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Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by cooooooks(m): 4:30pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by biggal: 4:51pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
This kind of things make me ask why life in its self is unfair. Congratulations to the dog ChiefVal: 1 Like |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by biggal: 4:58pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
Please I need advice. I earnestly desire to relocate. I have a degree in Agricultural Economics. What do you advice me to do 1) run an Msc in Nigeria then apply for study visa for PhD in University of Saskatchewan being that it's cheaper than msc. 2) start all over in Nigeria by going back to study nursing maybe in open university 3) Apply for pnp 4) what other advice can you give me. Please my knees are on ground. Take me as your sister and tutor, advice me. NB....I have two kids teaching in a private school but wants to take the bull by the horns. |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by aurorae1: 5:13pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
lawani: That's the transaction we're talking about... In the 60s, home training and a nice enough appearance(child-bearing hips hello?) plus succinct family approval was the yard stick... It still is, money from a woman's perspective not so much... That part embedded deep in the very fibres of our beings that searches out a suitable provider(women) and a suitable homemaker(for men). What constitutes a suitable provider and suitable homemaker from the psychological and physical point of view, will differ just as much as I differ from you. We can nitpick qualities from now till they kingdom come. Just hope and pray you find someone "right" enough for you. 8 freaking billion persons on the planet, 7/8th of whom you'll never get the chance to meet. Life ain't the internet and it sure isn't black and white. 3 Likes |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Biola67: 5:44pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
lawani:Just Dey play 4 Likes |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Lamzee(m): 9:14pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
Anyone in Edmonton for a shared apartment please 1 Like |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by lastkingsman: 10:40pm On Jun 30, 2023 |
oluayebenz: |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by ednut1(m): 8:17am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Overlooking Scarborough bluffs beach from Scarborough Crescent park. 🚴♂️ 5 Likes
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Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by lawani: 10:09am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Gerrard59: Then can you explain with hypergamy those ladies (I know many) who meet unemployed men, marry them and help them secure a job? Is that also hypergamy?. 1 Like |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by alakara(m): 10:35am On Jul 01, 2023 |
biggal:1 |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Tahisa14: 2:52pm On Jul 01, 2023 |
Please Anyone going to Edmonton I am looking for a shared apartment please Going by august |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by biggal: 3:47pm On Jul 01, 2023 |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Gerrard59(m): 4:15pm On Jul 01, 2023 |
lawani: Exception not the norm. Not too common. We have to assess it as per a research paper. I need to see the data behind your claim on a wider scale. The current data (widely available on the net) show that most women marry men who earn more than they (women) do. I am not saying all men should be rich (not mathematically possible), but an unemployed man should focus on getting a job rather than finding love in a highly capitalistic society. He can control finding a job, not finding love. As I opined, it is easier to find love with black women born and bred in Canada because those are at the apex of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs rather than fellow immigrants who toiled to migrate as single women, not married. They will have higher standards for men they want, especially a first generation man like OP. The same OP might find it difficult to meet up with their ethical standards as per no be fellow Nigerian women or have his ego bruised. It could be how I was raised and what I witnessed growing up, but the only women I can rely on financially without issues are my mom and sister. But then let's ask ourselves, why is OP interested in finding love at this point in his life? Is it love that took him to Canada? 11 Likes |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Gerrard59(m): 4:17pm On Jul 01, 2023 |
lawani: The chances of meeting a man with a questionable source of income in Canada are lower than in Nigeria. So Nigerian ladies in Canada are on the right side regarding vetting the men who meet them for relationship/marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by lawani: 4:33pm On Jul 01, 2023 |
Gerrard59: You can lose your job and etc. Shit happens and a real woman would stay with you no matter what happens after marriage. The first woman you can rely on should be your wife as a married man. 2 Likes |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by lawani: 4:35pm On Jul 01, 2023 |
Gerrard59: Yes you are right but they have jails in Canada too because of criminals in their society |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by A14: 7:42pm On Jul 01, 2023 |
Happy Canada Day 🇨🇦 3 Likes |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Gerrard59(m): 2:55am On Jul 02, 2023 |
lawani: Well, I stick to what I know. Nothing concerns me with woman's money other than my mom's and sister's. Good luck to everyone. 3 Likes |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by aestake: 3:42am On Jul 02, 2023 |
lawani:You don't wanna be in that situation. If you see the men they sponsored to Canada, you can tell. |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Afolavid: 6:56am On Jul 02, 2023 |
Nawa ooh... They don dissect, analyze and test run the OP condition and status like lab rat, I come weak to comment. I no wan be the next lab rat Regardless if you believe it or not, true love still exists! Of course, It's hard to find but if/when you eventually find it, you'll enjoy the rewards that comes with it irrespective of your gender/status. All the best to everyone!!! 📸::: Niagara Falls 6 Likes
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Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by enesty(m): 7:17am On Jul 02, 2023 |
Hello Any reliable sites for sponsorship jobs to Canada? |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Chinnychappy90: 9:18am On Jul 02, 2023 |
Hi Chrysto. Did you get any close to the uni? chrysto: |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by lawani: 9:54am On Jul 02, 2023 |
Gerrard59: You sound like those kind of men who don't wish prosperity for their wives because if your wife prosper, you will eat. Women have been Owa Obokun of Ijesa land, Ooni of Ife, Queen of England and they had husbands and kids 2 Likes |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by ednut1(m): 10:39am On Jul 02, 2023 |
enesty:indeed, job bank. You may have to apply for 2000 jobs to even get one willing to sponsor. |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Raalsalghul: 11:16am On Jul 02, 2023 |
NuCypher: The dude is naive, very naive. 1 Like |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Gerrard59(m): 11:27am On Jul 02, 2023 |
lawani: Oga, You are the one complaining of not finding a woman in Canada. Do I look like I am responsible for your inability to find a woman in the entire Canada? You sound like those Nigerian men who cannot do without sex then japa'd to a place with temperate weather, and with your Ojuju Calabar face, no woman is looking at you. You must be thinking something else if you think because I want to be financially stable, then it means I don't want my wife to succeed. Do you think you are more feminist than a dude who has written feminist articles for donkey years? Who has participated in debates arguing for women to earn more and be financially independent? Focus on what you took you to Canada. Register on Tinder, Hinge, Bumble etc, screaming away your desperation for a partner. I am not the one who initiated the discussion that he needs a woman. The truth is, you people have never experienced what life is without sex, that is why marriage dey hungry una because una dey environment where one gives a fvck who you are. You cannot use money to entice them because they have theirs. Now, you lots are angry at fellow Nigerian women wey sabi una behaviour A - Z. Whether women have been heads of traditional institutions is none of my freaking business! Do I come across to you as Prince Charles or Williams? ! 12 Likes |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by ednut1(m): 11:31am On Jul 02, 2023 |
una no dey tire ni hahaha |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by lawani: 11:45am On Jul 02, 2023 |
Gerrard59: Are you drowsy or dreaming?. In which of my post did I talk about Canada?. |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by lastkingsman: 12:45pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
Gerrard59: ojuju calabar Nwanne, take it easy 1 Like |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Jiggsbaby: 1:37am On Jul 03, 2023 |
dkingslayer99:Congratulations in advance |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by jimpix11: 3:06pm On Jul 03, 2023 |
biggal: Just to ask, is your spouse involved? You have two kids? Or you have two kids that are already teaching in a private school? Punctuation is very important here 5 Likes |
Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Officialarhnie(f): 8:09pm On Jul 03, 2023 |
Hi everyone, Please I’m trying to find accommodation in Ontario, Brampton to be precise. Please anyone with any advice or link to how I can go about it? |
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