bukatyne:


I wanted to be disappointed that this is not a left propaganda and read the article & the twitter video.

I know that anyone who is against the LGBTQ~ community from a Christian POV would be labelled all sorts, not surprising.

For anyone to watch the Twitter video & call Matt Walsh a pedophile must be a clown. Even the thumbnail of the video doesn't correlate with he said and I am sure that video was carefully curated to prove their point.

First the article:
1. Matt Walsh was quoted to equate drag Queens as pedophiles and should be treated as such. He was alleged to be against the LGBTQ~ community (as he should) and asks for their arrests. This makes Matt Walsh anti-LGBTQ~ and not a pedophile (except the meaning has changed).

Secondly the video:
1. I assume the discussion was around teenage pregnancy.
2. Matt Walsh brought facts to the table that:
a. Teenage girls have always been getting pregnant and cited the apex as 1957. Hence, teenage pregnancy is not a new phenomenon because peeps married much younger in older times. This occurred everywhere.
b. According to science, 17 - 24 yr old women are the most fertile for childbirth
c. About 30 years ago, society decided that teens are too young to get married.

The problem with teenage pregnancy is that the pregnancy is not in a marriage which is a fact. If an 17yr old girl marries a 19yr old guy and gives birth at 18, have the right resources to support them. What is the problem? Perhaps they are not done with school, perhaps we think if they are older, they would have chosen better yada yada but what is the problem and how is this pedophilia? Our dear Omotola married and had her first kid at 18yrs; I don't see anyone screaming pedophilia.

In that short clip, he did not even prescribe teenage marriage; he stated the facts on ground and rightly started that teenage pregnancy became an issue when it was outside wedlock.

I have not seen any hate from Matt Walsh although I understand that anyone who makes his/her Christian stance known especially against the LGBTQ~ is automatically labelled.

Bukatyne dey carry microphone for Matt Walsh defending teenage pregnancy oo.

If Matt Walsh is a Christain or Christian icon now I see why many young people are leaving religion.
This man says they are paedophiles and rapist and that is a lie(facts). He justifies teenage pregnancy and throws hateful comments of death and all sorts on LGBTQ people but somehow you think these statements are not hateful.
A Christian can condemn LGBTQ without lying that they are paedophiles and rapist or wishing them deaths and abuse like Matt Walsh does. There is nothing Christ-like there. I have never heard him say pray for LGBTQ people and all sorts of Christian virtues against sin.
If hateful comments like what Matt Walsh spews is considered Christian then something must be wrong with those Christians.
The man is actively spreading hate and grifting idiots who are bigots like him but you consider him Christian.
LMAO
All of you must be serious clowns. This man has justified abuse but somehow he is an ambassador of Christ. Lol.

Bukatyne has no problem with arresting LGBTQ people for doing what exactly?

It is very stupid to compare drag Queens to paedophiles when they don't even perform for kids or have any history of child abuse. Drag queens have existed for years in many cultures but agenda must agend for bigots.

How very Christ like of you to lie on people and defend such lies.

I remember you defending marital rape here years back.
So this is not new thank God secular laws are not gotten from Religion. The World would have been a worse hellhole.

Cococandy, don't you find it weird that these beautiful Christians who turn a blind eye to the hateful rhetoric of Matt Walsh and his likes who all of a sudden care about women and children don't complain about the child abuse scandals of the Catholic Church and abuse of women in religious houses?

It must be very Christ-like to concern yourself of things of this world while turning a blind eye to abuse of women and children going on in religious houses. These same people have no problem with school shootings.

How will you be taken seriously when you don't want to acknowledge a problem rooted in your religious houses. But LGBTQ are the problem while people are avoiding religious houses because they don't feel safe.

Well we don’t wanna be anti-Christian or be perceived as lukewarm Christians for not being fanatical enough. Turn a blind eye is the name of the game.

And we don’t want to mention Islam because it’s cultural and maybe permitted? (I don’t know what I don’t know) so therefore not our place to speak on. Or at least in America we don’t wanna be islamophobic.

Since they started the “protect the kids” chants trying to paint LGBTQ people as the main abuser of kids, a researcher and her group started compiling monthly names of people who have been convicted of abusing children sexually etc. And what would you know? Straight people are the chief culprits.
No one has tried to cancel straightness since then. They don’t even talk about it.

It’s almost as if when members of a majority group do something bad, we can dissociate them from the group and blame them specifically for their actions but when some members of a marginalized group do same, then they are all responsible for it.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Cococandy, don't you find it weird that these beautiful Christians who turn a blind eye to the hateful rhetoric of Matt Walsh and his likes who all of a sudden care about women and children don't complain about the child abuse scandals of the Catholic Church and abuse of women in religious houses?

It must be very Christ-like to concern yourself of things of this world while turning a blind eye to abuse of women and children going on in religious houses. These same people have no problem with school shootings.

How will you be taken seriously when you don't want to acknowledge a problem rooted in your religious houses. But LGBTQ are the problem while people are avoiding religious houses because they don't feel safe.

Period.

A Christian can condemn LGBTQ without lying that they are paedophiles and rapist or wishing them deaths and abuse like Matt Walsh does.

This is the reason I made the first post about it being the domain of straight men

https://stopabusecampaign.org/2017/03/10/are-most-sex-abusers-heterosexual/

Misinformation and hysteria around this topic threaten to stigmatize LGBTQI+ people further and don’t protect children. So, let’s start with some facts.
Are most child sex offenders heterosexual?
Yes. Most child sex offenders consider themselves heterosexual [1]. Jerry Sandusky and Jared Fogel are two famous examples of married, heterosexual sex offenders who fathered children.
Sound somewhat improbable? Stories of Catholic priests molesting boys have been ongoing for decades, and nearly 100,000 men have sued the Boy Scouts of America for child sexual abuse that happened to them as children.
Here are some things to keep in mind:
Pedophilia, the sexual attraction to prepubescent children (not the act of sexually abusing children), is very different from sexual attraction to adults.
Scanning headlines is a terrible way to understand child sexual abuse. Let’s unpack that.
Demographic characteristics of a child sex offender
Most sex offenders are male. Researchers agree that sexual abuse by women is under-reported and under-documented, but even with this factored in, men are more likely to sexually abuse a child than women are. [4]
The demographics of sex offenders mirror the demographics of America. That means no racial group, educational level, or income bracket is more or less likely to be a sex offender than any other. And sex offenders are as likely to be married or married and divorced as other American men. [3]
Sexual abuse and sexual orientation of child sex offenders
Most people who sexually abuse children also experience heterosexual attraction to adults. Someone who has sexual relationships with adult women may sexually abuse boys, and someone who sexually abuses children of one sex is likely to abuse children of the other sex. [5]
Are gay people more likely to be child sex offenders?
Researchers have studied the question of homosexual men being more likely to sexually abuse children, as well as the question of homosexual men being sexually attracted to boys. In a one-year period at a major child abuse center, less than 1% of the abusers who were identified were in a homosexual relationship.

cococandy:
Well we don’t wanna be anti-Christian or be perceived as lukewarm Christians for not being fanatical enough. Turn a blind eye is the name of the game.

