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Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by CJStarz: 3:41pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Kindly read her first post on this. Sometimes,we abuse the understanding of the lordship of a man. Many women have died or had their dreams terminated all because they were submitting to the lordship of a wacko,a mentally deranged man. Inasmuch as women are meant to be submissive but when the man's decision is detrimental to you and your children,you should now apply your wisdom as a human being that you are. Abigail in the Bible didn't submit to the foolish lordship of Nabal, her husband. That saved her life and the lives of the rest members of the household. Salvation2 đź“Ż 4 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by CJStarz: 3:46pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Bros, e be like say Igbo people dey deprive you of your much needed peace of mind. If you never mention Igbos for your comments, you never start. Quit the trolling and hatred. Igbos are God's children as much as you are. Sanitize your mind and see your face show and your shoe shine. Shalom AntiMarxist: 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by maasoap(m): 3:47pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Ebeano49: It is wrong to put this on Nairalanders, she knew the reason why she came here for advice. If anything, majority can't be wrong. If he believes going to the village is the best for his family, who are you to forcefully object? Stakeholder, that's who she is. The man man is running to village because of free accommodation, not like like he's ready to grab cutlass or hoe ![]() ![]() ![]() Appeal to him. If he insists, then go with him and see how things pan out. He should go alone first to go and test the water. There are people living a good life in the village.Like who and who? You meant people who have endless plantations? Unfortunately, his husband is not one of them. 4 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by Nobody: 3:48pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
OZIOGU1:Thank you. I have message you 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by maasoap(m): 3:51pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
momsloved:After you secure a cheaper accommodation, try any business you love. Start small and grow it. Even if you are working for a monthly salary, just have it in mind to start business one day and save towards it. Whatever it takes, don't go to village. People in villages are moving out, there is NOTHING in the village. 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by maasoap(m): 3:52pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
OZIOGU1:Thanks man 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by UYEMDO35(m): 3:53pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
I believe you know what is best suitable for you....if staying back with your children will do you a lot of good then you can go ahead but the problem now is how you are going to raise fund to foot your accommodation and start-up small lucrative business that will keep you going for the main time pending till when u will get a better job... My dear, i sincerely understand your thought and what are going through. Pls house let's do the needful by supporting dis woman with d little we have..... Not only advising her. |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by maasoap(m): 3:56pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
dapadawee: Give your advice and move on. Stop calling people fools just because you don't like their inputs. What have you said to Op now? Basically nothing! "Search your heart", lol. Like she didn't do that before coming online. She needs advice and if you don't have any, just move. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by mariahAngel(f): 3:59pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
momsloved: How about you suggest moving to a less expensive city to your husband? A place with cheaper accommodation, where you can start a business. Sometimes, changing residence brings good fortune. It's best for family to stay together, especially because of the children. 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by SayNo2SmallPrik: 4:04pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Village people again |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by OZIOGU1: 4:06pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
I responded already 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by cassyrooy(m): 4:49pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
momsloved:Life isn't far away from us, there was a man I know whose family relocated to the village after their house and buildings were destroyed when El Rufai was Minister of the FCT, the family went back and he started from scratch and secured something and the family joined him about 3years later, now the first son is doing superbly well in business, the second son graduated some three years ago or so, the Ada is also a graduate. My dear, the zeal to succeed is inborn, failures in life don't stop it, rather, help us to restrategise and try again. Follow your heart but don't give up, whatever brought your family to this temporary situation, don't let it destroy your family, leave money oneside and keep your family safe and together. Don't worry about the kids, map out plans with your husband and find a way through. Even I have had to go back to village a lot to empty myself of impending failures and retried. Family above society's perception of your status. Be always humble in riches and in poverty and never quit no matter what, but keep your family together in all seasons. This is not the end. 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by Nicoddemus(m): 4:50pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Salvation2: Sharap there ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by Kobojunkie: 5:00pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Nemesis0147:How many of those villagers can afford and in fact attend those better schools? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by Kobojunkie: 5:04pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
