To be candid with u there shouldn't be no reason for u to start HV feelings for her.she is Ur late cousin's wife u hv to respect that fact even if he is late now Ur saying they were unable to HV a child based on infertility from Ur cousin how do u knw?are u emotionally blackmailing him ?what will d both families say even Ur cousins side.of all d women na dat one enter Ur eye brotherly HV a serious meeting with Ur inner self from her own side what will her people say?won't this decision affect d entire familyask questions ooo

The Bible allows the nearest kinsman to a childless dead relative to marry his widow but with the condition that their firstborn will have to bear the name of the dead relative so as to preserve his name. (Deut. 25: 5-6). So go ahead if you are the nearest (or a near) kinsman to your late cousin and you are also ready to dedicate your firstborn from the union to be your late cousin's.

Na u kill your late cousin? Go find another woman marry make another man own no dey enter your eye

yeah if she fine

Hmmm, do you want to give your late cousin's a son ,I heard that some tribes do practice this ,

And how do you know that it was your cousin that has infertility issues ?

saweide:




But during my cousins lifetime, she was so good, cool and caring to my cousin and they never had any misunderstanding

..and he died of heart attack

There is nothing wrong about it,, but it's something that both of you have to consult elders in the family for cultural approval.

In some cultures it is completely normal. My aunt married the younger brother of her late husband infact it was compulsory for the younger brother to marry if she so agree then she did and they got married.
Anyways nowadays things have changed so I guess you talk to your family and pray to see what the Lord will reveal to you ,carry out the necessary tests and then proceed if you get the green light .

[quote author=EmptyGarden post=123887569]Well, since she’s the only woman left in the world… go right ahead. SMH! Na covetousness Dey worry you![
All his story na wash, he dey bang that woman even when the cousin was still alive, if na lie make him swear with thunder

saweide:
Pls something is really bothering my mind and I pray I will find good advice here.

I reside in Port-Harcourt about 1 and half years ago Iost my cousin. He died of heart attack. After his death, his wife has been getting closer to me, always calling me and visiting me and am still single. I have had failed relationships in the past. I have been so unlucky with the kind of ladies I met. They are always violent and disrespectful which I dislike so much.

But during my cousins lifetime, she was so good, cool and caring to my cousin and they never had any misunderstanding and they married for just 6 years here in Port Harcourt before he died and they never had a child due to infertility on the side of the cousin. But now everyone like friends and family knows me and scared if I should make advances to her if they won't be saying things against me or should I just forget and look for another lady to marry.

Pls i need ur serious advise. She has fallen in love with me already.

Hmmm.... Baba go look for another woman to marry.

There lot of women with same/similar attributes as hers.

Also advise her to move on wither life, and to get married whe she finds love again.

isabi2lof:
Hmmm, do you want to give your late cousin's a son ,I heard that some tribes do practice this ,

And how do you know that it was your cousin that has infertility issues ?

Good question.... You are a man of wisdom

saweide:
Pls something is really bothering my mind and I pray I will find good advice here.

I reside in Port-Harcourt about 1 and half years ago Iost my cousin. He died of heart attack. After his death, his wife has been getting closer to me, always calling me and visiting me and am still single. I have had failed relationships in the past. I have been so unlucky with the kind of ladies I met. They are always violent and disrespectful which I dislike so much.

But during my cousins lifetime, she was so good, cool and caring to my cousin and they never had any misunderstanding and they married for just 6 years here in Port Harcourt before he died and they never had a child due to infertility on the side of the cousin. But now everyone like friends and family knows me and scared if I should make advances to her if they won't be saying things against me or should I just forget and look for another lady to marry.

Pls i need ur serious advise. She has fallen in love with me already.

Hmmmmmmn.. Did you kill him because of his wife?

Warlord2014:

Good question.... You are a man of wisdom

Thanks .. I'm a lady.

yrhuhfy113:
NOTHING WRONG but pls do you due diligence in finding out properly about her thoroughly.
Being a widow is not a stigma
May God give you wisdom.