And we don’t want to mention Islam because it’s cultural and maybe permitted? (I don’t know what I don’t know) so therefore not our place to speak on. Or at least in America we don’t wanna be islamophobic.

Since they started the “protect the kids” chants trying to paint LGBTQ people as the main abuser of kids, a researcher and her group started compiling monthly names of people who have been convicted of abusing children sexually etc. And what would you know? Straight people are the chief culprits.
No one had tried to cancel straightness since then. They don’t even talk about it.

It’s almost as if when members of a majority group do something bad, we can dissociate them from the group and blame them specifically for their actions but when some members of a marginalized group do same, then they are all responsible for it.

Spot on and I agree with you.

@bold,what is the name of the researcher? I would love to read it.

Ladyhippolyta88:

Spot on and I agree with you.

@bold,what is the name of the researcher? I would love to read it.

If you have social media, her name is Kristen P Brode. She’s a family lawyer and an activist. TT handle newgirlny_fl

I do follow her and that’s where she shares the information she’s been able to find . Watch her videos titled “who’s in the news this week for molesting children”. I stopped at week 16 lol. The information is enormous and kinda depressing.

Nothing published yet as far I know. I don’t even know if she intends to publish it afterwards because all she’s sharing are information that are publicly available and you know most people won’t feel the need to go searching for it themselves (especially if it doesn’t fit the narrative).

This is more complete information from last year from a different source

https://childluresprevention.com/resources/molester-profile/

PLEASE BE ADVISED THAT THIS ARTICLE DEALS WITH SEXUAL ABUSE/ASSAULT OF MINORS.
IF YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW HAS BEEN A VICTIM OF THIS CRIME, CALL 800-656-HOPE FOR 24/7 HELP AND SUPPORT.

A Profile of the Child Molester

BY ROSEMARY WEBB AND JENNIFER MITCHELL, INTERNATIONAL PERSONAL SAFETY EXPERTS.

For over three decades, Child Lures Prevention/Teen Lures Prevention has analyzed data on the methods child molesters/sex offenders use to lure children, teens and young adults into abuse and worse. This original research, based on hundreds of interviews with convicted sex offenders and in-depth case studies, reveals 16 specific Lures -- including Affection, Authority, Bribery and Games -- which constitute the foundation of the evidence-based Think First & Stay Safe and Teen Lures TV Newscast school curricula.

Child molesters come from all economic backgrounds, geographic areas and include every ethnicity, race and creed. The sole characteristic all child molesters share is having thoughts about being sexual with children, and acting on those thoughts. These individuals actively seek access to children and the opportunity to be alone with them. Also, contrary to "Stranger Danger" warnings, child molesters are rarely strangers; at least 90% of sexually abused children are abused by someone the child and/or family knows, someone in the child's immediate or extended family, or someone close to the family.


Who can be a child molester?

Any gender (88% are male; 9% are female; 3% are unknown)*
All ages (including kids, teens and seniors)
All socioeconomic groups (wealthy, middle class & disadvantaged)
All races & ethnicity
Diverse occupations
What percentage of child sexual abuse is committed by family members?

Family members abuse:

49% of victims under age 6.
42% of victims ages 7-11.
24% of victims ages 12 - 17.
The younger the child, the more likely their abuser is a family member. Keep in mind that family members include parents, guardians, step-parents, siblings, step-siblings, cousins, uncles, aunts and grandparents.

Do kids and teens use Atypical or Problem Sexual Behavior with other children?

Yes. Based on substantiated state-by-state reports, at least 1/3rd of all childhood sexual abuse is peer-on-peer. Juveniles using atypical or problem sexual behavior are usually youngsters who are older and stronger than their victim. The average onset of problem sexual behavior is 12-14 years old. ("Children under age 12 are identified as having atypical sexual behavior, not sexually abusive behavior, due to their young age, developmental level, and the continual changes that occur throughout childhood,” states the Association of the Treatment of Sexual Abusers.)

A U.S. Department of Justice, Bureau of Justice Statistics report* found that 23% of all sexual offenses against children were by other kids under the age of 18. There are two very important distinctions to make about juveniles using atypical or problem sexual behaviors:

Of children who are sexually abused, the majority DO NOT go on to use atypical or problem sexual behavior.
The subset of juveniles who do use atypical or problem sexual behavior with other children often have histories of being victimized themselves.
Do females ever molest children?

Yes. Female offenders make up approximately 9% of all reported child sexual abuse. The most recent statistical report by the US Department of Justice found that female offenders sexually abused:

12% of victims under the age of 6
6% of victims ages 6 - 12
3% of victims ages 12 - 17
What is the most common lure used by child molesters?

The Affection Lure is used both offline and online to exploit unsuspecting youngsters in need of love and attention. (See Think First & Stay Safe™ Parent Guide.) Most victims of abuse are befriended and "groomed" over a period of hours, days, weeks, months, or years. Child molesters have repeatedly admitted: When there's a physically or emotionally absent parent in the picture, it makes the child more vulnerable to grooming and abuse.

How many sex offenders, including child molesters, live in the U.S.?

Currently, there are 904,011 registered sex offenders living in the United States, according to registry data from 50 states and 6 U.S. territories (May, 2018), which has increased from 847,725 in Nov, 2017*. These are offenders who have been caught, convicted, served their time and are now living among us. This number does not include child molesters who are currently serving time in prison. Also, the FBI estimates that only 10-40% of sex crimes are ever reported, which means there are millions of sex offenders living in the United States, many of whom have never been reported - or caught, or convicted.
*Source: Sex Offender Registration Map, (2018), National Center for Missing and Exploited Children.

