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How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by Makophils: 11:18pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
I broke up with my girlfriend of 6 months because she asked me when was the last time I gave her money to make her hair and nails.I yelled at her when she popped the question out of the blues and things escalated quickly from there which eventually lead to our breakup. I've never been a stingy boyfriend. I have always provided for her to the best of my abilities and whenever she asked even though I must admit that she wasn't materialistic. I lost my job last year december when my company downsized but I was fairly compensated . Since then,my ex only visited me once despite staying in the same city with me. Knowing fully well that I had no job but still going ahead to ask that insensitive question really made me angry. Earlier this year,I gave her money when she was returning to school. I also gave her money during her birthday. After we had the argument,I still went back to apologize to her but insisted that she is no longer interested. So,I just wanted to confirm from you guys,Did I overreact when she asked that question ? Did this girl even loved me in the first place ? 2 Likes |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by budaatum: 11:41pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Yes, you overreacted. You yourself said you have "never been a stingy boyfriend. I have always provided for her to the best of my abilities and whenever she asked", so why did you not just tell her when was the last time you gave her money to make her hair and nails? She is the one who broke up with you by telling you on your return that she was no more interested, so move on please. 4 Likes 1 Share
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Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by Nyascobar1414: 11:44pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Simps and their wails... Keep simping around son! 15 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by Henry22(m): 11:56pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Oga leave woman and plan your life, las las no be you go marry her, it baffles me how young men have chosen to simp thier youthful age away to all those insatiable girls. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by Martinsmine(m): 11:58pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Moons shows us light at night. Always make a way for light wen you feel darkness. Go back and apologise. Even if she has moved on |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by Onyiiobi7735(m): 12:02am On Jun 10, 2023 |
My dear, please forget the limited liability company and move on with your life.Women with entitlement mentality are highly dangerous to a man's progress in life, because they will drain him financially, emotionally and will cheat because of material things. Rejoice because God has removed a bag of rubbish from your life. You will find a deserving lady. Good luck. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by CandyOps(m): 12:56am On Jun 10, 2023 |
I understand how you feel but u for no shout for am because of hair money. I have passed through that b4. .. it will seem as though the babe dey insensitive to you. But then Shouting for woman na to waste your energy because she no dey even hear you. U for just use that energy do push ups like 20 reps. At least you go fit get small muscle than to shout for babe. Babes wey be say normally dem no get ear for head 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by Gadafii: 4:30am On Jun 10, 2023 |
If you like sell your ancestral land and give her she won’t appreciate your efforts 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by talk2hb1(m): 5:00am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Makophils:You Mean You Went Back To Beg Someone To Help You Spend Your Money? 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by Preciousgirl(f): 5:28am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Bad move Check my signature and thank me later |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 6:02am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Stop dating students and broke ladies. GOD know say I no fit try am 2 Likes |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by Nobody: 8:13am On Jun 10, 2023 |
You need to give her one last money, and that is the transport fare to wherever she is going. Rubbish! |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by Berrityga: 8:23am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Success is the best revenge. She will never come back to you in this your broke state. Go and look for a new job and pick your life up. Even you wouldn't like yourself if your broke. 3 Likes |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by Kiddogarcia(m): 9:10am On Jun 10, 2023 |
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Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by Lvgirl: 9:21am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Makophils: The caption is wrong. The girl dumped your simpy ass. You had misunderstanding with her, you still went back to beg her but she insist she is fine with you. Now you are here claiming you dump her. Dear Simps when will you learn ? Can't you see what happened to your patron Will Smith? I have no sympathy for Simps 4 Likes |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by Geovanni412(m): 9:24am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Gadafii: Snr man, u understand how I be Even the best women are highly emotional The most important language to a woman is How have you been treating me lately? They don't keep track of the good things you do for them. It is in their blood. If op understood this....he wouldn't have gotten annoyed by his girl. All op, Makophils, needed to do was say. ...babe, you know right now, things are tough for me. I am doing my best for you but if it's not enough, I don't want to stand in your way, you can use the door. A woman will stay when she knows you can walk away A woman will leave when she knows you want her desperately to stay. 5 Likes |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by WantsandMore: 10:27am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Makophils:It's never a enough OP, plus you just failed a simple shit test, wey you fo dey whine her. You better go apologize. Lol 1 Like |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by kingthreat(m): 10:30am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Woman no send if you don lose your job. if you need dey do armed robbery, she no mind. Just give her money. |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by Sonnobax15(m): 10:43am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Bannies doesn't send whether you move mountains for dem......Na the day wey you do for dem nai dem remember...... |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by PureFace1(m): 10:51am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Yes you overreacted Never let women get to you emotionally or allow them to see you lose your cool, don't give them that satisfaction and attention. You should have broken up with her right when she made that comment without arguing with her or lashing out at her and move on. If you handle it like a super chad she would have been the one begging you now to forgive her. |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by Nobody: 10:55am On Jun 10, 2023 |
