Ebubu7:
my grand father had 3 wives but lived over a hundred years

Olden years where African culture and wonen submission are at the prime while media influence and feminism are it's low level.

OtuologyProf:


Check the promoters and partakers of monogamy, they will always exhibit higher manifestations of mental illness because they are in an abnormal association.

How can a man shout "go and read your books.." when watching an erotic movie scene with his nuclear family.?

Gibberish! "Promoters and partakers of monogomy always exhibit higher manifestation of mental illness because they are in an abnormal association"

Why can't a normal human being make his point without generalising or claiming some of us in monogamy are in mental illness and bad association, it's insane!

Neddstark:
If you want Davido to stop cheating an having various babymamas, let him be encouraged to do this. Shikena

It doesn't stop Davido and his likes from cheating , even if you give them the three.

3 steady pussies

okuta007:




we are africans- we are not LGBT 🏳️‍🌈like Americans, or Europeans —//// we are Africans and we are polygamous

Abraham Isaac and Jacob in the bible were all polygamous 😂 - and they are called holy and of glorious inheritance - - BUT our own ancestors who were equally polygamous are not recognized in the same bible and they call them fetish and uncivilized 😂


However I give it white people sha- they have used christianity as a religion to break our will and conquer our spirit as Africans -

How they managed to convince us that being polygamous is evil AND being gay is the real deal is genius — and we see millions of mumu “low self esteem” Africans willing to accept LGBT and demonize polygamy- as practiced by their supreme ancestors

what am I even saying sef - these same western europeans have used christianity to destroy our revered culture and they now have our people insult their ancestors and deities as evil and demonic while their foreign religion is superior to ours ?


somehow, the white man who brought slavery and colonialism - to dehumanize and put us through untold shame and dishonor wrote in the book of Ephesians 6: 5-9

“Slaves, Obey your Masters” 😂😂😂😂

and these same preachers have the effrontery to call the religion of our fathers demonic ?

no they are the real demons not us


yeye follow follow 🤨

It doesn't make sense , when people always view issues from whites vs Africans perspective , even when whites are not even mentioned in the story; they always judge issues from political or emotional point of view, rather than the truth behind the issues.

White vs blacks bla, bla, bla all the time.

So if Polygamy is negative because it's coming from white , we shouldn't accept it's negative.

Or because your fore fathers practised polygamy back in the days ( usually for a reason) then it's automatic that we must accept it now.

And if LGBTQI+ is approved by the west does it mean we don't have the power to review the truth behind the phenomenon independently or we should just get emotional just because it's coming from the West.

Let's approach issues from a point of good reasoning without this eternal argument of whites vs blacks and not see issues from political or emotional point of view.

CondenseMilk:


Our cultures and tradition was never the reason why Nigeria is underdeveloped today

There's nothing wrong in marrying more than 3 women if you are financially capable.

Lgbtqias is demonic!

Go and read the economic index of Eastern Nigeria before 1960, Britain was not even close to it not to talk of USA.

Agriculture was the leader then!

Your Singapore of today and many more borrowed ideas from Nigeria.

Don’t be a clown! Who taught you about demons?! 😂😂😂

Yes! You said it right! The white men taught you about demons. Your ways and cultures and traditions are demonic. Our people killed twins until white people came and called it demonic; using the power in the blood of Jesus. They overcame your demonic cultures and traditions. Gave you Christianity. Taught you what demons are and yet you want to go back to the days of your forefathers and you think all is well with your reasoning?


And the Nigeria That Malaysia and the other Asian countries borrow from are post colonial Nigeria. There was no Nigeria until the white men. Do you even know your own history? When the white men left us, $1 was #1 for a long time. But as their hold on is waxed cold; you can see what the country has turned into. First, a civil war! 🤣

You need help and you don’t even know it.

CondenseMilk:
Banging 3 different punanni with pride, no baby mama, no fear of STDs!

He will never think of visiting a brothel or going back to an ex nor even committing adultery.

only work, work and work will be on his mind 24/7, very dedicated and have farms and busineses.

It's high time we return to this way of life as Africans if you are capable financially of maintaining such.

The devilish thoughts on having a 3some outside the home will be eradicated from both the male and female.


If he is into agriculture, he doesn't need too much education and he will feed a whole state with his wives managing the farms on daily basis.


See unmarried women litterd everywhere in this country!

If you are wealthy and you can't stay with one woman, simply bring this women home, marry them and bang the hell out of them as you like.

Polygamy doesn't guarantee no - adultery.