Also not listed on the Sex Offender Registry are juveniles under the age of 14 using atypical or problem sexual behavior (caught and adjudicated), as well as any minors using atypical or problem sexual behavior who have not been reported or adjudicated.

How do child molesters gain access to their victims?

While some sexual abuse is purely opportunistic, most children are groomed and lured into situations where they are vulnerable to abuse. Common grooming strategies include:

Befriending parents, particularly single parents, to gain access to their children.
Offering babysitting services to busy parents or guardians.
Taking jobs and participating in community events that involve children.
Becoming a guardian or foster parent.
Attending sporting events for children.
Offering to coach children's sports.
Volunteering in youth organizations.
Offering to chaperone overnight trips.
Loitering in places children frequent - playgrounds, parks, malls, game arcades, sports fields, etc.
Befriending youngsters on social media (TikTok, Ask.fm, YouTube, Kik, Snapchat, Instagram, etc.) and online gaming platforms.
How do sex offenders lure kids online?

Internet predators use the same Lures online that are used offline. They typically target uninformed and unsuspecting youngsters to engage in virtual relationships by luring them with flattery, attention and feelings of being close to an online friend. In essence, the Affection Lure, Friendship Lure and Ego Lure are being used online. Lonely, neglected, confused and risk-taking adolescents are most vulnerable. The risk increases if they share intimate images of themselves or have inappropriate conversations.

The internet predator becomes a more serious threat when they obtain a youngster’s personal information (i.e. full name, phone number, address, school, sports team), convinces them to send inappropriate images, or manages to arrange a private, in-person meeting. Youth who have shared too much personal information or agreed to in-person meetings without adult supervision have been robbed, physically assaulted and sexually abused. Cyber predators who convince youngsters to share intimate pictures or video often use blackmail to get more images. This is known as sextortion, which law enforcement has identified as a real and significant threat to the safety of all youth.

Children and teens are still more likely to be sexually exploited (in person or virtually) by someone they know, including a peer, than by an Internet Predator. This is why it's important to remind kids to limit how much personal information they share with everyone, to keep passwords PRIVATE (even from friends) and to never send inappropriate images to anyone. (For additional safety tips, order a Think First & Stay Safe™ Parent Guide.)

How else do child molesters use the Internet?

Since the dawn of the Internet, child molesters around the globe have used it to share beliefs and experiences, even descriptions, names and images of children they have abused. Now, the Dark Web is where they "socialize," as well as share and sell child pornography, easily produced with cell phone cameras and sometimes even shown in real time.

It is essential for parents to teach children and teens that they must not ask for, nor provide, nude or semi-nude photos. Ever. Many sexted images children and teens have been pressured into sending (or send "to be funny" end up in the child porn collections of American and International child porn collectors. Despite law enforcement's best efforts, it is next to impossible to keep child pornography images out of circulation on the web.

How do child molesters target their victims?

Early grooming efforts by sexual predators seek to determine if the child has a stable home life, or if the family is facing challenges like divorce, foster care, poverty, illness, drugs, homelessness, etc. Children lacking stability at home are at higher risk for sexual abuse, as there is usually more access to the child and opportunities to abuse the child.

Child molesters will also target kids who are loners, or who look troubled or neglected. Youngsters who smoke, vape or use drugs and alcohol are seen as risk-seekers lacking adequate supervision, and therefore easy targets. Single parents are often targeted, as they are more likely to need help with parenting duties and vulnerable to offers to babysit and/or drive kids to school, practices, lessons and other activities. (See Think First & Stay Safe™ Parent Guide.)

Which age group is most often targeted by child molesters?

While all children are vulnerable, approximately 20% of child sexual abuse occurs with children under 5 years of age; 50% with kids between 5-12 years old; and 30% occurs with teens between 13-17 years of age. Parents and guardians can help keep children safe by talking frankly and often to their children about "the birds and the bees." At the very least, teach your child, preferably beginning at birth, anatomically-correct names for their private body parts (buttocks, anus, chest, breasts, vulva, vagina, penis and scrotum). Child molesters have admitted they are less likely to abuse children who know the proper names for private body parts and have learned basic body safety skills.

Some child molesters cite a preference for children on the brink of puberty. This is the age of sexual awakening, making it easy for molesters to prey on the sexual ignorance and curiosity of youngsters. To quote one sex offender, "Give me a kid who knows nothing about sex, and you've given me my next victim."

When and where do most sexual assaults usually happen?

With incidents involving juvenile using atypical or problem sexual behavior, 1 in 7 incidents occur on schooldays between 3pm-7pm, with a peak from 3-4pm, right after school. (Child Maltreatment Report, 2013) This speaks to the importance of safe after-school care and close supervision of multi-age groups of youngsters.

Most child sexual abuse occurs in the home of the victim, the home of the offender, or another residence. 81% of all child sexual abuse occurs in one-on-one situations: one-offender/one-child. (Child Maltreatment Report, 2013) Wherever youth are physically or virtually alone with someone is a potential place where they can be subjected to sexual misconduct or abuse.

Wouldn't a vigilant parent be able to detect a child molester, just by their actions?

Not necessarily. Most child molesters are expert at getting children and families to trust them. Many target their victims and attempt to involve themselves in the child's life, including their family, school, house of worship, sports, and hobbies. They are often the first to offer to babysit or drive children to activities. Child molesters will smile at you, look you right in the eye and make you believe they are trustworthy. (To learn the 16 Lures used by sexual offenders, order the Think First & Stay Safe™ Parent Guide.)

Why is it that most victims do NOT tell someone about their abuse, or attempted abuse?

There are many reasons why 9 in 10 children do not tell about being sexually abused. Because the abuser is often a family member, the child may be dependent on their abuser for basics like food and shelter. They may still love the abuser and not want to get them in trouble, or they may fear breaking up the family. They may have been threatened not to tell, so they are afraid.

Many survivors of sexual abuse feel embarrassment, shame and a sense of guilt over what happened. They may mistakenly believe they are somehow responsible, that they did something to make the abuse happen. They did not. Other kids, especially boys, are afraid parents will over-react or restrict their freedom, so they keep quiet. However, being sexually abused is NEVER a child's fault. Think First & Stay Safe and Teen Lures TV Newscast curricula also teach children and teens that All Secrets Can Be Told. Program evaluations document that children are more willing to tell about grooming behaviors, attempted abuse and sexual abuse after learning either or both curricula.

How then, do we protect our children?