Dear OP, kindly refrain from this advise, please.

U need your parents view on this as well as the parent of your late cousin. Ask them first.

saweide:
Pls something is really bothering my mind and I pray I will find good advice here.

I reside in Port-Harcourt about 1 and half years ago Iost my cousin. He died of heart attack. After his death, his wife has been getting closer to me, always calling me and visiting me and am still single. I have had failed relationships in the past. I have been so unlucky with the kind of ladies I met. They are always violent and disrespectful which I dislike so much.

But during my cousins lifetime, she was so good, cool and caring to my cousin and they never had any misunderstanding and they married for just 6 years here in Port Harcourt before he died and they never had a child due to infertility on the side of the cousin. But now everyone like friends and family knows me and scared if I should make advances to her if they won't be saying things against me or should I just forget and look for another lady to marry.

Pls i need ur serious advise. She has fallen in love with me already.

this kind of thing happen in my village, the lady pretended to be good and have giving birth to 6 children she now call it off and she said the children belong to her late husband and the will answer her late husband name, she went further by telling her children that there father is death and they should not mind this man, this made the children hate the man till toady so when people so what happen they told the man to go and marry another woman and leave his dead brother wife alone, the man now married at old age but was not able to train his children this made both children of his wife and of his brother wife hate him the suffered till his death please be-careful women women oh women

saweide:
Pls something is really bothering my mind and I pray I will find good advice here.

I reside in Port-Harcourt about 1 and half years ago Iost my cousin. He died of heart attack. After his death, his wife has been getting closer to me, always calling me and visiting me and am still single. I have had failed relationships in the past. I have been so unlucky with the kind of ladies I met. They are always violent and disrespectful which I dislike so much.

But during my cousins lifetime, she was so good, cool and caring to my cousin and they never had any misunderstanding and they married for just 6 years here in Port Harcourt before he died and they never had a child due to infertility on the side of the cousin. But now everyone like friends and family knows me and scared if I should make advances to her if they won't be saying things against me or should I just forget and look for another lady to marry.

Pls i need ur serious advise. She has fallen in love with me already.

Is it acceptable in your tribe?
How old is she?
Are you ready to dare the yabs from your friends?
What would be your parents and other cousin opinion?
Being a widow is not a stigma. Wish you all the best.

My culture doesn't encourage that. I feel it's not ideal too. So many women in the whole world and they're praying for a good husband. Let her go and marry someone else. Just an advise you mustn't take my counsel.

E fit don dey chop the woman like that

Cos Na gbola fit make am love you like that

Whenever*i*wanted*to*buy*things*e.g*car,*phone*,cloth*,etc,*i*preter*tearrubber*to*fairlyused*.the*later*always*irritate*me.
even*the*lady*i*married7years*ago*,i*teared*her*THING*myself.
even*to*do*farming*na*virgin/land*i*dey*go*for.

To avoid stories that touch the heart, please move on. This below is a good advice.

Towerex:
Well, I get your point because already you are in love with her. But even if your love and feelings for her is genuine, I will strongly advise you keep off. They are several women out there. Just marry someone else. Leave your cousins widow alone. Trust me no matter how deaf and hardened you feel you are,side talks will impact the relationship negatively. This won't be about you but about her. Women are very emotional. Talks get at them and you don't want to continually baby sit her in your bid to help her filter what she gabbage in and out of her head. On the other hand, for her to quickly make advances at you in just a year and half, something is definitely not right somewhere. Lastly, you will never help her perfectly heal. To help her heal perfectly, guide her to get another man and not you.

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Problem sleep,yaga go wake am.

Ballzproblem2:
make talk no circulate say na you and the lady kill your late cousin o ,I don talk my own.

Ballzproblem2:
make talk no circulate say na you and the lady kill your late cousin o ,I don talk my own.

Ballzproblem2:
make talk no circulate say na you and the lady kill your late cousin o ,I don talk my own.

