Ihateheadslamer:
Women are naturally envy of themselves

Her Mother told her to do that Video.
i'm very Sure

Candidlady:
The retard above me

Stewpid people do the most

Ho nee ku ree

Kriss216:
Foolish girl!

We've lost our heritage as Africans. Imagine a little girl boldly telling her dad she's disappointed in him for taking a second wife.

Since when is it a crime or taboo to take multiple wives as Africans? Must we always follow the white man tradition?
The reason they're forcing their nonsense LGBTUVWZZZ on us and some foolish Africans are buying it.

The society is now feminine and going mad!

In the medieval era, this girl and her mother would be marched to the village market square. The umuadas would flog nonsense comot for their body.

don’t mind her … wgen she grow up na baby mama she go be .. this generation of millennials that take drugs to nack babes will not marry her as an only wife ooo except she wants her coo chie to catch faya

Kriss216:
Foolish girl!

We've lost our heritage as Africans. Imagine a little girl boldly telling her dad she's disappointed in him for taking a second wife.

Since when is it a crime or taboo to take multiple wives as Africans? Must we always follow the white man tradition?
The reason they're forcing their nonsense LGBTUVWZZZ on us and some foolish Africans are buying it.

The society is now feminine and going mad!

In the medieval era, this girl and her mother would be marched to the village market square. The umuadas would flog nonsense comot for their body.

The issue is this said father LIED to his family that he is going for work but ended up going to settle bride price of another woman.
Do you understand

If he had told them outright that he is getting a second wife, I don’t think it would be seen as unafrican but the said father LIED ( you may not see anything wrong with that) and deceived them into marrying another wife.

What is he teaching his daughter? What idea about men is he telling his daughter?
No be everything be African related, morals is also an issue to uphold as a man or father

PerfectStranger:
Hey little girl, you may not understand at this age why daddy is taking that decision.

His mental health is number one and maybe mummy couldn't give him that.

You're the BEST 💖

Kriss216:
Foolish girl!

We've lost our heritage as Africans. Imagine a little girl boldly telling her dad she's disappointed in him for taking a second wife.

Since when is it a crime or taboo to take multiple wives as Africans? Must we always follow the white man tradition?
The reason they're forcing their nonsense LGBTUVWZZZ on us and some foolish Africans are buying it.

The society is now feminine and going mad!

In the medieval era, this girl and her mother would be marched to the village market square. The umuadas would flog nonsense comot for their body.

In the historical traditional society you refer to,, a man cannot marry another wife into the house without the agreement of all his formerly existing wives.

And if any of the wives refuse, the man would go back the woman's village to beg her people, who would now agree on her behalf.

Most of the time, the former wives don't refuse., So most of the time, the man wouldn't have to go and beg her people.

UYEMDO35:
The daughter might have a reason for scolding her father, can't her father stay without taking second wife.

Her father, not her! Can't someone peacefully decide, legally and legitimately what he wants in life anymore? Must he be contented with one wife so that the daughter wouldn't "be disappointed"?

Candidlady:
The retard above me

Stewpid people do the most

mariahAngel:
We are truly in the last times when children are being disappointed by their fathers they should look up to.

End time indeed, for daughter to be telling dad how to live his life.

MykellOni:
Attendance: Present ✔️
Lol! So this little girl wan get sense pass him papa like this.

She get Sense pass her papa,because the Papa decided to marry another wife?

UYEMDO35:
The daughter might have a reason for scolding her father, can't her father stay without taking second wife.

Maybe you should be advising the man on when to sh1t and when not to sh1t..

ukaface:

The issue is this said father LIED to his family that he is going for work but ended up going to settle bride price of another woman.
Do you understand

Perhaps, they wouldn't agree with him. It happens all the time.

If he had told them outright that he is getting a second wife, I don’t think it would be seen as unafrican but the said father LIED ( you may not see anything wrong with that) and deceived them into marrying another wife.

What is he teaching his daughter? What idea about men is he telling his daughter?
No be everything be African related, morals is also an issue to uphold as a man or father

. Like they would say "yes, let's go together and bring the mummy's junior home". Lol

maasoap:

Perhaps, they wouldn't agree with him. It happens all the time.


. Like they would say "yes, let's go together and bring the mummy's junior home". Lol

You not understanding
If after telling them and they see him settling brideprice even if they are against it this little girl
Won’t come out to say ‘ you told us you were going to work at Anambra but instead you were settling another woman’s bride price’
Do you understand my point?

Now this girl can say men are scum at this age and yes her reason to say that is valid , because he acted a scum. If he is the head of the family he should be able to not behave a sisi and face the neck of the family that I am bringing another neck. 🫤

maasoap:


End time indeed, for daughter to be telling dad how to live his life.