Starting at birth, teach children the medical terms for private body parts. (Chest, breasts, buttocks, anus, vulva, vagina, penis and scrotum.) Teach children that private parts are just that - private. Assure children of their own rights, that they are the boss of their own body, and they get to choose whether or not anyone can hug, kiss or touch them. Respect children's privacy and personal space, and teach them to respect the privacy and personal space of others.

Teach your child that it is against the law for anyone to look at, take pictures/video of, or touch a child’s private parts with any part of their body. It is also against the law to tell a child to look at, take pictures/video of, or touch another person’s private parts with any part of their body. Anyone who tries is breaking the law. Tell your children that all secrets can be told, especially secrets they have been told to keep or have been keeping for a long time. Help your child choose two trusted adults, one at home and one at school, to whom they can tell anything. (See Think First & Stay Safe™ Parent Guide.)

If a person or situation gives you or your child a funny feeling in the belly, act upon those feelings. Don't allow your child to be alone with such persons or go alone into such situations. Gut feelings are rarely wrong.

The VIP (Very Important Person) Factor

While there are many reasons victims don't tell, the "VIP Factor" is a significant reason why sexual crimes against children have continued for generations. These "Very Important Persons" (VIPs) are well-known local leaders in our schools, athletic and civic organizations, houses of worship, healthcare and business communities. Some are VIPs on the state or national level, in the educational, legal, military, corporate, media, higher education and political worlds. They have power and money, and they have imposed a culture of silence that few dare attempt to confront.

For example, at Penn State University, Assistant Coach Jerry Sandusky (who ran a non-profit organization for disadvantaged youth) used nine of the 16 Child Lures to entrap and sexually exploit his many young victims: 1. Affection, 2. Assistance, 3. Authority, 4. Bribery, 5. Games, 6. Hero, 7. Job, 8. Threats & Weapons and 9. Drugs.

Four of the victims were assaulted during sleepovers with Sandusky, a common tactic of sex offenders. As in many cases of child sexual abuse, the children were threatened not to disclose and were told, "No one will believe you." As is usually the case, the child victims believed their offender.

Other VIPs within Penn State University were aware of inappropriate behaviors by Sandusky, but did nothing to stop, report or prevent his crimes against vulnerable children.

And now, 8 years later, another high profile case has emerged with Jeffrey Epstein. Gleaned from the complaint: Jane Doe v. Darren K. Indyke and Richard D. Kahn, in their capacities as the executors of the estate of Jeffrey E. Epstein, Jane Doe specifically outlines how Jeffrey Epstein and his recruiters/handlers allegedly used the VERY SAME Child/Teen Lures of 1. Affection, 2. Assistance, 3. Authority, 4. Bribery, 5. Games, 6. Hero, 7. Job and 8. Threats/Fear to carry out years of sexual exploitation and trafficking.

And like Sandusky/Penn State University, why did no one in Jeffrey Epstein's orbit speak up or step up to stop, report or prevent these crimes against children, teens and young women?

Final Thoughts:

Child molesters can be anyone - family members, relatives, neighbors, coaches, teachers, preachers, friends, children's peers, etc.. Knowing this - and knowing that adults cannot be with children every moment of every day - it is essential to put systems in place to help protect children.

Best practice for implementing and sustaining sexual violence prevention in child-serving organizations (schools, clubs, faith-based organizations, sports) include:

Have organizational Policies & Procedures in place to help protect children, employees and the institution.
Train all teachers, staff and volunteers on recognizing grooming and reporting abuse.
Educate parents/guardians/community-at-large.
Implement developmentally-appropriate classroom-based awareness and prevention education and activities for students (Evidence-based, such as Think First & Stay Safe or Teen Lures TV Newscast curricula. Includes multi-session presentations, Pre/Post Tests and home connection materials to ensure parental involvement.)
Talk openly with children about personal boundaries and personal safety. Teach children, age-appropriately, how to recognize, resist and report the lures used for generations by sexual offenders of every kind. (Order a Think First & Stay Safe™ Parent Guide.)

Thankfully, both children and adults are more supported in disclosing bullying, harassment and sexual abuse. Through the "Me Too" movement, people are boldly and loudly declaring that these crimes are no longer acceptable. This long-overdue cultural shift to zero tolerance will hopefully shift attention to the dire need to prevent child sexual abuse through awareness and education.

By teaching positive health-promoting norms, attitudes, values, beliefs and behaviors, beginning in Pre-Kindergarten and continuing through high school and beyond, a culture of kindness, mutual respect and personal safety can be cultivated and maintained. Please consider recommending the evidence-based Think First & Stay Safe and Teen Lures TV Newscast curricula to your child's school and/or organizations. [END]

My major problem with the trans movement is the fact that they are quickly erasing and eroding women and women's personal spaces, even words to describe women are being erased.
Women's lives are at stake, women are losing positions in sports that they fought for years to attain to men that just woke up and decided that they can be women too.

Men cannot be women. Women cannot be men, it's that simple. A man can like feminine clothes and make up and activities but he is still a man. Vice versa for women.
Women's lives and safety are at risk here and people are still talking about live and let live. What annoys me the most is that men are not losing anything compared to women when it comes to transgender activities. Men don't lose positions in sports, they don't lose their safety to sexually depraved people that pretend to be trans just to molest them. There have been men who rape and kill women and babies and when they get caught and realise they are getting sent to prison, they start identifying as women just to end up in female prisons which is a much more softer landing and punishment for them than male prisons.
There are men that pretend to be females that go into women public bathrooms to rape women, they are not transgender, they are not even autogynephilic, they are simply rapists and predators that hate women and they now have more opportunities to molest women because this new wave of transgenderism demands that men can be women so they should be allowed into women's bathrooms and hostels and prisons.

I can't even understand how any woman will support this blatantly anti woman movement. For heavens sake even word women use to describe themselves are being erased. Pregnant women are now "birthing persons" or birthing bodies, menstruating women are "bleeding bodies" , breastfeeding moms are now "chest-feeders". New annoying terms to describe women just to be inclusive to tans people.
I see the harm this movement is causing to women and I refuse to accept it and support it. Women have far more to lose than men in this fight, men don't even have anything to lose if you really examine the whole thing because you don't see perverted women demanding to be put in men's shelters or prisons just so they can have access to men they can molest, you don't see women taking the lead in male sports like Lia Thomas and that Falcon guy that nearly killed a biological women in a wrestling match, you don't see documentries asking "What is a Man" like Matt Walsh's "What is. Woman", how many women have you even seen advertising male products the way transgender males advertise tampons and makeup and women's clothes? Even JK Rowling had to put her career on the line and create a female only shelter because she saw that there was a real risk to letting any man into women's only spaces simply because he identified as female.
There are a minute and extremely small number of males that want to live life as females but that does not change the fact that they are males, it doesn't change their pronouns or the fact that they are biologically different from females. If we start ignoring biological realities to please a few people then perverted men will not waste any time to identify how they please in order to rape women and steal their rights, safety and places in sports.