CJStarz:Lordship of man and submission of woman in marriage is a curse God Himself placed on marriage when He washed His hands off it in Genesis 3 vs 16. Preaching that people continue to glory the curse using the name of God only means one is so so far away from God that it does not even begin to make sense. ![]() |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by ObaaOfYorubaLan: 5:13pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
AntiMarxist: Do you even know where Abuja is located? Travel for once in your miserable life before you quench to your grave and see what the okoros are going through, remain in your father's brown roof Ogbomosho house even at this your old age with wife and kids, Tuuee 2 Likes
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Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by Kobojunkie: 5:14pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
OZIOGU1:Momsloved |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by AntiMarxist: 5:14pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
ObaaOfYorubaLan: You own Nigeria nah. . 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by henrimoto(m): 5:27pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
cassyrooy:...Never say die. Never give up on Aspirations and Expectations. @cassyrooy. I had to re-read the bolded parts again and again and again. They are Life-line to a man of vision. Do you mind to share one or two stories of the Above bolded parts ? 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by Bfly: 5:29pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Every scheme got a dark side |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by komzy589(m): 5:54pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
CJStarz:In as much as what you said is the truth, I think you still strike me as a rebellious woman. Submission doesn’t mean sticking one’s neck out for the head to me chucked off, but putting ones desires as secondary in a sensible dilemma such as this. For the fact that you’re completely insistent on the woman putting her foot down instead of appealing to the husband for reconsideration already tells the kind of person you are. Unfortunately, this attitude will not get you anywhere because in any union, there’s a leader. That’s why there’s the proverbial for ladies “Marry only a man that can lead you”. |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by Emmanuel30a: 5:57pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
momsloved:Let me see ur picture,I want 2 picture ur future from THE SCRIPTURE;which is or talked about&of RAPTURE |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by Emmanuel30a: 6:03pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
momsloved:Scripture is future&future is RAPTURE...D SCRIPTURE&FUTURE/PLUS FUTURE;ETC=RAPTURE-RAPTURE IS D FUTURE. |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by endy69: 6:05pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
TinubuDcrook:It is obvious you don't stay in Abuja. The 250k is in suburb already |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by dapadawee: 6:06pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
maasoap: If you were not a fool you won't have responded. You just answered your name. You are presently foolish |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by TinubuDcrook: 6:08pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
endy69: They are houses in iyanya for 200k per a room self contain she can manage for a year save the other 150 using 100k to feed the children and transportation a month. Ganer the 150k for the one year and tell me how much she will have ? She can decide to pay a rent now of 400k and start life . Am I communicating? If I am communicating say yes pastor |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by bonnyhope: 6:08pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
momsloved: You are a single mother pretending to have a husband |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by zakkxx: 6:20pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Madam your husband they go village u wan stubbornly stay Abuja do olosho work abi? Now you put your contacts useless men will take advantage of your predicament and use and dumb u. Latter u will say men are useless! Madam follow your Oga go village! And enjoy free, rent, food etc |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by na2016: 6:24pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Salvation2: Don't mind her! 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by loliapoopy2013(f): 6:29pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Whatever you do, don't take your children to the village, you will regret it later. There is no prospect in the village. It is filled with people of envy and hatred who will be so happy to destroy the future of your children. I know what am saying because my parents made that mistake. If not for God e for no easy. But thank God |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by Emmanuel30a: 6:35pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
THE FUTURE&THE FUTURE OF/IN THE SCRIPTURE,ETC; IS THE RAPTURE... As if I already don't knows/already don't captures your pictures...? Forget The SCRIPTURE&THE FUTURE WHICH IS OR WHICH ARE THE RAPTURE...? Hell no or hade no/hey no!? You should better or you had better forget about the caricature&miniature, etc; like furniture, agriculture, horticulture, sculpture,etc... What is the culture&nature of RAPTURE OR OF THE RAPTURE, ETC; THAT WAS STATED, SLATED, MENTIONED&HIGHLIGHTED IN THE SCRIPTURE...? What should be the nature of the stature or of those statures, textures,"vultures", ventures,etc; that wants to be captured, during THE RAPTURE...? Have you been ruptured...? Won't you have/suffer fractures or suffer from fractures,etc; as a result of ventures&debentures, or ventures debentures...?... |
Re: I Don't Want To Relocate My Children To The Village by CJStarz: 6:39pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Ur first line, ',, inasmuch as what you said is truth ' nullifies the rest of your posit. If you read her previous post and my comments therein,you would know where I am coming from. Thru positive 'rebelling,' some women have saved their husband's asses from being roasted. My husband remains thankful to God he married such a rebellious me. If you don't Gerrit,go to court. komzy589: |
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