oweniwe:


When Elijah and Ahab were quarrelling, Elijah full ground gidigba.

But when Jezebel got involved and wrote to Elijah swearing to deal with him, what did Elijah do? Elijah packed his bags and ran away.

On certain issues, as a man, if you love your life, no drag some things with woman. Just leave her and run. E get why

This your bolded analogy sha

The problem here is she has opened her mouth waa to tell her family of the insults you dished to them, not too mature if you ask me but then why would you guys be trading insults to the extent of insulting your families.


Anyway the deed has been done, the problem now is they are holding those words against you

Just apologize to them and move on with your wife, it doesn't remove anything from you.

But your wife no try sha.

NoToPile:


This your bolded analogy sha

It's very easy for a man to have B.P issues and if it happens, he will be the one to suffer.

If he dies, his wife will simply wait for the next nigger too come and toast her.

If he throws her out of his house, the society will say he is wicked.

What is the man's gain? Nothing.

So many things about this country are stressing men already. Just for peace of mind and health management, if a woman decides to become unreasonable, cut your losses and move on because if he dies on her matter, there's no gain..... And another man go still carry her.

Leave her find peace of mind first

Thomthom:
House, please I need Serious mature advice. On the 7th of June I had a quarrel with wify the Quarel was so bad that it resulted into insult upon insult from both sides.. So I decided to leave the house to stay with my colleagues first. What is making me always surprised and sad is that when I got married in 2015, after marriage, Sapa wanted to kill us both. I am a civil servants I was not paid for about 8 month during the wedding but the savings I had, what what I used to package the marriage ceremony and I was down after the marriage.. I resulted to riding my bike at night to make some money for us to feed. Please note that NOBODY REMEMBER US O. After about 3 years of of moving from Civil servant to riding bike to feed wify, another govt came in and paid all the areas we were own.. I gave all the money up for wify to start Business.. To God be the glory BOOM wify hand was good in bussinness Naira started falling in. financial pressure on me dropped. I was know even having more money with me to drink beer after work. Now her family member now AUTOMATIC remembered that they have a daughter oo all of a sudden. Her father especially started pumping money into her bussinness and waiting for his profit.. at first I saw nothing wrong but latter I realised that 40 to 50% of gains Is moving to wify family. The remaining one she will use and buy clothes for herself and kids.. Although she do ask me at times what do we need at home like property she will buy.. Now back to the Quarel, we stayed apart since on the 7th of June 2023 but we later settled on Whatsapp and apologised to each other. But still wify and Her father are insisting that I should go to my village and call my uncles, while he call his brothers in form of meeting, in other to settle us. But I told my wife that the bussines of our family is for both of us why do we need other people to settle us. She said she told her father the insult that I insulted them bla bla bla.. But I have made up my mind am not calling any uncle on this matter, But I don't know if this decision is right or wrong. This is why I need advice pls.

You must have said something very hurtful to her for them to have insisted on this form of settlement

Jennyclay:
Oga Okada man, Why would you leave the house since 7th of June over little misunderstanding you had with your wife

You are broke and you still have pride.

Mr okada man You brought this upon yourself!

Must of Okada operators are far more doing well than the so called civil servants