Biological realities exist. Transgenderism is mental illness.

cococandy:


If you have social media, her name is Kristen P Brode. She’s a family lawyer and an activist. TT handle newgirlny_fl

I do follow her and that’s where she shares the information she’s been able to find . Watch her videos titled “who’s in the news this week for molesting children”. I stopped at week 16 lol. The information is enormous and kinda depressing.

Nothing published yet as far I know. I don’t even know if she intends to publish it afterwards because all she’s sharing are information that are publicly available and you know most people won’t feel the need to go searching for it themselves (especially if it doesn’t fit the narrative).

Thank you.

Ladyhippolyta88:


1. Bukatyne has no problem with arresting LGBTQ people for doing what exactly?

2. It is very stupid to compare drag Queens to paedophiles when they don't even perform for kids or have any history of child abuse. Drag queens have existed for years in many cultures but agenda must agend for bigots.

How very Christ like of you to lie on people and defend such lies.

3. I remember you defending marital rape here years back.

4. So this is not new thank God secular laws are not gotten from Religion. The World would have been a worse hellhole.

1. You obviously lack comprehension. I summarised the article you posted to prove he is a pedophile and I said according to the article he is anti-LGBTQ (as he should) and called for their arrests. Can you point anywhere I 'supported' the call for their arrests? Did the article state why he called for their arrests? LGB has existed prior to now and he didn't call for their arrests. The logical thing would be to say MW, what changed?

2. Drag Queens don't perform for children when there is news that they go to schools with parents Complaining? The LGBTQ~ community don't try to incorporate children into their nonsense? Or it is OK because you see nothing wrong with them? Desc. arado showed a pride shirt for a 2yr old; what should a 2yr old know about transgender or even sex? She complained that her kids were forced in school to wear pink and other stuffs. Those don't count as pedophilia?

3. I said and I will keep saying it that there is nothing like marital rape in a Christian marriage. Rape is defined as sex without consent. A marital couple give each other consent to their bodies upon marriage so sex/access to each others bodies is a right in a Christian marriage. Is it possible that one person is unable to perform their duties? Yes, then both parties evaluate and determine next steps. Is sexual abuse (injuring someone intentionally, withholding sex, deliberately not satisfying the other party, using sex as a bargaining chip etc) possible? Yes. But you have a choice not to marry under Biblical laws since you don't believe in them.

4. Which God are you thanking? Yes, laws based on the ten commandments, no fornication, work hard, be honest, love your neighbours as yourselves, LGBTQ~ is an abomination etc. would have made the world a worse hellhole; I agree

Ladyhippolyta88:


1. Bukatyne dey carry microphone for Matt Walsh defending teenage pregnancy oo.

If Matt Walsh is a Christain or Christian icon now I see why many young people are leaving religion.
This man says they are paedophiles and rapist and that is a lie(facts).

2. He justifies teenage pregnancy and throws hateful comments of death and all sorts on LGBTQ people but somehow you think these statements are not hateful.
A Christian can condemn LGBTQ without lying that they are paedophiles and rapist or wishing them deaths and abuse like Matt Walsh does. There is nothing Christ-like there. I have never heard him say pray for LGBTQ people and all sorts of Christian virtues against sin.

3. If hateful comments like what Matt Walsh spews is considered Christian then something must be wrong with those Christians. The man is actively spreading hate and grifting idiots who are bigots like him but you consider him Christian.

LMAO
All of you must be serious clowns. This man has justified abuse but somehow he is an ambassador of Christ. Lol.

You should really take your own advice. You can hate MW without lying. If the video you shared is the evidence you have, then you need English 101. The antecode to teenage pregnancy is marriage for late teens (who are ready/interested) and abstinence (none of which the wild left agrees with).

Is there anywhere MW wished the alphabet people death? If yes, in what context? If you can watch the video you posted and keep insisting that he is supporting teenage pregnancy (when I am sure he preaches abstinence and is against sex outside marriage), I am sorry I can't trust your information and intentions.

What do you know about Christian virtues of sin? God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah for LGB. They had not even added T and Co then. God has also repeatedly spoken about His disdain for the alphabet people. Again, there is a difference between I know this is wrong however I find myself attracted to it yada yada and it is my right, my body and there is nothing wrong it with.

What hate is he spreading? In what context did he spread the hate? What was he reacting to? Again, LGB is not new. If he didn't 'spread' the hate before, what is the trigger now?


I not interested in any debate on this topic; there is nothing for me to debate. I responded to your mention because of Matt Walsh accusations and I said 'let's see if this is genuine or a propaganda as usual.'

Goodluck with your LGBTQ~ community.

Ladyhippolyta88:
My dear
The matter shock me oo. I prefer TERF's to speak for us against transwomen and not men like Matt Walsh
Men don't love women overnight neither are they our allies in anything particularly not against transwomen who are a minute percentage of abusers compared to straight or heterosexual men.

Thank you.

I just remembered that point.


If women are not at the forefront of the fight against transgenderism, who are the TERFs then? Are men being slurred as TERFs? It is gender-specific, and there's no equivalent of that label for men. It is the radical feminists that are called that right from time.


So nobody should give any glory and praise to anybody, or say women are not doing anything o.

Because those women will not be cyberbullied and fired from their jobs and have their families put in danger only for men to strut in and claim shit.

'Till this day, I don't know a man who has lost his job for speaking out against the trans ideology, but I've lost count of the women who have.


I've literally been called a TERF a number of times and was kicked out of one feminist group on Facebook for critiquing the trans movement. 🤣

cococandy:


That’s definitely a school of thought. even my former political history teacher believes it to be the fact.
Be that as it may, we don’t need another one.

If the same people that orchestrated that wants another, they don't mind causing 3rd world war which is even looking likely already.

somehow:


If the same people that orchestrated that wants another, they don't mind causing 3rd world war which is even looking likely already.

