My girlfriend and i have been dating for about 8 months now and everything has been going well but recently i noticed a strange relationship she has with a guy she calls her older step brother (i have not seen any of her family members) who stays alone and visit us at times. she often call him handsome or baby jokingly and sometimes she gives him a kiss on his cheeks. i talked to her about it and she said it's a family thing.
Yesterday, when she went to visit him, after about an hour i decided to go to his house and on reaching there, i found her sitting on the bed with a towel tied on her chest and her supposed step brother was in the bathroom,
Guys at this point, i am so confused and don't know what to do. I really need advice

Update: she has gone to visit her brother again claiming he called her to assist him in cooking and wouldn't be back till in the night. At this point, i want to confront her if she comes back.

Cant brother & Sister bath in peace again?
Just tell us you are jelous/envious of the way ur supposed girlfriend is kissing/pecking her supposed/acclaimed brother.

Japa, before them give you badluck.

Hatrick01:
Cant brother & Sister bath in peace again?
Just tell us you are jelous/envious of the way ur supposed girlfriend is kissing/pecking her supposed/acclaimed brother.

Is it normal for grown siblings to bath together?

Lol..been there...they have been intimate long before then
My advice Forget everything about her and move on....even when she tries to come back don't let her...
A woman's respect is far better than her love..from the looks of things she doesn't have any respect for you and trust me it will only get worse..
Leave her and a year from now you will thank yourself for making the best decision ever or stay with her and continue going through this emotional pain...your choice brother

Is your mumu not too much guy?? Ignore her and her brother just be hanging her and do like nothing concern you. Stop spending on her. Look for a back up babe too.

HamOz:
Lol..been there...they have been intimate long before then
My advice Forget everything about her and move on....even when she tries to come back don't let her...
A woman's respect is far better than her love..from the looks of things she doesn't have any respect for you and trust me it will only get worse..
Leave her and a year from now you will thank yourself for making the best decision ever or stay with her and continue going through this emotional pain...your choice brother

Thank you

Berrityga:
Is your mumu not too much guy?? Ignore her and her brother just be hanging her and do like nothing concern you. Stop spending on her. Look for a back up babe too.

The thing is quite painful after all we had together

But some people did not even see anything bad in this incest stuff.

Some would say..."Let them do it. Everybody does it".

You may even be one of those. Now see you and your own Gf now.

Lyrics269:

The thing is quite painful after all we had together

What did you both have together oga? E nor go pass kna*k

How are you even sure that niggaman is her cousin fr?

GOFRONT:
But some people did not even see anything bad in this incest stuff.

Some would say..."Let them do it. Everybody does it".

You may even be one of those. Now see you and your own Gf now.

It's easy to over look it when it happen to someone else but not me.
I feel like crying.

Permit me to say you trust so much that it looks as if you are naive and so innocent. Time will tell. Just keep your cool and watch things unfold

PerfectStranger:

What did you both have together oga? E nor go pass kna*k

How are you even sure that niggaman is her cousin fr?

I am not too sure he is related to her but from the way the talk, they have known each other since childhood

JaneYave:
Permit me to say you trust so much that it looks as if you are naive and so innocent. Time will tell. Just keep your cool and watch things unfold

I haven't told her anything since i left his place yesterday. She came back late and is still acting normal.

; ahhh sorry dem don use family O.T yansh your babe sorry lover boy refresh your list and try someone else, cause this one is gone say after me sope otilor

Lyrics269:
My girlfriend and i have been dating for about 8 months now and everything has been going well but recently i noticed a strange relationship she has with a guy she calls her older step brother (i have not seen any of her family members) who stays alone and visit us at times. she often call him handsome or baby jokingly and sometimes she gives him a kiss on his cheeks. i talked to her about it and she said it's a family thing.
Yesterday, when she went to visit him, after about an hour i decided to go to his house and on reaching there, i found her sitting on the bed with a towel tied on her chest and her supposed step brother was in the bathroom,
Guys at this point, i am so confused and don't know what to do. I really need advice

you guys are both sharing the toto...he knows about you as her cousin, you know about him as her step brother, but both of you are MUMUS BEING PLAYED BY THIS OLOSHO!

