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Is Surrogacy Adultery? by snthesis(m): 5:01pm On Jun 19, 2023
By definition Adultery is having sex with a married person, in short "sex outside marriage". My question however is when a consenting Couple (Husband and Wife) together invites a Third party for consensual sex with the wife towards having a Child in their union, can this be termed as Adultery? especially when the couple have been trying to have a child for so so long...
Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by TemplarLandry: 5:02pm On Jun 19, 2023
wink
Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by eddynaira125: 5:04pm On Jun 19, 2023
Because of pikin when you dey find, you go allow another man sleep with your wife


Adoption is more better and prefer over surrogacy, if intercourse will be involved
Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:08pm On Jun 19, 2023
snthesis:
By definition Adultery is having sex with a married person, in short "sex outside marriage". My question however is when a consenting Couple (Husband and Wife) together invites a Third party for consensual sex with the wife towards having a Child in their union, can this be termed as Adultery? especially when the couple have been trying to have a child for so so long...

if both participant are aware AND agree to the party, it can NEVER BE CONSIDER CHEATING

BTW remember, many highly respected men of the bible had concubines, mistresses baby mamas etc, and were never viewed/punished as sinner--- men like Abraham, king David, king Solomon etc
Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by samwash(m): 5:11pm On Jun 19, 2023
snthesis:
By definition Adultery is having sex with a married person, in short "sex outside marriage". My question however is when a consenting Couple (Husband and Wife) together invites a Third party for consensual sex with the wife towards having a Child in their union, can this be termed as Adultery? especially when the couple have been trying to have a child for so so long...

You have already answer your question.
Yes it is.
Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by Ireportlive: 5:16pm On Jun 19, 2023
Consent is required and was gotten by all parties involved

It's not adultery
Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by donbachi(m): 5:30pm On Jun 19, 2023
Legally not
Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by Maynmann: 5:55pm On Jun 19, 2023
snthesis:
By definition Adultery is having sex with a married person, in short "sex outside marriage". My question however is when a consenting Couple (Husband and Wife) together invites a Third party for consensual sex with the wife towards having a Child in their union, can this be termed as Adultery? especially when the couple have been trying to have a child for so so long...
Do you know what surrogacy means?

Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by snthesis(m): 6:36pm On Jun 19, 2023
MrBrownJay1:


if both participant are aware AND agree to the party, it can NEVER BE CONSIDER CHEATING

BTW remember, many highly respected men of the bible had concubines, mistresses baby mamas etc, and were never viewed/punished as sinner--- men like Abraham, king David, king Solomon etc

this is a reverse case, its the man that is impotent, so is that adultery
Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by snthesis(m): 6:39pm On Jun 19, 2023
Maynmann:

Do you know what surrogacy means?
same same , a third party is involved
Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by Maynmann: 6:47pm On Jun 19, 2023
snthesis:

same same , a third party is involved
There is no consensual sex with anyone.
Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by bukatyne(f): 8:25pm On Jun 19, 2023
snthesis:
By definition Adultery is having sex with a married person, in short "sex outside marriage". My question however is when a consenting Couple (Husband and Wife) together invites a Third party for consensual sex with the wife towards having a Child in their union, can this be termed as Adultery? especially when the couple have been trying to have a child for so so long...

If another sperm, egg or womb is required to get a couple pregnant, they do not need to commit adultery before getting it.
Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by bukatyne(f): 9:07pm On Jun 19, 2023
snthesis:


this is a reverse case, its the man that is impotent, so is that adultery

You mean only women commit adultery?
Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by Kobojunkie: 9:22pm On Jun 19, 2023
snthesis:
By definition Adultery is having sex with a married person, in short "sex outside marriage". My question however is when a consenting Couple (Husband and Wife) together invites a Third party for consensual sex with the wife towards having a Child in their union, can this be termed as Adultery? especially when the couple have been trying to have a child for so so long...
Let's consider it from scripture, shall we? undecided
27 β€œYou have heard that it was said, β€˜You must not commit adultery.’
28 But I tell you that if a man looks at a woman and wants to sin sexually with her, he has already committed that sin with her in his mind.
29 If your right eye makes you sin, take it out and throw it away. It is better to lose one part of your body than to have your whole body thrown into hell.
30 If your right-hand makes you sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell. - Matthew 5 vs 27-30
Since the man and woman in question would have to lust after each other in order to have anything goingβ€” sex usually begins in the mindβ€”, I think it's better to opt for adoption in this case. undecided
Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by snthesis(m): 11:02pm On Jun 19, 2023
bukatyne:


You mean only women commit adultery?
exactly, only women get stoned when caught in the act of adultery
Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by snthesis(m): 11:03pm On Jun 19, 2023
Maynmann:

There is no consensual sex with anyone.
there was a release of sexual fluids, so its sex
Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by snthesis(m): 11:06pm On Jun 19, 2023
bukatyne:


If another sperm, egg or womb is required to get a couple pregnant, they do not need to commit adultery before getting it.
egg, sperm are products of sex, so in essence surrogacy, artificial insemination can be classed under adultery if a third party is involved, however if its consenting is it still adultery?
Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by bukatyne(f): 11:07pm On Jun 19, 2023
snthesis:

exactly, only women get stoned when caught in the act of adultery

Where did you get this from?
Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by bukatyne(f): 11:25pm On Jun 19, 2023
snthesis:

egg, sperm are products of sex, so in essence surrogacy, artificial insemination can be classed under adultery if a third party is involved, however if its consenting is it still adultery?

Semen (containing sperm) is ejaculated during sex; sperm can also be extracted from the Penis in the lab (without sex)

Egg is not a product of sex; it is in the ovaries of women and one of the materials required to form a baby. If an egg is not fertilised, it is shed as blood that month called menstruation.

Adultery is a married person (man/woman) having sex with another person who is not their spouse.

Surrogacy (depending on what is rented) is renting someone to be a part of the reproduction process without sex. Someone could donate sperm, eggs or womb.

Artificial Insemination is the act of fertilising an egg by a sperm outside the womb I.e. in a laboratory. It could be donor eggs/sperm or that of the couple.

I have painstakingly explained these concepts to you to stop this thought process of yours.
Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by Truvelisback(m): 11:34pm On Jun 19, 2023
snthesis:
By definition Adultery is having sex with a married person, in short "sex outside marriage". My question however is when a consenting Couple (Husband and Wife) together invites a Third party for consensual sex with the wife towards having a Child in their union, can this be termed as Adultery? especially when the couple have been trying to have a child for so so long...
The word consenting couple(husband and wife) has answered the question. So, it's not a sin.
Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:03am On Jun 20, 2023
snthesis:
this is a reverse case, its the man that is impotent, so is that adultery

in the eyes of this couple it aint adultery, in the eyes of religion, it probably is.
Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by bularuz(m): 1:59am On Jun 20, 2023
Maynmann:

Do you know what surrogacy means?
Clearly he doesn't know what it means
Re: Is Surrogacy Adultery? by Maynmann: 2:27am On Jun 20, 2023
snthesis:

there was a release of sexual fluids, so its sex
When you have wetdreams, is it sex?

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