Yes the elites and billionaires don’t mind if the earth goes up in flames as long as they can be safe and stay wealthy.

That’s another reason why I don’t buy the depopulation conspiracy theory. Who’s going to be out there slaving away at minimum wage jobs to ensure they stay on top?

cococandy:
Notice I didn’t mention any of the other points this poster talked about not because I agree with them but because it’s debatable.

But the points I did highlight about sexualizing and grooming kids, [b] anyone who truly cares about children would have been up in arms long ago as many thousands [/b]and thousands of children have been continually groomed and sexually abused by straight people.

I disagree people do care, and that is why governments all over the world are making an effort to increase the age limit for consensual sex, especially for women. Remember, our ancestors had sex strictly based on biological developments and not mental or spiritual ones. So, in fact, we are actively changing the status quo adopted by a majority of the populace even though that was the norm. And the change is going well.

The issue here isn't about LGBTQ pro-max, but with the ideologies being pushed for the sake of the LGBTQ pro-max people.
NO HUMAN BEING BORN EITHER A BOY OR GIRL, KNOWS WHAT IT IS TO BE THE OPPOSITE SEX. Unless you want to agree that they lived their past life as the opposite sex, then that is a different ball game.

When we talk about it, we don’t use the straightness of the abusers as a justification for why they do it. We don’t arrest the straight abusers and say because they are straight, all straight people have an agenda hence straight people need to be curtailed etc.

Sound logic. But, we can draw up correlations. Just like if a girl tells you she was raped by her uncle you'd believe her in an instant. Why? Because, correlation!

This is literal phobia playing right in your faces and because of internal bias, y’all are ready to entertain it. The unfortunate outcome of such generalizations is that in the event that a LGBTQ person is subjected to violence based on their sexual orientation, you won’t feel the need to say it’s wrong. Entertaining the propaganda unwittingly dehumanizes them to you even though you don’t realize it.

Which yeye phobia? It is evident that corporate America or rather, the democats (yep democats) and the co-operations they are heavily invested in now dictate that we skew the English grammar to include people who wake up every morning with a new identity. Facebook gave me a 2 week ban for trying to argue against the multiple sex brouhaha. Why? I suffered the same before the Elon musk take over. If LGBTQ want to express their subjective views of reality freely, don't I have the right to also express mine? As a parent, it is my duty to scrutinize information that my child receives in school. If i choose to not accept that my child be taught that they can change genders as they please, why should I be demonized by society for it? Why should I have to loose my job for it? If you want to test the waters, to maybe call my bluff, you could attempt posting on your social media platform where your colleagues know you with that "sex is two, and only two."

Some students leaked audio of their teacher arguing with a 9-year-old boy on the matter of sex, gender, gender identity, and self-identity(we are now at the level where someone can identify as another species). One of the teacher's student claimed to identify as a CAT. He was scolded by his classmate for choosing to identify as such but, low and behold the woke teacher came to the CAT-BoY's defense. cococandy, is any human in his right mind going to claim that they are cats on the inside? hmmm? please, pray tell. And, why in the world will a teacher, someone who is actively shaping the destiny of the child going to affirm such nonsense? Tell me coco, isn't that on the high scale of madness?

What if a 9-year-old girl walks into class and say's she wants to get married, and that she knows she's ready? I'm quite sure you and those with the same umbrella of thought will forcefully kick against it. Because a 9-year-old girl is too young to know what sex or marriage is.

However, again, however, the LGBTQ community does not think it through if a 5-year-old girl claims she thinks she's a boy or a monkey. A 5-year-old can choose to identify as whatever and can be administered hormone blockers by adults. What the crying fvck?

Oh, I thought the 5-year-old wasn't mentally developed enough to make such decisions. Why the UNO-reverse huh?

As a biologist, I absolutely boil on the inside when I hear the nonsense of Sex vs. gender. Here's a supporting logic, If a human was born with 3 legs, does that mean all humans aren't actually Tetrapods? huh?

I still love y’all but I will never allow myself to be on this side of the fence.

Can't we all love each other even though we share different opinions?

Ladyhippolyta88:
Cococandy, don't you find it weird that these beautiful Christians who turn a blind eye to the hateful rhetoric of Matt Walsh and his likes who all of a sudden care about women and children don't complain about the child abuse scandals of the Catholic Church and abuse of women in religious houses?

It must be very Christ-like to concern yourself of things of this world while turning a blind eye to abuse of women and children going on in religious houses. These same people have no problem with school shootings.


[quote] How will you be taken seriously when you don't want to acknowledge a problem rooted in your religious houses. But LGBTQ are the problem while people are avoiding religious houses because they don't feel safe.

As an atheist I share the same thought. Anyway, I'm of the opinion that to be a member of any religious org. you'd have to sacrifice a part of your ability to question your MOGs.

Plus, the MOGs do their stuff secretly and do not form a new community of MOG for children, and start demanding for their rights to love children. That's why they do it meticulously quiet. Shhhh!

In Ghana, one priest lined up some girls who just graduated ss3 or was it jss2, and gave them mouth-mouth deep kisses in front of their God-forsaken parents on live television... People complained, but powers that be laid the matter to rest. If there were in France, where it was tradition, no body for talk. But, for land of melanin?

Eunoiaa:


Thank you.

I just remembered that point.


If women are not at the forefront of the fight against transgenderism, who are the TERFs then? Are men being slurred as TERFs? It is gender-specific, and there's no equivalent of that label for men. It is the radical feminists that are called that right from time.


So nobody should give any glory and praise to anybody, or say women are not doing anything o.

Because those women will not be cyberbullied and fired from their jobs and have their families put in danger only for men to strut in and claim shit.

'Till this day, I don't know a man who has lost his job for speaking out against the trans ideology, but I've lost count of the women who have.


