidence, does he has any in regards to the accusations?

When the matter has been taken to court, the court will ask the girl to conduct a DNA test on the child. Of course, since the op is innocent of the accusation, the court will have no option than to ask the girl and her family to pay the OP for damages. The evidence is the DNA test that will be conducted and brought to the court. I have seen a case like this and it was a DNA test that settled everything! The girl was made to pay the guy heavily until she started regretting why she even lied in the first place.

Humble432 should do likewise!

I will suggest that you call her on phone or visit her with your phone in recording mode and ask her why she lies that you were the one who pregnanted her and who actually is the father of the child? Tell her you are ready to do DNA test even though you cannot afford it now to know the paternity of the child then record every word and conversation.

According to your story you didn't commit any offense.
No curse placed on you will be potent.
As a matter of fact the young lady should be the one apologizing and paying restitution.

Humble432:



Thanks

Honestly the way my mother look me that year eh!!!! I dey always careful that's why I quickly leave house join my brother. I come dey fear for wetin I no do.

But the girl's mother used to like me but after the accusation, she no wan take eye see me. So I think she actually believed I did it.

Don’t bother . If you truly impregnated the girl , it wouldn’t have been this easy for you especially with your dad . I think the girl mentioned your name as one of the guys that slept with her . This happens when she is not sure who in particular impregnated her .that’s why her mom and dad never confronted you .
Just let it slide . Don’t bother contacting her you will not achieve anything by doing that .

Guy consult your lawyer and sue the idiot

Humble432:


Sue a family that is not finding life easy for 10m? To what gain?
I am interested in knowing why she mentioned my name at the first place, what happened to the pregnancy and or the child, and those words the parents must have said in anger out of ignorance, believing I was responsible.
I am not interested in cashing out bro.

Dude, nobody said you're interested in cashing out. Sometimes people needs to be taught lessons! It's high time Nigerian girls starts taking responsibilities for their actions! This is exactly why most men end up training a child that isn't theirs.

At the bolded, all those ain't necessary especially now that your parents ain't alive anymore. So wetin u wan ask her those things for? It'll even make people think you're actually responsible for her pregnancy back then. Sue her and the truth will come out! You don't need those stories above. A simple court petition is enough for her to start confessing. Na she go find you confess sef. It doesn't necessarily means you want to cash out

SpecialAdviser:

Things like this always end up in the girl getting beaten and her opening up on others that participated aside you. She initially mentioned your name because her mother likes you and you look decent. After some beatings, she opens up on others. Problem is that she may insist that you also had your way.

But from the way you described your mother, she will take it head on with them. Probably the girl finally agreed you only had a kiss. Her mother is just frustrated about the whole thing and angry you came into the picture. I am sure they all died with the story that you only had a kiss. Now, the girl may have aborted the child. Don't let them remember the past.

Thanks a lot.
You're name says it all.
I am worried if it will make the old man remember the past but honestly,,,,,that girl needs to at least tell me something about what happened. The devil used her truly. When I failed my first jamb, I thought it was a punishment for my sin(which was only kissing and pressing of breast). I had to go to church in the day time when there is no program and be praying and crying to God.

Be like say this economy favour you

Cloudflare:


Dude, nobody said you're interested in cashing out. Sometimes people needs to be taught lessons! It's high time Nigerian girls starts taking responsibilities for their actions! This is exactly why most men end up training a child that isn't theirs.

At the bolded, all those ain't necessary especially now that your parents ain't alive anymore. So wetin u wan ask her those things for? It'll even make people think you're actually responsible for her pregnancy back then. Sue her and the truth will come out! You don't need those stories above. A simple court petition is enough for her to start confessing. Na she go find you confess sef. It doesn't necessarily means you want to cash out

Alright bro, thanks for your contribution.

Cloudflare:


When the matter has been taken to court, the court will ask the girl to conduct a DNA test on the child. Of course, since the op is innocent of the accusation, the court will have no option than to ask the girl and her family to pay the OP for damages. The evidence is the DNA test that will be conducted and brought to the court. I have seen a case like this and it was a DNA test that settled everything! The girl was made to pay the guy heavily until she started regretting why she even lied in the first place.

Humble432 should do likewise!

The DNA will only work if he's forced to take care of the child, but in his case no one is disturbing him about the child

blaise26abj:


Don’t bother . If you truly impregnated the girl , it wouldn’t have been this easy for you especially with your dad . I think the girl mentioned your name as one of the guys that slept with her . This happens when she is not sure who in particular impregnated her .that’s why her mom and dad never confronted you .
Just let it slide . Don’t bother contacting her you will not achieve anything by doing that .

Thanks