vickydevoka:

Marry your friend na see finish. That's the worst. Marry your lover simple. Make woman love u pass makes it easier. Don't go hard to make a lady yours

Socratiz:
Your assertion here is replete with conjectures.

Omodua:
Yes. You're right. You have dissected the problems.

YinkaOlusesi16:
That's why couples need prayer

MightySparrow:


You just suddenly discover that the woman you were dying to marry because of beauty has nothing upstairs. Most times, the woman abandon those values that endeared her to you and start to talk about home video and some useless stuffs. Besides, nagging make men mad. Many men don't want the day to end to avoid comments that would destroy whatever is left from hassles of the day.

Coolgent:

Wicked man
Funny but truth!

descarado:

100% of women at 60yrs can still bang comfortably but can men sustain erection comfortably at 60?
Heck, what am I saying, midlife crises see most men losing it completely.
The problem with you boys is that you brag too much when reality is the opposite. It's men that go for sexual enhancement drugs not women.
Or is it men with millipede kind of prik, the bent one, the very short one. One that can stand at full mast. Women take shit and still respect men without talking but these idiots will come online everyday to denigrate women even when odds are against them. Some even shot empty.
Culture and kids make women close mouth. Mot that the man is irreplaceable. Respect women so they will respect you.

It's known fact that married Nigerian women are the most promiscuous in this world. Do the maths.

EriMma1:


So what do you suggest the married woman do to get their husbands attention and fully attracted to them?

Practical tips o.
Types of outfits suitable for indoor parole and other tips on their looks.

Gamesmart:

Ur points are valid but have you noticed many rich men with beautiful damsels as wives still cheats.And most of these wives have killer shapes.
So the problem is not because their wives are fat or shapeless but they lack the spirit of contentment.

Most African couple especially the men don’t create room for romance even when their wives initiate it, they feel it a waste of time and resources.

But in all we move regardless 👍





Abeg, stop talking crap!



Marriage is sweet in the West where they do "romance" and "affection", but yet they are having 50% divorce rates?

Romance and affection ko, Lasgidance and defection ni.

If there are anythings that destroy marriages in Africa
, they are:

- Men's infidelity and broke-ness
- Women's propensity to be fat, out of shape and unattractive immediately after the first kid

Attractive women make men involuntarily be nice and romantic to them by default. A broke man worrying about money cannot easily be romantic.

Samabu07:

Sure , we are doing what our financial strength can carry.

Cheers
The way and manner you survived 10 years and still counting, you will survive more years to come.

The points you listed are very valid. When struggling couples take your counsel, their marriage will take a good course to happy ever after.

So back to you, do what you have pointed out I am sure you will share more success stories.

Alvin212:


My dear, it’s just to have the spirit of contentment. Most men do have multiple side chicks with holes that haven’t dropped any kid.

A cheat is always a cheat chikina 😒


Hole wey don vomit baby and
And Hole wey never vomit baby can't be the same


I blame it on child birth

Jossyfine:
Ur points are valid but have you noticed many rich men with beautiful damsels as wives still cheats.And most of these wives have killer shapes.
So the problem is not because their wives are fat or shapeless but they lack the spirit of contentment.

Most African couple especially the men don’t create room for romance even when their wives initiate it, they feel it a waste of time and resources.

But in all we move regardless 👍

Gamesmart:


Let me mention at least 5 prominent women with killer shape and cheating husbands:
May Edochie
Annie Idiabia
Regina Nwoke( Ned other wives are damsels, yet he still craves for other wives)
Caroline Danjuma
Adaeze Nwapa( former DG nigeria content monitoring board’s wife.)


There are a lot around the society that are not social figures.

Men are just insiatiable.



That is why I said men's infidelity is a key contributor.

This is said, "beautiful damsels as wives and most of these wives have killer shapes" are really great exceptions. They are very rare and don't represent a large population.