The little girl is disappointed that he lied...

I mean there are certain things we should own up to. When an elder is wrong we should not hide our mouth, we must call him out. Because he has lost the respect that would have been his, like an elder who let's children play with his penis and still expects respect. No, his own children would say, "I am disappointed in you!"

^{In ancient times, it was a norm to marry several wives but that's not the case today as we have become so westernized that we are left with a large number of unmarried women growing geometrically. Let's marry more wives, but let's not throw a bomb in the home that has been built. A husband alone CANNOT BUILD A HOME. Don't swear vows to stick with one woman, they don't ask such at a TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE, if you are capable to have more wives do it, your wife and children would RESPECT YOU as they know you have a traditional belief or an Islamic belief that allows more wives compared to going behind to thief a wife because you know your home would not expect or respect such an act of betrayal.}

ukaface:

You not understanding
If after telling them and they see him settling brideprice even if they are against it this little girl
Won’t come out to say ‘ you told us you were going to work at Anambra but instead you were settling another woman’s bride price’
Do you understand my point?

Now this girl can say men are scum at this age and yes her reason to say that is valid , because he acted a scum. If he is the head of the family he should be able to not behave a sisi and face the neck of the family that I am bringing another neck. 🫤

Roycemadeit:


The little girl is disappointed that he lied...

I mean there are certain things we should own up to. When an elder is wrong we should not hide our mouth, we must call him out.Because he has lost the respect that would have been his, like an elder who let's children play with his penis and still expects respect. No, his own children would say, "I am disappointed in you!"

That's the girl's version of the story and I'm not buying it. First wives and their kids have never been known to agree with daddies to marry second wives. There is always strong resistance, I have seen this on numerous occasions.

GreatVocalist:

Emotional intelligence doesn't necessarily translate to wisdom. Her displeasure is understandable, but that doesn't mean her say is the be all and end all for her father.

You literally made it seem like just because she's a kid,her feelings aren't valid, that's basically what I got from your first comment

What men are looking for is peace of mind!
If your mother gives him peace of mind, he will never considered 2nd wife, worse is side chick.
Small girl don't know what the man may be going through in the hands of her mother.

RALPHOW:
What men are looking for is peace of mind!
If your mother gives him peace of mind, he will never considered 2nd wife, worse is side chick.
Small girl don't know what the man may be going through in the hands of her mother.

I don't apologize when I say this is a bit myopic.

No one can give you peace of mind.

We know our desires are limitless and nobody is content until they have attained a level of consciousness that would allow their minds to be at peace.


Give a man who is unable to will his mind the most peace-of-mind giving woman, he would still crave for the troublesome one.

maasoap:



That's the girl's version of the story and I'm not buying it. First wives and their kids have never been known to agree with daddies to marry second wives. There is always strong resistance, I have seen this on numerous occasions.

As I said, westernization is to be blamed...

These ruckus between wives and their kids doesn't happen in Islamic homes as often when compared to the Christian homes...

Many of our fathers came from polygamous homes and lived happily...

- Lol. No wonder the young man married another wife. Like mother, like daughter. This one na uncultured future feminazi. Young men clock her face and beware .

- Perhaps, if her mother behaved well, the man would have given her the due respect of informing her.

- Before I married my second wife, I informed my first though. But all cases are quite different.

-Long Live Polygamy, Long Live Real African Men!

MissOpe:
Weldone little girl for speaking out about issues you perceive to he wrong without being manipulated about the sentiments of being rude to your father......

When you were much younger did you scold your dad when he did something that offended you?

If not you are Fool.

That girl is a child and should not meddle into Adult affair. She is too younger to question her father!

We were once younger, we didn't do that to our father! Let's not support this stupid agenda of a younger
and naive mind speak without proper guidance. Anybody who supports this girl is a FOOl.

Adakintroy:
Being man is something.

If you fail its your fault.

If you succeed, give all glory to God. If any ever is left, give to your wife. Cuz behind every successful man there is a woman.


Pay the bills all the bills you a man. Pay the children intuition, food medicals clothes everything. But when the time of celebration comes, well..mother is supreme.

Give to the woman. Love her unconditionally even though she love you condition base on what you can provide. The hand that gives is the blessed and loving hand. the woman receives regularly. But somehow she is the more loving hand.

Men love to be with pretty women, women with rich successful men. But men invent polygamy.

Men don't cry don't mean men don't feel pain.

The day women learn to give men their dues is the day the world will return to its actual state

@bold:

Daddy wa, in this story, the husband married a second wife.