Unmarried men are also littered everywhere in this country , apart from those in jails.

alphabbey1:

You are definitely not making sense. An average man in Saudi Arabia have more than one wife. is Saudi regressing ?... but your myopic view can only use your slave masters as yard stick...
America have the highest number of single parent in the world, highest number of cheaters, majority of them are hardly present in the life of there kids, many of there kids are always depressed while growing up.... and you come here trying to degrade this culture for that culture !!!!?

Blame the government for the regressing, never in your life talk down on the culture....

A nation that promotes the treatment of a fellow human being as sub human is even more regressive than the whole African continent. Of all the nations to use as an example; you use Saudi Arabia that your sisters won’t dare go to; unless you’re fanatical Muslims of course.

Keep talking about moral sentiments when you don’t love your neighbor like yourself. The problem with us Africans is that we hold white men to standards that we haven’t even begin to live up to. Our day to day lives; we haven’t learnt to love our brothers from another tribe. But white men that open their borders(on condition of course); take you in; give you their food, medicine, pay you a living wage that you even get enough to send back to your miserable people in Africa;... it’s that white man that is the devil because they support freedom for all and that includes gay people... that makes you better than them because our society is gay free and theirs is not. Hence Africa or perhaps Saudi Arabia is a better place to live in because gay people aren’t allowed to have a life here. “

I just simplified your stupidity in the above statement... see how you sound?


And to the issue of cultures; I have just two statement to make concerning that... a culture that kills twins and supports a caste system doesn’t have a place in today’s world. Thank God for Christianity; who knows if your mum or sisters or aunts would have been treated like a human and not a piece of property.

Take it to the bank!

CondenseMilk:


Our cultures and tradition was never the reason why Nigeria is underdeveloped today

There's nothing wrong in marrying more than 3 women if you are financially capable.

Lgbtqias is demonic!

Go and read the economic index of Eastern Nigeria before 1960, Britain was not even close to it not to talk of USA.

Agriculture was the leader then!

Your Singapore of today and many more borrowed ideas from Nigeria.

I just read the bolded part and I must say I laughed hard!

Who was incharge of Nigeria before 1960? 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

You read but lack understanding. Not your fault. Your government failed you. Sub-standard education.

okuta007:


wetin won kill am ?
my grand dad was heavily polygamous
he died at 91
all 9 of his widows lived in his house
never remarried after his death

my uncle was strictly monogamous
he died at 53
and his widow moved on to another man
less than 6 months after his death

go figure 😎

Nutrition, good biogeochemical environment, obedience, submission, culture, religion , lack of media and lack of feminism helped in olden days.

isabi2lof:
As long as ,he has the resources to cater for them and their children.

That's how you know real men , they love and cherish their women.

I also hope the ladies reciprocate the love and the cherishing , if the guy truly does.

Ebubu7:
so the guy this thread is created about married his 3 wives in 1940 and not 2023 ba ?

oga you no fit marry 3 wifes, stop forming in nairaland

LOVEGINO:
men scares bro. We need epp dem.

That's false and ignorance on your part , who told you men are scarce? Go and study.

yinkkus:


Nutrition, good biogeochemical environment, obedience, submission, culture, religion , lack of media and lack of feminism helped in olden days.

God bless you for this great but brief analysis

Edoziesmart:

So our forefathers that married more than 3 women died young?

Hausa/Fulani tribe that use to marry 3 wives they have died prematurely?

Stop living in delusion bro.

It's not automatic that he dies young , but for those who are knowledgeable and enlightened they know there is difference nowadays, in terms of influence ( media , friends and feminism) , nutrition, biogeochemistry, weak culture and tradition these days e.t.c

yinkkus:


It doesn't make sense , when people always view issues from whites vs Africans perspective , even when whites are not even mentioned in the story; they always judge issues from political or emotional point of view, rather than the truth behind the issues.

White vs blacks bla, bla, bla all the time.

So if Polygamy is negative because it's coming from white , we shouldn't accept it's negative.

Or because your fore fathers practised polygamy back in the days ( usually for a reason) then it's automatic that we must accept it now.

And if LGBTQI+ is approved by the west does it mean we don't have the power to review the truth behind the phenomenon independently or we should just get emotional just because it's coming from the West.

Let's approach issues from a point of good reasoning without this eternal argument of whites vs blacks and not see issues from political or emotional point of view.

everything you typed here is rubbish! all type no sense - hmm 🤔 you have lost your mind

okuta007:


everything you typed here is rubbish! all type no sense - hmm 🤔 you have lost your mind

How can it be sensible to you, when you didn't inherit intelligence from your parents, unnecessary political and emotional argument, white vs black all the time , without treatment of issues on their merit.

