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Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:50pm On Jun 13, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: i believe in abortion hands down, and there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with having an abortion..... and as much as the last say on the issue falls on the mother's hand, there needs to be a mature discussion between the couple about it, rather than ignoring what you partner has to say, and just going to do it on your own (as if this woman was single). thats not only INSENSITIVE/SELFISH but also DISRESPECTFUL and VERY RUDE! |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Djswad(m): 10:53pm On Jun 13, 2023 |
uzomakanaki:it’s well hope it’s not a banking job shaaa |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by fortunechy(m): 10:54pm On Jun 13, 2023 |
God just shown u signs that she's not ur wife but u are too ignorant to have noticed.... Break up with her. She sn't ur wife. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by sniperr007(m): 10:58pm On Jun 13, 2023 |
uzomakanaki: Are you certain that the pregnancy was yours? Cos from your story, her excuse for abortion no add up. If you are certain you are responsible then the problem you have is her disrespect and selfish act. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by jubrilELsudan: 11:20pm On Jun 13, 2023 |
NO WOMAN WHO LIKES A MAN ENOUGH TO GET MARRIED TO HIM WILL HAPPILY ABORT HER PREGNANCY IT'S VERY OBVIOUS THAT YOU ARE NOT THE FATHER OF THE CHILD SHE GOT PREGNANT FOR HER SIDE DISH.......MAYBE NA YOU BE HER SIDE DISH SEF HER BEHAVIOR IS NASTY TOWARDS YOU NOW BECAUSE SHE IS FIGHTING THE GUILTY CONSCIENCE THAT IS EATING HER UP ALIVE THIS YOUR FIANCEE IS A CONFAM ASHAWO
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Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Enimoney3: 11:28pm On Jun 13, 2023 |
I don't think she wants to marry you.... Are you sure you are the only one she dates? |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by zionzoe(m): 11:35pm On Jun 13, 2023 |
Foodqueen:Seconded. That baby is now a demon waiting to torment the family. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Nobody: 12:03am On Jun 14, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: I am pro-life. But I am worried why a man's say or opinion should be included since she bears the brunt of pregnancy. On this forum I have seen you repeat the " my body my choice" mantra used to hold single moms accountable. Now that she is living up to that mantra,why is she still blamed? Take a side please. If a woman will take the praise/ shame of pregnancy ALONE, then she should also take the decision of pregnancy ALONE. If you want men decisions to be considered concerning keeping or removing pregnancy,they should also be considered when the praise/shame associated with the pregnancy plays out. If the marriage fails to occurs or he becomes a deadbeat or anything and she comes out crying, you all will say "why did YOU..." and remind us how women are the gatekeepers ofpregnancy and responsibility lies on her shoulders ( you will not include the man). You why should he be included in decision making alone and not blame taking? The Op fiancee is only protecting her interest and heeding to the advice you all dish out to women. protect themselves and their interest from the cold street out there |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by fesdo(m): 12:25am On Jun 14, 2023 |
That pregnancy is not yours bro |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:50am On Jun 14, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: again, there is a HUGE DIFFERENCE here.... A) she aint virgin mary.... so she made that child with someone and therefore the two of them are both responsible for that. i believe that this the HYPOCRISY of pregnancies....because women can chooose to force a man to be a father AGAINST HIS WILL, but if a man wants to do the exact same thing to a woman, y'all are up in arms. whats good for goose is good for gander! B) that child is technically both theirs, so they technically should decide together on what to do with that baby....and although i fully understand that the last say belongs to the mother, a respectful/caring person would sit down with you and discuss this issue maturely (rather than just say NO and walking away to abort behind your back). C) i aint blaming her for having an abortion, i am blaming her for the WAY she had an abortion, while not even listening to what this man had to say, and/or how he felt about it. FINALLY, i dont make rules on the stigma that some single mother carry in Nigeria/Africa... i just follow them. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Tommypede: 1:54am On Jun 14, 2023 |
The pregnancy is most likely not yours. I believe with a little digging you'd confirm that. uzomakanaki: |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by emmyN(m): 2:23am On Jun 14, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: With that your 2 inches hand? ![]()
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Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Nobody: 2:44am On Jun 14, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: You really murdered that guy ![]() |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Nobody: 2:55am On Jun 14, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:I get your point . However women will continue to keep or abort pregnancies while defying men opinions as she bears the brunt. Sadly nothing men can do about it. 80% of broke men have had their babies abortee without their knowledge ( for fear of the men looking down on her). It is a cold world indeed |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Jacksparrow7(m): 5:19am On Jun 14, 2023 |
I have not been in relationship. But dump her. She is old enough to know sometimes things don't go as we planned, she should have kept the pregnancy, since you were the father. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by mkoabiola: 6:53am On Jun 14, 2023 |
U re jus a simp |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Maysdevices(f): 6:53am On Jun 14, 2023 |