I could feel your pain, you confused and I guess because you love her so much and shared moments, also what your eyes saw, your mind captured, you can't remove it. The best advice has already been given by HamOz, it's also the hardest thing to do but you have to do it if you want your peace and be stress-free but if you continue like this, you risking depression Bro.
Also, you could try my advice below.

My Advice: Confront her and tell her how you are hurting, then listen and Observe, I repeat, listen and Observer, don't argue with her... her response will determine your next move.

NOTE: if she still defends or talks that's how family does, Bro take HamOz's advice without looking back, whisky or Vodka would help you on the journey every night, that's how I fought and made it through. Lastly, you better look after yourself, the best advice in life is the 1 you advice yourself either good or bad cos it would give you peace of mind

Hatrick01:
Cant brother & Sister bath in peace again?
Just tell us you are jelous/envious of the way ur supposed girlfriend is kissing/pecking her supposed/acclaimed brother.

Lyrics269:

It's easy to over look it when it happen to someone else but not me.
I feel like crying.

Oga to slap you dey hungry me

gan gan gan gan!

Lyrics269:
My girlfriend and i have been dating for about 8 months now and everything has been going well but recently i noticed a strange relationship she has with a guy she calls her older step brother (i have not seen any of her family members) who stays alone and visit us at times. she often call him handsome or baby jokingly and sometimes she gives him a kiss on his cheeks. i talked to her about it and she said it's a family thing.
Yesterday, when she went to visit him, after about an hour i decided to go to his house and on reaching there, i found her sitting on the bed with a towel tied on her chest and her supposed step brother was in the bathroom,
Guys at this point, i am so confused and don't know what to do. I really need advice

They're not related in anywhere , please do proper investigation

I smell lies

Lyrics269:

I haven't told her anything since i left his place yesterday. She came back late and is still acting normal.

Remain indifferent till you get valid facts. Meanwhile, use this time to build up your emotional strength, just in case your fears turn true

Lyrics269:
My girlfriend and i have been dating for about 8 months now and everything has been going well but recently i noticed a strange relationship she has with a guy she calls her older step brother (i have not seen any of her family members) who stays alone and visit us at times. she often call him handsome or baby jokingly and sometimes she gives him a kiss on his cheeks. i talked to her about it and she said it's a family thing.
Yesterday, when she went to visit him, after about an hour i decided to go to his house and on reaching there, i found her sitting on the bed with a towel tied on her chest and her supposed step brother was in the bathroom,
Guys at this point, i am so confused and don't know what to do. I really need advice

There is a difference between step brother and half brother. If he is a step brother than they are not blood related and not an incest. But what is clear from your you said is that, they are sleeping with each other.

Lyrics269:
My girlfriend and i have been dating for about 8 months now and everything has been going well but recently i noticed a strange relationship she has with a guy she calls her older step brother (i have not seen any of her family members) who stays alone and visit us at times. she often call him handsome or baby jokingly and sometimes she gives him a kiss on his cheeks. i talked to her about it and she said it's a family thing.
Yesterday, when she went to visit him, after about an hour i decided to go to his house and on reaching there, i found her sitting on the bed with a towel tied on her chest and her supposed step brother was in the bathroom,
Guys at this point, i am so confused and don't know what to do. I really need advice

You need to first confirm if the guy is actually her step brother or a blood relative

Omoh see red flag

Lyrics269:
My girlfriend and i have been dating for about 8 months now and everything has been going well but recently i noticed a strange relationship she has with a guy she calls her older step brother (i have not seen any of her family members) who stays alone and visit us at times. she often call him handsome or baby jokingly and sometimes she gives him a kiss on his cheeks. i talked to her about it and she said it's a family thing.
Yesterday, when she went to visit him, after about an hour i decided to go to his house and on reaching there, i found her sitting on the bed with a towel tied on her chest and her supposed step brother was in the bathroom,
Guys at this point, i am so confused and don't know what to do. I really need advice

SavageResponse:


You need to first confirm if the guy is actually her step brother or a blood relative

I just confirmed that the guy is actually her stepbrother

Popesuccess:
There is a difference between step brother and half brother. If he is a step brother than they are not blood related and not an incest. But what is clear from your you said is that, they are sleeping with each other.

I confirmed from the guy friend that they are somehow related but not by blood

Bro do you have a big dick?

That's her real guy, you are just babysitting.

Brownshoe:
That's her real guy, you are just babysitting.

I don't want to believe, i was played all along.