Raalsalghul:


Facts!

An intelligent write-up.

Origamist:
Y'all following the Zion Williamson and Moriah Mills unraveling?

Gerrard59:


So, what should young Nigerian men do, most of whom are not handsome or financially stable?

MetalJigsaw:
Even gifting her the cash should depend on her behavior towards you beforehand.

Or if she has been of help to you in the past one way or another.

If not, it's a beta move giving her even a kobo.

She should look elsewhere.

Your money is your sweat and blood. Value it.

Raalsalghul:



The financial aspects of hypergamy is relative and not a one size fits all.

Reason being why a certain SSCE educated Kudirat living in a one bedroom face me I face you with her parents in Ajegunle will mate with an OND educated Kunle living in a self-contain in Orile.

Or why a Blessing who has lived in a one room self contain in Oshodi with an OND education will mate with a BSc educated John who is a able to afford a two-bedroom flat in Agege.

In both cases, both guys are not multi-millionaires but there are women willing to mate with them hence there is that statement "find your level"

As regards looks, the truth you'll have to later accept is that no matter how ugly Nigerian men are, there women still find them attractive if not why do we have single mothers everywhere with deadbeat broke dads.

Surely, this men must have satisfied the looks hypergamy of these women to be able to mate with them. It's only when compared to their abroad counterparts that Nigerian men become ugly. And don't also forget that Nigerian women on the other hand, men of the other races don't find them that attractive so who do you want them to mate with if not their fellow Nigerian men.

All these hypergamy and looks discussion are not as straightforward as we make it out to be sometimes. There are several other factors that come into play.

Origamist:
Y'all following the Zion Williamson and Moriah Mills unraveling?

Raalsalghul:


As regards looks, the truth you'll have to later accept is that no matter how ugly Nigerian men are, there women still find them attractive if not why do we have single mothers everywhere with deadbeat broke dads.

LordAdam16:



All things considered, however ugly Nigerian men are, there are 100m women for whom there are no alternatives.

Raalsalghul:


Very apt.

You broke it down and simplified it further: learned one or two things.

In addition to the fact that lots of people begun to accept reality as they get older, there's literally no incentive for men of other races or countries to get married to Nigerian women (born and bred in Nigeria): not money or wealth, nor papers (is it with the way our passport has been bastardized) or their a-man-must-take-care-of-me and entitlement mentality.

Absolutely nothing! We are stuck with each other to be honest.

Cc: Gerrard59

LordAdam16:
If you like mk you fine pass Agbani Darego, na your local champions go still chop you. With their 212 spray, knockoff watches, and suya dates.
-Lord

luvyaself95:


Really 🥺

Dexter08:
Dear men,
Even on father's day, men are not spared.

Not to stir up gender rivalry or something but when people offer pean to fathers on Father's day, there is one peculiar word that goes side by side with father's day celeberation and the said word is: RESPONSIBLE

You see something like this: "Happy Father's day to every Responsible father out there."

Are we then saying only men have a disposition to be irresponsible?? And that women by default are cherubic

Funny I tell you.

Check through your social media, check the mail from the office congratulating fathers, there is always that responsibility clause that comes with celebrating a father but for mother's day no said clause.

Sad indeed

Here is me not even talking about how single moms have now hijack the Father's day celeberation.

Dear men, Beyonce was not wrong that year when she sang that it was women that rule this world.

For as long as we continue to live in a bluepiled world, one that attaches a clause for father's day celeberation and not do so for mother's day celebration, men would continue to lose the war against the matrix and I fear we all may not be spared.

Raalsalghul:



The financial aspects of hypergamy is relative and not a one size fits all.

Reason being why a certain SSCE educated Kudirat living in a one bedroom face me I face you with her parents in Ajegunle will mate with an OND educated Kunle living in a self-contain in Orile.

Or why a Blessing who has lived in a one room self contain in Oshodi with an OND education will mate with a BSc educated John who is a able to afford a two-bedroom flat in Agege.

In both cases, both guys are not multi-millionaires but there are women willing to mate with them hence there is that statement "find your level".

As regards looks, the truth you'll have to later accept is that no matter how ugly Nigerian men are, there women still find them attractive if not why do we have single mothers everywhere with deadbeat broke dads.

Surely, this men must have satisfied the looks hypergamy of these women to be able to mate with them. It's only when compared to their abroad counterparts that Nigerian men become ugly. And don't also forget that Nigerian women on the other hand, men of the other races don't find them that attractive so who do you want them to mate with if not their fellow Nigerian men.

All these hypergamy and looks discussion are not as straightforward as we make it out to be sometimes. There are several other factors that come into play.

heartofcity12:
These are the types of men that would brokeshame u if you advice them earlier on about the decision they’re making. Men like this will sure learn either by hook or by crook, that’s guaranteed. #trp

Miracood2:


All I did was to ignore her existence when she came back from holidays. Like I was very cold and talked to her 3 days after her arrival. Went to her room she tried asking some funny questions about why I ignored her for days and didn't care to call her during her holiday.

Told her to stop asking crap questions. Turned her on, and smashed without any form of resistance.

I've totally killed of the bf vibes I was putting on back then. I think I've been too cold asf. I don dey pity the girl sef.

We stay in the same building and I don't even talk to her at times when we see. She also doesn't seem to be bothered about it.

Rizzputin:


Yup

The bf vibes was holding you back. Because that role has been filled already. What she was looking for was someone to smash her senselessly.


She doesn't mind because she's not seeing you as a bf so doesn't care about you doing all those extra stuff. Plus, she might be thinking you want to keep things discreet. Which works for her too

Rizzputin:


Yup

The bf vibes was holding you back. Because that role has been filled already. What she was looking for was someone to smash her senselessly.


She doesn't mind because she's not seeing you as a bf so doesn't care about you doing all those extra stuff. Plus, she might be thinking you want to keep things discreet. Which works for her too

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Karlifate:
Women are addicted to drama.

When you don’t give women drama, they create it. 💯

Karlifate:
Before sex, you help each other get naked.

After sex, you only dress yourself.

Moral of the story:
In life, no one helps you once you're bleeped.


Alternative perspective: Nobody helps you when you no longer have anything to offer... especially if you're a man.