She's not materialistic, the time she asked you a question you shouted and broke up with her. Lol you might have insulted her too. You have bad character. Go and fix it. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by Nobody: 10:58am On Jun 10, 2023 |
PureFace1:The bolded should be : Work on your anger, don't get verbally abusive even when angry. This has nothing to do with what a woman should see or not. Are you telling him to pretend ? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by PureFace1(m): 11:04am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Makophils: Never beg a woman bro, you can admit that you are wrong if you realized that you are truly wrong but never beg for forgiveness. It disgust women and they see it as weakness, your act of begging her killed all the interest she had in you. You should have broken up with her without arguing with her or lashing out at her, don't give women that satisfaction to see you lose your cool. It gives them that validation and attention they desperately crave. If you handle it the right way she could have been the one begging you for forgiveness right now and you would have been the one contemplating if you should still give her another chance. Go to sosuave and learn https://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/149-how-to-maintain-control.htm |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by PureFace1(m): 11:18am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Makophils: You did the right thing by broken up with her because if you didn't she would be the one that would dump you later. She asked that question because she was losing interest in you and as a shit test. You could have passed it easily by telling her to find another man if she is no longer interested without arguing or lashing out. Your only mistake was overreacting and not braking up with her properly and begging her after you broke up. Learn how to spin plates and date more girls and you won't give a damn about a selfish hoe again. You are right and you are the one that ended up begging , your begging scream desperation, neediness, lack of options and weakness which disgust women, your pathetic attempt at begging her made her lost every interest she had in you and confirmed to her that you are not a real man. You gave away all your power without any dignity, even if she ever take you back because you begged her you have given up all your power in that relationship. Begging a woman also confirm to that woman that you don't have any other options, it would lower your value and attractiveness in her eyes or totally destroy it It is only men that value submission in a relationship, a man begging a woman prove you are surrendering and submissive to the power of that woman in a relationship and it would lower your value and make you less attractive. You can admit that you are wrong to a woman if you are really wrong but never beg a woman you are in relationships with for anything to move the relationship forward. https://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/149-how-to-maintain-control.htm |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by Edipet(m): 11:48am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Makophils:epistle of a simp. Why did you apologise. Has she been praying for you to get a new job and become a man again? Or she dey pity you at all? She came to your life because of financial benefits. Now that you are almost broke, she is trying to leave. Because the benefits are no longer coming. I'm sure you have learnt a great lesson now so that wen God lift you up again, you will know now you will manage the resources |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by Makophils: 1:18pm On Jun 10, 2023 |
Thank you guys. |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by Makophils: 1:29pm On Jun 10, 2023 |
So I should be blind to the comment ? Persephone1: |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by Makophils: 1:35pm On Jun 10, 2023 |
Wow..thanks for the lecture. It was very surprising because before then,we were cool. It just came out of the blues. I totally agree with you that she was probably loosing interest which made her look for ways to end the relationship. PureFace1: |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by Makophils: 1:40pm On Jun 10, 2023 |
I was not even verbally abusive . I just expressed my disgust to her immediately. She didn't seem pertubed with the question. To her it was just a question that required a response,that was what made me more annoyed. Persephone1: |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by frozen70(f): 1:44pm On Jun 10, 2023 |
Makophils: I think she is a fair weather friend What do you expect a student to reason with your unemployed status after loosing your former job Its time you guys should understand that, the position or status some people are, have not given them the experience to understand what it means to bear with a man especially when he lost his job or when he doesn't have money at that moment You can have a working class girl, she will understand and if possible support you But not a student who needs money to keep her going I don't normally blame the students because they have no experience to understand that the economy is not smiling especially on men She has displayed that she is a fair weather friend, free her let her go and search for who will attend to her needs You can't attend to her needs any longer because you are still finding your bearing I can't blame her because I don't know her conditionds |
Re: How I Broke Up With My Babe Of 6 Months. Was I Wrong ? by austine4real(m): 2:05pm On Jun 10, 2023 |
In this economy u still dey do relationship
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