I think you mean that men should give women their dues.

ukaface:

The issue is this said father LIED to his family that he is going for work but ended up going to settle bride price of another woman.
Do you understand

If he had told them outright that he is getting a second wife, I don’t think it would be seen as unafrican but the said father LIED ( you may not see anything wrong with that) and deceived them into marrying another wife.

What is he teaching his daughter? What idea about men is he telling his daughter?
No be everything be African related, morals is also an issue to uphold as a man or father

What the father did was totally wrong. But in Africa, there are some untold rules you must abide by. The daughter refused to abide by the rules(courtesy of her mother).
No matter what your parents do, you can't scold them.

If my daughter says this to me, she had better started to feed, house, clothe and sponsor herself. Cos I will prove to be a further disappointment to her.

Kriss216:
Foolish girl!

We've lost our heritage as Africans. Imagine a little girl boldly telling her dad she's disappointed in him for taking a second wife.

Since when is it a crime or taboo to take multiple wives as Africans? Must we always follow the white man tradition?
The reason they're forcing their nonsense LGBTUVWZZZ on us and some foolish Africans are buying it.

The society is now feminine and going mad!

In the medieval era, this girl and her mother would be marched to the village market square. The umuadas would flog nonsense comot for their body.

WELL SAID 💯

I like the tone of the thread.

When the alfa mails (to borrow the term) behin to reap the consequences of their recklessness, people (usually males) would open another thread on how men don't reap what they sowed in their families and how fathers are not taken care of in old age.

Now it is time to marry another wife on 'business trips', you remember this is Africa (a phrase almost never used for something positive). When the white man thinks this is Africa hence inferior to him, you start to wail.

Anyways, this is Africa.... where the men who should build working societies only think with their pen!s and how to satisfy their bellies like underdeveloped beings.

This is truly Africa, we see it!


P.S.: I am always against peeps washing their dirty linen in public so the girl could have rebuked her father privately.

Albertone:


What the father did was totally wrong. But in Africa, there are some untold rules you must abide by. The daughter refused to abide by the rules(courtesy of her mother).
No matter what your parents do, you can't scold them.

If my daughter says this to me, she had better started to feed, house, clothe and sponsor herself. Cos I will prove to be a further disappointment to her.

@bold:

Of course, what else does the average African man provide apart from money which wouldn't be enough considering the minimum wage and level of poverty?

That's why your children and wives don't remember you exist once they can fend for themselves.

You cannot provide morals, leadership by example, sense of direction and identity, encouragement, support or spiritual direction amongst other things a father & husband should provide.

Don't worry about disappointing her further, she has probably reached her wits end when it comes to you disappointing her

bukatyne:


@bold:

Of course, what else does the average African man provide apart from money which wouldn't be enough considering the minimum wage and level of poverty?

That's why your children and wives don't remember you exist once they can fend for themselves.

You cannot provide morals, leadership by example, sense of direction and identity, encouragement, support or spiritual direction amongst other things a father & husband should provide.

Don't worry about disappointing her further, she has probably reached her wits end when it comes to you disappointing her

The list of what a father can provide is endless, but the prominent one is finance, that's why it gets mentioned all the time.
When I withdraw finances, I'm automatically withdrawing other contributions.

I don't know how y'all were raised, but I was trained to give cognizance to my parents even if they were irresponsible and on the wrong side.
You don't wanna get cursed by your biological parents.
Even the bible says "honour thy father and thy mother so that thy days may be long".

bukatyne:

P.S.: I am always against peeps washing their dirty linen in public so the girl could have rebuked her father privately.

You saw how young the girl was? A minor is who should be rebuking her father?
Jesus Christ!

It looks like I'm dreaming. Feels so unreal and unnatural.

Mikekan30:


When you were much younger did you scold your dad when he did something that offended you?

If not you are Fool.

I didn't scold my dad, but I bodily asked him some questions when I perceived I'm been bullied for no just reason.....

By the way......ask your dad if he took you to the psychiatrist when you were younger ,cos it may seem as though you need to re-visit or visit that facility....

Oponu

Kriss216:
Foolish girl!

We've lost our heritage as Africans. Imagine a little girl boldly telling her dad she's disappointed in him for taking a second wife.

Since when is it a crime or taboo to take multiple wives as Africans? Must we always follow the white man tradition?
The reason they're forcing their nonsense LGBTUVWZZZ on us and some foolish Africans are buying it.

The society is now feminine and going mad!

In the medieval era, this girl and her mother would be marched to the village market square. The umuadas would flog nonsense comot for their body.

I like this guy/general. I think both of us are of/from a similar time line.