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My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by uzomakanaki(m): 6:01pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Fellow nairalanders, please I need advice from matured minds in this group. I'm in a two year relationship with my woman, we're both working. I'm 34 while she's 27. My montly salary and commision is over 200k with other side hustle i do that bring in funds for me, i also just got a car i want to register with bolt/uber to still bring in funds in my free time. My fiancee on the other hand is earning 75k monthly. I take good care of her needs and makes sure she doesn't lack anything I can afford. We both plan to settle down by December. Sometimes last month she missed her period, after the test we discovered she's 5 weeks pregnant. I'm against abortion because of the dangers involved in the aftermath, i suggested she keep the baby while I come and see her family and do some necessary things before the main wedding. But she insisted in aborting the baby, reason being that she can't be pregnant and be working. Unless I place her on a monthly salary. She has aborted the baby and had complications because of the quack nurse that performed the abortion. I spent a lot to make her back on her feet I'm gradually losing interest in the relationship cos that single act of her. I've kept this to myself. I just need advice on how to handle this. Cos I'm already fed up with her with her recent disrespect and the way she talks to me anyhow even in public. 72 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Foodqueen(f): 6:06pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
For her to av aborted against your wish, I'll say you should move on from her. I pity her future husband. 571 Likes 45 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by tightpuna(m): 6:15pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
That banny day hide something from u boss..he fee be say no be u get the pregnant. 600 Likes 38 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by uzomakanaki(m): 6:18pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Bros I no dey vouch for woman oo. But to the best of my knowledge she's not seeing someone else. I might be wrong though. tightpuna: 30 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Zonefree(m): 6:23pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
uzomakanaki:You're still under her shackles, so, I'll reserve my advise. At 34, you still believe your Nigerian girlfriend is not seeing someone else ![]() Married women staying with their husband dey hawk kpekus like Tom Tom, talk more of ordinary girlfriend. I think you need exorcism first. No amount of advise can save you. 401 Likes 33 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Nobody: 6:26pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
I'm not saying she's cheating on you, but if she really did loved you and saw a future with you, she wouldn't have done an abortion. Maybe the baby was not yours, I don't know. 444 Likes 25 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by uzomakanaki(m): 6:32pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Read my last line bro.. you can keep your advice Zonefree: 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by budaatum: 6:35pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
First, I am not against abortion, my mantra being, my body my choice, but aborting without your consent is indicative of other things she's likely to do in the future despite your lack of consent, and that's beside you already being "fed up with her with her recent disrespect and the way she talks to me anyhow even in public". Think of it this way. Imagine the "car I want to register with bolt/uber to still bring in funds in my free time" decides to break down whenever you carry passengers and disrespects you anyhow in public, would you keep it instead of getting rid of it and buying a car that does what you want and respects you? The answer might be yes if you are broke and can't buy a new and better car or somehow don't deserve one, but if you can I'm certain you'd do what you ought to. 46 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:41pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
uzomakanaki: so for the past 2yrs, you didnt know about her above state of mind?! so she just disappeared one day and came back in the evening telling you that she aborted OR she told you exactly when she will do it, and did it?! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Proserpina: 6:55pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
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Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by cavreek: 6:56pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
She disrespected u enough to go against ur wish Apart from that she has d tendency of putting her career ahead of you or ur proposed family Think twice 74 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by bummyla(m): 6:57pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Once she is back on her feet! Dump her 37 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by uzomakanaki(m): 6:58pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:her above state of mind was not known to me until she got pregnant. To be honest with you when i met her She was the industrious and independent type of a woman which attracted me to her. I still can't explain where the sudden change came from. For the abortion I she didn't tell me when she did it, i only knew about it when she started developing complications. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by uzomakanaki(m): 7:00pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
uzomakanaki:the job she's doing I also got it for her after her Nysc. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by austine4real(m): 7:00pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
U better run from her Since u adviced her not to abort but she There is a tendency that she might have complications when married 14 Likes
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Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by 1Sharon(f): 7:13pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
uzomakanaki: You should have told her that if she got an abortion, you're calling off the wedding. 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by 1Sharon(f): 7:13pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Foodqueen: Yep. If she didn't want a baby, why didn't she protect herself ![]() 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by akube34: 7:19pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
uzomakanaki:u r wrong bro. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by uzomakanaki(m): 7:21pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
1Sharon:didn't want to be too harsh cos of the condition she was. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by cutecommend: 7:29pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
really/ |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by 1Sharon(f): 7:32pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
uzomakanaki: She didn't even have the decency to tell you she was going to get an abortion. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:46pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
uzomakanaki: - so you guys never had a discussion about pregnancy, even though you had unprotected sex? - eventually, you dodged a bullet since you now figure out the type of woman she truly is (aka a woman you dont desire to build a future with). so why dont you jejely accept that she aint the one and move on with your life? 14 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by uzomakanaki(m): 7:48pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:totally out of point 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:56pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
uzomakanaki: - so you guys have been together for 2 yrs and you didnt know what her thought was about pregnancy?! - so after 2 yrs, you just found out the type of woman you had, but never thought about it before while having unprotected sex with her? - now you found out the type of demon she is and instead of running from her, you want to find ways to stay with her?!?!?!?!??! - what about JEJELY WALKING AWAY FROM HER?! have you thought of doing that?!?! your story makes very little sense... ![]() 20 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Houseofglam7(f): 7:59pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Whoa |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by uzomakanaki(m): 8:04pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:you don't need a further explanation bro 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Jaybee3456: 8:46pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Someone got rid of your own child without your consent and you're here asking for advice ![]() 43 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Morgan9(m): 8:50pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
uzomakanaki: Take anything from a woman but not disrespect.. I can even forgive a cheating partner.. but u see disrespect..in public.. I don't take it lightly at all. My wife I married 2yrs ago started disrespecting me of recent. I scolded her about it .. she promised to change only to resume again.. One night I beat her black and blue.. Called her father to come and Carry her daughter that I am no longer interested in the marriage.. Na pleadings and plenty abeg them take settle us with stern warning that such disrespect won't happen again going forward.. 60 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by uzomakanaki(m): 9:15pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Morgan9:bro why will you beat a woman? Is it not better you guys go your way? 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Adejo1(m): 9:16pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
What other advise are you looking for...? I just know it's very hard to advise someone who's in love uzomakanaki: 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by mrcrabs(m): 9:27pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Go your own way na, what is even wrong with you this man. You want to start a family with this kind of lady in your life. Omo na wa for people o ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Rexymania(m): 9:41pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Abortion? Clean her history 3 Likes |
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