Aduke96:
How will a man with 3 wives have a quite time to think about creating or Innovating things to change the world.
No, He is busy thinking,whose room will he be sleeping tonight.

May be will draw time table and put one day for himself there out of seven days for his creativity or innovations just life free - period on secondary school time table.

God1000:
Only him with three wives.

But it seems only African men marry plenty women, you will hardly see European or American man doing this, I'm not even sure.

I have seen American man with tree wives before, I was surprised they exists.

jahofa:
The Headache & stress of one wife, option could cure ur stress with three of them. Our forefathers knew this & the lived longer & stronger.

Other important factors favoured them not (only) this menial one.

God1000:
Only him with three wives.

But it seems only African men marry plenty women, you will hardly see European or American man doing this, I'm not even sure.

Because it is illegal to do so in such countries.
Why is that hard to appreciate?

VicM6:
The religion of piss has gotten this one intact....if u knw u knw.

While your own captive religion,keeps you shackled to one pu.ssy,in other to better manipulate you..

jubrilELsudan:
NICE......THEY ALL FINE AND SWEET

ABEG WHO GET THEIR CONTACTS CAUSE I FOR LIKE FVCK THEM

Go marry your own,pu.$$y..

CondenseMilk:


The whole world is moving to which forward?

Moving forward while promoting Lgbtqias, introducing GMOs, encouraging arbortion, encouraging single parenthood, building brothels and motels filled with girls of marine spirits ?
I can go on and on ...

Wetin GMOs do you? e be like say dis one dey listen to unenlightened and unscientific Joyce onyemuwa often, Joyce sef don dey get sense by force.

God1000:
I hope he won't die young sha

It's not good to start marital life with three women.

Is it good to start with seven baby mamas?

alphabbey1:

You are definitely not making sense. An average man in Saudi Arabia have more than one wife. is Saudi regressing ?... but your myopic view can only use your slave masters as yard stick...
America have the highest number of single parent in the world, highest number of cheaters, majority of them are hardly present in the life of there kids, many of there kids are always depressed while growing up.... and you come here trying to degrade this culture for that culture !!!!?

Blame the government for the regressing, never in your life talk down on the culture....

You are ignorant, it's lie that an average man in Saudi Arabia is a polygamist , all the olden day shit that was passed in the name of religion are now in contradiction with today's world realities , even in Islamic countries.
Do your study.

Winnin009

Winnin009:


You’re entitled doesn’t mean you deserve it. You deserve it doesn’t mean you should go for it.
You should go for it doesn’t mean that’s what’s best for you.

Wisdom is profitable to direct.

What does Ihateheadslamer mean by many men are entitled to more than one wives?

Are many women not entitled to more than one husband?

CondenseMilk:


Our cultures and tradition was never the reason why Nigeria is underdeveloped today

There's nothing wrong in marrying more than 3 women if you are financially capable.

Lgbtqias is demonic!

Go and read the economic index of Eastern Nigeria before 1960, Britain was not even close to it not to talk of USA.

Agriculture was the leader then!

Your Singapore of today and many more borrowed ideas from Nigeria.

You are ignorant! "I" in LGBTQI+ stands for intersex with no controversy as to it's biological origin, unlike other subgroups with debates and controversies as to their absolute causes , and here you open your ignorant big mouth and claiming demon, that's what they say Africans shouldn't do , they say Africans should approach issue on it's merit, with studies and not stupid emotion.

Eneye4me:
What is ur prove?

If you are asking for proof ( what you typed as prove) , that Northern Nigeria don't practise gayism , then you are ignorant,, dandaudu in Kano will give you some clue and open your eyes to more.

yinkkus:


How can it be sensible to you, when you didn't inherit intelligence from your parents, unnecessary political and emotional argument, white vs black all the time , without treatment of issues on their merit.

yes, you that is intelligent - trying to insult your way to relevance and rationalize your idiocy, right ? ozuor 😂

Gandrova:
Imagine the stupid gay and lesbian right they are pushing to African countries.
Because of there useless Grant

Don't you have gays and lesbians in your African countries naturally even before any white push any right to enlighten you ?

okuta007:


yes, you that is intelligent - trying to insult your way to relevance and rationalize your idiocy, right ? ozuor 😂

.

I don't brag about intelligence, it will reflect itself
, I don't clamour for recognition like you these irrational small boys do .
I am here to put your warped brain right, if you are submissive 'cos a whole lot of Ignoramus like you should be guided .