I am sure if I asked you to name 10 such women, you will totally struggle.

placeofallure:


Not necessarily for my husband. I just love to be free as soon as I step into the house. I have many tank tops that I wear and bum shorts to go with them. I wear sleeveless short gowns too. The idea is to be free from all entanglements. My husband encourages me as well to bare my skin. These outfits are strictly for indoors - bedroom, kitchen, living room, laundry room etc. You will only see me with wrapper when I want to sleep.

Jman06:
Most women become unattractive once married. That's why married men cheat.

Imagine seeing one hippopotamus with oversized grandma panties everyday. The man is bound to lose interest in her. If not for children and what the society would say, most married men would chase their wives away after few years of marriage.

Jossyfine:
Let me mention at least 5 prominent women with killer shape and cheating husbands:
May Edochie
Annie Idiabia
Regina Nwoke( Ned other wives are damsels, yet he still craves for other wives)
Caroline Danjuma
Adaeze Nwapa( former DG nigeria content monitoring board’s wife.)


There are a lot around the society that are not social figures.

Men are just insiatiable.

There are no picture of Ned Nwoke's wives online apart from Laila Charani, so I don't know how you concluded that his other wives are "damsels".

Or are you just being a typical woman where you create "reality" as what you wish it was?

Only Laila Charani that I saw her picture, and yes she was in shape, that said she is not the first wife and she is a Muslim, so she knew the arrangment she entered.

Are you having a laugh?

Another one that likes to flaunt her body online, but never in bikini or skin-tight/latex-clothes.

I would score her body 6/10, and I would not rule out she has done liposuction.

And she is someone that lies about her age. Only God knows what else she lies about to look attractive.

Gamesmart:


I knew you would struggle to name 10.

If you can only name 5 in known people's world, despite knowing lots of known people (maybe well over 100), then the rate will be worse in wider society.

Now let me go through the women you claim have "Killer" figures (hope you did not mean "Killer Whale" figures )

You must be a selfish someone,so you want to eat ur cake and still have it.

Cuz you haven’t seen their bikini body, you just concluded whatever in ya head.

We are Africans and majority of us are not comfortable exposing our bodies because of our culture and family values.

Enough please.Bye

May Edochie
Darling, this is not a killer figure. It is just an okay figure despite probably all her body contouring tools.

There are no bikini shots or skin-tight/latex-wearing picture of her. And one thing about women is that, if they are proud of it, they will flaunt it.

Just based on her shape while fully dressed (and with contouring tools), I would score her "fake" figure 8/10 for a woman of her age (38).

For all attractive women in general, I would drop her figure down to 6/10 (with contouring).


Annie Idiabia
Okay, I would give her a 9/10.

But she choose and fought for a dog herself, so she has no one to blame but herself.


Regina Nwoke
There are no picture of Ned Nwoke's wives online apart from Laila Charani, so I don't know how you concluded that his other wives are "damsels".

Or are you just being a typical woman where you create "reality" as what you wish it was?

Only Laila Charani that I saw her picture, and yes she was in shape, that said she is not the first wife and she is a Muslim, so she knew the arrangment she entered.


Caroline Danjuma
Are you having a laugh?

Another one that likes to flaunt her body online, but never in bikini or skin-tight/latex-clothes.

I would score her body 6/10, and I would not rule out she has done liposuction.

And she is someone that lies about her age. Only God knows what else she lies about to look attractive.


Adaeze Nwapa

Don't know and can't see who you are talking about.


So it is not like if these women are rocking Liz Hurley, Sophia Vergara, Jennifer Lopez, Beyonce, Kate Beckinsale, Heidi Klum, Manuela Arcuri, Aishwarya Rai' looks after childbirth.

Put any of those women I listed on Google search with the word "bikini" and you will see pictures of them still wearing bikini after childbirth and at older ages.

And note that majority of these women are older than the ones you listed.

Chinny024:


I don't think so.. Except the man don't take recognition of it.Declilning sex, amount of attention she gives u are all on a diminished rate..Even the number of times she calls...A woman’s action would be more glaring including immediate pepper body at him most times unlike when they started the marriage.🤣🤣🤣🤣

Jossyfine:
You must be a selfish someone,so you want to eat ur cake and still have it.