I've literally been called a TERF a number of times and was kicked out of one feminist group on Facebook for critiquing the trans movement. 🤣

Gbam.
I don't bother myself with transpeople you barely see them anyway. But then biology is real and I will side with women all the way and not with men who want to be women.
I believe to JK Rownlings school of thought on transwomen and as Chimamanda have said transwomen are transwomen.
My problem though which was why I even spoke up is the hateful rhetoric here on them.
You and I might not be in support of them but has any of us spread hateful propaganda the way Matt Walsh and his followers have done? There is a reason why Terf's don't even align with the Right on Trans issues because men like Matt Walsh and other religious hateful bigots are not our allies even when it comes to questioning biological men on why they want to be in women's spaces.

kkins25:

Nawa o

Ladyhippolyta88:

Gbam.
I don't bother myself with transpeople you barely see them anyway. But then biology is real and I will side with women all the way and not with men who want to be women.
I believe to JK Rownlings school of thought on transwomen and as Chimamanda have said transwomen are transwomen.
My problem though which was why I even spoke up is the hateful rhetoric here on them.
You and I might not be in support of them but has any of us spread hateful propaganda the way Matt Walsh and his followers have done? There is a reason why Terf's don't even align with the Right on Trans issues because men like Matt Walsh and other religious hateful bigots are not our allies even when it comes to questioning biological men on why they want to be in women's spaces.

In this case, the enemy of my enemy is my friend. If women don't wake up to the invasion of womanhood by men, y'all are going back to what you were 1000 years ago. Because, the future women who conquer the world will be women with joysticks.

This is why I sometimes don’t fancy going into these conversations because people argue against points you’re not making and try to get you to defend a position you don’t even hold.

I have never ever on this forum or in real life said that I support children undergoing medical sex transition. Why on earth are you making up stuff?

kkins25:


I disagree people do care, and that is why governments all over the world are making an effort to increase the age limit for consensual sex, especially for women. Remember, our ancestors had sex strictly based on biological developments and not mental or spiritual ones. So, in fact, we are actively changing the status quo adopted by a majority of the populace even though that was the norm. And the change is going well.

The issue here isn't about LGBTQ pro-max, but with the ideologies being pushed for the sake of the LGBTQ pro-max people.
NO HUMAN BEING BORN EITHER A BOY OR GIRL, KNOWS WHAT IT IS TO BE THE OPPOSITE SEX. Unless you want to agree that they lived their past life as the opposite sex, then that is a different ball game.

Sound logic. But, we can draw up correlations. Just like if a girl tells you she was raped by her uncle you'd believe her in an instant. Why? Because, correlation!



Which yeye phobia? It is evident that corporate America or rather, the democats (yep democats) and the co-operations they are heavily invested in now dictate that we skew the English grammar to include people who wake up every morning with a new identity. Facebook gave me a 2 week ban for trying to argue against the multiple sex brouhaha. Why? I suffered the same before the Elon musk take over. If LGBTQ want to express their subjective views of reality freely, don't I have the right to also express mine? As a parent, it is my duty to scrutinize information that my child receives in school. If i choose to not accept that my child be taught that they can change genders as they please, why should I be demonized by society for it? Why should I have to loose my job for it? If you want to test the waters, to maybe call my bluff, you could attempt posting on your social media platform where your colleagues know you with that "sex is two, and only two."

Some students leaked audio of their teacher arguing with a 9-year-old boy on the matter of sex, gender, gender identity, and self-identity(we are now at the level where someone can identify as another species). One of the teacher's student claimed to identify as a CAT. He was scolded by his classmate for choosing to identify as such but, low and behold the woke teacher came to the CAT-BoY's defense. cococandy, is any human in his right mind going to claim that they are cats on the inside? hmmm? please, pray tell. And, why in the world will a teacher, someone who is actively shaping the destiny of the child going to affirm such nonsense? Tell me coco, isn't that on the high scale of madness?

What if a 9-year-old girl walks into class and say's she wants to get married, and that she knows she's ready? I'm quite sure you and those with the same umbrella of thought will forcefully kick against it. Because a 9-year-old girl is too young to know what sex or marriage is.

However, again, however, the LGBTQ community does not think it through if a 5-year-old girl claims she thinks she's a boy or a monkey. A 5-year-old can choose to identify as whatever and can be administered hormone blockers by adults. What the crying fvck?

Oh, I thought the 5-year-old wasn't mentally developed enough to make such decisions. Why the UNO-reverse huh?

As a biologist, I absolutely boil on the inside when I hear the nonsense of Sex vs. gender. Here's a supporting logic, If a human was born with 3 legs, does that mean all humans aren't actually Tetrapods? huh?

Can't we all love each other even though we share different opinions?

kkins25:
In this case, the enemy of my enemy is my friend. If women don't wake up to the invasion of womanhood by men, y'all are going back to what you were 1000 years ago. Because, the future women who conquer the world will be women with joysticks.

No straight men have argued that the reason why transgender exists is because women wanted freedom of self expression and personal autonomy. If women didn’t want to be free to be who they are then trans people won’t exist. That’s who’s fighting for women?

They are trying to convince us that in order for transgender issues to be laid to rest, women have to be okay with going back to living as subhumans under men. I’m sorry I’m not buying it.

If they loved women so much, misogyny wouldn’t have been a thing for millennia

bukatyne:

I not interested in any debate on this topic; there is nothing for me to debate. I responded to your mention because of Matt Walsh accusations and I said 'let's see if this is genuine or a propaganda as usual.'
What do you know about Christian virtues of sin? God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah for LGB. They had not even added T and Co then. God has also repeatedly spoken about His disdain for the alphabet people. Again, there is a difference between I know this is wrong however I find myself attracted to it yada yada and it is my right, my body, and there is nothing wrong it with.

Goodluck with your LGBTQ~ community.

I am a fan of Matt. Although not a Christian, I agree with the quote. As already said, the so called LGBTQ people who claim to champion human right only seem to have power when it comes to Christians. Infact, I've seen vile and disturbing stuff done by the said group just to ridicule chrisitianity. However, when Christians retaliate, Christians lose their job. Get called homophobes, and so on.

kkins25:
In this case, the enemy of my enemy is my friend. If women don't wake up to the invasion of womanhood by men, y'all are going back to what you were 1000 years ago. Because, the future women who conquer the world will be women with joysticks.

Lol
The threat to women remain men, trans or not.
The patriarchy remains the problem.

They act like if you don’t join the bandwagon that says “harm and death to trans people” then you must be advocating for them to round up all the kids and change the boys to girls and vice versa.

