EriMma1:


This their case and most of the ones I've seen is not money. The men have clearly lost interest.
You'll see them sitting with other people outside gisting and laughing while their wives will be alone sitting all by herself. So sad.

Jman06:
They should keep fit and shed all the fats. Do everything to avoid having potbellies.

There are sexy outfits that can be worn to turn a man's head. They should avoid granny panties and wear sexy lingeries. Above all, they should understand their man's sexual fantasies and take advantage of that.

OZIOGU1:
That was the best thing that ever happened to me brother
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-Ten years marriage, and you already have 4 kids? You don't Television?

EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

walexbiz:


Thank you my brother, you must be married to understand that in marriages people change especially women. When you see a man avoiding a woman it's because of unnecessary wahala from the woman. If she joins you in a conversation she would always seek clarification later about what you said earlier. Some it would mean the beginning of another malice after a just resolved conflict. Every man cherishes peace of mind and in so doing he doesn't want anything that would affect his peace of mind so avoidance is best appreciated.

frozen70:


Any couple you find in this categories are actually living as flat mates and not husband and wife

Though men wants to taste what other women have out there and once they get it especially the ones that are ready to give him hot hot, the one at home becomes less relevant to him

While she is still faithful and looking forward to being with him and Stay close to him at home, he is busy avoiding her because he got a big fish outside

By the time she discovers that he is not giving her the attention she wants, she will face her directions towards the children who will never ignore her and find solace in them

By the time the man is getting old, he starts coming close to the wife, meanwhile she is already done with him but still living with him

That's when the man will become lonely while he is married to his wife

You can only harvest what you sow that's what this life will offer you

EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

Socratiz:
Your assertion here is replete with conjectures. You saw one family where the husband is avoiding the wife and you assume it's the same with all families. Even if this is prevalent where you stay, it doesn't mean it's the same everywhere.

There are couples who don't avoid each bother after many years of marriage. In fact, the longer their marriage, the stronger the bond between them.

Couples whose marital bond weakens after a few years must have inherent issues which either they are not aware of, or they choose to ignore. They could also be battling with character flaws.

If you expect your marriage to be peaceful and joyfu, that is what you will experience. But if you leave the back door open, the you will find reason to backtrack and use the door.

The type of marriage you chose to build is the type of marriage you will have.

By the way, I have been married for over 32 years and neither myself not my wife has lost interest in each other.

korede181:

oooh. you're actually the problem but seem not to know because you dont pay attention.. the man is now wishing he had you as his wife and not the actual wife only if the wife can be as good as you..... see woman... na that pastor wife go pour you acid .. you go say i talk am

Sunmolar:
Most problems in marriage is money related.

A married man maybe rich and decides to flirt around. Thus, infidelity can bring problem if found out by the wife
A married man maybe be broke and be disrespected by the wife. Thus, when the man becomes rich he may feel that the wife is not needed since there was no respect without money

JaskanFactor:

no man is above it, if its too available its less valued.

In olden days the woman mainly went with the company of her female friends and relatives , it was not the place for man and woman to be friends in detail. Marriage is a working relationship weather you like it or not.

Its the people in western world that wanted to destroy marriage that decided to put a load on marriage that is sure to make it collapse, that is asking husband and wife to be friends in detail , but male and female animals are far from the same.
That is why Hollywood started all the love story movies , in order to make people ask of marriage what does not belong in marriage.

Husband and wife are not friends, its a working relationship , thats what the ancestors used to do, and they never ever had divorce, such a thing was unheard-of, until so called western love entered marriage, then divorce entered the vocabulary.

In olden times even husband and wife lived in separate adjacent apartments in an extended family compound .

Anything you do to follow oyinbo lifestyle will lead. you astray.

Dont forget it was your ancestors that civilised the oyinbo who used to be called the gothic barbarian wild man. And now you fall for his love story. Its a lie that ends marriage needlessly.

vickydevoka:

In uk, it is money related. that’s the fact. I don’t know of Nigeria. They only way a marriage can last long is if of the man pays almost all de bills. If you earn 1 million and she earns 1 million. Just sacrifices to pay 80 percent of the bills . That gender you see are not normal. If you want clean all the house , change diapers, cook join, in as much she’s paying 50 percent, she will disrespect you. They use their money to build houses for Their parents and send their brother to outside the country. Rather as a man take an extra job, if she will agree. Some women here will also want to do full time work , If de do you can have an extra job. Marriage outside country is hell for a man. E.g. It will take your sister less than 5 years to build house and sponsor family, it might take a man 2 decade to achieve that

EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

Tayorshd87:


Happening to me presently ..
If not for society i feel like sending the bull away 😡

EriMma1:


This their case and most of the ones I've seen is not money. The men have clearly lost interest.
You'll see them sitting with other people outside gisting and laughing while their wives will be alone sitting all by herself. So sad.

EriMma1:


I want to believe this the cause because one day the woman approached me and said I should make the cream I'm using for her saying she wants her color to come out. I was shocked cos I felt she's dark and don't know which color she wants to come out again. Or is it because the man is always jokingly calling me girlfriend... I don't know but I suspected she was feeling less attractive or what? Hmmm....

Jman06:
Because women go out of shape once married due to excessive eating and laziness that hinder them from exercising and keeping fit.

Before you know it they become potbellied, oversized and unattractive. So it is natural for the man to lose interest in her.

vickydevoka:

In uk, it money related that’s the fact. I don’t know of Nigeria. They only way a marriage can last long is of the man pays almost all de bills. If you earn 1 million and she earns 1 million. Just sacrifices to pay 80 percent of the bills . That gender you see are not normal. If you want clean all the house , change diapers in as much she’s paying 50 percent, she will disrespect you. They use their money to build houses for Their parents and send their brother to outside the country. Rather as a man take an extra job, if she will agree. Some women here will also want to do full time work , If de do you can have an extra job. Marriage outside country is hell for a man. E.g. It will take your sister less than 5 years to build house and sponsor family, it might take a man 2 decade to achieve that

EriMma1:


This their case and most of the ones I've seen is not money. The men have clearly lost interest.
You'll see them sitting with other people outside gisting and laughing while their wives will be alone sitting all by herself. So sad.

Jman06:
Most women become unattractive once married. That's why married men cheat.

Imagine seeing one hippopotamus with oversized grandma panties everyday. The man is bound to lose interest in her. If not for children and what the society would say, most married men would chase their wives away after few years of marriage.