Cuz you haven’t seen their bikini body, you just concluded whatever in ya head.

We are Africans and majority of us are not comfortable exposing our bodies because of our culture and family values.

Enough please.Bye

Chidolalar:


What makes u think make woman love u pass make it easier

Gamesmart:


Those lists you mentioned not all women indulge in them. Remember we still have homes with good morals.

N/B: majority indulging in a vice doesn’t make it right.




Abeg, cut the crap.

We are Africans and have family values?

But we are ready to put pictures of our asses and cleavage in tight clothes on the internet, kiss on screen, make private sex videos that are leaked, give interviews about our big breasts on national newspapers, give interviews discussing our household dirty linen, bang men outside our marriages ............................... but we cannot be ever seen in bikinis?

Typical woman! They will refuse and reject facts, reality and evidence that does not fit what they wish and stick with their delusions.

Africans and family values ko, Jerrican and olosho values ni.

Jossyfine:
Those lists you mentioned not all women indulge in them. Remember we still have homes with good morals.

N/B: majority indulging in a vice doesn’t make it right.

EriMma1:


Says a man who will still use the industrious wife's income to chase side chicks.

Who told you I don't have other values apart from sexual and physical attributes? By the way I wasn't talking about myself here but the married couples I've seen it happen to.

Otaga Usifo whos wife was an industrious and high class woman also got the same treatment when her husband left her with all her values to be with a hookup girl (because of the same sexual attributes you are talking against) who ended his life. What do you have to say to that? The woman lacked virtues?

Majority of you men are the most confused entities. You want to have your cake and eat it. You want a woman of virtue and still desire the harlot outside. You think we don't know?

SKIBiNSKI:
How can a man be forking the same smelly vagina for 5,10 or 15 years? No way!!! And oh! A man marries his slim, clean, pretty, hygienic and smells nice wife, suddenlly after few years of marriage his wife turns into a fat assed nearly obese, smelly, rotten teeth, lazy wrinkled woman who smells really bad and snores in bed.

Raymeg7:
. My dear is not everyone ok, don't generalized it as if every man is the same,

I have been with my wife for over 18 years now, I was 29 and she was 22 when we got married, since that time till now, people call us twins, we have two cars and we both use one, either she drives or I drive, we have 4 boys, my first son is 16 years and he always said that he will always wish the wife he marries will be like us, so my dear try and find out why the man is misbehaving, not that they don't have such people, but they are not many, if ur wife is a nice and neat person is hard for a man not to love her, some women are dirty and they nag allot

jetson06:
I have been married for 3 years and I don alreadyn taya for my wife.

Marriage is bullshit. Don't venture into it if you aint mentally and emotionally ready for it.

Finance is also very important because no finance leads to no romance. No finance will result in your wife disrespecting you willy nilly.

jetson06:
I have been married for 3 years and I don alreadyn taya for my wife.

Marriage is bullshit. Don't venture into it if you aint mentally and emotionally ready for it.

Finance is also very important because no finance leads to no romance. No finance will result in your wife disrespecting you willy nilly.

Alvin212:

I hate loose vaginna and flabby boobs


Overly stretched vaginna


Fat tummy

Flabby boobs


Infact, pusssy wey don vomit baby no dey sweet again


Advice: Men should have at least 6 side chicks

hardon1:
90% of the comments here are from unmarried people... Hence I don't take it serious.

The major thing is long throat and lack of contentment in men. Whether you like it or not, the woman you marry today will never remain in same shape for the next 10 years.

As humans, we loose our looks with age be it a man or woman. Am yet to be married but I have conceived within myself that whichever lady I marry, a time will come when her skin will lose its smoothness, her breast will sag, her stomach will bulge from childbirth

When these begin to unfold, I wouldn't see it as a surprise or bore. It's ok for women to try to look good as they age. But men should not abandon their women just because they are out of shape.

Come to think of it, even you the man, your shape and other room performance must have dropped tremendously too