....My brother the thing self tire me ooo

saweide:
Pls something is really bothering my mind and I pray I will find good advice here.

I reside in Port-Harcourt about 1 and half years ago Iost my cousin. He died of heart attack. After his death, his wife has been getting closer to me, always calling me and visiting me and am still single. I have had failed relationships in the past. I have been so unlucky with the kind of ladies I met. They are always violent and disrespectful which I dislike so much.

But during my cousins lifetime, she was so good, cool and caring to my cousin and they never had any misunderstanding and they married for just 6 years here in Port Harcourt before he died and they never had a child due to infertility on the side of the cousin. But now everyone like friends and family knows me and scared if I should make advances to her if they won't be saying things against me or should I just forget and look for another lady to marry.

Pls i need ur serious advise. She has fallen in love with me already.

And Jesus wept!!!

If I be your PARENT,I will ask you, hope you don't have HAND in YOUR cousin journey.

saweide:
Pls something is really bothering my mind and I pray I will find good advice here.

I reside in Port-Harcourt about 1 and half years ago Iost my cousin. He died of heart attack. After his death, his wife has been getting closer to me, always calling me and visiting me and am still single. I have had failed relationships in the past. I have been so unlucky with the kind of ladies I met. They are always violent and disrespectful which I dislike so much.

But during my cousins lifetime, she was so good, cool and caring to my cousin and they never had any misunderstanding and they married for just 6 years here in Port Harcourt before he died and they never had a child due to infertility on the side of the cousin. But now everyone like friends and family knows me and scared if I should make advances to her if they won't be saying things against me or should I just forget and look for another lady to marry.

Pls i need ur serious advise. She has fallen in love with me already.

What is the culture of your land . In urhobo the woman is still married to the family even if the husband is dead until she requested to leave the family or to marry someone else from the family who will take care of her

saweide:
Pls something is really bothering my mind and I pray I will find good advice here.

I reside in Port-Harcourt about 1 and half years ago Iost my cousin. He died of heart attack. After his death, his wife has been getting closer to me, always calling me and visiting me and am still single. I have had failed relationships in the past. I have been so unlucky with the kind of ladies I met. They are always violent and disrespectful which I dislike so much.

But during my cousins lifetime, she was so good, cool and caring to my cousin and they never had any misunderstanding and they married for just 6 years here in Port Harcourt before he died and they never had a child due to infertility on the side of the cousin. But now everyone like friends and family knows me and scared if I should make advances to her if they won't be saying things against me or should I just forget and look for another lady to marry.

Pls i need ur serious advise. She has fallen in love with me already.

but una don dey nack abi?.

Nothing wrong with that. Bro, if your hands are clean, do the proper things and get her to be your wife. Don't mind people, they must talk

It’s sunnah to marry a Widow or widower please do give love a chance. Cheers

saweide:
Pls something is really bothering my mind and I pray I will find good advice here.

I reside in Port-Harcourt about 1 and half years ago Iost my cousin. He died of heart attack. After his death, his wife has been getting closer to me, always calling me and visiting me and am still single. I have had failed relationships in the past. I have been so unlucky with the kind of ladies I met. They are always violent and disrespectful which I dislike so much.

But during my cousins lifetime, she was so good, cool and caring to my cousin and they never had any misunderstanding and they married for just 6 years here in Port Harcourt before he died and they never had a child due to infertility on the side of the cousin. But now everyone like friends and family knows me and scared if I should make advances to her if they won't be saying things against me or should I just forget and look for another lady to marry.

Pls i need ur serious advise. She has fallen in love with me already.

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Run ooooo, Run oooooo, Run oooooo.

Do the normal traditional Rights..

If u guys are compatible, marry her and both of you relocate....

Ireportlive:
Just pray about it... And seek spiritual guidance

Everyone deserves happiness even a widow

na so una Dey mislead people. Advice him to pray and seek spiritual guidance in choosing a wife from countless single girls out there not his late cousin’s widow.