Uptheante:Unless you’re a woman, refrain from discussing about the mind of a woman. Disrespect is the highest form of disrespect from a woman, trust me. If a woman dares to disrespects you her man, my guy you are totally useless to her. Women worship and have deep respect for men they consider their partner, once she disrespects you. Move on. You are no more than a younger brother to her. You’re just seeing it with sentiments because cheating pains you. But the reality is a woman can make a mistake of cheating and still love and deeply value her husband. Una no just fit gree because e dey pain Una die The painment no be here 😭😅 |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 7:00am On Jun 14, 2023 |
xynerise:Good question. He dated her for 2yrs and didn't no know he would visis her people till she got pregnant meaning he wasn't even ready for marriage but a baby. For 2yrs he didn't know she wasn't ready for a child till she aborted the pregnancy. The only problem I have with the girl is not going to a professional gynecologist for abotion. He probably was busy changing styles and did discuss children or marriage with her. And she didn't want to bring up the discussion so they won't call her desperate. If I dated a man for 2yrs and he has never talked about marriage or kids, I won't even tell him if I got pregnant. Not every girl is willing to marry a man just because he got them pregnant. So the man should examine himself and know what he's not doing right. Marriage no be 2yrs relationship contract 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Uptheante(m): 7:26am On Jun 14, 2023 |
Maysdevices:One of the biggest lies of the century. No woman on Earth can cheat on her husband & still love & value him, unless the words 'love' & 'value' have new meaning which I don't know of. Secondly, cheating on the part of a woman is never a mistake, it is always well planned before it is executed. As for how it who it pains most, you need to understand that the consequences of cheating for a man is far less than that for a woman. For instance, a man can be bleeping multitudes of women confidently without even needing to hide it & most pple won't even care, many will even hail him as a sharp guy, most women will also be attracted to him bcoz of that. On the contrary, if you as a woman decide to be bleeping around, you will become an outcast to most pple & be valueless. That's why women tend to be better hiders of cheating than men bcoz society judges them very harshly for the same cheating that a man gets away with. So, next time you feel that men will be pained by your cheating so you will punish a man by doing that, just know that you are actually doing a great disservice to yourself not the man you cheat on.. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Montaque(m): 7:33am On Jun 14, 2023 |
She is afraid of DNA tomorrow. She think it's better to abort the baby and plead with you (as she is doing now), than keep the pregnancy and be exposed tomorrow when she is older and can't attract men in the singles market. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:26am On Jun 14, 2023 |
emmyN: 2 inches hand wey fit maim you. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by mikkyvelly: 9:18am On Jun 14, 2023 |
You sincerely want to know why she aborted the pregnancy? Okay here is the reason: oga, that baby is not yours, the earlier you japa from her, the better for you. Am speaking from experience. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by emmyN(m): 9:35am On Jun 14, 2023 |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by seangy4konji: 9:47am On Jun 14, 2023 |
You are playing with fire and your future with that woman....monthly salary when she has a job..aborted a baby at age 27 with a man thats ready ro marry her... You will regret in life they will hear in heaven. You better run |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Raalsalghul: 9:53am On Jun 14, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Victoria, I am disappointed in you for typing this. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:54am On Jun 14, 2023 |
Raalsalghul:
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Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Georgejeez: 9:54am On Jun 14, 2023 |
Someone aborted and terminated the life of your first child and you say it's "acting funny". |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Raalsalghul: 9:58am On Jun 14, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: ![]() ![]() ![]() So if the Op was your brother, this is what you would advise him abi? I don't even have an issue with her aborting the child as it's her body and she would be the one to carry the pregnancy but at least she should inform the guy. Obviously she has no respect for him and in her mind damn whatever he's going to do. No regards at all! But hey, the Op is a simp from the way he sounds and knowing the effects of sunk cost fallacy, he probably would continue with the relationship. Tueh! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:02am On Jun 14, 2023 |
Raalsalghul: I didn't support her taking off the pregnancy, mind you. That was an atrocious thing to have done. But, now that the deed has been done, what next? Let's learn to give people the benefit of the doubt sometimes. Things aren't black and white the way we make it. Or maybe, just maybe I'm being a bit sentimental. I'll also like to hear her side of the story. So many ifs and buts. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Raalsalghul: 10:07am On Jun 14, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: I did not say you supported her carrying out the abortion. What I'm saying is that you ignored the fact that she didn't inform the Op before goug ahead with the abortion: which is also an insult. In my opinion, that's a point of no return. Well, you have agreed you're being a little bit sentimental. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Raalsalghul: 10:18am On Jun 14, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Fiancee Is Acting Funny These Days by Nobody: 10:38am On Jun 14, 2023 |
Raalsalghul: You have time. All these mumu indomie generation girls that think they're opinion matters because they have access to internet |
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