I’m speaking because there’s a real risk of violent cleansings aimed at members of the LGBTQ group that would happen in the near future . And when it happens, all these good people will turn a blind eye while millions of people get killed. That’s more likely to happen than trans women taking the place of biological women. It’s the more common sense outcome of all this hate. Not the erasure of women

Ladyhippolyta88:

Gbam.
I don't bother myself with transpeople you barely see them anyway. But then biology is real and I will side with women all the way and not with men who want to be women.
I believe to JK Rownlings school of thought on transwomen and as Chimamanda have said transwomen are transwomen.
My problem though which was why I even spoke up is the hateful rhetoric here on them.
You and I might not be in support of them but has any of us spread hateful propaganda the way Matt Walsh and his followers have done? There is a reason why Terf's don't even align with the Right on Trans issues because men like Matt Walsh and other religious hateful bigots are not our allies even when it comes to questioning biological men on why they want to be in women's spaces.

cococandy:
This is why I sometimes don’t fancy going into these conversations because people argue against points you’re not making and try to get you to defend a position you don’t even hold.

I have never ever on this forum or in real life said that I support children undergoing medical sex transition. Why on earth are you making up stuff?

But, the majority of LGBTQ support this, so how can you support LGBTQ and say you don't support sex transition?

Klass99:


I stumbled on a YouTube short video on trans regret, then followed the channel out of interest. Some transgendered folks are in pain, misery and full of regrets over their choice to transition from one gender to another. I suspect many others will get to that point soon.

You literally feel their pain/regrets through those videos, that you can't even criticise or judge them. You mourn with them over this trans nonsense, one said this was a mistake that never should have happened. Her body is so mutilated and scarred from multiple surgeries that she dresses in clothing to cover herself from the neck downwards.

It is madness from the pit of hell.

I watched a trans regret video on Facebook and the dude (he transitioned to a woman and is now detransitioning) said his greatest regret is having his preek chopped off because he can never get it back. He said he now recognises that what he had was body dysmorphia and should have been counselled. He said when he went for counseling before the surgery, the counselor asked only one or two questions and didn't bother listening to him when he tried to express his doubts. He essentially shut him up.

He recognise that he is a homosexual and had no business becoming transexual. He now blamed the Big Pharmas and people with shares in these companies who also happen to be in government as the brains behind the trans movement.

It was a very insightful video.

Ladyhippolyta88:

Lol
The threat to women remain men, trans or not.
The patriarchy remains the problem.

No, women brainwashing themselves to think the world is supposed to be a place with butterflies and roses.

A man gets robbed in the night time: Omo thieves do me strong thing today oh.
A woman gets robbed: Patriarchy! All men are scum!!


Continue to deceive yourself, and expect that I won't use the physical prowess given to me by nature to dominate. That said, I know many women who have used their own physical prowess to subdue people with the tendency to dominate.

Life isn't fair. Wake up to reality!!

Klass99:


You even understand the inner workings of this crazy agenda down to the political and psychological side of it. I just see what is on the surface and I am put off by it, put off by their never ending agitation and noise making.

My personal stance is and has always been to treat all people with respect and kindness, regardless of their sexual leanings or preference. So the way I relate with a straight and narrow person, is the same way I will relate to an LGBTQ person. But don't try to club me over the head with your lifestyle or repeatedly push that I accept and embrace it, as right and good, or okay, for my children to be taught that in school.

We have a new estate manager who is problematic, hands off and unresponsive to issues. One resident asked another the other day, why can't we retire this guy, is he bigger than the estate/estate association? . I have to ask the same question of the US and its people who are not in support of this, is the LGBTQ community bigger than the US and the rest of you who don't support it?

I like the way Pierce Morgan and Candance Owens tackle them on this issue. They are a community of people imploding on themselves and a morally bankrupt country hell bent on spreading this virus to other nations. It is not like other nations are morally upright 100%, but you don't create and grow a virus in your backyard then start pushing it worldwide. The corona virus had a cure what is the cure for this one? Trans folks can't go back to how they were pre-transition.

Pierce Morgan said if you can identify as any gender or anything ,he chooses to identify as a black female lesbian. The pro-trans lady on his program was speechless

kkins25:


But, the majority of LGBTQ support this, so how can you support LGBTQ and say you don't support sex transition?

Sex transition IN CHILDREN. Please make that distinction. I’m a firm believer that children can’t make permanent life changing decisions. Things like having sex, giving birth, gender surgeries are in my opinion things that can have life changing consequences and kids don’t have the mental maturity to decide to do it.
If I have a kid that’s trans, I’ll accept and support them without judging or shaming but I will not give them my blessing to go for sex reassignment as kids.

And not all LGBTQ people are in support of children transitioning. This is the propaganda I was talking about. Maybe you meant to say they support gender affirming healthcare care which is not always the same gender reassignment surgery .

In both situations who’s the robber and attacker?

@bold, There we go. That’s exactly the kind things men say that will forever make me wary of strange men on the internet becoming sudden allies of women. Side eye

kkins25:
No, women brainwashing themselves to think the world is supposed to be a place with butterflies and roses.

A man gets robbed in the night time: Omo thieves do me strong thing today oh.
A woman gets robbed: Patriarchy! All men are scum!!
Continue to deceive yourself, and expect that I won't use the physical prowess given to me by nature to dominate
That said, I know many women who have used their own physical prowess to subdue people with the tendency to dominate.

Life isn't fair. Wake up to reality!!

cococandy:
They act like if you don’t join the bandwagon that says “harm and death to trans people” then you must be advocating for them to round up all the kids and change the boys to girls and vice versa.

I’m speaking because there’s a real risk of violent cleansings aimed at members of the LGBTQ group that would happen in the near future . And when it happens, all these good people will turn a blind eye while millions of people get killed. That’s more likely to happen than trans women taking the place of biological women. It’s the more common sense outcome of all this hate. Not the erasure of women

This is just straight-phobic. it's the same set of people that have fought WW1, and WW2.. If this were true, there wouldn't be transgenders in the first place.

Remember that guy who was prosecuted for rape, quickly joined the LGBTQ band-wagon, and was given an easier sentence into the women's prison?

1). You guys think the LGBTQ are people in their right minds. Wait a minute, why are we only having issues with trans-women and not trans-men.
2). Why is the rate of transition to women far greater than that of women to men?
3). Can a man give birth?
4). Can a woman impregnate a man?
5). What is gender fluidity?
6). What is the empirical basis for the belief that people can switch sex and gender?
7). Why is the occurrence concentrated in only certain parts of the world?
. If gender and sex are mutually exclusive, why must there be a change in sex to reaffirm gender?
9). What is a woman?
10). What is a man?
11). If sexual interactions below the institutionalized ages are crimes, why do children below said ages allowed to determine their sexual orientation?

If answering the above is to much.. kindly just answer what a woman is.. https://www.nairaland.com/7749505/what-woman